@@Nour-cg7hp society sees men who have a high body count as heroes, a woman cant even have more than one because she automatically becomes a wh0re to them. the double standards are crazy
I turn 19 tomorrow still a virgin. People got to realize its normal to not have sex. Im not saving myself ror marriage. I'm m saving myself for that one special someone. Because i want to be special. So anyone who is younger or older than me you're doing fine just give it time and once you find that special someone then go do it
Hey, I just turned 20 and lost it with my new girlfriend anbd it's been 2 months now, anybody reading this should know that the right time will come, with the right person. And it's even better, both mature, both know what they're doing, and at the end of the day it's not all about that one single first time but rather about having a nice sex life, so go out there, find that person and be ready to share that moment with someone who will be there to make you feel special. At 19 I thought I'd never lose it, for real, it's complicated to convince yourself of the contrary.
I rly wish I saved myself for the right person, honestly, part of me believes that SA can count as losing virginity, meaning I believe I’ve only been one for two years, Idek how to feel abt it anymore, I was disappointed in myself because last year when I was 13 I snuck out for my partner, and I didn’t even truly love him, I was just hurting and I wanted it to all go away. Then a couple months ago I thought I’d finally found someone who I rly loved and who rly loved me, and after cuddling and just spending a lot of time together, he wanted to stop being a virgin himself, I already wanted to wait until I was older but I just thought “Fuck it, I’ve already done it who cares anymore” and now I wish we hadn’t. Then again there’s still a side of me kinda glad I did, because it made me realize that my father already fucked my life up by traumatizing me while also causing me to have hypersexuality, now I at least know why I felt like I wanted to-
@@jellynnrat5that's a sad thing tbh, it's really something I struggle with in my head. Like I wonder about my girlfriend and sometimes what I should agree to let myself do, and I always debate in my mind that maybe she's the right one, but the fact of me being so young and ignorant and stupid (I'm 16) makes me want to ignore that possibility and I just struggle ig. I can't imagine how you must be at 13 having already made the choice, just know that you don't have to keep giving yourself away, it's still a decision every time. I hope this helps. I'm probably not one to give advice on this or anything.
@anitordmyt even if you don't feel like you are one to give any, I do appreciate your advice. I've already decided to try to stay away from any sort of 'romantic' relationship until I've got a job, preferably a stable life, I don't wanna let somebody I care for hold me back from going to college and getting where I want to be. :|
I‘m going to be 18 this year, never held hands with someone, never had my first kiss, at this point it’s not about s3x anymore, I just really want someone to love, but I do fear that it‘ll never come.
It'll come someday as long your a good person, but also don't constantly think about it. I just told myself that if someone liked me, they can ask me. If they do, then they have courage, which is good. Also don't pressure yourself about it, just let it come slowly and keep doing the things you love in the meantime. Don't let constantly hoping for someone ruin your life like it almost did with mine.
Why is there people having s3x at the age of 14? That's horrible. When I was is 7th grade there was a rumor of two kids having s3x, now I maybe can believe it was true. This generation makes me feel sad. Edit: this might seem wierd but thank y’all for getting this comment so high up ❤
No that cannot be true, I'm 14 and nobody in my class has ever done such a thing. Or is it just me because I'm not that kind of guy? But I don't believe anyone this young can do such a thing, why do you lose hope I our gen, not everybody in the generation is the same. But I swear nobody in my class seems like the type of people who would do that, it could be because im surrounded by other too set classmates, but I don't believe anyone as innocent as my age could do such disgusting actions. Also if it was your generation then why do you look down upon mine, I don't believe anyone could do such disgusting things at my age. I've never even had the thought, the only time I've even had a thought about it has always been like this since I was very young, when i have kids as an adult. You ought to be lying and I don't find it ethical that people so young could do such a thing, I just wont believe it.
Here in America 7 girls in my school are pregnant. I’m only 14 I still have my V-card and don’t have a GF but it seems like everyone around me when they get a girl they lose their V the next night.
@@Krypt0nic_ yeah. There was a girl from a different school who likes me a lot and I almost got laid by her but an adult walked in right before. It’s a long story.
