If you see these signs, stop pursuing her immediately

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00:00 - Intro
00:57 - Reasons she won't date you
01:46 - Reason 2
02:04 - Reason 3
02:22 - Reason 4
02:46 - Reason 5
03:15 - Signs you must stop chasing
03:36 - Sign 1
04:06 - Sign 2
04:27 - Sign 3
04:55 - Sign 4
05:15 - Sign 5
05:41 - Sign 6
06:26 - Sign 7
06:53 - Sign 8
07:32 - Sign 9
07:56 - Sign 10
08:19 - Sign 11
08:54 - Sign 12
09:21 - Sign 13
09:41 - Sign 14
10:03 - Sign15
10:17 - Sign 16

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@JessicaOS Год назад

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@Kuldaprince Год назад

You did well Jessica your point where absolutely useful.

@idictak9591 Год назад

Yes please.

@ericephemetherson3964 Год назад

Jessica! I never in my life pursued a girl or a woman. All I did was ask her just once and never forever more.

@collinsaddo2000 Год назад

Thanks Ms ❤

@mrluvit8232 Год назад

great job jessica ⭕️ big salute ghana! 🇬🇭 keep going! 💯 😁👍

@royalusala8527 Год назад

Someone was once asked.. 'Who is your type'? He answered, 'My type is anyone who likes me back n returns my same level of energy'... This life changing response transformed my perspective of relationships forever!!!

@paulcolin9071 Год назад

It's very wise seems obvious but people rarely cop it

@cjjohnson3827 Год назад

I felt that in my soul 👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿💯💯💯

@thisworldfakeashell4098 Год назад

Accurate!!😉💯

@boywonder8114 Год назад

DAMN …… I FELT THAT!!!

@bronxbully6261 Год назад

Yeah guys rather chase 10s all day

@DTKRDMNK 6 месяцев назад

A long time ago, my Mom told me something very important. "Stop thinking about someone who doesn't think of you."

@omellemmor4732 Месяц назад

Same as "it's does not make sense to pursue someone who doesn't want to be pursued" Don't chase someone who does not want to be chased

@paulsanjurjo4390 Год назад

Choose someone who chooses you. I have just stopped pursuing a woman who was acting interested in me but she was "bread crumbing" me. Thankfully I realized it and saw the signs of it and stopped the pursuit. I'll never see her again in this light again. When it's over, it's over. I feel free and liberated again. Your advice is good because it frees you up to be available to someone else who is going to choose you.

@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13 Год назад

Very well said.

@Laurus44 5 месяцев назад

As someone who's passionate about checking if my other significant is cheating, I'd honestly love to do this. It looks like a lot of fun. Also, the one cyber spy shouting encouragement when *Johnsonspy* was doing drills on the system was fantastic. I'd love to have that dude just follow me around and deafen me with motivation.

@hernadezrita4226 5 месяцев назад

I appreciate your guidance and encouragement in helping me track my spouse phone . I would not have been able to do it without you *Johnsonspy* . I am impressed by the superb work you do, and this time is no exception. It was not easy, but I knew I could count on you. I hope that you continue to embrace your creativity and utilize it in your work for as long as possible.

@jordanyoung1836 Год назад

I can agree...tyler perry once said that " you spent all this time trying to hook up with some fool and the person that wants you can't get to you because you're too busy holding on to the fool who don't want to be there"

@silvermine2033 Год назад

Very true!

@nobs997 Год назад

I didn't know that Tyler Perry is an expert on dating and relationship BTW, when are we going to meet Mrs Perry if you know what I mean ?

@jordanyoung1836 Год назад

@@nobs997 i would love to meet him someday

@jordanyoung1836 Год назад

@@silvermine2033 thank you

@nobs997 Год назад

@@jordanyoung1836 Good luck with that 😂

@AlfredWilliams-yl6zy Год назад

"Give your love to a woman who actually wants it"--Jessica. 100 agree.

@antonyndegwa6265 Год назад

IN SHORT, QUIT IF: 1. You're not her TYPE. 2. She's too hard to PLEASE. 3. Her affection for you is not DEEP. 4. She's too NICE to tell you NO. 5. She suddenly plays too many GAMES. SIGNS: 1. She's passive-aggressive. 2. Attends only expensive dates. 3. Ignores your phone calls or texts. 4. Consistently gives breadcrumbing attention. 5. She never initiates dates unless you do. 6. Eager to refer you to her friends. 7. She only suggests public meetings. 8. Dislikes physical touch. 9. Busy schedules.

