it impacted mine too. im turning 15 in a month and im thinking what am i gonna do after high school? ik i just started but all i can think abt is what is gonna be like when it ends. this vid was extremely helpful. i can just live the life a high schooler should live and maybe in 3 years ill worry abt college cuz thats the right time to. but im taking some ap classes and in may i can take the tests and then send my scores to colleges to get credit but im just gonna have a good freshman year and enjoy the last 4 years of my childhood. middle school went by very quickly and high school might too.
Am 12. This was a very impactful story that probably changed my life. I’ve been told by basically everyone around me to grow up to the point where I would try to make my voice deeper and unknowingly, I stopped caring about people and things in my life. For example, my friend got a cat and when he told me he had gotten a cat I just responded with “cool.” No congratulations, no happiness just “cool.” Thank god he wasn’t affected much by it and we’re still very close friends. Thank you for letting me know that whatever goal I’m trying to reach won’t make me happy.
Now I’m not 18 or 15 or older. But what I do know is that it doesn’t matter what age you’re in. You’re slowly gonna fall out of things that your younger self would’ve wanted to do. So I really felt when you said “You better do things in the moment before it falls out of reality”
I'm 20 years old bro and I can relate to a lot in this video. To be honest, people older and younger than 18 need to hear this. Keep it up bro. Keep encouraging people, because God knows, you surely encouraged me. 👍
THIS IS AN ALTERNET VERSION OF MY LIFE! I'm finally on my 18th year, and I seriously wish that i had listened to this advice at 16. I literally almost broke down when he said that we'd trade money and success when we reach 80😭. The days are seriously going fast! -its scary! Still, gotta say "BREATH. SLOW DOWN. STAY IN THE MOMENT", you'll literally not worry as much lol. thx for this vid Dillan✌
Ty for this video...I'm addicted to my phone and this video has made me realize i need to pay attention to the real world around me and not the fake world on my phone. Once again ty for this
I’m 15. And this actually makes me happy for what I currently have. Thank you for making this video, I hope you change others’ lives for the better, and we need more positive people like you.
Yeah, when middle school hits, all the other kids from the other elementary schools become friends with your friends, and it sucks not being able to socialize properly, I am very socially awkward and mumble a lot. Then, your friends start making more friends, while you just sit at the table listening in on conversations you have no idea what they’re about. And when you get up to leave, is when they finally acknowledge you’re existent. And, if you’re like me, before you know it, you get so used to the loneliness, you can’t wait to get home from a friends house and be by yourself. Because either your old friends invite you, but talk to the other friends, or they do talk to you, but talk in a dirty minded way that you don’t like. I can’t imagine what it’s like to be bullied, I hope you get through it. I’m only in my first semester of 8th, so I’m not always that wise
I have this guy who bullys in the class like every day or even a year and he dosent give up like he wants to make fun of me first one he was friendly and one time at school gym were doing dribbles and I failed ,and this guy only respects the real soccer guy that’s how he beefs with everyone and teachers he needs to go to detention that’s all I’m saying
I am 10(underage but I needed to hear this soooo bad)In depression sadly,Thank you so much god bless you those words are words I will hold onto my whole life please enjoy your life whoever is reading this,If you are also in depression remember you aren’t alone❤
I'm 12 Your video really made me cry I dont know why but after watching this video I have got responsibility to achieve my goals and stop being lazy Thanks for the advice
Oh my god! That hit hard! I am 14 and I gotta admit, I always look to the future and never the present and my whole family is also telling me to live my life the way it is now and think about the future when the time comes.
Living in the moment…. I’m going through a thought time right now with my parents fighting nonstop which might be leading to a divorce. And I would give anything to go back in time and live in the time when my only care in the world was playing Fortnite and Minecraft with my friends. And i remember always wishing to be older so I could have more fun, now here I am 13 and it’s so flipping hard. Ty Dillon for helping me think about this
Im 12, and after my parents divorce, I became depressed. But when I say depressed i literally mean depressed, i searched ways to suicide whitout pain but then one day I thinked: "what the fuck im doing? I promise my dad i would becomed a doctor and this what i do?" And yeah right now my life is trash; my whole family is depressed and I hear my mom cry everyday but still i always try to give my best even if I can't do that in this situation
i guess we are preety similar the differences are that my mom DIED and i promised my dad to be an engineer and you know, i also used to search all these stuff u know exactly what you do i just wanted to die but now I realised that, you know how rare it is to be a human? The chances are so low to be the most advanced living being in the world so i thought that i would not do these and live my life. Well the reasons i wanted to die were because of my moms death and getting harassed justbecause i,m a "guy" so i cant cry n all you get the rest i even attempted to hang myself.
