Who else wants to be taking a day in a week and pray for marriages. Truth the enemy is out to destroy families. He knows when he breaks families,he has broken the church,the community and the nation at large. The enemy has achieved that by making this girl bitter, she is still hurt. When marriages are broken,kids go astray,that's why we have kids in drugs, prostitution,and all manner of things. Father's have left homes. No one to discipline the kids So let's pray for marriages and families. May God restore her even if she doesn't believe it. She is going to be a testimony
the enemy only invades where given chance..the only way marriage will work is only if people stick to God's pattern concerning marriage..neither Adam nor Eve prayed for their marriage to work but it did..even when they were chased out of Eden they sticked together..note that only what God has put together that no man should put asunder and in this I don't mean church wedding. but what God has not initiated He cannot retain it and no amount of prayer will keep it
I've noticed she didn't go all out and put her husband out there, like he did this he didn't do this, he did such and such terrible thing...,....... but you can tell she's really hurt. She's taken her heartbreak with alot of dignity. Jesus is her fortress and she's holding on tightly to him. That's the wisest thing she has done. Run to Jesus when life beats u up. He is the builder of our hearts, he is the only one who can heal it.
I understand how Joy is feeling and i love how Hiram is talking about restoration, I'm a living testimony that God restores, I went through it for a testimony
I love your maturity. You have treated that man with dignity even when the marriage didn't work out. There are people who thrive on mudslinging their ex forgetting that person is perhaps the father or mother of their children.
This is emotional abuse, it can be seen through her eyes, she is hurt and drained, her self esteem is ruined, take time gal , healing is messy but one step at a time. Get a therapist if you can.
Heal soon kawira...i went through hell too from a man i loved beyond measures,the hardest part was coz he left me wen i was still madly in love with him,,,buh time heals almost everything.7ys down the line single * en not searching....#one day i will tell my story courageously like you joy.
Staying in Marriage is a blessing....if your marriage is working thank God and always pray for it....If it didn't work be grateful still that was not your person God has a better plans for you
Girl I can tell you're hiding something so big.... I know you don't want to expose him But with time you'll heal dear.... The good thing is you walked away and you're fine
This was me trying to hide so many sorrowful experiences but eventually God gave me the courage to live,share out and work out on myself!!!healing is messy but great at the end 🙏🙏🙏.
Wooiye, nimekufeel. All in All everything has a reason. May God see you through in your healing process and open Bigger Doors for you. Ata mimi nilijitoa jioni ya 7pm, May 29th 2021.
@@leahmwai5403 WHY these programmes should present MORE ABOUT SOLUTIONS to these problems rather than PRESENTING PROBLEMS because they DONT SOLVE THE PROBLEM!...we need to SHUN these CONFESSIONALS of HOW THINGS DONT WORK! and SUPPORT ONLY CHANNELS that teach HOW TO SOLVE THESE PROBLEMS! because it is NO USE telling people about PROBLEMS yet NO SOLUTIONS ARE OFFERED so that many people go away disheartened feeling its okay to DESTROY FAMILY!in the name of pursuing a "spiritual" partner-WE ARE PHYSICAL HUMAN & NEED TOOLS to DEAL with the REAL NOT the "spiritual" which no one can say HERE LETS SOLVE IT THIS WAY!
Kamuhunjia you can also preach....Good advice there...I totally agree with kawira...you can never force things which were never meant to be to work....you will forever be emotionally drained...kawira you made the right decision for the sake of your peace 💕💕💕🙏🙏🙏
Unfortunately, good husbands get wrong wives and good wives get bad husbands. Why? Toxic relationships claim lives. Kawira needs to live according to God's will. You have given her good examples and Biblical illustrations. Restoration is key and one should not live in denial. Hiram good job.
Good people need wisdom and God's protection. Living without discernment and thinking that everyone is good like you is dangerous. Manipulators exist don't be someone's means to an end.
28:40 she said everything in one minute. Religious is playing a big role in staying in toxic marriages. The fear of being judged is sooo human but catalysed by religion. That was soooo🔥 🔥 🔥 I hope you heal my country girl. Hugs your way baby girl.