@@JakPiggottyour the best teacher you're better than any teacher I'm not gonna lie your literally my therapist you are better than any teacher, therapist you teach us things we don't learn in school. Thank you for always being with us❤
when i was a freshman (year 9) i heard these guys in my class (which was an ONLY freshman class so they weren’t super seniors or anything) and they were talking about how their girlfriend was late and she thinks she’s pregnant. the guy was all “i’m not ready to be a father” and he was laughing at the situation. moral of the story, GIRLS you deserve better than some guy in your high school class xx
1: Isn't it normal to say you're not ready to be a dad when you're not even an adult yet and in 9th grade?? 2: Don't you think the "laughing at the situation" could be a nervous laugh based on him probably having made his gf pregnant? Based off your description, he doesn't seem like a bad boyfriend at all, just a very, very worried one, and if I was in his situation I'll probably feel the same way.
As a woman, I'm glad that you're putting yourself out there as a rolemodel for men! Male figures are what our societies lack these days and men suffer for it everyday so I commend your work! Your values are rock solid, your discpline is powerful, and most importantly that positivity is just inspirational. You're a young man with a good head on your shoulders, keep your head up.
@@giftedcobaltbee1421i dont think she means to diminish womens role in the whole debarcle rather praise this man since hes filling in a positive role for younger men!!
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@@falcongamer58I'd like a romantic partner, but I wouldn't like to be doing anything like that. The thought of that makes me uncomfortable. I'd rather adopt a child.
Female virgin here, a man’s virginity is the most important thing to me. I want a man who values himself enough to save himself for me. Just as much as a man would want an untouched woman I want the same. When you hold yourself to the same standards you want in someone you will get that. Don’t ever be insecure about your virginity because you will get a much more authentic person for saving it in the long run. These people pressuring you to lose your card are the ones who end up in a toxic relationship with low value people.
@@pedroiankyes she is, as a virgin guy myself (20) i myself am ONLY gonna date and marry a virgin woman because non-virgin women have emotional baggage, they all do Am i the only one that feels the idea of my wife having had sex with someone in the past is betrayal? I cant be the only one If im ever seriously going to date a woman for marriage, its a virgin and damn right shes special, trust me girl we are out here, and we have a lot less sexualized and corrupted mind than others Thats y i left my friend group of guys, they all wanted to date girls to just have sex with them, and im the one there feeling out of place for wanting a deeper kind of love, so i left Good luck to u madam 😊
Can we just admire the amount of vulnerability that this guy expresses. He tell us his good, bad, and ugly, and is truly reshaping this generation. God Bless you bro!
Truly appreciate it. Everyone needs at least one person to stop and say “hey, it’s ok”. Cause maybe if I heard this I could’ve had a better experience yk
I’m a girl who is fifteen, and I really like what you said out here. Nowadays so many people viewed as role models for the young women like myself it’s getting groomed into onlyfans and for the young men they have men like Andrew tate and figures such as friends who pressure them into have sex at a young age. For myself, I intend to save it for the special someone. I want to be over 18 and I want to fully know what I intend to do when I commit to the act. I don’t intend to wait until marriage because it’s just not really how I was raised. But as a girl too, we’re often ridiculed without reason for having sex especially in teen years. Videos of a girl performing an intimate act with a teen boy was released to the school from when he took the video. No one knows who he is, no one knows what his face looks like, so for that I feel sorry for the other girls my age who do that stuff. And for the boys, I feel sorry for the pressure from their friends. My good pal was pressured into doing that by his friends and it’s his biggest regret ever. Society is a real fucked up place for teenagers these days. And getting torn apart by peer pressure is just enough to make one snap. And then get dropped by friends, humiliated, and lose all sense of self worth and respect.
