"If you are chasing them, it means they are running from you. Don't CHASE anymore. get ACCEPTED for being you, from the right person. " anyone reading this, stay blessed 😇
drba77 I know you mean well, I think that beauty is subjective and not the ultimate prize. I’ve been told many times that I find the most average woman to be beautiful and you know what...I’m perfectly fine with that.
Everyone who is scrolling down, remember that anyone else's attention or love have no worth if you love yourself.Never underestimate yourself depending on them for you know your worth and value. Be blessed.❤
a lot of people think they are better than they actually are ...dont say you are awesome if u are too lazy to go to work, too tired all day and dont work on yourself. Its a major problem here in germany at least. Dont tell those people love yourself the way you are, they wont change anything in their life and live in depression.
It's so amazing how much this comment section is filled with ppl going thru this kinda pain, personally I'm also going thru this. But we are all blessed aren't we? God takes the bad away from us cz its gonna ruin us anyways if we stay close. If all u guys are in my position then trust me he or she isn't the one for you, your person is still out there and you will find em at the right time. God bless you guys ❤❤
Thanks for the reminder Jay, I’m literally crying since I’ve been in this relationship. I feel like I’m being rejected and used when he needs me only. I can’t even see the value of myself. I know it takes time to let what you said to sink in and see the result, but still, thank you.
The person who makes you feel invisible and insignificant with indifference does not deserve you. Love must be shown, but should never ever be begged for. You deserve someone who takes you in and makes you feel important in your life without expecting anything in return.
Prathmesh Upadhye I know that feeling all to well also. We just have to keep pushing and never give up the right person will come our way 💪🏾 you got this
Me too..but I m getting over of my madness with the help of people around me...so go out and meet new people..right people will make you feel always worthy and wrong people will make you feel your no more worthy with the passage of time...ever since I have started meeting new people I have been thinking less about him ..when I say meeting it only means simple casual meeting but not dates.So good luck and you are worthy if you love someone so intensely..right person will come soon
Talha Shaikh Your statement is Bullshit. I have lived the first part of your statement all my 54 years of life and not one person shows me love ever! The world will love me you say! I say: WHAT WORLD????
@@christinemott2878 My heart goes out to you! As I know exactly how you feel. Is a pinch to the back of the arm while being screamed at love? Being screamed at and asked why I was so stupid when I got hurt, is this being love? ETC. I know you have been there as well. No one makes a statement about never being loved that has not experienced these things. My hope and wish for you is that true love and friendship will find you very quickly and never ever leave you. That you may know true love and friendship all the rest of the days of your life.
I agree with a lot of this video but sometimes you have to go out of your way and out of your comfort zone to make good friends, they don't necessarily just pop into your life
@@simsitzer4578 yeah but you can't speak for me and having friends are useless if they not influencing you to be better or be there for you when you're at your worst times.
@@simsitzer4578 that's why you go out of your way, you're lonely and that energy makes you chase. I don't go out of my way and I'm not lonely so I attract the right people, right places. It's all synchronized with how you think and feel.
"The right people, the ones who really belong in your life, will come to you and stay." It's an awesome sounding sentence, but the reality is the world is too complex and has too many variables for things to always work out like that.
I agrea it sounds so easy on you tube and every human life has its own way. We think this the way everybody gots his own way. Also it's important to let people go through there own experience. If would listen to Jay I would be walking his way not mine
I agree, it’s easier said than done. Been waiting for years for the right person to come along. Starting to wonder if it is really true that the right one will come along and stay.
The same thing was happened with me last month but now I'm totally free from everything and moving forward in my life. Don't know how but I forget it as if it was just a nightmare. Now I'm free, happy and more over confident being happy with myself... There are many people around me who loves me unconditionally (my grandparents) don't want anything just to make them happy... Love my grandparents 💝
What are the odds I've known this guy for 3 years and we were extremely opposite and had awesome bonding ...idk maybe everything was fake.... He left I've been trying to talk but he doesn't want to hes like just move on like it was nothing all these years I really loved him and this video is like the right thing at right moment thank you Jay ❤️
I've been there, where you are right now . It's been 11 months now ....I'm better now . He's seeing someone else . That's heartbreaking but I still hold myself up . This breakup gave me the love I always wanted ,,,, mine .