Its NOT RELIGION!, its that people are FAILING to address the REAL PROBLEM!...WHERE is the TOXICNESS coming from? There is NO NEED to tell people marriages arte TOXIC when MARRIAGES are the FOUNDATION of every STABLE SOCIETY, instead of ADDRESSING THE TOXICITY! WHERE is the TOXICITY coming from if this is NOT FOUND in the WHITES< ARABS, JEWS etc that KIKUYUS are being TOLD TO MARRY INSTEAD, why dont you ADDRESS THE TOXICITY=which is this HYBRIDITY narrative rather than sayin ITS TOXIC therefore LETS NOT HAVE FAMILY UNITS to SUSTAIN THE TRIBE & THE RACE?...HOW are OTHER RACES?TRIBES DOING IT? this is a MORE USEFUL path since it ADDRESSES the PROBLEM, not to tell people to ABANDON FAMILY! ALL FAILED STATES being with FAILED FAMILY UNITS!-like HAITI & even SOMALI becauseof of NOMADISM!...so STABLE FAMILY=is A STATE SOCIETY a FAILED FAMILY is a TOXIC SOCIETY with kids having no one to raise them, so they become DELIQUENT DRUG & ALCOHOL ADDICTS, just because one survives this and is educated, they end up becoming Homosexuals as well!! A BROKEN FAMILY is a DEAD SOCIETY-MUSLIMS & CATHOLICS who have MANY CHILDREN represent the MOST STABLE FAMILIES int he world! KIKUYUS will KNOW how they have been DESTROYED when like the HAN-they become EXTINCT! BREEDING for OTHER RACES except THEIR OWN! And the HYBRIDITY PROPAGANDISTS are not targeting YOU, they are targeting the KIDS BEING BORN TODAY who are WAKOSA KABILA HAWANA MILA in fact most DONT HAVE A KIKUYU NAME to PASS ON TO THIER OWN CHILDREN! so they will call their mothers and fathers ADHIAMBO aND SONS MANDELA AND DAUGHTERS, XING! & OTHER SONS ETC SO THAT THE KIKUYU LIKE THE HAN WILL BE DRIVEN TO EXTINCTION WHICH IS THE GOAL OF THIS DESTROY THE FAMILY AND DESTROY THE NAME LANGUGE & CULTURE OF THE PEOPLE SYNDROME WHILE THE SAME PEOPLE PRESERVE THIER LANGUAGES & CULTURES LIKE THE LATIN, DUTCH-FRIKAANER< ENGLISH, JAPANESE< ITALIANS ALL KEEP A CLOSE WATCH OF THEIR LANGUAGE CULTURES AND NAMING SYSTEMS AND WONT LET ANYONE DESTROY THEM!
Religion is toxic Also women are the only ones that prepare for marriage .men don't prepare for marriage. Men don't attend marriage seminars its only women who listen to those things advice is given to women and it's women oriented. Then we wonder why things become toxic.
I like her rawness. The way she talks, not shying away it's a clear indication that she's a purpose and she has a mission and that is to help another woman out there who is scared to walk away from bad marriage.
Amen Mr host, kawira is very heart broken that's why she can't seem to trust and believe in marriage but after healing , the Lord God will restore her and give her a wonderful family, look at Gloria Muliro now.
This is what am doing right now..... am in love wth my husband anymore coz he hurt me so baad... nisha buy kila kitu za nyumba waiting for the election zipite na mimi
It’s just by Gods grace that pple are in marriages to the glory of God , God is the final say in our lives , whatever happens God is in control, it might distabilize you kidogo but with prayers and sublication before you know it mungu amekupanga. IT SHALL BE WELL. But let’s pray for our children never to marry there enemies jamani.
we need to put our wasani in prayers all the celebrities coz it seems they never fine pple who love them genuinely, people get attached to them because they want money and fame truly we need to pray with them
A heartbroken needs healing ... you don't tell them again to expect to love easily when it's that love that has broken them. They need empathy and not ploughing back expectations!
Sorry my sis,I was once there,thinking I made a mistake deciding,I prayed,I spoke my heart to God,I surrendered to His will and believe me,He restored everything,May He restore what was meant to be yours in Jesus name.
Joy, you are right,siku hizi kanisa ina examin motive for which each person among the couple is in that marriage and if they had wrong motives the marriage is nullified
Kama haiwezi haiwezi. I wake up everyday and even in my sleep but no matter how bad the situation I may be in, I thank God again I am not in that marriage.
Ooh my shetani na wivu wake hawezi kuwacha marriages za watu wa Mungu. But God of Mercy shall see us through. Better to move out and move on than stay in a toxic marriage
For the pastors who are here and watching please take this part 'till death do us apart" mtoe kwa mshikanisho wa marriage iyo ni upuzi revered hope tuko together
Yeah don't stay in a toxic marriage or relationship..if it wasn't meant to be let it be ..choose peace....shalom🙏🙏..she's still healing give Kawira some more time.
True . Don t stay in a situation that will jeopardize even life after death. There are people in hell because of their spouses. Don't be pressured into marriage pray against that pressure too if you are experiencing it. Its your life only God can run it.
To everyone who did forsake material wealth for the sake of peace, you chose to leave or chose not to engage in court battles but walked away for the sake of peace, may God fight for you and restore to you all that the locusts ate. Amen.
Actually I like how Hiram is explaining to her and it seems she like ako much heartbroken na amelose hope hadi kwa God🥺 remember jesus is still a live and the devil is also alive to steal and destroy what God has given us. Let's pray had and Dedicate our life to the lord
She hasn't given up on God. A good marriage is just one of the many blessings God gives us. Its not the only one. Am sure she's trusting God for so many other things.
