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If You Want to KNOW If A Man Is Using You Do THESE 7 Things... It's essential to know what to do if you want to know if a man is using you, as they can help you discern his true intentions. This dating advice video will provide valuable insights into what to do if a man is using you. Take heed to this dating advice to be aware of the signs he's using you, and ensure you watch to the end to learn how to tell if a man is using you.
If you want to know if a man is using you, there are signs like inconsistency or manipulation where he only contacts you when it's convenient for him or makes promises he doesn't keep. It's better to learn earlier on if a man is using you, as it allows you to protect yourself from further emotional harm, and you'll be able to.
I want you to know if a man is using you so you can make informed decisions and prioritize your emotional well-being. By recognizing whether a man is using you early on, you can protect yourself from being taken advantage of and avoid investing time and energy into a relationship that isn't genuine. Embrace this dating advice video to learn what to do to know if a man is using you.
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@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад
❤ Join my SPECIAL coaching program here 👉 www.receivingmyblessings.com - so many women are experiencing AMAZING results!
@reeseyanceyms.rayiamwhoiam100
@reeseyanceyms.rayiamwhoiam100 2 месяца назад
Yessss!
@Portia620
@Portia620 Месяц назад
You’re very smart. You don’t look at things black and white. That’s a good skill set to have in a relationship.
@cindyluma4497
@cindyluma4497 29 дней назад
@@Portia620 thank u
@aramurka88
@aramurka88 2 месяца назад
The worst is that those who are not serious play it so well
@joannacruz9818
@joannacruz9818 2 месяца назад
💯 sad but true
@Portia620
@Portia620 Месяц назад
Yes!!!!
@Perseverance1843
@Perseverance1843 2 месяца назад
I really want to find a good, consistent man who is serious.
@user-dt1vz4ce2w
@user-dt1vz4ce2w 2 месяца назад
I am sorry,it is very difficult and complicated,Bielive me ! Be happy with yourself,enjoy the life now! Be happy you are healthy,go in the nature,enjoy the everything what the God give to you❤️🌈💫🌹🙏💪😇
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад
pray that you receive the woman who is truly best for you, the man God has for you 🙏
@Kimichelle1978
@Kimichelle1978 2 месяца назад
Lord please send me a good man, I’m definitely a great woman 😢
@violetnyanzi6394
@violetnyanzi6394 2 месяца назад
😢😢❤a great man lord 🙏
@maedaarielle4557
@maedaarielle4557 2 месяца назад
Lord help me! 😢
@connieHill265
@connieHill265 2 месяца назад
He was still getting his life together. I don’t expect anyone’s life to be perfect, all my ducks aren’t in a row. Just wanted him to meet me in the middle, I notice I felt more like a resource for him to be good in life. I’m all for supporting my partner but I can’t keep propping another man up. So yes i was investing too much and I wasn’t getting the same in return.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
@Soleilsorrel33
@Soleilsorrel33 2 месяца назад
Same here. I realized that's what he did with the last two women as well. He latched on the women who were financially more stable than him and rode their coat tails. We upgraded him so he had access to more resources and experiences. But he told me he expected me to pay for everything. What in the entire hail!!! It clicked for me then.
@connieHill265
@connieHill265 2 месяца назад
@@Soleilsorrel33 This guy sounds like he's using women for their money and resources. That's not a healthy or equal relationship - it's exploitative and disrespectful. You deserve someone who values you for who you are, not just your bank account. Keep your wallet closed and your standards high!
@Kiki-xn4cc
@Kiki-xn4cc 2 месяца назад
Mannnn…… I went through the same thing.
@clstlr
@clstlr 2 месяца назад
i went thru the same but i communicated w him that it draines me mentally and financially- when im still waiting for him to get his life together so he said that i should stop giving him anything as of today and he will repay it back to me in the future (ldr relationship here)
@ChildofGod98765
@ChildofGod98765 2 месяца назад
My husband passed years ago I’m still missing him. God hear my prayers. There are so many different obstacles that I face as a single mom. Some days I want to give up. I’m struggling to make ends meet. Both of my sons are special needs and require much from me. I keep faith because I know that God will provide. So as I struggle to buy groceries for my children, and as I struggle to pay rent every month. I turn to God! He is our provider. He is our God. He will strengthen us.
