If You Want To Find The Perfect Relationship, WATCH THIS! | Esther Perel

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@lewishowes 2 года назад

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@habtshtube 7 месяцев назад

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@cathyl1954 3 месяца назад

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@cherriegreening3821 2 года назад

She is so intellectual person, always have a non judgmental response. It is so encouraging.

@anaolivenca7165 2 года назад

Every time you bring Esther Perel on, I laugh, I cry, I feel inspired and blessed for stumble across your life changing conversations. I really love and cherish this channel. Thank you so much! Keep going. Great work!!! Love you Lewis. Love you Esther!!!

@FIRSTWORLDSTATUSBY 2 года назад

I agree with you, 1000 percent

@anaolivenca7165 2 года назад

@@FIRSTWORLDSTATUSBY Thanks for your words

@lewishowes 2 года назад

So happy you are enjoying the content. I would love for you to subscribe and leave me a review here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id596047499

@gabypulido4937 2 года назад

Same here!! She is great!! I recently discovered you and your channel, I really like your genuine attitude!!! I'll keep learning!! Thank you!

@myriamfersing7935 Год назад

Forming relationship is like building coming to life on a architects drawing pad-line by line/wall by wall/and space by space for all inhabitants

@janespitfire9884 2 года назад

Ms Perel has very good common sense and highly educated in human relationships! Great guest!

@lewishowes 2 года назад

Glad you enjoyed it!

@AgentK200 2 года назад

I just wanted to say that I’m sorry to hear about your dad passing away. It sounds really tough, and I think it’s awesome that you had the courage to open up about it.

@sabine1095 2 года назад

OMG !! Minute 36:00 ... so unbelievably touching and heartfelt... tears were just running down my face.... I felt it... It could've been me...

@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 11 месяцев назад

❤

@selfretired3025 2 года назад

"How do you stay grounded... when the ground itself is moving" ♡ "Certainty is the enemy of change" ♡ "You can't fully say yes if you can't fully say no" ♡

@l.w.4701 Год назад

@Self Retired thanks for writing it out!

@JudyReilly-n3e 8 месяцев назад

Her intelligence blows me away. Thank you for letting her talk!

@lewishowes 8 месяцев назад

You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

@selfhelpchampion9664 2 года назад

We expect one person to give us what once an entire village used to provide, and we live twice as long. Esther Perel

@palapalak.8907 Год назад

She's brillant....I love listening to her!

@lewishowes Год назад

Thanks for being here!

@TakeBackYourMind997 2 года назад

Stop trying to find it and start trying to create it.

@establishednlove 2 года назад

Yes, I agree to start trying to create it.

@SuperNashum 2 года назад

Stop trying to find it and start giving yourself the love you seek.

@johnfatorich3494 Год назад

😂

@Mariella-k6j 9 месяцев назад

@@SuperNashumamen

@rpkeskar 26 дней назад

This conversation is so spot on and so relatable 🙏🏽

@firewoman13merica65 2 года назад

The dynamic duo does it again! Thanks for the wisdom & direction kids! Namaste!

@lewishowes 2 года назад

Glad you enjoyed it!

@charlottebonavia9157 2 года назад

Very courageous episode...”what would the little boy say to you” 😢❤️

@lewishowes 2 года назад

🙌

@Yuki-nz5xy 2 года назад

This interview is so touching because of the sincerity and openness throughout. I am someone who learns that it's ok to have and show emotions after they have been blocked my entire childhood, and I am more than happy to learn that there is nothing wrong with crying and bursting with joy.

@lewishowes 2 года назад

Appreciate you and your support🧡

@jessicaojeda6584 2 года назад

Very touching and insightful conversations. I’ve definitely learned a lot and it has placed my mind to think in a new perspective. I’ve been in a relationship with my partner for 10 years now. I have been cheated and I have been a cheater. However, I love this man and want to learn, grow, and strengthen our relationship from our mistakes. I am looking to become a better version of myself every day, learning from the failures, from all the emotions I feel, connecting and loving my inner child. Lewis is you are ever casting to be on your show/podcast for views experiences, count me in! I’d love to connect!

