'The men's conference chairperson, media personality who hyped boychild on polygamy but ended up in monogamous marriage is similar to those in school who psyched others not to study but they themselves studied very hard in their private spaces and end up passing exams. I have also seen some individuals who have negative connotation about education but surprisingly their children are graduates or in some prestigious schools.
You are VERY RIGHT SIR, they focus so much on the lady. My cousin shed tears when the elders spoke to her ahead of her wedding....it was as if the entire marriage had to be hinged on her