Honestly, I wish I knew this sooner. I never worry about myself, or what's happening to me at that current moment. I only ever care for others or what's gonna happen in the future and shit. I'm 13, I've had negative thoughts about myself for years now. I needed this reminder.
"Now, im not 18 or older, but I'm not in middle school yet either. This brought me joy of how much fun I have at school and how many friends I actually have. One piece of advice I have is somewhat like the lesson in Mean Girls. Suck all of the poison out because if u allow poison in your life, it's going to drain joy out of you. I have anxiety, but not depression. I have joy at school because I can work hard, but I still enjoy it. That's just my life. I hope you can learn to one day not have depression.. I know everyone here has depression because we live in a judgemental society." -Me, a joyful 5th grader
i am 11 years old and i am probably living in the golden days rn like i can literally see my older self saying "enjoy it buddy enjoy it while you can" god bless
Thank you for the advice. As a 14 year old in school it is stressful but this video has helped me to accept the bad times in life. Thank you again for the helpful advice.❤
I'm almost 13, my birthday is coming up in about 5 months, all I want to say is, that I really found this video to actually be helpful with all the anxiety in my life, and me just mostly going through some trauma, but I feel like the best thing in life is just to cherish your moments, that's it. (I MEAN IT) AND, love and respect your parents.
now im really 15 or older but this truely opened my eyes and cry a little bit. im thinking about how much i needed to hear something like this and all i can say is thank you. thank you for this message because now its really had an impact on me and im sure it will to others no matter the age. take care💕
I’m 12 but man this hits hard. My parents are going through a divorce and you gave me some great advice. Thank you for teaching me to enjoy the moment! Edit: yo 69 likes nice
About 2 years ago I was dealing with major bullying and was staying inside all day playing Fortnite and fawning over popular girls, one day I was scrolling on TikTok and saw Dillon. He changed my perspective on life I took life by the reigns and fixed myself using everything Dillon’s taught I with always be thankful and a patron of Dillon and his brand
This might just be why I never finish things. I always think that I’ll just do it in the future. Even though I always like being busy and doing something that I really like to do, I always just leave the more important stuff for the future. That kept going on and on until for very few things, at this point I would just give up like I have a very very very strict deadline. (Emphasis on the “dead”) Now I’ve realized to just do what I want to do now, and then my accomplishments can come to me faster in time. Also by 12, I’ve noticed and realized that those times where you live in the moment? THOSE ARE REAL MEMORIES. THOSE ARE GOING TO STICK WITH YOU. Whether it’s good or bad. THOSE ARE TRUE MEMORIES THAT CAN FULFILL YOUR LIFE. Thanks for sharing this with us. I need to replace my counsellor with you. Also I’m currently 13 btw
It's sad that these kind of things happen. I have had a different crush like every year in elementary and now I don't understand why I ever liked them, I am now in middle school and I don't have a crush on anybody because I know it wastes time. Most likely, if you ever marry someone, they are probably not gonna be some crush you had as a kid.
I was sick for like a week and my friend is going through some tough things and I was really stressed and worried if she was gonna be okay without me and I thought this video would be a teaser but no it was a supportive thing telling my mind that everything will be okay…just live right now you’ll get better and when you do your friends will be waiting there for you and you can sort this out piece by piece thank you man God bless you your the best❤
6:44 made me like think what im doing with my life and what i want to do and if i don’t practice it at all then i wont be the person I want to become..
I’m glad I saw this. I’m still young. I don’t know anything. It’s like this video was made for me. I always stress about my tests and homework. It just piles up and I overthink a lot about my future. I use to play with dolls with my sister. She suddenly stopped because she started going to a mini school. I always played by myself, and I loved it that way so I can make things go my way. But I also missed my sister. I guess that’s how you can grow out of things. You do it with someone and they leave but it’s not fun anymore.