@lewishowes 2 года назад

Appreciate you and your support🧡

@adelg6698 Год назад

Inspiring interview, demonstrating honesty and vulnerability through the game. Love it!

@doriannemosich232 2 года назад

I love this interview LEWIS ... YOU and Ester's intellectual, emotional, exchange to give good vibes, truth thank you!!!!hugs

@lewishowes 2 года назад

You're welcome,thank you for being here 🧡

@carolfurtado209 2 года назад

A tear just dropped listening your young self saying thank you for all the work you have done to become what you are today, it really resonated in me. We definitely need to look back to that child and dialogue with tenderness. You are a beautiful person.

@lewishowes 2 года назад

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@jasminvillatoro2936 2 года назад

I’m so sorry for your loss Lewis. 😞

@francescaargente372 2 года назад

Lewis I love this channel. Please don't ever close it. Let's grow old being great together. More health and life to you.

@lewishowes 2 года назад

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@sscales70 2 года назад

I’ve never had a relationship like this cos I couldn’t stand laughing @ bad things esp young girls were involved but my man is refreshingly good for me & my fam 😍

@l.w.4701 Год назад

I understand the “living with dread” and yet not having it completely control every moment.

@l.w.4701 Год назад

Now to keep practicing the vulnerability

@handygroesse Год назад

This is amazing! Looking forward when she is your guest the next time :)

@generosembe6951 2 года назад

Me 2 I Like humor in my relationship and it’s a must👌🏿😘I can argue and the next minutes I laugh this is exactly me and it’s funny I thought I was wrong and listening to you now 👌🏿😘

@dianac113 2 года назад

1:12:40 I needed to hear this. Thank you so much.

@lewishowes 2 года назад

You're welcome, thank you for being here 🧡

@LostButNotFound01 2 года назад

Once again, a great interview 😍 Lewis, could you make an assembly of "definition of greatness", from all your guests? 🙏

@lewishowes 2 года назад

Absolutely!

@allwellandgood8547 2 года назад

Lewis, you and Esther are my favourite duo to watch ever! Another hugely insightful interview together. Just love the vulnerability and sense of connection you both share, what beautiful humans you are, inside and out. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. You know when they say who would be your dream dinner party guests...well mine would be you two! Along with Esther's new game- just love it! 💙👏xx

@lewishowes 2 года назад

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@jessiechilela2271 2 года назад

Great listening to this, have learned a lot of staff, especially after going through a loss of a husband for the past 11 years, and now ready for a new start to move on to another relationship . Such great insight. Thank you so much.

@lewishowes 2 года назад

Glad this was helpful for you🧡

@lindylee1139 Год назад

When a you tube video brings you to tears

@louelladsouza217 Год назад

To get rid of a feeling of dread we need faith.. Fear keeps us enslaved faith gives us freedom.

@anabandana666 2 года назад

Oh wow this one is a deep one

@thistest2001 Год назад

hhmmss: 00:30-4:45 introspection

@AM-uw7bs 2 года назад

Lewis I'm sorry to hear of your extended loss after your dad's accident and your grief at his passing. My mom has final stage Alzheimer's disease, she was diagnosed 17 years ago. My sympathies on the sadness of the prolonged loss of your dad. May he rest in peace. I hope you find peace too.

@lewishowes 2 года назад

Thank you so much for your kind words🧡

@roslyndowning8808 2 года назад

You, Lewis Howe and Ester Perel are phenomenally transparent and an inspiration. You two provide innovative perspectives on age-old challenges in every day life. To listen and to drink-in the ideas you express helps individuals reflect on their own lives and invites major breakthroughs! Thank YOU two!

@lewishowes 2 года назад

You're welcome,thank you for being here 🧡

@ligiasommers 2 года назад

This podcasts with Ester are the best of all . Love her insights 🙏🏻💝✨

@lewishowes 2 года назад

🙌

@Nah-ah 2 года назад

Esther always dropping gems! Thank you both ♥️

@lewishowes 2 года назад

You're welcome, thank you for being here 🧡

@debbiesianturi2505 2 года назад

I believe the content of our words to our love one is essential. Positive, soft words, no blame content.

