1.I am not yet ready to marry..polite way to say you not the one 2. Its normal for.a.man to cheat... indirectly telling that he will cheat eventually 3. If you want to leave, leave. Don't say im holding...he is no longer interested in you 4. One day I will show you my true colours..if you cross his boundaries you will clear see his true colours 5. I hate you.. he means exactly that 6. Who else will date you if not me...he is devaluing you 7. I don't love you as i used to love you..he is no longer in love you or even loves you anymore
I think number 1 may be a bit tricky because my ex, he said it but it's also that he lived with his parents still, was in a lot of credit card debt, he was also not doing well with his job (he was only working as an Uber Eats/Grub Hub driver. ... If I had married him and we ended up moving in together, I'd have to have supported the both of us 90%. What do you think? In the end, he did break things off and that really hurt, but I can only control myself and not the thoughts and actions of others. I guess, the good thing about it was that it was only a 5 and a 1/2 month relaitonship and not longer.
@@SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858 It also means your ex was not even ready to date! He should have paid down his bills and then pursued romance, if that was the issue.
My ex-husband use to tell me that he hates me; I still married him. 🤦 Thank You Lord for rescuing nd saving me out of the horrible mess I had put myself in. 🙌❤️🥺
Wow !this is what going on in my life right now ,all this word is really hurting me so much 😢I think this is the right time for me to moved on with my life...Thank you so much ma
Please I have a question "if you tell a man that if you don't stop this your character and I will live you what if as a lady you don't mean those words. But the man tell me to go his is not begging me what should I do
Thanks for the loving way you assist women in walking away from men that will waste their Energy and Time .Paying attention to these phrases and moving on can allow women to meet men that can and wilI value them.if not we allow them to put us in a space to need healing that's if you can survive the toxicity 😅
The message is informative and true facts of life. In a true sense of it ,you can't compromise for happiness especially when signs are there. Just leave that relationship. Thanks mom for good advice.
It's very true hey, I also heard a lot of those words mama said then I realized he doesn't love me any more telling who's gonna love me with the scars I have
In the words of Judge Lynn Toler, "NEVER let a man (or anyone) tell you they do not want you twice." Hear exactly what is said, believe what was said, and get out!
1.one day I will show you my true colours 2. If you want to leave 3.I hate you. 4.am not ready to marry 5.who else will date you if not me. 6.I am managing you 7.I don't love the way I used to love you
Thanks so much,Mom for teaching us the true colors of men.. everything is true what you say,I've experienced some of it already..thanks alot mom,God Bless You..🙏💞
What you have said, most of them have been said to me, example... I HATE YOU, I WON'T HAVE ANOTHER BABY WITH YOU, I AM THE HEAD.😢 The good thing i left him, last month and we were couples for for years now. Now I have peace.... He is begging me to go back, my heart is telling me NO, DONT GO BACK FOR YOUR OWN PEACE🎉
Dear keep praying for your marriage, devil doesn't like to see good home. Thank you so much for watching and commenting, God bless you beyond your imagination❤️❤️
It really easy to assess someone by what said or done.one can't pretend too long.all those saying is red flag. You go or let them go. Oftentimes women do not believe what them hear.think they will change the person. You only setting up yourself to be hurt more
This what my children father telling me for nineteen years but I kept hoping that he will change. Everytime I talk about marriage, he's always saying he's not ready yet, If I want to leave,I should leave anything that was said has been mentioned to me
God bless you ma'am,my guy once told me that he is not thinking about marriage anytime that he has other things to think about but thank God I have moved on
That's not the essence, look out for and red flags and avoid the stories that touch,some people are just not worth it and are terrible and for you not to fall and dig your grave,you have better lookout for red flags
My sister you are right all this is right but some say it out of anger pls not everything you see online you take okay just pray alot of women are littered around looking for soulmate you work for what you want most times
This is so true am saying it out of experience. The man I used to go out this used to say some of the things said in the video to me, since he used to help me with my son's fees who's not his child he used to talk to me however he feels like we are no longer together because he saw me greeting a guy outside my gate and from there he said it's over and stopped helping me with fees for my son
Every one is RIGHT. The sad thing is many us, is we find out through bitter experience, some of us women have had no guidance when it comes to men. This left us open, vulnerable to entertaining this mess longer than we should.
For me after two years of staying with him he told me that l was just trying you but you seriously co.e to me for really l felt like am nothing to him so l had to look for my own way😢😢😢
I can't stop crying 😭 my man pushed me from bedroom to sitting room he's violent he used to tel me he's Ex wife was better than me .. thanks mom everything u said have already seen ..now I have to move out
Please pray for me have tried to run away from him but my soul can't let him go it's 1year and 4months away from him but still seems so attach but he has told all the shit above please pray for me guys
