If Women Only Knew The Power of Their Femininity | April Mason | Dear Future Wifey S6, E629 

“If somebody wants you, they will come get you!” 💯

What makes me valuable: 1. I’m kind 2. Honest 3. Loyal 4. Nurturing 5. Humorous 6. Thoughtful 7. Creative and ambitious

Divorced women have wisdom through trauma and can teach you a lot about life and avoiding red flags.

“There’s nothing sexier than a man’s presence that heals.” 🔥🔥 Woooo chile

I got married 5 months ago. No sex in 20 yrs. Nevered lowered my standards. I listened to Wifey podcast for 2 yrs that helped me 100%. I waited on God. I Developed intowho I knew God said I was.

This the first woman on a public platform who has mentioned femininity that I didn’t role my eyes at. I felt her!

Come on, April! A "man is much more than his wallet," and a busy man that gives you his time, that's the man you should be paying attention to." Time is extremely valuable, and when it's given without hesitation that's priceless.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

Laterras & April are PRIME example of WHY platonic relationships are important! They flow, they listen, they laugh, they disagree and learn from one in another in love. This is a friendship worth keeping even after they both get married to their respective spouses.

I was apart of April’s 1 “Teach Me How to Date” academy and I am going on 2 years of wedded bliss because I listened!!!!

April Mason is the truth. I started with her 28 days of self love. That got me all the way together. Then I joined her dating academy and it was 🔥 I got married 6 months ago all because I listened ❤

Great Nugget of Wisdom from April on how to deal with situation! 1. Assess the Situation 2. Accept the Reality 3. Decide how you will move forward

Ladies. Be you. Be who you are. You are enough, just as you are. Have firm boundaries. If someone makes you feel bad, kick em out. If someone makes you feel good, let them in. That's all you need to do.

Exactly! You don't know you're healed until that healing is tested. If you're alone, you feel healed because you don't have to deal with the triggers. You won't know you're healed until that trigger doesn't trigger you anymore. You can only figure this out by being in a relationship.

“Why isn’t she married?” is a valid question because it’s less about validating her advice (which I believe is good) but it actually speaks to how scarce the dating scene is for black women. You can be a great woman and do all the things, and be willing and ready for marriage yet still not be chosen by these men. And I see THIS EVERYDAY!

What makes me valuable? 1. I’m kind on purpose 2.I’m passionate 3. I’m constructive 4.I’m diligent 5. I’m weird 6. I’m silly 7.I’m compassionate 8.I’m tender 9. I’m gracious 10.I’m strong

Thank you so much for saying women will naturally submit to a real masculine energy! Hallelujah!❤

With respect! As mental health therapist, I encourage by people to voice what they need instead of playing games of guessing and manipulation.

Ms. April's hair stylist is the bomb! Everybody can't wear short hair. 😊❤

She again confirms my understanding, the enemy tries very hard to traumatize you so much when you are young because he knows if you are damaged in those specific area you can never rise to your divine calling.

As a young person in her early 20's I appreciated the genuine conversation, but most importantly I love the fact that she represented what timeless femininity looks like.

When April mason said sexual abuse I felt that. Especially when you are a curvy black young lady at a very young age. They don’t see you as a little girl they see you as a sex symbol. Even my own pastor sexually abuse harass me. I was fully develop by the age of 12. It didn’t matter how much clothes my mom put on me I would still get harrassed. Accused of sleeping around when I was a virgin because of my looks

i cant lie, ive been married a year now and implementing her advice that i heard in my single season definitely helped me being a wife today! She definitely drops gems

My mom told me I use to say at the age of 4 years old, “I bring you love.” With open arms whenever someone was upset. I thought that was so cute. ❤ Actually I still do that, I don’t like seeing people in pain.

".. do we leave a love legacy?" This is such a profound question... I agree that we need to leave a HEALTHY example of love in relationships for generations to come.