I'm a christian (17yr old) in Sweden, one of the most secular countries in the world. Watching my classmates sit on their phones, scrolling Tiktok, downing Monsters, snuffing, talking about girls and all having the same hair- and clothing style I honestly feel sad for them. If you're trying to be like everyone else, nothing with you will stand out to a girl. Maybe most girls won't notice you, but you'll get a real girl one day, not an NPC😂 With that said, I love your content bro!🤝🤝
20 and I haven't lost it either. To anyone younger than me who's worried about it, don't stress. It's not a race, and you might see your friends doing all this around you, but don't push yourself to do something you're not ready for yet. Keep your personal values close, and be careful not to lose yourself. Edit- And I'm also yet to have a first kiss. I'm technically yet to date anyone properly. Yeah it's stressful and lonely at times, but trust me you'll be alright.
I’m not gonna lie, I kinda needed this. My friend said he lost his V-Card and he’s in the 9th grade, and it kinda made me feel left behind. I was almost in the exact same situation, not really able to talk to people and flirt or whatever. I’m glad you made this video, and I’m glad it got recommended to me. I feel a lot better about my situation, and I do realize now, being 15 is not ideal to lose your V-Card. Thanks for changing lives, man. ❤
Just wait until theres a person in your life that you really feel you can trust. Someone you feel compatable with on multiple levels. That you trust will actually stay by your side for a long time. It might sound corny. But its true. If you find a person like that, its ok to do it at 15-16. I did that, and the person I lost my card to is my husband now. It all depends on your situation.
As someone who's 17 and hasn't even kissed yet. It really scares me, the fact that y'all are kids and feel left behind for not doing the deed. You guys are KIDS, you shouldn't have to feel "left behind". That's so messed up.
As an adult who’s been out of high school for a year, I can tell you now that the younger you lose your virginity the worse it is for your mental state. There is no good reason to be having $ex before you can legally drive a car Praying that your friend winds up doing okay in life, seriously, that’s no age to be doing those kinds of things
I’ll be 18 next month and I haven’t even had my first kiss. I’ll edit this comment when I have my first kiss and again when I lose my V card Update: Turned 18 two days ago, all stats are still the same
ill be 18 soon as well and i have not had a girlfriend not held a girl’s hand even platonically…im worse off than you and im sure there’s some worse off than us
I’m 13, and yeah, what you’re saying here is definitely correct. Nowaday’s culture regarding this stuff is so fucked up. I honestly can’t believe that people are losing “it” at 13 and it’s considered normal. Thanks man, this shit helps.
I heard the " Don't waste your time chasing butterflies. Mend your garden, and the butterflies will come " about 2-3 years back and have been living by it since then. Listening to you Jak motivates me even more to just keep grinding till I make it, thanks brother
Makes sense. Only problem is, if everyone’s a gardener, where will all the butterflies be? Nobody can make a perfect garden, so, sometimes, I believe, a bit of chasing is needed.
I know right! But still many of us Indians are doing Porn. I started and got addicted to this bad habit at the age of 11. Yes, I regret it. I am still trying to quit it. Lockdown ruined me. Tho, it did teach me some things and gave me some awesome things to remember and good friends who actually support me! I am 15 now. If not for Lockdown, I wouldn't have fallen to this trap. I want to change. But every time I try to, I just end up relapsing sooner or later. I don't know what to do 😫. I feel like a loser. But I WON'T give up NO matter what!
I appreciate your willingness to act as a moral compass for adolescents who havent really gotten their priorities in line. So many deranged values being inculcated in children today and there is a need for those who address these issues. This is commendable work
as a female, your videos actually made me a better person than i was before. yeah, these are like some “boy-talks,” but i somehow understand and it really changed me. thanks, jak!
Nah because this one girl in my schools done it 7 times and for context we’re in 7th grade 💀 it’s actually crazy. I haven’t had a first kiss eaither 💪💪💪
I have no idea who you are, no idea why you popped up on my main page a few days ago. But I love that you have. You made me feel a little bit better the last few days with your shorts and some of your videos. Thank you man. I hope you're enjoying life, and I hope you can keep helping people, spreading clarity and logic.
It's... Really sad how much of a focus Western culture puts on s3x and s3xuality. We are all immensely complicated people with a huge amount of different parts to our personalities. Why should we focus on the ONE thing everyone on the planet has in common? Yeah, we're all capable of having s3x, but I would much rather people know that I'm a good singer, that I run cross-country, that I love reading, that I'm honest. Whether I still have my V-Card, the fact that I'm gay? Those are the very bottom of the list. Those are the things I want people to know about last, to complete their picture of me, because in the long run those things aren't very important to my friends.