One step at a time gurrrl. Don't rush for anything. Take time to heal & got to tell you this, at the right time, God will make everything beautiful ❤️❤️❤️. Hugs gal❤️❤️
One thing people need to know is that,marriage has 3 steps, 1.The moment people marry, life becomes too sweet 2.when they get a child small issues can start,the attetion can go the child and forget the patner 3.After seven years ,responsibilities are plenty,because you have to take childrens to school and pay so many bills,that time issues can rise 4.Old age now.....it seems like the love has started again
Kawira is still bleeding. Her marriage broke her spirit so much that she loathes the marriage institution. I underwent that episode too. Kawira u will get the right person at the right time and you will be happy. Just for the sake of your happiness take your time the scar will heal however long it takes
ANOTHER PERSON is not going to SOLVE THE PROBLEM if she was the PROBLEM in the marriage! What she needs is to RETURN TO HER HUSBAND and the TWO need to SEEK SUCCESSFUL COUNSELLING and RAISE THEIR CHILDREN TOGETHER having acknowledge KILA MTU what they have DONE WRONG! They say you CANNOT BLAME THE FARMING TOOLS< you need to look at HOW YOU are using these "farming/marriage" TOOLS to WRECK you marriage or TO NURTURE YOUR MARRIAGES...ANOTHER MAN will only bring his own NEW SETS OF PROBLEMS! and Kawira NEEDS TO LEARN to SOLVE PROBLEMS NOT to RUN from her problems, TO SOLVE THEM!-NO NEW MAN will make things better!if she couldnt resolve this one!
Joy your story is almost the same as mine. Peace is the most beautiful thing.We make mistakes but we shouldn't allow ourselves to die in toxic re/ships.All the best
But this guy ephantus wahome,ata kawira amejaribu kumvumilia ,he was our YRC(youths ready for Christ) pastor ,later alikuja kuniibia phone na pesa na akanitusi mbaya Sana after confronting him Kwa launch ya nyimbo zake , Deliverance church zima ,na akasema nifukuzwe ,that guy is 😈
Kawira take your time n become.....enjoy your life and leave the rest to God.If it comes well.....if it doesn't love yourself live your life and be happy.Marriage does not define you.
Dont let anyone LIE to you-SINGLE LIFE SUCKS and it NEVER is a substitute for a MARRIED LIFE & CHILDREN-LEARN to SOLVE YOUR PROBLESM TOGETHER, it wil be MUCH BETTER THAN RUNNING from problems, even at work or in life YOU NEED PROBLEM SOLVING SKILLS and NOT RUNNING!--HAKUNA MTU MALAIKA! woote NI WANADAMU AND THE one is NOT BETTER than the OTHER< its just a matter of HOW YOU SOLVE PROBLEMS!-if you NEVER LEARN to SOLVE PROBLEMS no number of wonderful partners can make your marriage work!!
Thanks for the interview I think I now have the enough courage to quit mine because,after 12yrs of marriage but it not working I think we were not meant for each other ..... I feel wasted for 12 yrs but l call it a quit for the sake of my peace so help me God
It's ok to leave if it's not working, not everyone is confident enough to walk out especially those in the limelight and mostly Christians no one should die trying to work out a broken marriage.I applaud you Kawira it is well.
We are PHYSICAL HUMANS NOT "spirits"! and we need to DEAL WITH PROBLEMS as PHYSICAL ISSUES, people driving the FAMILY TO EXTINCTION to MAKE BLACKS AVAILABLE TO BREED for OTHER SEEMINGLY SUCCESSFUL RACES/TRIBES instead of asking HOW DO OTHER PEOPLE SUCCEED and DOING THE SUCCESSFUL THINGS! WHY these programmes should present MORE ABOUT SOLUTIONS to these problems rather than PRESENTING PROBLEMS because they DONT SOLVE THE PROBLEM!...we need to SHUN these CONFESSIONALS of HOW THINGS DONT WORK! and SUPPORT ONLY CHANNELS that teach HOW TO SOLVE THESE PROBLEMS! because it is NO USE telling people about PROBLEMS yet NO SOLUTIONS ARE OFFERED so that many people go away disheartened feeling its okay to DESTROY FAMILY!in the name of pursuing a "spiritual" partner-WE ARE PHYSICAL HUMAN & NEED TOOLS to DEAL with the REAL NOT the "spiritual" which no one can say HERE LETS SOLVE IT THIS WAY!
this lady is intelligent even the way she's answering questions. she's not telling the exact thing, all the nasty things on social media about her ex she's just speaking in general terms. i think it's good kutoanikana kwa social media. she has handled her breakup with a lot of dignity
Leave alone marriage, Mimi hata relationship imenishinda coz I can't continue hurting myself all the time, life is short to struggle with marriage, relationship and life itself
So I'm not alone....mimi baba mtoto hakunisaidia hata kuninunulia napkins...and my daughter she's 22yrs old...single mum's may almighthy God continue to bless our family