this is exactly how I view life going to school it made it so much easier it’s like i’m not even there I still get work done but it’s just the process of my life
Thank you so much! I know im not even a teen but this is still so helpful. At this age this specific year I’ve just been thinking about everything and worried about things and well the future. I almost even lost friends trying to do something I thought would make my future better. But that doesn’t matter what matters is now and you reminded me reminded me to know even when I’m stressed or worried or just thinking to deep just to think I’ll never get these moments back so live them to the fullest Ty so much😊
I'm about to be a senior in Highschool and I hate that everyday since I was a freshmen I always thought about turning 18 so that I'm able to go to the gym and have more freedom because my parents are super strict. When I'm in class I think about doing self improvement and that distracts me from paying attention in school. I also want to graduate because somehow I'm getting more homework than college students even on holidays. Even with all the homework I receive and all the hours I spend, the homework is worth so little points. I kid you not I always had so much homework that I ended up sleeping at 3am cause of it and I didn't even have anytime for myself even on the weekends. The past 2 summers I haven't even seen my friends because my parents say that "the house isn't clean." I just want some more freedom and I can't wait to turn 18 🥲 Been dealing with this for 3+ years straight it sucks man
I am 14 and I really needed this thank you. I never really watch these but I’m glad I did. I am going to start classes for my permit soon and this made me realize so much💖
I’m ten, you know. all my childish… things I would have loved to do when I was younger are now just not inside me anymore. no unicorns and stuff… I’m now a therian and straight and emo, not really anything a 10 year old should be, I know. but.. it’s my life, I’ve been depressed and stressed, believe me. but that doesn’t mean I should stop trying. just because I’m a young age, doesn’t mean I can’t make choices I want to make. and I hope you understand that.
I feel like my family could relate to this a lot. Everyone in my family is most times set on “Oh I’m going to do this in the future and nothing will change that.” I feel like I’m the only one who can live in the moment in my family because they’re all in their own world. I’m not saying my family is bad, what I’m saying is that they can get stuck in thoughts of what they want to do in the future. It happens to everyone, but I definitely agree with what you have said here. All we got to do is live in the moment, don’t worry about what happens tomorrow because tomorrow does NOT come today, live where you are and NOT where you want to be some day
I’m ten to, you know. all my childish… things I would have loved to do when I was younger are now just not inside me anymore. no unicorns and stuff… I’m now a therian and straight and emo, not really anything a 10 year old should be, I know. but.. it’s my life, I’ve been depressed and stressed, believe me. but that doesn’t mean I should stop trying. just because I’m a young age, doesn’t mean I can’t make choices I want to make. and I hope you understand that.
Normally I wouldn’t watch these videos cuz I think I don’t need it but this, this.. THIS IS ART this guy is the best person to talk to if you have problems
@@paulmoreno6279dude Florida’s is so fun I was there on a trip in 2022 it was was one the only thing I didn’t really like was the humidity and it was December so humidity in the summer is probably really bad but universal studios an Disney world and other places I went to was just awsome I really like Florida but I live across the state in Washington but Washington is still not that bad
I don't get why some people are hating. I'm only 13 turning 14 in a month, so I can't confirm this fully, but I'm pretty sure what he's saying is correct. I even showed my mom this video, and she said it's true. Most of you who are hating are 9-10, so you probably don't understand. Now, I'm not saying being 13 is a reason not to understand and hate, since that's still little and have lots of time to still start understanding life but age can play a role in how we perceive things
I’m in 6th grade right now and some just middle school advice is , don’t pretend to be someone else to get more friends or be popular because if they don’t know who you really are what’s the point of all that. Anyways good luck!
I'm 13 literally a teenager I needed advice like that I'm in school I'm stressed and now because of what you said is literally like going to help me in the future so thank you for making this video so much this helped me so much
It's kinda true everything you said Yes I am in middle school But the thing is it helps other people realize You can just change and change and change things you gonna do I mean you can do it's your life but mostly Focus on 1 goal and continue I'm surprised I found it today But it's kind of true what you said focus on the things you want to do And don't change your mind fast enough Because soon things go wrong but the wrong thing can become the right thing. And I hope you guys have a good day today 😁🙂
Sir keeping this line of videos up is a great idea you could help so many. Proud of you for sharing this!🎉🎉 I'm much older and know that most never come to this understanding until it's to late.😊
Ty im on my dadas account and my mom caught my dad cheating I’m literally depressed of what’s happening.Ty for the incredible story and lesson that you gave me.
Jesus saves from hell. Jesus Christ died for our sins, was buried and rose again the third day (1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJV). Jesus Christ shed His blood for our sins (Ephesians 1:7 KJV). Water baptism DOESN'T save us (1 Corinthians 1:17 KJV). We are saved by grace through faith, not our works (Ephesians 2:8-9 KJV).
0:46 my brother in Christ you might want to think about editing in fucking kids when youre talking about an attractive cute girl💀💀💀💀that is fucking WILD
I'm 12 and I'm addicted to RU-vid I've tried many times to beat this addiction and I just can't but this video gives me hope that I can get through this and live my best life with my family this has been really hard for me I know its effecting me badly and I know I should just turn it off but I just can't I'm going to use this advice to hopefully help me so I won't be staying up late at night watching these vids and crying because I feel like I'm missing out on life. If this helps I will update tysm for making this vid