Worrying about losing your v card is usually a symptom of a lack of purpose of lack of goals. Sometimes who was focused and driven doesn’t care one bit if they get laid or not, especially in high school, even middle school nowadays. I believe having purpose solves this problem, tremendously
and other non-western cultures who will literally execute you for not being straight? and the many more that will socially exclude you? its not just western cultures
@@JakPiggott yeah definitely. if ur actually happy with who u are and u have goals in life, being laid isnt ur main priority. but now kids are pressured into losing it by other kids and sometimes adults.
I was robbed of my innocence at 14 by a 'friend' in my group. I was horrifically assaulted and subsequently blackmailed and assaulted countless more times until I finally built up the courage and strength to stand up to him when I was 17. I wish I'd been able to fight him off the first time, but the young, innocent me froze and didn't know what to do. It completely screwed up my teenage years and now in my mid 30's, I'm still dealing with the consequences of that time. For me, intimacy is not the beautiful experience that it should be. I remember back in those days the v card wasn't really important, though everyone was aware of it.. but I felt like a stranger in that regard. My experiences in my teenage years has really destroyed that for me. Thank you for this video. I had never seen one of your videos before, however I wanted to say that I have been impressed by your mature approach to a subject that can so easily be trivialised.
Honestly i'm in the 8th grade and the thought of losing my v card at this age is wild to me. And then I hear about other schools from my siblings where there are kids from LOWER than 7th grade losing their virginity. Perhaps it's because i'm slightly repulsed by anything intimate with others at all, but I don't even see myself wanting to have s3x even when I become older than 18. Pushing this a bit aside, as a girl, your videos are plentiful in good advice, even if this range of content is pointed towards male audience. Kudos to you!
It's usually orgies that happen. I remember going outside the woods and seeing VERY used condoms lying on a concrete slab. And 4 boys. Half naked. LikebrothisonedudehadabeltofpubichairwthshaveitbruhitlookslikeabushcoveringarottentreestumpITHINKIMGONNASTOPREMEMBERINGTHISMEMORYNOW- There has been an incident with a teacher sexually assaulting students in 7th grade, too. 60 year old woman. That's all i'll say. Even there was an incident where a girl brought a vibrator to school and... showed how to use it. ... Yes, it's exactly as bad as it sounds.
Much respect for this video bro honestly. I can’t imagine how young teens in school listening to peers talk about these things. In today’s society, they probably think something is wrong with them. That’s so far from the truth. If you’re a virgin in your teens/early 20’s, BE PROUD. Don’t ever be pressured by society to lose your V-Card, don’t ever! I made that MISTAKE and I regret it to this day. If I could take it back i would. Gents, don’t ever feel pressured from your “peers” or “friends” to lose your V-Card, wear your V-Card as a badge of honour!
Amazing message Sean, I love it man. This video was actually inspired because I heard some year 8’s or 9’s talking about having sex when I walked past them at lunch break at school, I knew I had to make a video after that 😂
In my country as a woman, losing your virginity is seen as bad (actually in most countries) it feels like women are looked down upon once they do it, but men are pressured to do it. It doesn’t make sense
You're more mature than most guys I've met in my 35 years of existence. Keep it up bro, you're awesome. I wish I had someone like you to listen to as a teenager.
Jak, your sentence "I had no authority to worry about this shit" is one of the best sentences I've ever heard in my entire life. And I want to add that your content is funny, remarkably good, and I learned, and still do, so much from it. Keep going, you're doing great. :)
Remember Kids. No one should EVER make you feel bad for not having sex. It's your body, and you should never have to do something with your body that you don't want to or makes you uncomfortable. And NO ONE should ever pressure you into losing your v card either, friends, partners, etc. No one. Your Body. Your Choice. And anyone who disrespects that can hit the bricks. You don't need them in your life.