@tyriley7488 Год назад

Common sense basically people do lack that in 2023 unfortunately

@NANA-.1 Год назад

Can u help with the man also……

@macgoldie7771 Год назад

@@NANA-.1 NO

@chrisbreezy192 Год назад

🎯‼️

@MalcolmWong Год назад

Consider dodge bullet

@youngOG87 Год назад

This is why I suck at dating because if I get even a hint of one of these I’m out. I hate when women play games I got no time for it and even less time as I get older.

@dieudonnemcful 5 месяцев назад

I feel you. I let 3 go last year bc they were not ready to go. I deleted them. They were all off / on so I turned it all off.

@kday9438 Год назад

I’m not going to even lie … this women is telling the WHOLE TRUTH!

@MeToo-py1tq 5 месяцев назад

Nothing but the ....

@ItzBeautifulll 2 месяца назад

@@MeToo-py1tq so what happened to "best relationships always pick up where they last left off"? With my girlfriend and I, I sometimes don't even get back to her for couple of days, and we are still together. I got lots of stuff on my plate. It is difficult for me to get back to her sooner. Shouldn't she be more understanding of my situation?

@Truckguy1970 Год назад

Her not returning your texts or calls is a sign all by itself. If this is happening, this alone means you need to stop pursuing her, you don't need any other signs. Everyone today lives on their phones and if she or he is feeling you, they're going to be checking their inbox regularly to see if they might have missed a message from someone they're expecting or hoping to hear from. Even if their phone is having problems and it's genuinely not getting your message (Highly unlikely) they're going to wonder why you're not reaching out to them and then hit you up to see why.

@ErikisOfficial Год назад

The sad part is that a lot of what she mentions is exactly how a narcissist operates.

@tomjones5338 8 месяцев назад

You have to have outburst reactions to be considered that

@jameshunt3504 6 месяцев назад

@tomjones5338 it's called narcissistic Rage 😆

@Tabankaman Год назад

i ended the friendship immediately because of most of these signs. know your value to people who would wait on you and vice versa. essentially don't be a a back up plan if youre not her first option

@nana1official Год назад

Stop 🛑 chasing women and chase tha bag instead fellas !! 💰💰💯

@rjlopez3738 Год назад

Nothing wrong chase girls.

@Aymar_the_great Год назад

Do both... learn to understand woman psychology while you chasing the dough. Nothin is stronger than a man who knows how to seduce women and who get money

@MatrixRC Год назад

Chase Jesus Christ

@mlbjmaur Год назад

Chase yo dreams

@eli__vibez Год назад

Make women chase you

@donmckinney4091 Год назад

She's spot on with this video. I had two women recently who were interested in me. I'll call them A and B . Well Woman A would call me and we talked just about everyday. woman B would call sometime but wanted me to pursue her(which was ok) Now Woman B told me that if we hooked up she was expecting a RING in six months and we'd be engaged. Woman A said she was fine being single but would like to get married. OK my B-day came up and Woman A went out of her way to make me happy. Woman B-decided after I told her I wasn't going to propose in six months to not even acknowledge my B-day which was fine. So I ended up with Woman A. and couldn't be happier!!

@aaronandrew360 Год назад

She's interested in the concept marriage and not in you as a person. Wise decision 👍

@marcoi7035 9 месяцев назад

@@aaronandrew360👍

@WilleneBusinessLifestyle Год назад

Sometimes, loving yourself first enables you to love others. It’s as simple as that. Love yourself enough to start your own business, build your habits and make your life a happy one, then you can love another. 💙💥

@martinkimani7550 Год назад

True

@ohgeejp3 Год назад

That goes without a question. You always have to Love you 1st

@auroraleielsalama261 Год назад

💯, correct.

@TheWonderwiess Год назад

That still doesn't avoid the pitfalls of relationships. Ok lets say you build all that then your striking out to go find someone. You can still be dragged on, be played etc etc. Loving yourself only go so far, and there is pitfalls to Loving yourself too much. One such pitfall is you develop a low tolerance ceiling and in relationships its crucial. And yes you can love yourself and STILL don't know how to love someone.

@prestige_killa Год назад

@@TheWonderwiess totally i gree with this ..

@orarichman9948 Год назад

When she says " Check her schedule", there are other men lined up on her schedule in a dance line like on Soul Train. Your video is on point!!! She has appointments with other men on her calendar schedule and she doesn't want you bumping into the other men that she is screwing. 😆 Wake up men!!!

