IF THE BEAUTY STANDARD WAS REVERSED 

oh hey someone who I swear I've seen before (online, not irl)

Howdy hey, Rea!

omg i just binged your videos no way

Twink.

he is watching, pondering, waiting…

​@allanmccoy-ip5ud fym part 2, what r u yapping about blud

@@luvsx. blud they jus like the silly word combos hush

Wdym we need to do that more often? We've already got tons in the English language! Shepherd: sheep + herd, holiday: holy + day, none: not + one, and so much more! /j Btw if some of this feels sorta familiar it's cuz i actually got the idea from a yt short lol :P. And oh yeah. someone pointed yt shorts ain't a great source of knowledge and i totally agree, so just take it with a pinch of salt. And not flaunt it in a way that could get you k.o'd with a reply pointing out ur accedental bulshittary (aka don't word it in a way as if your presenting it as the correct truth if you don't 100% know that is the truth cuz u got it from a not so trusted source) I'm just sayin this just to clear up some things, even tho tbh i don't really care about this shit. Since it's not really important (to me anyways)

Portmanteau Power! XD

@@A_RandomNobody youtube shorts are not a reliable source of knowledge, and these are some really fucking weird and misleading examples for an actual thing with solid examples. the time that comes after noon is called the 'afternoon' and a thing that shields you from wind a 'windshield!' like, 'none' is from the old english words 'ne' and 'an,' which do _translate_ and are _related_ to 'not' and 'one' respectively, but it didnt come from mashing together the modern words 'not' and 'one' like youre implying. that isnt how etymology works. similar thing goes for holiday and shepherd etymology is cool you dont have to make shit up

REAL!!

frrr!! was just about to comment this!

The DUCK😍

I WANT ITTTT!!!!!

I love the DUCK

That’s what I was thinking

Also Jamie from Cursed Princess Club on Webtoon

tbf ancient Greek culture was way more accepting of gay people and femboys. that's probably related.

@@Dr.Worm666yesss

​@@Dr.Worm666 never thought I'd see a cpc fan here, but I'm glad

No kidding! It's great. She did a good job

YESSSS

that's literally what i was thinking 😭

I was about to say that she just reverse engineered every queer besties, especially the little guy lmao. He is lowkey me frfr

This. I love femboys so it was awesome to see one in this video.

I agree, thats another subconscious change

being sporty and 'manly' you'd prob be out in the sun while the petite frail woman stays inside and does 'feminine' tasks that dont involve her getting tan. Everything's so stupid man

Yep, that’s another interesting phenomenon with how we perceive masc/fem, and it’s got some historical roots. Having a darker shade of skin was considered “masculine” because, in white men, it was achieved by working in the sun a lot, usually by manual labor, something generally perceived as masculine. Being pale was considered feminine because it was achieved by white women by staying out of the sun (like by staying in the house or confining your work to shade) through housework or careful protection, like with parasols. It all kind of ties into the masc = manual labor and fem = housework narrative. Unfortunately, that belief was also used to discriminate against POC women, as people would accuse them of being “too masculine” simply for having darker skin. The origin of our perceptions of masculinity and femininity are very saddening but also fascinating to learn about.

I TOTALLY AGREE

Oh noes

you've been mocked for that before?? im super small but i've never been bullied 😭fuck those guys for being like that to you

​@@pouinkimiryou're lucky af then 😭

I'm kinda short, but I've never been bullied for it, because I'm scary. I always joke that people should fear the short, because they're closer to crotch punching height.

where is being short/petite seen as a beauty standard?? i always see tall/average and curvy being a beauty standard....(or like when people say short they mean 5'2 or 5'1.. which isn't really short 😭)

@@RAATz- I mean, did you watch the video? It was kinda born from the idea of girls being short being seen as a standard of beauty in recent times.

Awomen 🙏

Now if she was real... :(

Eh, I've seen a lot of people that are into that body type in guys.

It's kind of specific to U.S beauty standards.

I have been thinking that too

Yea the standards for beauty has changed a lot even just completely normal things that just about every living thing has have been made taboo to talk about

This kinda does show that features that define male and female appearances aren’t just as a result of societal view. I hear so many people say it’s just because of society, that you associate certain features with male and female.

@@GibbusWibbusIt proves the opposite though?

REAL!!!! i love this art nomnom

TOMBOYS AND FEMBOYS FTW!!!

Same

Same

Same

The fact that some ancient greek philosophes were actually onto those 😀 (I'll never look at aristoteles the same)

​@@Sun_S3t_22_Official lmaaaoo

​@@Sun_S3t_22_Official💀💀💀💀

Especially the ones north of the Danube and east of the Rhine. They were exceptionally fair, and their blonde hair and blue eyes were of celestial appeal

""""""servant boy"""""" 🤔

XD

so you mean there’s only… one direction…?😈

Is that a doofensmirtz reference??!

@@bunnyconcubus8468 Unfortunately, no, but I wish I had a good enough memory to do that on command 😂

@@astraamarante6233 It's fine, if you're wondering which episode it's from the Phineas birthday episode.