I'm not saying I disagree or anything, but I just want to say what I think. It is my body, and it is my choice, but my choice is to follow God's plan. So if my fleshly desires are different from God's choice, I will follow God.
Man you a real big brother that can be always trusted. You are giving us valuable lessons that no one has ever given to us. I appreciate your content from the other side of the planet
this dude man there's to much to say. Ever since he popped up on my fyp, his words, they just clicked in my head, they just stood out to me, i was addicted to p0rn, i was too scared to talk to girls, and I wasn't doing very well in school at the time, but i stared watching his content for a while and watching this dude as a fellow Australian, he completely changed my whole perspective on life, people and everything around me, he just talks about such relatable things that makes me feel good knowing that i can watch this dudes content to learn about things that I was to scared to ask people, but Jak helped me with my confidence, my ability to control my urges and be able to talk to girls without being uncomfortable, even my grades have gone up since I've been watching this dude but right now I'm in grade 9 getting better overtime and he's helped me so much with his content, so thank you Jak, you saved me.
Man you just made my night and I don't think you understand how valuable that is. Hearing it from a fellow Aussie makes it hit deeper as well. So happy to hear this bro, keep grinding ❤
Im from germany and i can clearly Tell you, people are so obsessed with Loosing it, Age of consend is 14 and Most Girls, just half pretty ones dont make it past 14 tbh. Im Almost 17 as a Boy and i had Worrys that its Bad Not to have lost it but i Kinda accepted it at this Point, If ill lose it its okay and it Not it is what it is. I Like ur Content very much, keep it up
Yeah bro don’t rush, I can almost guarantee you your dream girl doesn’t care if you’ve lost it or not, she probably values if you haven’t lost it. So stay true to yourself and stay authentic man, keep being the best you ❤️
I can't express how glad I am that you made this and how much I agree with you. I'll be 18 this September and I have seen many during my school years succumb to these bs and prioritise relationships and s3x in their lives but I can proudly say my parents raised me well. I hope you continue making these because unfortunately the youth these days need it whether or not they're religious. As a Muslim I say we need more people like you (from any background) to fix our youth or these next few generations would be the last
I believe wait till marriage then you can lose your V-Card but you try for kids once you’re financially stable and can afford it or when you’re mature enough to know the responsibility and care you have to have to have a kid
@@faressalhi2728 why would you need her father's permission if she's a grown adult woman who can make her own choices? at that point her father should hold barely any authority over her life since she's an actual human being and not an object or toy you can break and throw away
What type of people you hang around is so important. it influences you greatly, your thought process, and how you go about things. Bad association is horrible. I am a Christian and saving for marriage. All of the people in my class were in this one big group I wasn't a part of, and I felt like the odd one out since they were all bad association. However, I had one truly good friend in a grade below me.
Oh 100% brother. I remember back in year 9 when I was hanging around people who would just clown me for making videos, making progress in my life was so hard. Until I started distancing myself from them then I started to see a lot more progress, it’s crazy how it works tbh
i honestly needed this. people in my age group talk about losing their v card and intimate relationships with others. i honestly haven’t cared for or thought about it because i want good grades and to have a stable life once i go into college. this video definitely showed how much you should value your education, i have never seen your channel but you seem like an amazing person. thank you for this and i sent this to some friends to show them what they should really value in this age group. thank you so much Jack! much love and respect for you for speaking about this topic :)
This is a video I'm really glad to see. People in my life have been pressuring me to watch more mature stuff, or get with a girl, and I'm only 15. I'm so glad you are here for me and guys like me. Cheers to that.
This is the advice I really needed to hear. It’s great to get wisdom from a fellow year 12, someone who actually understands the pressures of modern teenagerhood and can put it so eloquently. Thank you man, I really appreciate your sincerity, your acceptance and your consideration to share guidance like this with us.
as a male who has lost it at 17, i don’t regret it. it was a very intimate and passionate action performed with my gf. i had a couple opportunities from age 15-17, but wasn’t particularly interested not because i was “saving myself”, but just because i had more important things to worry about. now, all egotistical shit aside, i am someone who gets a lot of attention from women, as i have been cultivating my best self for years, and have gained lots of experience with women. i wanted to provide another view to this video in saying: don’t be afraid to lose it because you fear the judgement of others. i would recommend at least 16, and if you feel passionate about someone else, don’t be fear being shunned. in the end it is an enjoyable, mutually beneficial action, that is okay in moderation. stick with your goals, stay on track for a healthy, disciplined, life, and enjoy passionate fun with someone you care about. that is all, feel free to ask me any questions.