@djdarkphador Год назад

Thank you

@aarlam Год назад

So based off your list, there's just No Hope 🤷🏽‍♂️😆🤣😂

@s.beccari4678 Год назад

If she hasn't asked "what are we/where is this going" than you have not gotten her full attention...

@lordbeerus5722 Год назад

It's hard for good man to find love and someone who actually actually like them back

@TheWonderwiess Год назад

Same for good woman.. its hard to navigate all the dudes that just want be friends with sex benefits.. Hungry dudes put themselves out there more than the good ones because hey, they're hungry. So it paints the impression on good women that its only or mostly hungry dudes out there.

@muritalaakande69 Год назад

Reality

@lordbeerus5722 Год назад

@@TheWonderwiess k

@youngOG87 Год назад

Yes most women don’t really want good men. They want to see what bad men will be good for them.

@boywonder8114 Год назад

@@TheWonderwiess we’re here but Not THRISTY because we’re constantly working on US So if she’s in my life she fits like a piece to a puzzle 💯

@joeroyes4382 Год назад

Hey men, know your worth and do not entertain nonesense from ladies. They want to give you a million hurdles to test if you’re good enough for them or not. Spend your time building you and a great future. Flatten them and be the one to lay hurdles for them.

@RajA-wi2ut Год назад

Wow...Jessica is so much more knowledgeable than the many 'life coaches' on various SM channels. Bless you Jessica.

@abduljabbarmohammed4188 4 месяца назад

Those coaches will never tell you the truth because it will hurt their businesses.

@johnmurphy6556 Год назад

The women that want to give me their love are not the women I want to be with, and the ones I want to be with don't seem to want to be with me. And the world keeps turning, and around we go.

@gabrielbabatunde3793 Год назад

Me leaving this place knowing that I have been single for a whole year and just didn't realise it.

@patiencetagbor1303 Год назад

Jessica everything you said is true... I wasted my life and time on this girl who never even had any feeling for me. It's sad but yh life moves one ...

@magdalentagoe2112 Год назад

This behavior of some ladies mmmmm

@David_Smith Год назад

If the female isn't asking you any questions , clear out fast , don't waste anymore time.

@ErikisOfficial Год назад

It's better to run into someone organically where the attraction is mutual.

@pablomills1901 Год назад

Thank you sister Jessica, it takes two hours to reply back when she’s online.hmmm

@colinsweller Год назад

I think where it gets confusing is when youve already been intimate for awhile and she talks to you like your the one and then starts displaying all those signs.

@Mac_TO20 Год назад

At that point, someone better than you turned up

@blackvenmo2273 Год назад

@@Mac_TO20 truee

@RobertRayDmv Год назад

@@Mac_TO20 Why play that game at all?

@TheDalinkwent Год назад

Had an old flame come back into my life...we started off pretty decent, but we went from talking on the phone almost every day to simply texting. Plus when I called, she said she couldn't talk, then blew off our date and mostly texted me after that. I learned from redpill that a women makes time and effort for men they really want to see, and I don't feel that effort is there. So I ceased any and all effort.

@ohgeejp3 Год назад

100% give your love to a woman who actually wants it

@tatendastambotatelsysta2942 Год назад

That's very true!! Thank you so much Jessica you really helping me to discover myself. Some things are being unveiled to me and they have been delaying my progress!!

@user-em8zo5ct2r Год назад

Can we appreciate the effort she put on✌

@atommindproject9060 8 месяцев назад

Give your love to a woman who actually wants it.

@agona-piesieabankesieso7539 Год назад

100% support to Jessica's program, and watch every moment. I love you girl

@darkest_magnum Год назад

Jessica you're really helping us. 'Truer' words have never been spoken. Big ups!

@harryhaizel Год назад

I still can't wait to see you with your 1million subscribers plague ❤️ so happy to be part of your channel, have learnt a lot from you Jesse ❤️ thank you soo much ❤️

@leoncomlanhekpazo4386 Год назад

It might because I'm a seasoned 40+ years old folk with a hell of experiences behind but I can't just figure out why people can be unaware they have not connected with a person they like. Jessica just tried as much as she can to put some words on those "signs" but it's all about feelings. It does not apply to women only but to human being in general. When someone does not like you, your soul always sends signal to that lack of connection and you FEEL it. Nobody needs to tell you because you KNOW it. The real issue is most people cannot accept rejection and just move on.