@iamaniwura
@iamaniwura 2 месяца назад
A thousand hugs. I pray for you, me, us all. 💕
@KimCruzes
@KimCruzes 2 месяца назад
Amen!!! Good work momma. God will provide and replenish your soul, charge the energy of your spirit in Jesus' mighty name!!! Your husband is proud of you and patiently awaiting your reunion in Heaven in perfect peace as we shall be too someday. Much love from this branch of the family ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@Portia620
@Portia620 Месяц назад
I’m so sad to hear this and sending my love and prayers to you. Please see if a church could help you. That’s exactly what churches should be doing!!!
@wowfactor2615
@wowfactor2615 2 месяца назад
I wish ppl would stop with the game. Just be straightforward,let one true intention be known from the start.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад
Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that.
@deediamond1540
@deediamond1540 2 месяца назад
Right 😊
@Portia620
@Portia620 Месяц назад
Amen! The real deal! Real!
@kimberlitaft
@kimberlitaft 2 месяца назад
The thing I am struggling with is finding someone who genuinely is ready and emotionally mature. They don't tell their true intentions. I am starting to only focus on actions
@UnknownUnknown-jf9bg
@UnknownUnknown-jf9bg 2 месяца назад
Don’t give up!!
@joyricherson4570
@joyricherson4570 2 месяца назад
A man who.is interested usually won't ask for you to ask for help. If he sees you have a need he will want to help.
@connieHill265
@connieHill265 2 месяца назад
Also pay attention when your being guilt tripped. That’s also a sign your being used. And beware of double speech
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@RebeccaBibbs
@RebeccaBibbs 2 месяца назад
Pardon my ignorance, but what is double speech? Inquiring minds would like to know😊
@connieHill265
@connieHill265 2 месяца назад
@@RebeccaBibbs Double speech is when someone says one thing but means another. It's like they're speaking two different languages - one for show, and one for real. Doublespeak is language that deliberately distorts, disguises, or obscures the meaning of words. It can also refer to intentional ambiguity or inversions of meaning. Doublespeak is often used to deceive people through misrepresentation or concealment of the truth.
@Katrica670
@Katrica670 2 месяца назад
@@connieHill265 is it incongruence? I never heard if the tern.
@RebeccaBibbs
@RebeccaBibbs 2 месяца назад
@@connieHill265 okay, now I'm nervous. Thank you❤️
@sabrinacraft809
@sabrinacraft809 2 месяца назад
People are not willing to put in that work to make a relationship successful anymore. 😢 Sad times 😔🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@tashamack8701
@tashamack8701 2 месяца назад
Communication is the key. Knowing your worth is very important.
@suadfarole5136
@suadfarole5136 2 месяца назад
Some just want to take take take and don’t want give.
