You’re basically telling a man to respect himself. The fact that men need to be taught this in the world today shows how bad a shape we are in. Thank you for your great content Casey. 👍🏼👊🏼🔥
The power dynamics have changed. That’s why. Before woman “needed” men so respect was given. Now woman don’t need men so some men will Legit never get a woman. So to keep their girl or etc, they have to give away their respect due to a scarcity mindset. Before that guy that was ugly but had a good job could’ve gotten any woman. Now woman won’t even look at him
My mom used to say, “Familiarity breeds contempt.” This goes both ways. Having said that, I don’t think that ignoring a bad woman will turn her into a good woman. It may affect her level of desire, but it won’t change her fundamental character.
@@williamclayton9566operant conditioning does seem to work pretty well, but it all comes down to if that person is willing to change and accept that type of character rewiring. If they are willing, they will change. If they aren’t, then change is not bound to happen. Self reflection is key for growth.
I probably could have saved my 8 year relationship if I would have ignored her and pulled away. But such is life and I’m thankful for the brutal lesson I learned.
Every one is only temporary. If someone passes away. We don't tend to get mad at them. Yet we get upset when some people leave us. Same concept but different situations.
@@HonderdtachtigCCI know… but I’ve thought a lot about it. And… honesty I think I’m okay with wasting those 8 years because I have learned so much and am so better now. But I suppose that’s just some sort of cope or rationalization.
Absolutelly spot on. Happened to me recently. A girl who ghosted me 1 YEAR ago texted me for some reason again. I told her, that I won't stand her ghosting behavior and she did wrong by me. I was very clear about that. She became super sweet, promised she won't do that ever again and that she "was" stupid back then. So she tried INSTANTLY within the same day and chat to kinda lock down my commitment to her. And I even kinda friendzoned her to a degree. But she kept pushing. Guess what? The next day I start a casual chat, she tells me she is busy. Then I found she wasn't busy but in fact doing something entirely different from what she was telling me. I instantly pulled back and told her that I even regret for answering her message yesterday. She asked why, but I never even answered anymore. She trully disgusted me with that fat lie. I even deleted her. I don't need such mind gaming trash and attention seekers.
this sounds identical to a woman I dealt with recently
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@@sacksalami9543 Because every women will behave the same and won`t respect you if you will allow her. She was condicioned by simps. It is not her fault XD XD XD
Even if you are crazy about a girl…don’t commit even a little to her until she is basically BEGGING you to. Try not to be crazy about her, and realize how many beautiful girls there truly are out there. Even when and if you commit…you need to make it seems like the only reason you committed was because of how much SHE BEGGED. If she is not always the one that wants you at least little more than you want her, then it won’t work out. Keep yourself unattached until marriage if you even have plans for that. Even in marriage…be careful. 100% commitment is almost always ugly to women. Don’t believe them when they say commitment is what they want cause once they have you then the chase is over and they get bored. The reality is tough dude.
This is a year old but I made this mistake very recently. Fortunately I know enough to guard myself against manipulation. I was able to fend off her silent treatment and ghosting attempt, but I went through a lot of internal torture which would have been avoidable if I followed this one simple rule - treat women as disposable until THEY beg you to commit!
This is what happens when you deal with toxic women. Good women won't waste their time or beg for your commitment. They know their worth and will find someone else who will commit to them
CASEY is teaching me things my dad should have taught me unfortunately I grew up with my mom and sisters so I was very feminine as a man it took me almost a year to become a man on my own as I was taught the wrong way all my life ....I literally had to change my identity and become happy with myself ..... Loads of respect Casey ur the OG
The fact that men have to listen to videos to get a women is proof our society is ungodly and broken. It truly is better to stay single and stay happy. Women stare at me and check me out all the time and flirt with me. But i just keep going and living life. I'm not trying to act some certain way for a girl. I'm an alpha and I know it. And I'm okay with or without a woman. Frankly I'm happier when I'm single. Women in the USA Today are a nightmare.
What are your best tips on no longer giving a fuck? Because in my case, I can attract women by simply doing nothing. Once a converse back...they slowly pull away
Also the fact that woman do not need to self improve do not have videos to watch other than how to manipulate men to get their resources, nothing on how to level up , we are the ones that have to self improve better ourselves , she is perfect no matter how damaged she is how ugly over weight she is or how wrong or even evil she is , if thats not slavery i dont know what is ! Its totally rigged
Also the fact that woman do not need to self improve do not have videos to watch other than how to manipulate men to get their resources, nothing on how to level up , we are the ones that have to self improve better ourselves , she is perfect no matter how damaged she is how ugly over weight she is or how wrong or even evil she is , if thats not slavery i dont know what is ! Its totally rigged
Our society is ungodly and broken, and the genie is not going back into the bottle. If all these mind games are necessary to have a woman these days, it's not worth the effort. Casey is right, but it's just not worth it. If I can't be loved and respected for who I am, screw it.