If you're attracted to both of them, there's a chance that you're pan- / bisexual!

^Speaking from experience lol

@@kitkat8669It's not even the bisexuality question, I think the more noticeable thing is finding men and women who are very gender non-conforming very attractive. I personally identify as queer/bisexual because it applies but I am most attracted to androgynous and gender non-conforming people which is interesting to notice in yourself

To me, gender non conforming people regardless of gender identity are incredibly attractive. Like I can see how people like masc guys and fem girls, but what are essentially tomgirls and femboys as well as androgynous people are so much more intriguing lol

@@antlerthyme oh shit, same!! Androgynous ppl are so fucking attractive, it's really a shame that I don't live in a place where it's safe for people to look like that :(

REAL

As a bisexual girl i am thriving

yesss they're both so attractive

Maybe it's because they don't give threatening vibe? Like this man can do no wrong, he just too wholesome to abuse, manipulate or do anything bad towards you(just my theory)

​@@amiable_monster People can just have physical preferences that they genuinely just find most attractive that are different from the societal standard. The same way that people who like women can be attracted to masculine presenting women regardless of their personality (i.e., not expecting them to be dominant or assertive), people who like men can like more feminine ones without it being about fear/distrust towards the opposite. I'm not saying no one feels the way you're saying, but I don't feel like this needs to be pathologized or assumed based on that preference, especially not based on what op said

Same fr

@@corndo9 I understand. Apologies if it sounded like i believe i know what op mindset is or that every person look out for such vibes. It was just the thing i observed with myself so i wrote it to find people out there who feel the same

@@amiable_monster No worries I didn’t think you meant it in a negative way. I just wanted to speak up because some people do try to say that in a negative way towards especially women/girls and lgbt+ people so much to invalidate them, so I just wanted to explain how it isn’t always the case and shouldn’t be assumed. But I don’t think it’s wrong for you to try to find people who relate or anything

Congratulations you just took non conformist characters and changed them to be more traditional so you would find them more appealing

@@ellie8272 Nah i didnt change them i just thought up a cute little story about them. If you don't like it then sry thats your problem but it wasn't my intention to be rude or anything just a cute little story

@@LilGremolin I never said it was your intention to do that, just what the effect of it was. You saw non conformist characters and your gut instinct was to give them conformist traits

@@ellie8272 nah instinct was to make a cute story up with them in my head

​@@ellie8272THANK YOU LOL

what, are they supposed to be old and doddering?

Yeah, a little weird. I think femininity is just infantalized in general.

Am I the only one who thinks that being attracted to young looking women is NOT the same as being a PDF file??

@@wlwgwlwgnomesarereal Anything but infantilizing.

So real. shes so young looking is often a big thing for describing women i hate.

Frrrrr i wanted to write the same thing 💀💀💀💀💀

That's what I was just thinking

​@@grianjuju9438lmaoooooo💀💀💀💀💀

I was thinking that too 💀

Okay, but whenever anime characters have those types of designs it’s usually a W for the LGBTQ community! Or just people who like those designs in general!

since haley is EVER so good at warning about such instances, I'm checking the comments before i hit play from now on because i don't trust like that. thank you for warning others so that they may be more fortunate than us

Agreed

As a trans person comments like this are so fascinating. Something I have to put conscious effort to do every moment of my life to be seen how I want to be seen not even being acknowledged by most people is wild It really goes to show how brainwashed we all are by beauty standards

Oh fuck am I a femboy?

@@LemonMori _gives you a maid dress_ *wear it.*

​@@ellie8272why do you have to put conscious effort into it

​​@@LemonMoriit is what it is, put the skirt on.

I like how this comment is just left unfinished

@@colbyboucher6391???

Sounds like your a country girl, lol.

Has straight male I rarely find the overly cliche girly attractive (if anything the tomboy in this video look more attractive to me )

Trust me, even as a somewhat hetero guy, nothing makes me more uncomfortable than hearing a group of dudes dehumanizing women that walk by.

As apposed to a obscene Female view? since when has beauty been a monopoly.

And yet the moment anyone, regardless of their own gender or age or sexuality, calls out how close the beauty standard for women gets to creepiness towards kids...they respond as if you're delusional. Like, sure bro. Desiring a hyperspecific type of woman that is essentially a child "but legal" is weird. There's nothing wrong with a shorter woman or a woman who shaves/naturally has less body hair, there's a problem with YOU. They need to stop expecting all women to look like preteens, especially when it comes to Asian women...leave them alone asian people are not fetish fuel replacements for children. Weirdos.

@@r.connor9280 Every facet of society is seen through the male gaze. Read up on it instead of just talking out of your biased view.

Well most trans women and femboys like themselves looking androgynous and that's usually before puberty...so it's less so of a baby thing and more avoiding gender specific features... Plus baby is cute not every one like sexy eye candy some just like wholesome and cute...

smh she just drew me but blonde 😭

Oh

Idk, apollo was a pretty boy

​@@djk5758yeah but he turned several other pretty boys into flowers too

Barbarian crone with a axe broom hybrid to fly on

im begging what is your webcomics name???