@andreatorluemke4982
@andreatorluemke4982 2 месяца назад
When relationships stop and start. The original reasons for the mis match are never addressed properly. Never attended too and adjusted for. The relationship maintains the out of balance dynamic. And spins out again. We gotta have the hard conversations I’m getting here. Yes❤
@katekibugi7401
@katekibugi7401 2 месяца назад
Thanks Stephan for all your wise advise, i dated a guy for almost five years and he never took me out on a date and i never met his family or friends even after ASKING consistently. He alawys came over to my place and i would cook for him I finally had to ask him if we could to discuss if we had a future and he got mad and ghosted me claiming that i was insensitive,blah blah blah.......Boy i felt so wasted and empty
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
@Katrica670
@Katrica670 2 месяца назад
That soooo sucks, and it just goes to show that no matter how beautiful looks are, males still be doing the worse! 😭 not even one date? 😱🙄
@katekibugi7401
@katekibugi7401 2 месяца назад
@@Katrica670 So true its absolutely discouraging .....Thanks dear 😍
@katekibugi7401
@katekibugi7401 2 месяца назад
@@MeetStephanSpeaks Amen 🙏🙏 and thanks for the encouragement
@Katrica670
@Katrica670 2 месяца назад
@@katekibugi7401 you're welcome sis (queen)!😊
@teecee5371
@teecee5371 2 месяца назад
I get ones who I express my needs to, only to get empty promises and wasted time. At this point I think it is safer for all involved if I stay single…
@TheVeggiekat
@TheVeggiekat 2 месяца назад
Same here
@PricelessJesus
@PricelessJesus 2 месяца назад
Until God brings the right one x
@andreatorluemke4982
@andreatorluemke4982 2 месяца назад
Yeah I was comfortable giving him what he needed he was not giving me what I needed in return. He got real defensive at my wanting to have a conversation about it. I can work on my manner and ways that I communicate. Still effort is something that’s missing. In so many relationships I see today all that’s required from a woman’s perspective is trying
@reeseyanceyms.rayiamwhoiam100
@reeseyanceyms.rayiamwhoiam100 2 месяца назад
The information you have given us makes so much sense. I use to not share my thoughts and feelings but now I communicate so much better. I go to God first, listen to him, and then get into the solution. I do this with all my interactions and relationships with others. (I’m still waiting on my God to reveal and give me the mate that he has for me.) It has made this process called Life so much easier, happier and free for me. I really appreciate you Stephan because you are a healthy source of energy coming from a man’s perspective. You don’t find that too often. I had my biological and bonus Dad when they were here but now that they both are gone I prayed for God to give me the positive male energy that I need and he has given me you and Coach Canion. Thank you so much! 🤩🙏🏽💪🏽💯💗
@LittleinnocentRin1
@LittleinnocentRin1 2 месяца назад
Nope. From flowers to dinner dates. He always say he’s a homebody now I’m always busy. I asked him to take out the trash and cook dinner. He can’t pay for anything due to him taking care of his mom with cancer and being put on child support out of his bm selfishness. He paid for her food, therapy, and was there with her from beginning to the end up to delivery for his son. He paid for her delivery of $15,000 as well. I ask him all the time to go out and walk. But he says my car this, I’m a homebody that. Too many excuses. Our sons can’t meet. It’s annoying..so now I just focus on myself.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
@user-dt1vz4ce2w
@user-dt1vz4ce2w 2 месяца назад
This is a big lie! He is a liar! Live your life! You deserve better!💪✌️🌹💫🌈🙏
@LittleinnocentRin1
@LittleinnocentRin1 2 месяца назад
@@user-dt1vz4ce2w That’s why I always stay busy. I surely will do !!! Yes 🙌🏾
@katekibugi7401
@katekibugi7401 2 месяца назад
Im sorry dear, i totally understand 🤗🤗
@mama2flythesidehustlequeen164
@mama2flythesidehustlequeen164 2 месяца назад
Sounds like he is depressed, and not that into you....
@camellia8625
@camellia8625 2 месяца назад
I had someone propose, was engaged for four years only for him to stall future plans and claim he was supposedly pressured into proposing, as if he was a victim. He then after having broken up with me for some months proposed a FWB relationship which was declined. It is as if I am good enough for sex but not a proper relationship. I was basically robbed of 5 years of my life where I could have possibly met someone who was genuinely wishing to have a LTR with me.
@SDavis-pv4xv
@SDavis-pv4xv 2 месяца назад
I needed to hear this, thanks Stephan.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад
My pleasure ❤️
@katMaahlamela
@katMaahlamela 2 месяца назад
Hey, Stephan. This was an amazing video, and there were so many insights.🎉😢😮
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад
I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
@Soleilsorrel33
@Soleilsorrel33 2 месяца назад
Me: Why don't you ever contribute $$ Him: Well, I figured you have a good paying job. Me: Whaaaat? (Scales falling off my eyes). Yeah, put me back on the bench coach. Never saw or talked to him again. There were other things, but that was the straw for me.