@johnlucich5026 6 месяцев назад

WHEN THE ASD’s START I TUTN OFF INSTANTLY

@EnzoIsabella 8 месяцев назад

We need to stay away from anyone that does not do therapy or the work.....as they only damage others via their pain. EVERYONE HAS BEEN BROKEN.....yet not everybody is doing the work.....the ppl that do the work are the best amongst us.....those that do not are the worst like NPD

@LaSorciereFeuillue Год назад

Yes Esther. Thankyou for showing up. Lewis mentions this after the interview. Thankyou as well Lewis, for being honest and enquiring.

@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 11 месяцев назад

❤

@cparker7431 2 года назад

"Play is the other side of fear"...

@nicolagreenspiritualmentor1399 2 года назад

I love this women her depth is amazing the wisdom ❤ she holds has no bounds.

@lewishowes 2 года назад

👍

@sstanford1331 2 года назад

What is the name of that story card game?

@carolejean63 2 года назад

My fear of loss of other loved ones,I lost my oldest son tragically when he was 6,I was there in the ER with him he was gone but was still wiring in him .. I still have ptsd symptoms I have 5 other children and 10 grandchildren! I’m seeking therapy at this time . Anxiety I’ve been through soooo much in my life from the time I was born!

@doemydear9651 2 года назад

My heart goes out I know your pain. Sending l heartfelt compassion we have seemed to live similar lives. 🙏

@lewishowes 2 года назад

So sorry for your loss🧡

@iamgoddessoflove 2 года назад

Work on building a healthy relationship and falling in love with the person that you see everyday, who has been through so much pain and heartache, but still manages to gets through it all.❤️ 💙RU-vidr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationship

@lewishowes 2 года назад

👍

@digitaldew 2 года назад

Question for everyone. Who are you inspired by seriously? I'll go first ( no order) - Jocko, Pat McNamara, Jordan Peterson, Tim Ferriss, Vigilance Elite, Ed Calderon, Gracie Family, Robert Greene, Alux, Hubermanlab, Tom Bilyeu, Terrence Popp, George Gammon, Robert Kiyosaki, Ken McElroy, Lewis Howes, Snordster, Real Men Real Style, Think Media Podcast Among others....

@Tucanaldeinversiones 2 года назад

She is amazing I hope my next woman could bring half the common sense she has

@vanyamarinova Год назад

Nourishing, loving, deep, playful. Thank you for the dynamic of that conversation!

@lucianasantarossa2848 2 года назад

Love this: play invites, possibility, possibility invites healing

@lewishowes 2 года назад

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@isanchez3404 Год назад

Thank you, Lewis. I always learn on your podcasts.

@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 11 месяцев назад

❤

@naomijansen9810 2 года назад

I love Esther's definition of greatness.

@mariacanizales2266 Год назад

Now I'm discovering im so boring 😴 I don't know how to create fun, I was domestic violence in my last relationship of 30 years and I have 10 years and the new relacion.

@jewel6612 Год назад

Fun game! Where can I buy a set of them?

@carolinemuller-karl2111 Год назад

You saved my life with all this knowledge and love since 2019 Maybe I can help others one day Thank you Esther

@nonenone4360 2 года назад

Was wondering if Esther has considered EMDR for trauma about concentration camps?

@danielaion2457 2 года назад

You guys have a great dynamic and teaching us so much. Esther is anointed in this subject. ❤️

@lewishowes 2 года назад

Happy to hear this, thank you!

@danielaion2457 2 года назад

Thank you so much

@l.w.4701 Год назад

1:33:59 the confusion; when the partner was unfaithful, then said (something like) what’s wrong with you? Don’t you know the relationship is over? 🤔 I’d actually been told we were going to be working on trying again. Would have been nice to have the conversation about it being over beforehand…

@l.w.4701 Год назад

Thankfully I did have friends supporting me.

@hildautria3851 Год назад

Where can I purchase those cards?

@Leila2023_ Год назад

that point at the end where she's talking about how a partner should be changing to please you - you voice a concern and they change their behaviour... well simply this does not work with a lot of people because they see it as dominance and the fear is if they let someone boss them / change them through kind request they will eventually lose themselves... these subtle requests if only coming from one side will end up being dominance, so the requests must be balanced and coming from both sides otherwise the power dynamic will be unbalanced and one person will lose themselves.