I lost mine recently to someone that I can only call the love of my life (we are probably just ignorant 17 year olds.). It was oddly wholesome, and it honestly gave us something to fight for, we lost it together. It gives us something to lose that can't be replaced
I’m 23 and don’t feel as if theres any hope I’ve haven’t even been a date with a girl in 2 1/2 years the dating scene is terrible idk how I’m ever gonna lose it, it’s just gonna keep getting harder and harder the older I get 😭😭
@@eddieagui1554 how can I not it’s just gonna keep getting more and more embarrassing the older I get and some girl isn’t gonna wanna date a virgin guy in his early to mid 20’s idk what to do
@@IanFurminger If she doesn't want to date you because of that she isn't a good person. You will find someone. The average age of a man finding his "soulmate" is 28, you're fine.
14 yo in 8th here! this is pretty sad but so so so many people, upon reaching secondary school (secondary school is 8-12 where i am from), mature so fast. they completely change between 7th and 8th, and now everyone's dating. i know of a ton of people who have lost their virginity and i know we are not responsible enough for this shit. like there have been pregnancy scares - dawg you are 13 like what?? it's quite crazy. i've also heard of this girl, 12 years old and posts pictures of herself vaping with a transparent bikini. she had an abortion over the summer and gets 100 cad per week as spending money. even as just a 14 yo trend follower, i feel like gen z/gen a are growing up way too fast. thanks for reading this whole essay (. ❛ ᴗ ❛.)
Although you seem to be referring to guys here, as a girl, this was still very helpful. I hear bout people losing their v card already (2nd yr of high school) and while i AM in a happy relationship, sometimes i feel pressure to not ‘miss out’ on the kind of ‘yolo’ mentality. And this is even if my boyfriend is the sweetest, most patient person I know, and doesn’t rush me into anything. I can’t imagine the pressure on girls who are in problematic relationships. Thank you for this video. God bless! ❤
Older gal here. I was 24 (and married). So I can tell you, it's possible to make it through. And, honestly... I wouldn't have changed it for the world. My late husband was my one and only and I was his as well. There's more to life than getting it on. Take the time to figure yourself out because eventually life takes crazy turns and that intimacy might not be present. You know what keeps you going though? your respect and love in the areas that aren't that. If you don't have a deep pool of personality outside of bedroom fun... well... I wish you all the luck because you're going to need it.
I'm 17, fresh out of high school. The day after the final prom I went to a birthday party of my female friend, and it was so fucking wild to me to see stuff like a bottle of lube or a box with a bunch of toys(tho no one knows how much were gifted as a joke by her friends) just standing openly on a shelf in her room, or to find out she carries a pack of condoms in her purse apparently all the time. We played truth or dare for basically the whole party, and her and my other female friend got questions about one night stands and other stuff of similar nature, and all the answers indicated that they had those experiences, while I just had to laugh most of the questions off because I never even kissed a girl. Idk what conclusion to draw here, just needed to share this somewhere
i also never thought about losing v-card or shit like that,i have a goal in my life and i am focused to get there and i know i will find my girl which i truly love,not just becuase she looks really good but how her inner self is,thanks for the vid jack your video really help me keep making these ❤
Everytime I one of these videos, I always click on it and listen through the whole video, I usually skip other people's videos but I totally stay with Jak.
I lost V card at 15, I wish I had kept it for the right guy. I didn’t even count that as my first time, my first time was with my current bf, not that one night. I feel bad I didn’t care that much, I regret. I’m 18 now and chose that the first time doesn’t matter, what matter is how it changes you and how it makes you grow, i felt changed, some people don’t, everyone is different, but virginity is yours. Don’t give it to other people just because you feel like you have to. Also, a girl will always prefer a guy who hasn’t had sex yet, than a guy who’s add plenty.