This platform is saving marriages AND individual lives!!! My husband and I are eternaly GRATEFUL for your obedience Thank you Man of God you're an amazing vessel. #27yearsNholding

As someone who has been following Ms. April Mason for three years, I’m a witness to the power of femininity she teaches. It’s not manipulative; it’s taking ownership of WHO we were designed to BE before we were stripped of our nature. I love being the Queen & the Princess. 😊 Wisdom comes from various sources. Those of us with an ear to hear & the heart to listen are benefiting from her knowledge. #ATF

She’s so WISE! So GIFTED! So CALLED So ANOINTED for such a time as this! 🙏🏽 I could listen to Miss A+ all day & all night long!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

This is exhausting. I absolutely love this exchange. It’s exhausting because the women who were not raised to be wives are so misunderstood. I feel like I have to erase everything I’ve accomplished through my pain to be accepted. And before anyone asks…. Yes, I’m in therapy. Thank you for doing Gods work, sir.

If you really think about it God has prepared each of us for marriage. Before we enter into marriage, we have relationships with our parents, siblings, friends, etc. These relationships should be honored and respected. If you can’t sacrifice your time in these relationships and be obedient to your parents first, then marriage will be difficult. You can’t enter into a marriage with a selfish heart.

It’s not manipulation, it’s marketing. Marketing is communicating value. Some marketing reps use manipulation, others simply use wisdom. Admirable marketers know how to appeal to their audience to not only get what they want, but to also serve a need, genuinely. Everybody wins.❤

At the 19 minute segment, I know EXACTLY what she means about not wanting to be seen. As a survivor of sexual abuse, it makes you not want to seen, you like grow into yourself. Because being seen, may mean being victimized again and you don't feel safe. I was told I have a beautiful singing voice but because of my trauma, it takes a will to get me to stand up in front of people and sing. And still at 47, I do not like public speaking and this is a huge reason why.

Hurt people hurt people! Feminity is when you are Vulnerable, Honest and Genuine. 🌸

Masculine energy is just as important as feminine energy. It's about balance not about burying one side. So embrace both. Both energies play critical roles in our lives.

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

I'm watching the party when you told April she was pimping based on her responses to men. She said why does her kindness mean she wants you romantically, that's the thing for me. Many men take kindness the wrong way and if you don't accept their advances they call you stuck up. I've also been told I'm flirtatious, but I'm just being kind.

What makes me valuable? I am Resourceful, Peaceful, Legacy builder, Nurturing, Honest, Respectful and Loving. I am a woman who knows how to be a woman

As I tuned in I found myself Saying" She exemplifies such Poise and Grace with a Unique Settleness of Boldness and Confidence with Self Assuredness. She really displayed the Balance of a Feminity through her choice of words as well as her eagerness to ensure her audience understands the message as she gave thought and reflection of her journey of self discovery and Love. Lady April you have my Respect. Thank you I enjoyed.✍️👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💃

Being in this finding your feminine journey is a journey it's not a 6 weeks process. Been on the journey for the last 4 years and I'm married but I'm finding out there is levels to this and it starts with God centered love.

It hit home when April said she was hiding behind her brand 😢. I didn’t even know I needed this ❤

That part about men who claim that woman aren't submissive enough, is because a MAN does not provide that security!!! I am SOOOOO tired of hearing black men trash black women for not being submissive, they need to hear this! April Mason is an intuitive woman to say, "I feel that energy"- hunny!

Yes, to Laterras' question at the 17-minute mark, repeated sexual abuse/violation/rape is 100% spiritual. It can even be attached to a bloodline and be passed on from parents to children when it's not dealt with. Get a deliverance minister or teacher to sit on that couch. I knew EXACTLY what she meant when she said "she didn't want to be seen." Currently working through that myself, now.