@peteronel4051 2 года назад

How do i find a tru new relation. After becoming twice widowed I am totally relexed and totally lonely

@NancyBrown1975 2 года назад

Thank you Lewis. Esther is a very interesting, keen and insightful person. I learn something new from you and your guest each time I watch your content.

@Jewelrinaa 2 года назад

This is a beautiful interview. Love u more Lewis. I think my dad has the same fear of lost like her. Afraid of lost. My dad imagine i cant come back in peace if i go out after 8pm. From my childhood until now that i am in my 40s, he still has the same fear. I dont hang out at all after work. Thus i am not married yet even i am so beautiful

@lewishowes 2 года назад

Thank you so much for your feedback 🙂

@thenutrientwhisperer3700 2 года назад

Is AG1 organic and GMO free????

@laniplandes9833 Год назад

Wow! I just watched this and I loved the content from start to end. Can someone share where to buy the card games they used in this video? Thanks Lewis for creating such amazing contents. I love the way you ask questions, and how you navigate the conversation, you are so authentic and grounded into your heartspace .

@sheylacherryholmes2092 2 года назад

I could listen to her for ♾ ❤️

@albertgarrido8142 Год назад

Love Ester .. Lewis you are of the most amazing interviewers You like a child wanting to know about everything. You listen and ask great questions. I'm a big fan. I'm turning 67 in a month and going to make it my mission to see one of your workshops . I too would like to uplift people and due everyday.Whether at the gym, grocery store anywhere I can uplift or help people. Thank you and look forward too meeting you and if its ok maybe a hug I'm a hugger.. please let me know where you bought those great tennis shoes from the photo shoot in the latest Success magazine love them. My passion is stylish clothing amongst other things.

@lewishowes Год назад

Thank you!

@FlatStella1 2 года назад

I m so sorry for your loss.Wishing you all the best.

@lewishowes 2 года назад

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@maril1379 Год назад

Always enjoy her talks. Excellent channel. Not superficial at all and better than many TV channels. Thank you so much bug thumbs up!

@lewishowes Год назад

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for listening.

@maril1379 Год назад

I forgot to write it is nice you take tne time to reply to so many comments. I ha e learned so much from tbis channel. There is so much superficial trash on YT you have one of the best channels better than all the garbage trash out there. Thanks again from NYC.

@adelg6698 Год назад

Love and hugs go out to you Lewis

@ProfWho-ut5he 2 года назад

While I love the wisdom she has, it still leaves the problem of finding a partner in the first place. While I met many awesome women during my life, I never ever met one who was single /available.

@jacintavenita2027 2 года назад

Have you meant one now?

@ProfWho-ut5he 2 года назад

@@jacintavenita2027 No. Occasionally, I meet awesome women , just again a few days ago. But as usual, she is married. Truly attractive women are always taken, so I don't expect that I will ever find a partner as there are never opportunities to flirt or to experience love /intimacy.

@ProfWho-ut5he 2 года назад

@@farmerfox99 It's a matter of chance. The chances of finding an attractive partner, especially when older, are extremely low. Naturally, 99.99 % of the awesome people are off the dating market. You need a lot of luck finding such a person. I never had the luck. While I met awesome women, I have several fantastic female friends, all of them, without exception, are married or in long-term relationships. Finding a suitable partner is probably the most difficult thing in life. It seems I failed.

@b.johnny369 2 года назад

OMG I love this lady 🙏🏼❤️✨

@lewishowes 2 года назад

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@mavenowa 28 дней назад

Everybody ,and Esther get a handel, no perfect relationShip in this experience of being alive

@NevineHenry Год назад

what is the name of this cards game please?

@yeremycuevas3064 2 года назад

I feel like I am the one talking here, not Lewis, I love the honesty level of your personality Lewis. Can’t wait for the next interview

@lewishowes 2 года назад

Thank you so much for your feedback 🙂

@ArijanaLukic 9 месяцев назад

Can someone link the Blog she wrote about Self Care first?

@authenticallyspeaking6529 2 года назад

I never regret taking in these episodes. They always contain gold nuggets. Thank you for daring to put out such authentic and heart centered content Lewis. Much love.