I do get your comment, but not the last part, as you get older is that really true? Most women at my age (19) has had sex. Why would they want a guy thats a virgin? Having to explain to them and guide them threw it like they are 15 again. Thats a hassle. Most women Ive met only go for guys (maybe thats a coincidence) that have already had sex, because then you can just jump right in to it you know? Im still a virgin, and are having no hopes of losing it any time soon, maybe ill buy myself out one day, it remains to see. I doubt I will find a woman, let alone someone who is okay with virgins
That hit me like crazy bro, thank you so much man. I'm in year 10, I don't really have a lot of confidence in myself usually. This video just made me realize so many things I was blind of, so many things that were poisoning me, killing me slowly. I really appreciate people like you who are always looking to help others improve. It's a rare occurrence alone to think of the words to say so that you could inspire someone. You? You didn't need to think, you just used your past, and your changes to lead people the right way. God speed, brother.
This man changes lives and like he's the best content creator i watch atm. and about the virginity thing im not okay with young teens who lose it, im still 15 and waiting till i get married to actually lose my v-card
I'm in the moments of my life when I don't care about anything. School, what clothes I'm going to wear, pepole's opinions on me, or losing my virginity, going to parties, nothing. I just care about family, friends, and mental health. And man, losing your virginity at 14 is crazy.
im a teenager, and this is the stuff that no one knows about/ there isnt enough of this sort of content. you are so open with your audience, its amazing. thanks man
Imagine your future wife losing her v-card to another man. Would you like that? That is the same the other way around. EDIT: people in the comments keep calling me immature for saying "I don't want a non-virgin girl". But I never said that, so read better please.
@@Brasidas.the.Spartan I mean at that point neither partner would know if they were the love of each other's life. I would not be against that as if my future wife thought that man was the love of her life but wasn't then that would be ok. If we knew that we were the love of each other's life and were in a relationship together that would most likely be cheating which is not what he meant.
@@samzy5844 yes, but I'm trying to say something different. I'm trying to say that losing it to someone I know will never be the love of my life is wrong.
im a girl but this helped me a lot, im 17 and people in my year group act like it's not a big deal or something that everyone does which can make me feel really behind and i really relate to what you said, so thank you for making this video ❤
I found the first honest guy on RU-vid who's giving actual valuable advice rather than just following the trend of toxic masculinity and promoting casual relationships. There are people out there who would respect your decision because long-term relationships are based on trust, loyalty and mutual respect, not instant gratification (casual ones). Shoutout to you- cause you're the one conveying real-life lessons which our parents and grandparents would generally give us. Cheers mate Sam
14 yo in yr 9 (british lol) here! this video is very inspiring. since my faith prohibits sexual activity before marriage, ive never rlly cared bout losing my v card, but seeing how other ppl my age act, i was pretty disgusted icl. glad there r still some amazing human beings out there!
Good for you, but don't be disgusted just because they don't follow your beliefs. Feel that way because you know it's too young or not worth it, not because faith told you to feel that.
I love that this is being talked about! especially in this generation where hook up culture is so normalized and considered an everyday practice for kids as young as 13!!!! it's absolutely insane, and it's so sad that most people are just in this deep daze and won't understand until later the enormously negative impact these types of things have of them not just physically and spiritually, but emotionally and mentally... kudos to you man for bringing it into the light and speaking on it🥳
EXACTLYYYY don’t loose it. wait for the person God has for u.. u gonna end up loosing it to someone who u won’t last with and you’ll have a soul tie with them and a bunch of other hurt and attachment is gonna come with that… i see it so much in this generation that’s so lustful smhh… be patient stop lusting. if u can’t wait for love you’re not ready for it. don’t let anytime make u feel bad for keeping it because u RESPECT urself enough to not just give it up to anyone 👍🏽
Indian High School Grad here and I can't even stress how much V-card is in my country and i think it's a good thing personally and spiritually. Don't let PPL tell who you are. Virginity is not something to take pride or shame in, if the right time and right person comes around then it's your boths choice so don't worry and keep grinding fellas.