@cynthiahopper2025
@cynthiahopper2025 2 месяца назад
Love it! Powerful message!❤️💯
@2okaycola
@2okaycola 18 дней назад
This is the content we deserve. Thank you, sir!
@FrancesHernandez-hf5ys
@FrancesHernandez-hf5ys 2 месяца назад
This is so true about praying so God can guide you. 🙏
@sacampbr1
@sacampbr1 2 месяца назад
Interesting video!🙏🏾
@drivnbyart
@drivnbyart 2 месяца назад
Don’t hate the “player”, don’t waste your time & energy participating in the “game”.
@ernestinejulieannebiscorne3583
@ernestinejulieannebiscorne3583 2 месяца назад
I thank God for directing me to your video,the minutes I just finished pray of asking God to guide me to see if I am being used or is it me worrying to much cose I don't want to make a mistake, Amen the first thing you said had clear my doubts, and even the rest of it,and I thank God to lead me to your video,now I know his not using me at all,and for sure il keep on praying.🙏
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
@chinadoll402
@chinadoll402 2 месяца назад
What kinds of things I should ask him for? I'm always the giver I never ask for anything, I don't know how. Sometimes I don't like rejection. I always do it myself most of the time.
@cdosby43
@cdosby43 Месяц назад
Ask for small things, things you could do yourself. This will give you some insight to his personality. Does he jump at the chance to help you? Or, does he complain and grumble when you ask for help?
@mariaarboleda2393
@mariaarboleda2393 Месяц назад
Greetings all the way from Switzerland!!!🇨🇭 I have been listening to you, for quite a few episodes now. I really thank you for the eye opener & guidance(s) you bring up here. Truly appreciate!!! May Almighty GOD bless you continously...
@sylverista3505
@sylverista3505 2 месяца назад
I always end up with this type of guy I just don’t know how to deal with men’s 😢 so strange persons cheaters mostly. I just have to give up and embrace celibacy since now on. Be focused on me, sport, meditation, sport, growing my business and rely to God 😅 ❤
@carmenelizabethchamorro8608
@carmenelizabethchamorro8608 2 месяца назад
Thank you Stephan Great video and Wise Advise Love you Stay Blessed TGIF.........🥰💙☕️🙏🏽❤
@McCarthy8
@McCarthy8 2 месяца назад
Awesome God❤ my family are happy once again and can now afford anything for my family even with my Retirement.$57k weekly returns has been life changing, after so much struggles.
@KuramaUchiha-id1ow
@KuramaUchiha-id1ow 2 месяца назад
wow this awesome 👏 I'm 37 and have been looking for ways to be successful, please how??
@McCarthy8
@McCarthy8 2 месяца назад
Maria Angelina Alexander I really appreciate her efforts and transparency.
@McCarthy8
@McCarthy8 2 месяца назад
I remember giving her my first savings $20000 and she opened a brokerage account for me it turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to me.
@amalmberg13
@amalmberg13 2 месяца назад
Wow...I know her too she is a licensed broker and a FINRA agent she is popular in US and Canada she is really amazing woman with good skills and experience.
@McCarthy8
@McCarthy8 2 месяца назад
I will leave her information below this comment.
@ChrisW1019
@ChrisW1019 2 месяца назад
I am a mildly autistic man. Reading social queues, body language, facial expressions, etc are a little more difficult for me. I am getting better with age. I do not "use" anybody.
@connieHill265
@connieHill265 2 месяца назад
It’s ok, some people are very good at hiding their emotions. Even if we could read everything we can still be wrong about how that person actually feels or what they are thinking.
@cleftheart1969
@cleftheart1969 2 месяца назад
I am a functioning autistic woman too... it's so hard to find love and understand people... I'm at the point that I'm just better alone.
@hiannahgus574
@hiannahgus574 2 месяца назад
Glad to hear that you are getting better at reading people. I want to tell you that when you date a woman, do not mask! The mask can only stay up for so long, and then when the autist feels more and takes off the mask, she wonders where the man went that she knew at the beginning of dating. Wishing you the best.