The first girl I ever loved did exactly this and I fought for her back and was weak and pathetic for a girl who didn’t value or respect me anymore. And that makes you feel more stupid than anything else will. Don’t be me. Operate based on reciprocation, if it’s not there than you shouldn’t be either bro
Bro, I feel you. I experienced the same thing with my first girlfriend. I spoiled her too much. She had no respect for me by hurting my dignity. I thought true love is to tolerate everything, but women don't deserve unconditional love without boundaries.
Same here man, we've all been there. Gave way too much attention to her and always tried to "win" her made up arguements. Luckily, it was the most crucial relationship of my life. I've learned so much thanks to casey and where things went wrong that I feel confident as fuck for the next one.
Bro, I have been there. Every time I walked away she was putting effort to bring me back. Then we got engaged and everything then on a sudden she was distant and cold. We eventually broke up. i had to walk away for good this time. NEVER EVER tolerate disrespect.
This is too true. A woman pulls back when you commit, don’t just ignore her, ghost her. Block her. Leave her. Do NOT give her any chance. They’ll just fake it again and again. RUN from them.
That is not true for all of us some of us do care about being better for the one we love. When a man commits it does not mean that i pull back ,I am a loyal woman who carer about what my life will be. We are not all the same some have issues yes but we are not all the same
That sting that we experience and what comes after is the hardest thing to handle. Once you overcome and persevere, you experience a level of discipline above all else. It hurts but you in fact become tougher.
I think the key is to be busy enough with your own grind to not worry about girls so much. this gives you the mystery and seeming lack of commitment but busy enough that if she acts stupid you won't have time to worry about it.
@@scorpification Well, let's hope the ones who are looking for a healthy relationship are holding themselves to their own standards and not actively pulling away intimacy and affection just for the sake of attention. Maybe there can be some outliers in the world who know the needs of the sexes and know how to compliment them, and know how to have a reciprocal relationship and put in the work to do so like their partner. Idk, a man can dream.
I went through this. And I ended the relationship. Has soon as I made a commitment to her, the emotional and physical affection ended almost immediately.
Guys this doesn’t just apply to dating. As horrible and messed up as this sounds, my wife has never treated me as good as when I almost walked out on her for good and she KNEW that I meant it. Women should be protected yes, but they should never feel 100 percent that you are not afraid to become a ghost to them. Respect is paramount. Self respect and respect from her.
All true. This happened in my last relationship. My ex and I had sex the first time we met. Over time, affection stopped and spending time together stopped. Never again will I commit to a woman.
You’re speaking facts. I must add that the unicorn female we are discussing here are 1/10 it’s genuinely hard to encounter good human beings who haven’t already committed successfully. People who aren’t going to abuse the other for being wholesome. Whether it’s hiring employees or fishing for Ltr; good souls as a whole are hard to come by.
Excellent and well said. I am proud of myself for walking away from toxic women. Some who wanted to lead me on and or wanted attention or the ones like you mentioned were trying to link me. I got out before anything and did not look back. These women eventually became crazy for me I had to 🏃♂️. Yikes
you are right, if the good deed gets disrespected , walk away. Generally this type of women is for the streets. Chaos is incompatible with a mission of creative man
Tragedy of my life, there was a time where all I wanted was physical love and a companion. Finally had one and when she left I didn't know how to even live anymore. Now, she or another woman came back I would tell them that I am not interested. When I think about them I don't think about happiness, pleasure, love and friendship. I think about how much I don't like, respect, or trust them. I'm probably a little bit older than your target audience.
This is reminiscent of the demise of the relationship with the mother of my children 6 years ago. I slowly and blindly fell into the trap and still haven't fully recovered
There have been a ton of videos and a ton of advice that communicate the actions, but not the concept. This one was gold. This concept sums up so many other micro topics and body language things. Great video Uncle C.
The thing is. How do you find out if a girl is chatting with other guys, unless you are constantly checking her cell phone? And if you are spying on her, constantly trying to check her phone, etc., you will seem insecure, which is not at all masculine.
Spot on so many are hoes behaving shockingly with other guys IV zero interest anymore a waste of time the best advice I can give make your life better you need no girls.
You don't touch her phone or stalk her at all, although can and must do is monitor changes in her behavior and if you are a man with a purpose and strength you will be able to confront her on this, if she is cheating her behavior will get worse over time and she will cross boundaries. Once she does THAT you have to be strong enough to check yourself out, All you can do is all you can do, stay focused on the right things, checking her phone and stalking her only deviates you from your true purpose. The only way is to keep healthy and strong boundaries and make yourself understood or just walk away peacefully You will attract better when you do better and if you truly focus on your purpose no mentally stable woman will pull something of this sort on you
@@shreyasraj375 That is a good point. If she cheats, she will probably also start treating you like crap and not want to have sex with you ... and that in itself is enough to break up.