@TheWonderwiess Год назад

Because there's also part of human nature that likes the HUNT, soul feeling be damn. Remember we are animals too Some women DO crack under the pressure of a persistent person. Some women DO come around to liking a person. Some women will give you thr crumbs then the whole meal later. All this requires a delicate balance, and the reason players most times wins is because they often don't have one person courting. They've developed a skillset that allows them to court multiple

@tmac326 Год назад

Some Women (people in general) LITERALLY do whatever they can to keep you around and make plans just to break them but always have a “legit” excuse so you can’t question them or feel bad for second guessing them. People like this are manipulative and insane.

@seanjones6516 Год назад

It's the sex

@goodman4093 Год назад

@@TheWonderwiess when you have bills to pay you are hunting, and pushing 100 women?

@philipskrusso1153 Год назад

Jessica,you were given smarts.

@goodlife2456 Год назад

These were great warning signs. Especially the ones about not reading your texts for over a day and number 10, her not initiating anything, texts, phone calls, meetups. A lot of guys fall into that trap. Any woman who is truly into a guy will, both make time for him and initiate conversations even if its just a text saying hello. Fellas stop wasting your time and energy with women who never seem to have time for you. Because its a lie. She's making the time for other things and people, you just aren't one of them. If you've made some errors in the past by not paying attention to the signs and then acting accordingly, it's ok. Don't beat yourself up about it. You can make the change starting now. Just remember, you ARE worth someones time and attention, especially if you are actively making the effort and when a woman does everything OPPOSITE of what's on this list, that may be THE lady that you want to focus on because she'll appreciate those things you are doing.

@latteARCH Год назад

Great tips. Definitely dropping a girl i was interested in. I will say though that asking them straight up if they’re interested in you is a good way to deal with most of these signs already. No need to worry or play the psychology. If they’re honest, you’ll know very quickly so you can move on.

@sthembisobrian Год назад

I always say never invest your time and resources where there's no interests

@RBS4u Год назад

Greatly spoken Jessica, thanks for all the great info, reminds of the saying," The minute you stop after chasing someone. You look back, and see who's been chasing after you". ✔✔✔

@sarcasticcrypto 10 месяцев назад

Jessica, this is the first video of yours I've watched. I have to say, you're message and its deliverance is down-to-earth, calm truthfully intelligent advice without any hype or attention seeking. Navigating through the ocean of spotlight-seeking content creators, what a breath of fresh air you present. Thank You

@davidnsonamoah8179 Год назад

Jessica hits the nail right on the head

@Slimphizzy Год назад

This video is very helpful. I'll watch it again and recommend it definitely! Thanks Jessica!!

@ericephemetherson3964 Год назад

Jessica! I never in my life pursued a girl or a woman. All I did was ask her just once and never forever more.

@asaretheophilus269 Год назад

Jess, you're the best at this, on the Internet. God bless you richly

@Official_Suave Год назад

If a girl is always on her phone and is not giving you her attention then that's disrespect

@danteprice1874 Год назад

Facts

@alexanderchepkiyeng Год назад

Thank you Jess. As always clean crystal pieces of advice. If someone wants to be a part of your social life, they will Always make an obvious Effort. Always.

@katabaziwillis7277 Год назад

As always thank you for letting all the brothers know🇺🇬

@emmanuelyawlaari775 Год назад

This is so for me. Thanks Jess for this heads-up.

@leondaniel5407 4 месяца назад

Jessica this video not only opened my eyes it reminded me of things women do.

@SubiloMusonda Год назад

Always waiting for the "my name is Jessica"... Your insights are so accurate❤❤

@davidrjrc1812 Год назад

My girl you hit all the points!!!! That's 100% right... This is a reality!!!

@Just54 Год назад

Thank you Jessica! You just helped this man here!!

@sneakerbay1836 Год назад

I got a girl who will at most text me 3-5 times a day and sometimes she won’t respond for several hours . I’m into her but i feel like this ain’t what it’s meant to be

@fatalbert3633 Год назад

Ohh damn I'm filing for divorce Monday morning, that bastard was just using me....

@Nectpost Год назад

Bro never again simp to get a women

@hipiri Год назад

Dating is the worst in these times... specially in Florida.

@blackpixels Год назад

This is why I can't be asked... I focus on my Goals & Dreams... especially in these economic times... don't have time for Women that want to try and waste my time.

@epyorulinuswilliam1429 Год назад

You are really an amazing person with the way you present your ideas

@nzeuzoreberechukwu3779 Год назад

Well said. Thank you for sharing this.