@lewishowes 2 года назад

So happy you are enjoying the content. I would love for you to follow my page and leave me a review here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id596047499

@1965simonfellows 2 года назад

Id wager heavily its not "allowing". Like sleep you cant do it by will. One can only do things that make an outcome more likely.

@nosindisomyeni 2 года назад

Oh my God I love her work she makes all the sense in the world

@joanterry1467 2 года назад

She is brilliant and i learn so much from these videos, thank you!!!!

@lewishowes 2 года назад

So happy you are enjoying the content. I would love for you to follow my page and leave me a review here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id596047499

@SS-ly2bn 2 года назад

Wow! Her discussion on post traumatic experience is enlightening.

@lewishowes 2 года назад

Glad you enjoyed it!

@zabeenloynmoon 2 года назад

Wishing you move into visions that are dread free. I know how this feels in the body and deeply releasing this is possible with breathe in Iyengar yoga ... It's possible to not have to think of the past and yet shift the energy and stale feelings. I hope you see this #estherperel

@galina6707 8 месяцев назад

You are charming guys! Both! I speak of you with all my respect and admiration.You're soooo charming👏👏😍😍 I've learned so gorgeous wisdom. Thank you so much.

@jucxox 2 года назад

I’m sorry about your loss Lewis. I hadnt learned about it yet. RIP

@lewishowes 2 года назад

Thank you so much!

@ThiaOmega 3 месяца назад

Excellent! Amazing information to absorb. Play absolutely a MUST!

@lewishowes 3 месяца назад

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

@Alignmented1 7 месяцев назад

" Humor and play is possibility Possibility invites change Change invites healing"...wow, WOW 💖😍 she's so amazing..logical, charming, funny, near, real

@annap9441 8 месяцев назад

Lewis you are so conscious, honest, humble and good hearted ❤❤❤ I cry every time you open up, you explain your processes so wonderfully that I get emotional instantly. Thank you. Oh, Ester Perel is amazing😄😄

@anabandana666 2 года назад

I cried as soon as Lewis made his inner child thank himself. Still crying aha

@lewishowes 2 года назад

🧡🧡🧡

@chirptone7901 2 года назад

She is so lovely. I just love her.

@NonHumanity-mt5nk 9 месяцев назад

Say no more for love.sau goodbye don't need Love.

@Saveroomforyourlove 2 года назад

I like this channel also(reading someone else’s Post) You’d be good on TV🌹 One more thing. .sometime’s people don’t realize that their mind is more mature than their eyes. .I think you need some great brains in a women and a Mature Women who is respected..totally work for You🌹♥️⭐️🙏🏼

@lauraescobedo3426 9 месяцев назад

What a beautiful talk, so deep, so emotional ….BEAUTIFUL! Thanks a lot

@MC-Jean91 7 месяцев назад

Esther Perel is the best therapist out there. Every time I watch her your channel or somewhere else is always a groundbreaking experience and I learn every single time new aspects about myself and the relationships also about life itself 👏👏 Love your channel much ❤

@georgeioannidis9082 Год назад

Excellent summing up of all the issues in a relationships

@lewishowes Год назад

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@sscales70 2 года назад

Every person is different so we can’t say what we’d say to the next relationship & my man is unpredictable too so we can’t predict what we can say to the other person. I don’t blame me or him but he doesn’t like alota talk so I can’t say how I feel all the time. I only know 3 other ppl that talk more me, I have a lot to say. I love saying how I feel. I don’t enjoy keeping my feelings to myself. I let him know a quite wife is a dangerous person 🤣🙏🏻

@janetadams3467 Год назад

What a wonderful woman.. Her knowledge is so enriching and informative. I'm so inspired... Thank you Lewis

@lewishowes Год назад

You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

@piedadsanchez3592 Год назад

OMG the very long advertisement of the miracle drink is very abusive 😢

@stellawilliams9303 Год назад

Co creating

@evelynkarkkulainen1784 2 года назад

Amazing always Lewis and Esther. Thanks

@lewishowes 2 года назад

You're welcome,thank you for being here 🧡

@elenawood2010 Год назад

Great conversations, but you can not blame yourself if you are in an abusive relationship. Other then blame yourself that you were too nice of the person.