@FrancesHernandez-hf5ys
@FrancesHernandez-hf5ys 2 месяца назад
Very Interesting Video!
@HalfSweetness
@HalfSweetness 2 месяца назад
You betta speak, Stephan! Great wisdom, sir. ☺️💯🤍🤍🤍👋🏼
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад
❤ 🙏
@user-dt1vz4ce2w
@user-dt1vz4ce2w 2 месяца назад
Thank Stephan,wishing to do one another podcast about this subject 🙏It is very precious ✌️👍💫🌹🌈❤️I am very appreciate your work ✨👌
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад
Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!
@user-dt1vz4ce2w
@user-dt1vz4ce2w 2 месяца назад
@@MeetStephanSpeaks The same subject,please 🫠✌️
@user-dt1vz4ce2w
@user-dt1vz4ce2w 2 месяца назад
@@MeetStephanSpeaks the same subject,please 👍
@cassiethomas4045
@cassiethomas4045 Месяц назад
Thank you. I’m trying to keep rationalizing my decision to leave. He keeps using me, taking from me and neglecting my feelings and emotions
@AnnieRice-kc7fe
@AnnieRice-kc7fe 2 месяца назад
Love how you work I used my intuition to end a relationship between us because he was cheating on me with other women so Thankyou for teaching me to use that side of me
@Marie-vz2qp
@Marie-vz2qp Месяц назад
I just want to go on a private island.
@melissa_rabbani
@melissa_rabbani 2 месяца назад
Thank you Stephan❤️🫂😍😍
@latonyajones8389
@latonyajones8389 2 месяца назад
I just wanna use them as much as they use me. Mid 40s issues
@connierenee5076
@connierenee5076 2 месяца назад
Thank you 🙏🏿
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад
My pleasure ❤️
@christinemarielayne
@christinemarielayne 2 месяца назад
I just keep praying for the right man ♥️💯🥰 for me one who will truly love me
@h8h215
@h8h215 2 месяца назад
Parable of the drowning man, look it up.
@lydiaparshall8858
@lydiaparshall8858 2 месяца назад
"Get the final say so from God" 🎯🔥🔥
@jessiiica07
@jessiiica07 2 месяца назад
LADIES: God gave us intuition for a reason. It you have to ask/ wonder or feel like he’s using you he most definitely is! It’s that simple. Any confusion means no. If a man gives a shhhh you’ll know ! If you have to wonder? Walk the eff away please.
@ginab5661
@ginab5661 2 месяца назад
Your videos are so informative. As a Registered nurse, I have been too busy to date but now I have a little more time on my hands. I’m really attracted to a friend right now and we constantly flirt and we talk often, but I’m at the point of trying to see if he’s really into me or just trying to see what he can get out of me. So far he’s been fine so I shall see where it goes.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@eltrinajohnson626
@eltrinajohnson626 2 месяца назад
This is good
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
@Pattylove826
@Pattylove826 9 дней назад
The last one. Its hard starting over but i know its done.
@lisahurst1940
@lisahurst1940 2 месяца назад
Stephan how do you deal with all of this if you actually talked about your concerns and issues and all they do is make excuses for their behavior? That or they take those concerns as a personal attack and then flip the script and blame you for the very thing you are trying to talk to them about? Walked away from a person who deeply loved me because of this and I sometimes have self doubts about my decisions. Thank you for your videos. The topics are oh so helpful and you are so easy to listen to! Thank you! 🙏☮️❤️
@Katrica670
@Katrica670 2 месяца назад
That sounds like a narc!
@melissawiley3688
@melissawiley3688 Месяц назад
Love this ❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@sadiqua7
@sadiqua7 2 месяца назад
I honestly can’t even think of anything to ask a man to help me with and that sucks. Last guy I was with I made an effort to ask for car advice, he gave it but didn’t offer to perform the task. Early on he said he’d vacuum my car but never did.. over time he just got more and more avoidant, I got avoidant and suspicious. Implode. The end. I’ve worked on my issues and traumas and it’s ongoing through vids, support groups and therapy. If he could meet me at the self reflection level I know we’d be happy, but he just prefers to be avoidant and spiteful because I told him I couldn’t continue as a friend the more secure I started to get. Any like he gave me on a post just triggered the hell out of me and was keeping me stuck. I have to move on. 😢
@norrishastewart9062
@norrishastewart9062 2 месяца назад
Men who are looking to use you, can't hide it. They can dress it up in sweetness but they're still looking for the same outcome.