I'm so glad April touched on sexual assault, you don't realize how many have been down this road and how it'll affect you later in life, it is so sad I'm 51 years old and never been married I feel like this has impacted my life in such a way that I didn't even realize it, Lord just help me heal and get through this, and allow someone special to love me and I am able to reciprocate that love back 💞🙏🏽

GIRL!!!!! You are speaking my language… I would NEVER agree to a 50/50 split. Or any other split… I wholeheartedly agree with giving men the privilege to be real men… Provide and protect… 💯💯💯

This was very enlightening! Independent, self-sufficient until I was 50. Wanted to be able to "take the pants off" and have a husband who leads. Married now and realizing the transition was not as easy as I thought it would be. But I now I see that I haven't allowed myself to walk in my femininity with my husband, because I've had to be my own protector for so long. Will definitely start focusing on that because he deserves it, and so do I.

When a child experience trauma without the means to resolve it, they end up magnetizing similar experiences . For some children, they don’t talk about it but it remains active in their vibration. Some children manage to talk about it but if the talking about it does not help them to process, it becomes an identity. That too will magnetize similar experiences . Normalizing conversations that give permission to truth will help children especially to separate experiences from who they are. ❤️. Kudos to you for showing up for YOURSELF

As a single woman, this episode is for me. Thank you Laterras. God bless you and I can't wait to see you get married to your future wifey🎉🎉🎉

2:06:51 I’m so glad that April shared this piece; This is one of the main reasons why I believe that so many people are single because they don’t know who they are beyond the physical, body, sex tricks, degrees, what society says they are and etc….No internal depth at all.

Ms. April Mason changed my life ❤️Been following her teaching for years!!!

I just love her answer about the gynecologist. That was fire 🔥 ❤

This woman is amazing, true feminine strength especially having experienced so much childhood trauma

And Laterrus, please do not shy away from her offer. She may be that bridge you need to find your purpose partner! 💛💛💛

" I am the temperature".... 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Love that! She dropped some very informative information here for me to use out in these dating streets!

April Mason is the Goat! Love her and her content. She’s amazing! I started my femininity journey 2 years ago because of her. After years In the Military I had become hard. She helped me reveal my true self again ❤

Her red and black says it all. Energy is powerful. We are spiritual beings. Great show Thanks

I’ll be 68 in a few weeks so hopefully it’s not too late to tap into my feminine energy. I seek knowledge daily so that I do better than I did the day before. I’m helpful generous resourceful loving forgiving loyal always allowing Jesus to grow me into his image.

Even scripturally alot of what we study and know about marriage was given by revelation to an UNMARRIED man,Paul😉

April's experience with the older gymrat gentleman was so hilarious 😂 Love her ❤ great conversation.

I want to appreciate this podcast for all the information and learning I have gotten. Before even listening to this episode, I just want to say the lessons are bitter sweet. Yes, I did stop dating because l want marriage, a husband not a boyfriend. Seven months later, l am building my inner self, my career and l have never been so focused in life. The bitter part is how open my eyes have become. I see a player a mile away. I see a man's true intention before he speaks and it's scary. It's a journey. I have faith in the process. I have faith in God and may He bless this podcast.

This episode, re-affirmed that I'm on the right track. Basking in my femininity. ❤😊

This is just overwhelming confirmation that I’ve healed and me resting in my femininity and how I operate as a wife is absolutely right…I was just with the wrong person. At my core I’m a wife and a large part of my purpose. Thank you LW for your podcast and I just thank God He has used you to help so many and myself! 😭 My dad instilled feminine values in me at a very young age. I had 19 years of instruction from a man POV and I’m grateful for that time.

I appreciate this episode so much. Having been raised by a (wonderful) single dad, there are certain feminine lessons that I simply did not learn as a child. April hit the nail on the head about the importance of women being able to identify who we are, outside of our accomplishments. Degrees and businesses are great, but a home and a life are built from a woman's heart, mind and character. Wonderful episode! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

In regards to her marital status: That's not my business. I am focused on the advice she's giving. She has helped so many women get married and stay married. Also, her daughter is successfully remarried. Her credentials speak for itself. This woman is licensed to teach on this magnitude. ❤ Signed, A true April Mason Fan

"The same way a man can be a gynecologist and he doesn't have a vagina"! Ma'am! Why are you PREACHING

I love April Mason! She putting women on!!! If the woman is open to listen and hear! #Femininity

Femininity is the first 🔑 for a woman to learn & trust herself. It's the way to a man's ❤ !! April is the truth & has a great logic in relationships, not just for women but for men also that value their relationships.