Now days true love can be right in front of you getting on a bus or train or passing someone on the street the problem is we are all to busy to even notice we need to learn to slow down and admire the beauty of the person in front of us. People today are to materialistic and want people for what they have or the job they have rather than who they are
But you actually brought up a good point. I'm the opposite of that.. I'm NOT materialistic, I do like to be in the moment and talk to people, etc.. however, it seems people assume that I am into material things and they try to impress me with those things, even if I say it doesn't matter but what I noticed is, since that's what people rely on these days, they haven't had a chance to develop an actual personality.. so without those material things, they have nothing.. they don't even know how to act or what to do.
I’ve been waiting so long for someone and I see what I was doing wrong. I admit I did the things in this video. I chased and chased and chased until I finally gave up.. but then 3 months later someone came to me and we’ve been together for 5 and a half months now ❤️
This hits too close to home, I have been rejected today by my crush, and this video is a perfect representation of how our relationship is. The video really is an eye opener.
the most inportant thing youth nees to know is: DONT CHASE PEOPLE,be yourself,, do your own thing and work hard the RIGHT PEOPLE come to your life and stay
@@hyacinth5559 see if they are RIGHT people , they will surely come. and if they are not, they are wrong people. may be god is trying to find someone better . so instead of chasing the piece of shit , just wait for the perfect time, something big and better thing is going to happen with you STAY BLESSED STAY HAPPY
I can relate to this video. Since I was in that position for many years. Now Iam realising I have to stop chasing the one who doesn’t feel the same for me. 🙃🙂
Have been there, done it, regretted it, learned from it and made peace with it. Thank you for this video! It helped validate my thoughts and never going back into this trap again.
This is right! When you're trying hard to get something, most of times you fail. But when you don't chase but be yourself, things you want come to you voluntarily. Thanks Jay.
I do find that hard to believe at this point now at 58 and fell in love with a much younger woman when I was 44 and she knows i'm in love with her because I told her she was 19 at the time and now she's around 33 so don't tell me she'll eventually come into my life and the sad part is I know she is in love with me !!! Maybe I scared her back then when I told her my true feelings for her and maybe she just didn't won't to accept her true feelings for me who knows what a woman wants in life when they don't even know what or who they want in life !!! You damned if you do and you're damned if you don't as the old saying goes so yes i'm an old school boomer with a lot wisdom behind my 58 years !!! And all I do is separate myself from people that tell me to just move on and find love elsewhere but no I don't roll like that plain and simple because we in life KNOW who we want an NONE other !!!
You don't ever need to pretend to be someone that you're not, you don't need to try hard to get his or her attention... you just need to be yourself freely, you don't need to seek for their approval, the only approval that matters is yours and when they love you for who you are... that's true love, true friendship... isn't it more meaningful? ♡
I know people say that you copy quotes and covet them.. But I still like your videos.. You potray those quotes.. You explain us what it means.. Your videos actually make us feel good about ourselves without drowning in narcissism.. You make me feel calm.. you taught me that it's okay to be vulnerable in love.
Your strong and meaningful messages have changed my perception towards life.. I have stopped chasing love, started meditating, journalling and being mindful.. I now know the importance of silence and affirmations, the importance of loving my ownself.. You have helped me come closer to myself and find my inner peace..It is great how you combine timeless wisdom with modern science..God has given me answers to my questions through your voice.. Thank you for being his messenger to me and for many others who are looking for hope and answers.. Through you, flows the love of our creator and reaches millions.. May you be blessed by him now and forever.