@maribelmunoz5522
@maribelmunoz5522 2 месяца назад
Hi Stephan I wanted to ask if all of these things are brought up to the man individually on different days or if you discuss it all at once on the same day?
@user-fh1tr9zp3l
@user-fh1tr9zp3l 2 месяца назад
When Albert Einstein was pursuing his carreer am sure it was easier Face it all relationships encounter problems at some point If his negatives outdo his positives no.need to go further Its not my thing to ask unless we both are equally committed Stephan thank you Hi to your camera man as well Blessings
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@MarsMars1001
@MarsMars1001 20 дней назад
I've found that codependency stems from insecurity.
@lashondalambrecht4566
@lashondalambrecht4566 2 месяца назад
Facts 🎉
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад
💯 ❤️
@KP_FruitsoftheSpirit
@KP_FruitsoftheSpirit 2 месяца назад
Stephan, Apparently, we are not getting it at all. The lack of understanding and communication is failing us badly. My family and I were talking. How can conjunction twins get married, and we are still single out here. (HELP us, Lord, Help us Oprah Winfrey , Help us Tom, Cruise. ) 🙏🏼😁🤷🏽‍♀️
@kanitaseales6488
@kanitaseales6488 2 месяца назад
Being a user as by promising to do things with you then when the day comes around to do those things they always come up with a excuse but ends up doing things without telling you about it behind your back and not wanting to be honest when making promises all the time SMDH 🤦🏽‍♀️🚩👎🏽
@andreatorluemke4982
@andreatorluemke4982 2 месяца назад
I think communication is a thing that’s not happening any more. For sure. Assumptions not checking things out. Not clear and specific requests. Not enough appreciation both ways.
@Patricia-cl5yr
@Patricia-cl5yr 2 месяца назад
My intuition said that someone was the one and I got all kinds of crazy signs but my mind said no he is a user. I thought he was scared and shy . But he was a user allright. I
@Bevon2023
@Bevon2023 2 месяца назад
Be prepared so you don’t have to get prepared 🎉
@josephsworldoftaekwondo5059
@josephsworldoftaekwondo5059 2 месяца назад
Brutha Stephan, when you get married I’ll subscribe. 😊
@Vidu_03
@Vidu_03 2 месяца назад
Last week my partner (33) of 4 years broke up with me (26) due to his financial crisis which he was going through from 2.5 years. It was a long distance relationship. I'm not able to accept this and unable to focus on my life for the reason that the emotional connection and physical intimacy (I've been overthinking a lot about this one) I had with him I won't find it with anyone else. P.S. -I tried reaching out to him from different number but he was very irritated and said that I don't have anything else to do, I'm so idle, I'm not letting him do his work, I'm not adding any value to his life, I'm so toxic and insecure etc. Kindly give some suggestions on my situation please..🙏
@user-dt1vz4ce2w
@user-dt1vz4ce2w 2 месяца назад
It is very complicated,not if you are independent,on your feet.No worries,you are young,will be ok,just to not accept back him.Focus on your future,health,and mental health 💪👍✌️In one day,you’ll thank me 😇
@lealea6020
@lealea6020 2 месяца назад
He doesn't love you. Move on and you will find a better person/boyfriend
@chrisryan8458
@chrisryan8458 2 месяца назад
Would a guy who has strong feelings like love a girl ignore her if maybe there was a slight falling out?
@hiannahgus574
@hiannahgus574 2 месяца назад
if the man is avoidant at times of conflict, then yes, he will pull back.