Omg i would love to read this

WHATS YOUR WEBCOMICS NAME WHATS YOUR WEBCOMICS NAME WHATS YOUR WEBCOMICS NAME PLEASEE @chibibble

anyone curious its on her youtube description IM READIJNG IT TMRW

I was looking for this comment

I love them both they’re adorableeeeee

that sucks. people never take femininity seriously

Dang, I wish I had feminine traits tho, lucky

@@terdragontra8900 this is literally so dismissive wtf

@@frankieloinandgroin you are right, im sorry, its just funny that i don't care at all about being taken seriously, and would gladly switch bodies with him, because as it is im probably going to die alone because my appearance doesnt match how id like to act in a relationship

​@@terdragontra8900 your appearance don't need to march your personality you are not a Disney character. Only in animation were this is necessary because you need to know a characters personality just by their appearance

Dw you're not the only one. I personally love drawing feminine men because I find them cute

I love feminine men!

Oh yeah, facial hair (a very typically masculine trait) is a huge turn off for me. Facial hair is good on guys I wouldn’t be romantically interested, eg guys way older than me, family members, friends etc

​@@jewelcurrie345 basically you want a guy who didn't hit puberty. Also guys can be masculine without having beard. Beard make them more masculine 🦇

Same. But the thing is, I also have an attraction to women. I’m wondering if that’s gotta do with something LOL

Did you end up finding it? Curious.

@@nvenvyvill3698 Unfortunately no, I think it's in a box in storage, so it'll take me a long time to find it.

@@cinnamonsugarcourtney6073 oh…well good luck then

No offense but what were you expecting to hear?

@@shadpant9255 ???????

@@shadpant9255 Well not all men have hard features and not all women have soft features 🤷🏿‍♀

It's called sexual dimorphism. Look it up, buddy.

​​@@JuniperGal-ek2pu nobody say all women has soft features and all men have sharp features. Artist are taking about averageness they are teaching male and female anatomy

There's also manga called A Cute Guy but the girl is pretty feminine as well

W pfp

fellow saiki pfp??????

@@kumoric hell yeah

What's the Momo video?

Momo video??

@@mothbrainedindividualProbably the one where she was redesigning Momo and Siu smth (i forgot her name the dragon from raya)

@@fangirlapocalypse Ahh, okay

@@mothbrainedindividualfrom mha (I feel like in that case it was more making what look more sensible for teenager to wear and someone as smart as momo )

fetish

Lust is not the same as love.

@@Very_Silly_Individual Well if I'm being technical about it I'm biromantic asexual, but saying bisexual is so much easier. So I'm still in love with both of them, lust has nothing to do with it

SLAY!! I (a quite feminine girl) really like feminine men, or just cute/pretty guys in general. If a man wants to wear more stereotypically feminine clothes, that’s just as valid as a man wanting to appear more masculine. Same goes for women of course. If someone’s not into masculine girls or feminine guys that’s fine, everyone has their own tastes and preferences! As long as someone isn’t walking down the street naked, everyone should just mind their business.

@@CorvidayWolfy ok, but what am I supposed to do if feminine clothes look dumb on me cuz I’m 6ft tall with a square jaw? :(

@@terdragontra8900 Honestly, it's hard because there are very few examples of feminine male characters. I guess looking at men in other cultures could be helpful, especially if male beauty standards elsewhere are closer to our female beauty standards. K-pop is a potential place for inspiration due to the hairlessness and very well-kept skin. However, they are usually incredibly toned and wear traditionally masculine clothing. I think Jojo's Bizarre Adventure is good for inspiration if you mostly look at part 4 and later. It's just about the only think I've seen that lets the male characters dress in very "feminine" clothing that still looks like it was designed for a male body. Honestly, I have the same struggle too sometimes, and I wish people were more creative in terms of creating "feminine" clothing that looks like it was designed for a male body in a way that doesn't feel like a joke or anything.

@@crashb800 This is maybe a bizarre thing to say, but I don’t really have interest in dressing or acting feminine, I want to act freely without any regard to what we’ve associated with either sex, and I don’t want to be expected to act like a guy in a relationship. But maybe I’m just super lazy. Are there men who dress feminine not because they innately want to but as, like… advertisement?

​@@terdragontra8900 No, I don't think there are guys trying to be femboys based on advertisement. Honestly, I just read your response on a very surface level, and I think I get what you are saying now. Honestly, I struggle a lot with the expectation of leading in a relationship (I assume that's what you mean by not wanting to act like the guy in a relationship), and unfortunately, I don't know really how to deal with that. If I did, I would personally be a lot happier, but it honestly sucks feeling like your relationship options are either lead or no relationship. I don't honestly know how that will change until girls are really socially allowed to be the ones approaching.

I cant stop

nothing wrong with tomboys doing masc activities, that's the point. they look masc because they ARE masc. what's the point of holding back down to traditional stereotypes when they're obviously not