If You Can't Let Go of Past Mistakes, You Must Watch This | Mel Robbins 

Yes you are a good person. Do you recognise that you made a mistake. And you have regrets about that. Only a narcissist has no regrets

No, you’re not a good person. You’re just a person.

Shane Dawson says that too

​@@tegannottellingnot necessarily. I know its fiction, but Bojack Horseman is a great portrait of how a narcissist can feel nothing but regret for their actions, but use that regret as a weapon both against themselves and others so that they never have to change, but instead choose to live in those dark moments and repeat the same mistakes.

I feel the same way. I have many regrets about stuff I did and I know I’m a good person but I made it through it all.

Amen friend. This is me. Life is about second chances, and as long as you learned and have grown from your mistakes, there is true wisdom within it.

@@marshallstrander3922 Yes, so true.🌹

Jesus dropped the charges!

i also dont know how to deal with people percieving me as a bad person when i truly want to change

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Wow thx

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Thank you!❤

I needed this. Thank you.

It’s so hard.

same here

same here

Same , just at that moment , at that time i just wanted something to take my mind of some things and an outlet for some . I am still very afraid that i could do it again . I don't think i will ever be able to get away from them or forgive myself completely cuz it was just .... But yeah i just wanna say that the only thing we can do is live with them , identify that we were not our conscious self at that time , and if we truly truly feel guilty and wrong about it , just accept it and keep walking ahead. Much power to all , you are doing great! ❤️

Yup

yup

Beautiful quote ❤

I love this thank you❤

A guy who really loved me will be getting married next week to someone else because I lost him due to my emotionally independent behaviour (if not manipulative). I feel very terrible, like i will never find another like him . I'm just in tears regretting, that's what Brought me here. Have you been able to successfully recover from your regret?

Im in the exact same situation and its been a painful road to reconciling my mistakes with myself. I miss her.

This my dear friend is the first step to a real change. True repentance that the lord Jesus Christ mentioned in the Bible... Have faith in yourself. One step at a time

Beautiful ❤

me too. im so glad im not alone

@@samstheman1874 ❤️

I'd really like to know how you're doing now? How have you been dealing this? I feel I am the same, I lie because I feel people might see that I'm small weak and stupid person. I don't do it intentionally, it has just become a part where I exaggerate and also recognising this affects my self worth.

I’m in the same exact boat as you. It seems like a never ending battle to forgive myself for past mistakes and the people and relationships I’ve harmed. Idk if I’m a good person or not either

In the same boat except I was lucky enough to get at least 2 people’s forgiveness. But I still haven’t forgiven myself.

I think you’re right. I also think it helps us to have compassion on others when they make mistakes, when we realize that we have also made mistakes.

Me too

Everything WILL be okay (:

Amen 🙏🏿

Dear, we know this. This is what we call the cliche, I am sorry, but you must understand. People hear this every time. It does not help, what helps is help or guidance for HOW you do it. I undesrtand you mean well, bless you.

It’s hard especially if it’s detrimental to your future

How???😢

you can't self diagnose people based on an opinion they have.. lol... some people just realize we all live life once and we couldn't have done things over even if we wanted to.

@@joeykoo3779People on the internet are so annoying throwing around diagnoses and judging people based on their diagnoses. How are people going to get better with idiots like that?

You can admit you have a mistake and feel guilty and wish it didn’t happen, but you can still not want to take it away because of the lessons they learned from it. You also have to accept it happened or you can’t move on.

I have regret. It is about my career. I burn bridge for a work that was not what I expected. :( Im in a verg tight situation now. Im hurting :(

i wish i never did that

better past lost doesn't mean you won't have a better future, our present moment defines our future.

Me to

I have same feelings as you, I also lost my savings by money scam. It's my mistake so now I have to accept it, hope you can overcome this regret soon ❤❤❤

I didn't lose money over a scam, but I needed family to bail me out of near eviction, and been yelled at for my decisions, making me feel like I don't deserve anything "extra" and not do things that I enjoy or cost money to do....that I need to constantly work to find better employment, and being terrified of my financial future.

I was looking for something like this 3 months and I can't let it go 😢

She’s very brave.

Me too-30 years ago … 🥺

@Bad Witch Diaries Excuse me? That I misunderstood??? Wow, you are truly lacking terribly on your reading comprehension skills, aren’t you? Either that, or you must be hallucinating, I mean, otherwise, what part of me simply saying that the video helped me in a way I didn’t expect sounds like I misunderstood its contents? Then as if that’s not intrusive enough, you barf a whole sermon at me as if I’m asking for your opinion or advice? Why do you do that? Do you realize how void of sense that makes you look when you go around wanting to tell people that they didn’t get the message simply because they say the message helped them differently than what they expected? And just so you know, let me inform you, when you go around giving people unsolicited advice, like you just did, it only says three things about you: #1) you are so centered on what you want to say that you don’t have enough bandwidth to hear and process what others say, #2) you are failing so miserably at putting your own advice into practice that in order to not feel like a fraud, you make yourself feel better by giving to people that advice you can’t put into action yourself, and #3) you must be unconsciously aware that your advice, deep inside, is worthless, otherwise, if you truly considered your advice to be valuable, you wouldn’t be going around giving it away for free; there’s nothing more pathetic than cheap wisdom, especially when it’s so rid with projection…

❤️ sending love

For all it may help, I forgive you. Let’s hold out together ❤

Beautifully written ❤