Men can be very confused. He gave a whole dissertation on how he is serious and ready to find a wife, but when a whole database of wife material was offered to him, he rebuked it 😂 shaking my head

My ability to nurture, empower, support the ones I love. My ability to stand out or fade in the background at will. My integrity and the fact that I do not weponize my feminity and I know my worth. I know how to stand in it without overpowering. Everyone will not be complimentary and that is ok.

Ive listened to April for years, ive used so many things she says and realized being feminine has to be INTENTIONAL then it becomes second nature❤

“I don’t want to be seen.” That statement there convicted me so much!

April is someone I find relateable. I've showed witty banter and friendliness and it's taken incorrectly. My co-workers thought I was flirting just because I said someone smelled good. 🤦‍♀️ That's not even a pick line, it was a compliment. If I'd said it to a woman they wouldn't say I'm flirting.

Awesome topic of Femininity! Please get Michelle McKinney Hammond in for a part 2, as she has written MULTIPLE books on the subject.

Great conversation! I've just begun to feel like I'm living in my feminine at 36. It took therapy and listening in while taking notes from folks like ya'll. Got remarried in April. We have a partnership, and love that wasn't possible for me before. I see so much more the value men and women bring in their true form.

This interview is so insightful! One would "think" as a women, we should already know these things. However, FOR ME...I was taken aback and somewhat embarrassed by the fact I didn't...BUT I do now and will dig deeper in understanding more about MY "true" femininity. Go Ms. April...this is the real TEA❤ Love this!!!

This interview was awesome. April was so on point with the wisdom she shared. It is easy for us as women to lose sight of our feminine essence, when life “hardens” us, but we must get back to who God created us to be. Well done!

I was waiting for April to answer the question about who she is. ☹️ Some ppl need examples of that type of answer. But it was refreshing to hear her say that femininity isn’t what we’re being sold and it isn’t about getting a man. I love that.

This woman is so natural, i just flow with whatever she says, she is authentic , she know herself and her satandards, what is for her and what is not, so charming and alluring and she dosnot even know! I just bought her IDENTITY SWITCH book from Amazon. Thanks for interviewing her 💝💝

This is by far one of the best episodes posted…. Miss April is really authentic in digging out the ingredients that make a woman tick. May she prosper beyond her widest dream and have a God ordained king to share her wealth of knowledge & understanding with. Blessings.

I know who I am! Kind! Empathetic! Grounded! Understanding! Evolving! Full of love ❤! I love my feminine energyyyyy ❤! I have been listening to feminine videos from other people first hearing this from a black woman ❤! Happy to hear this! I think it’s good to be strong and vulnerable ❤! This is why I appreciate how Esther spoke to her husband ❤!

I'm grateful to have an understanding of love. My parents displayed it openly in the most pure way.

Sis this is how I am . I get backlash for being a traditional women but I don’t care . I standing on it. Not taking nothing less I love a man’s man’s who take pure pride in taking care his women..

She said "i chose him based on who i was"!👏🏽👏🏽 Love the personal responsibility!! Most women blame their horrible choices in men, on the man instead of looking themselves in the mirror. Women choose badly! That sums up 75% of the game, period! If women learned how and what to choose, and were humble enough to try it, more of them would win in relationships!

Your shows are long but very entertaining. I never get tired of watching. May God lead you to the wifey of your dream.

Oh my God! Such a great interview👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 So many 💎! I have no problem telling my age because I don’t look my age! Walking in my femininity and vulnerability is better for my soul. My daughters are learning from me how to be women. I was raised in Russia and by my single dad (my mum died when I was 13yo). I didn’t have the opportunity to know how real women are operating. God bless y’all for this🙏🏾 Sending love from Alkebulan🙌🏾

This is my first time ever hearing her, and she is something else 😅. I like her thinking process; just purchased her book.