@darkest_magnum Год назад

I like the point you made about "a girl playing hard to get" and to leave her alone. It's high time they get realistic. It's hard to interpret those games.

@TheWonderwiess Год назад

Naw, most men see the games that being played and thinks this we be a fun challenge to try to win her over. Pride and ego gets the better of us, and all we have to do is just take the L and move on. Most women do like to be pursue BUT BUT, she has to always show interest and be CONSISTENT with that interest being shown.. One thing i noticed with women, they don't like to waste time and effort and seeing as feeling drive them, if she's feeling you she'll hunt you.

@DanielDZEM Год назад

Thanks my dear Coach for providing us good lessons all the times. May God bless you more and more... And keep up doing the good work☺️

@father_wumpu4124 9 месяцев назад

Powerful message,sis Jessica.thank you.

@odinakajulian7474 5 месяцев назад

Jessica you always make sense and I love your voice and intonation 😊

@kevinngaleu1545 Год назад

I improve my English speaking skills with you and I understand relationship better. Thank you, Jessica.

@Justrichards Год назад

You are too good Jessica. You’ve got the perfect answer to every question before it’s been asked. Kisses

@antonymoto Год назад

This makes sense, thanks for the sharing those ideas. Keep it up mrst.

@namupalabenhard6529 Год назад

This is definitely true, its a great reaffirmation of this vital information.

@soultaker9112 Год назад

Think I’m in this exact situation and it’s a little tough to pull away.

@TheWonderwiess Год назад

Only tough because of the investment you've made. You know how it slowly builds in a relationship, then do the same to leave. Slowly pull back and rebuild you, slowly pull back communicating, stop helping financially if you did, etc.. If there is kids involved then it becomes a little more complicated but just keep being there for the child, if there see the change in you and don't care to even bring it up then you know they don't care.

@tatendastambotatelsysta2942 Год назад

Just like me and it really hurts because you truly love the person and they take it for granted, if you don't start them they won't start you if you keep quite they don't bother to ask what's wrong if they notice that you are angry the only thing they do is to say sorry without any change. Love it really hurts sometimes!!!

@HPApurist Год назад

As always, great and informative video.

@Treeshousepodcast Год назад

hey Jessica one thing i like about this video is the clarity of this message..

@EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv Месяц назад

Thank you my Mrs Jessica Os I give you big respect for all ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@shedparker Год назад

This is your best video yet!!

@ayidebua2028 5 месяцев назад

I like ur videos, Jessica. When I juxtaposed yours n others in ur video niche I find u a really polished RU-vidr relative to others. Keep on the good job.

@yanneckbdiesa66 Год назад

This is very informative ❤️! Thanks, @jessica.

@philipapollo5185 Год назад

Bitter truth.. More love from Kenya.

@levelofcomic2120 Год назад

If she Doesnt Choose you 🚶🏻‍♂️ leave her

@bafanankentshane3262 4 месяца назад

Jessica ure hurting us with this truth 😂😂😂 Thank you. I needed to hear this. God bless you Jessica

@abdallahmohamedou7673 Год назад

Thank you so much for the knowledge and the heads up you’ve been amazing and god bless you🙏🙏

@Berthasglobe Год назад

Powerful 16 tips for the men😃 great job always Jessi👌🏽

@kwekuabeku7653 Год назад

Thanks Jess, you said it all...🤗💖

@blackskyllet13 Год назад

This video was actually something i needed to hear... considering this week i asked someone if she had time, for us to hang out, she said she was gonna be busy "But we can find some time". I'm about to go back to work, and all i had was sending me a message today, saying nice status (when i used her own words, "But we can find some time" and so they never did...). From all the signs you described, she present most of them, if not all of them... i wanted to tell her that she could have at least apologized, a mere excuse would have sufficed, but all things considered, it's the lack of time, but interest. By now i don't think that would have been a good move to reply back, so i just left her on read, like she did many times and moving on it's what i must do...

@adamclark1972uk Год назад

So impressed with your videos. Goodness knows where you get your wisdom from!

@gantswood Год назад

Great videos and helps us when we begin to slip. Keeps us men sharp

@ihunenyeokezie4310 Год назад

Jess your talks, tips & advice about love, dating & relationships have been really helpful; Kudos to you. please 🙏 keep it coming.

@sthembisobrian Год назад

Looking back i can now admit i have been a sucker 4 love good to know we got woman like you looking out for us as much its hard to accept rather safe then sorry