Seriously i cried hard after watching this and this is what i exactly gone through recently and make me always feel like why i was chasing wrong one.... this is not i wanted ever in my life as i believed all things must be happened naturally without any intensional efforts.
This helps alot, I suffer from significant health issues and no one wants to be around me. Except the guy I like, even though I have episodes and freak out hes right there instantly to help me
Great video. If we try to be who we're not to impress others, it's often us who suffer. Be true to yourself and attract those who like you for who you are, because the bond you build will be all the more powerful and make you much happier
" The right people the one's who really belongs to you will come to your life and stay" this is it we sometimes are decieved by our desires and took compromise but the one who really belongs to you will come and stay.
Thank you for making this video the best video that I ever watched in my life......Dont chase... be yourself... everything come's to you what belongs to you
Here's how I run my life. I try to always be kind and understanding to all people. But I am never a rug to be walked upon by anyone. If you would like to hang out with me thats cool. If not thats cool also. I keep myself attached to no one. That leaves me open to love and be a true friend to those that need it. Blessings!
-'' she has no idea if she's gonna like him or not, but she's trying to predict what he will and won't like'' -"we do it because we feel rejection means a lack of worth in us, and the only way to proove our worth is by receiving love from that person. It' s messed up. '' -'' Don't chase people, be yourself, do your own thing, and work hard, '' W.S. -''The right people, the ones who really belong to your life, will come to you and stay''. Much needed, thank you so much.
Don't chase people, be yourself, do your own thing, and work hard. The right people - - the ones who really belong in your life - - will come to you and stay. It really feels.....
Yes this is all so accurate. It's taken me decades to figure it out. It is still a challenge during the years of friendlessness though. In the last few years when I meet someone I like the next step is too let them go. If they want friendship with me they will step up.
I have no words to explain how i feel after watching it, i really needed this now. Have been chasing a girl n all i get is hurt. This surely will get me out of my foolishness.
"I write to discover what I know." -Flannery O'Connor Being a motivator and educator I myself give you many congratulations for great content for other motivational videos #beyondresist
This video helped me a lot. The guy I like found out (idk how) that I had a crush on him and now he avoid me and I feel like he's digusted by me. We used to be friend and I didn't want more than that because I knew I had no chance. But it still hurts. So thanks to this video, I feel a lot better. Thank you so much !!
@@theresasangma5271 you will get it someday. Every meeting every situation almost everything happen for a reason. The reason might be visible or invisible but the results will be visible. Be patient do good things which make you happy. Best thing is love yourself first! GBU!
I always get tears remembering someone who used to be my best friend,she was spilling out everything i shared with her though I always stayed loyal to her.When i finally admitted that i felt hurt with her disloyal things, She didnt take any chance to convince me no msg from her till today, not only that she made some of my other friends also against me as if am avoiding her for no reason.Even now typing this, my eyes are rolling down with tears.I am only praying to get some strength to get over these people
You can do this!! ❤️ You deserve friends who put in as much effort as you do. I have been in similar situations before and you have the power to reconnect with people that make you feel happier
😭😭😭😭 even I have changed myself for that person . He don't have time for me I have to ask him for his time . He abuses me without any of my mistake . When ever i ask him about his prb he abuses me 😭😭... Now I can feel that he is not the ri8 one I am in love with someone who don't even deserve my true love & care . 💔😭
My lover also like this when I too much scolder for begging to speake with him after that he doesn't talk with me one day he said we should separate each other for good he leave me he doesn't know my life without him is true he doesn't understand my heart speaking wrds and my true love with him true love never leaves at any situation but he leaves is it true love?
If u r depressed in love... Plz read 💞Even at ur best... U r not right for the wrong person and 💞even at ur worst... The right person will show you ur worth... Very true 🙁🙁 experiencing
The right people ---- the ones who really belong in ur life ----will come to you ..... and stay.This sentences hit my heart😟and that's true I have experienced in my life