"We can make the sandwiches and not be warriors" that made something clink in my spirit 🙌🏽

she's full of wisdom. this is a great conversation.

I needed to see this. I’m so happy I found this podcast and even more grateful I listened to this episode.

Wow, April is the first woman that I've publicly heard respond to sexual abuse the same way I did. I became a controller of men because I wanted them to feel victimized and powerless like I had. I was this way up into my 20's. I had a complete disregard and respect of men. I was sexual assaulted by the neighbor's mentally retarded child at the age of 3. I was sexually assaulted again at 5 from my uncle. Then molested by my step-father from 7 to 10 yrs old. It took until my mid-20's to understand why I disregarded men.

Listen. ❤️‍🔥👏🏾👏🏾 My mom taught me some of what this lady said, that when she started operating in feminine energy, which yes I believe includes how to dress and speak, I do disagree with the lady about that, it changed how every one treated her. She has dealt with a difficult difficult harsh marriage. But she has NOT slipped from feminine and godly woman energy despite that. She never operates in masculine energy. When my mom walks in a room, the whole energy changes and the way people flock to her is unreal. I operated in masculine energy for so long, even if I was being friendly. But the moment I started to listen to my mom and just decided late last year to operate in full femininity, baby, the change with how I was treated was 180deg. It was sooo noticeable. Especially in my job, the way men speak to me on my job is RADICALLY different from a year ago due to this. And out in public. Feminine energy brings that biblical Esther favor in the kings court, you feel me?? So I see this video and it is such great confirmation. And trying to continue do this especially when things begin to get hard or trigger you. This interview was awesome.

This was such a good episode! Thank you for having her on, this was my first time learning about her and she’s amazing! 🙏🏽Thank you!

This is a powerful meeting! Thank you!!

Laterras, April is on point!! In our foundational and formative years (0-6), when a person experiences trauma, especially sexual trauma, you lose your autonomy and you are groomed to believe that you don't have the rights to disagree with the people who they are entrusted to. This is how children who experience sexual violations at such young ages become a recidivist of the abuse. Essentially, in the spiritual Realm it is like you're wearing a neon sign on your forehead saying, " I won't put up a fight. " or " I don't know I'm worthy of better." Or "I don't have the right to say NO!" Through this abuse and other forms of abuse, children are taught that the maladaptive Behavior is normal and acceptable, especially when it's coming from trusted family or friends of the family. I'm so very proud of April! I have yet to meet a woman who like myself experience and endured that many years at sexual abuse and sexual assault. It was 13 years for me, but like April, I dedicated my adult life to therapy, braking the generational curses, and relearning who I am as a woman; my self worth, that I deserve better, and I have the right to say "NO". People do not get passes in my life to abuse or mistreat me regardless of associations or relations! Kudos April, to being a curse-breaker in your lineage ‼️💖🙌🏽💖 Thank you, brother for always be an amazing vessel for Abba to use for healing and deliverance 🙏🏽💖🙏🏽

I love Ms April Mason, she is always dropping gems and diamonds💎. She helped me so much become feminine and continue to walk in my femininity. She is the truth to help woman heal from their past traumas that cause them to not exudes their feminine energy. Thank you Laterras for this amazing podcast. Your podcasts are truly a blessing to me.

Thank you so much for hosting April, I resonated with what she shared❤

This is precious! Thank you Miss April and the host

She discussed so many points of what a feminine woman is or how you can become one.👍👍

This was a wonderful video. I did want to add this in reference to trauma bonds. Trauma bonding doesn't mean forming a bond with someone based on your shared trauma/experiences but thats what pop culture has turned the definition into. Trauma bonding is a psychological response to abuse. It occurs when the abused person forms a connection or relationship with the person who abuses them.

Femininity = Mother Nature and it’s dark. It’s boundaries. It’s self respect. This woman is a gem. 💎

The PROCESS before the PROMISE. I love that. ❤

Love me some Ms. April Mason! Her work has changed my entire life.