Thank you sir, I know a couple of people who have already lost their v-card as freshman in highschool. We’re too young for it. They made that choice, and even if I don’t agree with it, I still respect them. Your advice is helpful to me. Just hearing your voice is an inspiration to keep going and keep at it.
I cant even lie you Helped me more than anybody That as every talked to me . I tried all this motivation bull crap And that never helped me but this channel . Helped me so much.
You're lucky because my friend has a girlfriend who he talks about to me. He not only tells me really intimate details about them but rubs it in my face that I don't even have a gf. I've told him that I'm not trying to force things with the girls that I talk to and that I'm waiting for marriage. He has gotten to the point where he literally says that he is better than me because he has a girlfriend. I'm almost at the point I'm going to confront him about it if he tells me anything else. Thanks for making this video it definitely makes me feel better about my choices and helps me stand strong against the pressures of the world. God bless and keep up the good work!
You made me cry, yet happy and shed tears without giving a flying fuck about what others think, I just became the being I am. I became the thing we call 'Human'... I became the organism that just felt what was special in him, Emotion. And this is nothing about the vid that you posted today or anything. This is just a thank you. ❤
My school is filled with people who have lost their v-cards. My best friend of 8 years recently lost hers at 13. We’re both currently 14 and I’ve been thinking about it a lot more recently. Thank you for this.
My dads always said it, *You are your friends.* Which is so true. He constantly reminds me of this, to make sure I know who I'm hanging out with. People don't realise how easily influenced they are just by who they hang around. You are even able to see it in movies when a sweet, shy quiet kid starts hanging out with kids that are doing the wrong things (drugs, stealing, ect.) You become these people with the constant pressure of wanting to fit in. Thanks for your words Jak! 🙏 💗
that's so true!! i've had this realization this year about how our environment, which is literary everything around us (friends, family, places we go to, what we watch, what we listen to, etc), impacts significantly our lives!! it's crazy! we do need to pay attention to all of those things to make sure we're following the right path!!!
My father was someone who would say the same. Honestly, thanks to him, I have grown as a person. I’ve been afraid of having sex or having a girlfriend who desired that and at one point a crush of mine left. When I tell you that was the most terrifying experience, I’m not joking. Everyone at my school at the time badmouthed her and some even decided to make her the but of jokes. Even the introduction I had with her started with a boy telling me she was a psycho who no one played or talked with. And honestly, she was one of the best female friends I’ve ever had in my life. There was even one point where she told me that if I never had been friends with her, she would kill her self.And so when all of this came down and all of the mocking began, I cried. I didn’t believe in myself cause of how I just accepted all the mocking and insulting comments towards her. And during the next year, I nearly took my life. And yet when I finally found strength to talk with someone about this, my parents were immediately overwhelmed with worry. And that’s when my dad told me these words, “ You are the only friend you can truly have.” And that allowed me to actually think about it all. Right now I’m doing great and just got an announcement for my principal’s list award. I’m doing better than I ever have before and I hope that I can find someone that was similar to my female friend. I know it’s a mouthful but my eight grade year hasn’t been all that great. I draw anime, and so people constantly trash on me for drawing loli’s and it’s just terrible. One point a girl wanted me to draw an overly sexualized character for reasons I bet you would understand. Every day it feels like I’m targeted and jerking off never helped either. But I always try to remember my old man’s words, and they’ve helped more times than once. For the boys who just went through or are trying to kill themselves, it ain’t worth it. The amount of people that will miss you and love you is more than you’ll ever know. I know that God loves more than all the people on earth combined just for you, and losing the potential he gave you is to much of a loss to the world. So stay strong boys, we got a full life ahead of us.
Happy to hear from people who recognise the bad side in their culture.....Every culture has its own pros and cons....Praise and follow only the good side and then you're good....thats what I believe . You really did reassure my beliefs .......🙌
This was one of the more helpful and eye opening videos I’ve ever watched, you’re making a real difference in peoples lives. It’s refreshing to see this outlook from someone my own age. Thank you, brother. Got my sub, hope you go far in life man.