@adedejiracheal541
@adedejiracheal541 2 месяца назад
Amen
@Portia620
@Portia620 Месяц назад
We don’t want to use them
@Portia620
@Portia620 Месяц назад
What are we supposed to allow them to do for us? I’m a little confused??? we allow them to pay for dinner and stuff in. They’re gonna expect something.
@Portia620
@Portia620 Месяц назад
OK, so one guy is doing big things and I don’t know I’m so confused. I’m sure neither of them like me. 😂🤦‍♀️
@sarahdiv2731
@sarahdiv2731 2 месяца назад
Ladies your gut will tell you lf he ls using you See what you see and not what you want lt to be . I have seen women let a man use them because they wanted him And was well aware that they were being used . It bothered me both times l saw lt !!
@tyraw1005
@tyraw1005 2 месяца назад
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️
@Perseverance1843
@Perseverance1843 2 месяца назад
❤😊
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 месяца назад
❤ 🙏
@MissMumbuaKasyoki
@MissMumbuaKasyoki 2 месяца назад
What of the man who is always borrowing money from a woman?
@sylviamavule
@sylviamavule Месяц назад
Not even borrowing but asking 😂😂😂😂
@DeshaunDamon
@DeshaunDamon 2 месяца назад
*Question* If a man has wealth and says no to requests for some cash, is he using me?
@unbelivablestuff685
@unbelivablestuff685 2 месяца назад
Girl 😒
@JStig12
@JStig12 2 месяца назад
@DeshaunDamon No. I think that it depends on the amount, reasons, and frequency of the no's.
@hiannahgus574
@hiannahgus574 2 месяца назад
Not necessarily. Perhaps he doesn’t loan money at all. I no longer do, as people often don’t repay when they think that you are better off financially than they. Not saying that’s what’s going on with your situation, but it’s a possibility. Another question is why are you asking him for money? Are you being financially responsible, but had an extenuating situation? Food for thought.
@sylviamavule
@sylviamavule Месяц назад
I think you have to say your problem if he wants he can help
@chrissemenko628
@chrissemenko628 2 месяца назад
Love is a nightmare. Sigh.
@joyannfernander4064
@joyannfernander4064 2 месяца назад
You can always tell when something is good for you feel it within your heart and your spirit and when something is unhealthy your body feels run down and tired your mind is all over the place but with the true man that cares for a woman you will feel that peace that you get from him as well as the woman some men do not take no time to show you who they really are people only can pretend to be who they ain't for so long be real from the beginning if you're not interested just say so stop wasting people time there's too many other things in life to do life is too short to be wasting time it's just time to let love take control because it's such a beautiful thing Jesus Christ is love❤
@cindyluma4497
@cindyluma4497 2 месяца назад
D guy is cheating! I need tips to tap out from him too
@agataloca
@agataloca 2 месяца назад
STELLAR through and through ... although the final pray/god thing put me very much off. Not all of us are religious, and that should be respected. I choose to interpret it as that you mean we should always listen inwards though, before taking any one person's advice indiscriminately.
@StephanieChatman
@StephanieChatman 2 месяца назад
Open YOUR BIBLE AND READ IT IF YOU HAVE ONE IT WILL TELL U EVERYTHING U NEED TO KNOW ABOUT ME BUT SINCE YOU LOVE THEM SO MUCH I MIGHT SAVE THEM THE BIBLE IS YOUR WEAPON I SAW WHAT I SAW AGAIN READ IT ! AND I KNOW WHO YOU ARE BUT WHAT I WON'T TOLERATE ANY KIND OF DIRESPECT ONLY YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN BY THIS AGAIN READ IT I AM WAITING FOR YOU TO READ IT 💯💯💯 NO NEED TO,COMMENT BACK,I WAS ALWAYS HERE FOR WHAT GOD WILL REVEAL TO YOU
@mscurvy6922
@mscurvy6922 2 месяца назад
I raised me .. I fear asking humans PeriodT for help .. it’s so hard !
@sylviamavule
@sylviamavule Месяц назад
Me too can't ask for help I don't know maybe it's being masculine, I prefer to say my problem and he can help if he wants or just to give me without asking
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