Always assume that she's talking to other guys or cheating. This way you will remember not to get attached and to get hurt. It's a f'ed up mentality but it is what it is.
This man is saying absolutely correct. If a women flakes on you or disrespects you in any way just ignore her as if she does not exist anymore. Just forget her basic existence till she breaks and begs you to talk.
Thats why i highly recomend to all the simps out there to beware of being too relationship focused cuz these chicks will pull back the moment you want more of them, keep in mind that less is more with chicks
I am a big wreck. I literally push and pull and exit at the right time. It becomes a emotional rollercoaster ride. I shower her with all my love, all my heart, all my time and efforts and I put in all my committed self and then disappear as I realise that I f kd up...and she literally comes cursing, and goes mad and jealous... She's on fire when I don't respond. God I feel like a loser and a winner at varying stages.... This s hit is crazy
I had to do this with the wife.. now ex. This pretty much described our relationship to the letter. Everything was good until we got married. Then the lack of intimacy and respect started ... It did sting when I had to walk away, (mainly that she took half of my money and my dogs) but after all of her weight was off of my shoulders I was floating. Now I've been single for about a year and a half. I have no problem talking to women, and getting numbers. They'll seem interested, smiling, flirting and whatnot. They'll even agree to go out... Then I call or text and never get a response. Then, on the other hand, I got women that are in relationships hitting on me. I'm not gonna chase, or sip on another man's koolaid... so my question is ... where are all the good, genuine women with traditional values? Do I gotta leave the city?
My girlfriend said Will you be with me always. I said yeah of course but once i saw you cheating with me on another guy I'm done . She said I'm not gonna do this. I have the power to walk away from her anytime she does cheating.
ye, spot on. Men must become stronger. Today's men are softer than our grandfathers and even before. Women always run after strong, masculine, non-needy, independent men.
Men need to be harsher towards women, hollywood and fairytale sold a lie, movies were created originally for women because they were bored and had nothing to do sometimes as a hosuewife.
I accepted she cheated I still wanted to make it work, she dumps me 4 days later today I refuse to respond to her it hurts but I can’t go out like that no more this video awesome.
sometimes, the girl doesn't even like you, she is there to get some validation. if she pulls away, don't message as often, don't make time for you, that means she wasn't into you from the start. sometimes it really isn't your fault at all, let her go and don't beat yourself up.
The problem is if you already live with this person or even worse if you are married. Then what do you do. If she is poor, it will be almost impossible to throw her out.
I am really glad you said this brother. because i have had bad experiences with women in my past. and i have found two or three woman recently who have this great potential, but if she isn't texting that often... she isn't giving me the full respect or enthusiasm that i want from a women. it feels like i should ignore her until i get the behavior that i want. otherwise, if i am texting or speaking more to "fill in those gaps", she has not earned that from me. now she is getting all that extra attention for free, it's like talking to myself. so she can get away with more and more abuse of power dynamic. people say that i am funny and interesting, but i desire a bit more then what these women are offering. it's funny because i have gone to a lot of people i know to share ideas and advice about women, but this speaks to me more then any of it. this is what is ACTUALLY going on. i can confirm it.
Dude, I was hard fooled by all that red/black p1ll content. Your channel "saved" the day, I'm already getting A LOT OF RESULTS applying the basics in a single week. I have always been a little sadistic, so I tried to "fix" it, control it through the years... But who would have imagined that people would actually like the worst version of me, this world is horrible.
Keep up the good work Casey you’re the man you help me a bunch of 63. I wish I known this shit when I was a teenager. I wish my son watches he just graduated from college Oklahoma State now he thinks men can get pregnant. What the hell is happening to our world is coming to an end I think unfortunately. And I’m very religious and spiritual. I’m very scared.
I truly do appreciate all your efforts. I’ve checked out your MBT scope and see that you are trying to earn a living off of this. Hey I don’t default you one bit for that. Everybody in this country can figure out a way to earn a living if they have a product to sell and there is a buyer who’s willing to buy it. That’s capitalism and God bless it. Anyway, I figured out that I simply cannot afford to take the course that you were offering, as much as I would like to. So, instead, I copiously absorb many of your videos because they contain so much elemental truth between how the sexes interact. I think you managed to be able to distill all of this down to human biology. So I’ve gained a lot of knowledge and a lot of experience and confidence from listening to your impressive words of encouragement, common sense and logical explanation of things.
I really appreciate the value and advice you bring to men on your channel. I recently found your channel because I watch similar videos for women. You’re a great coach. I can tell. Keep being awesome!
It’s so hard to meet people now with our generation if you are out of school/don’t have a job that allows you to meet women, so I rarely am able to apply concepts from your videos. You need to do a video on improving social circles. I’m 28, a drummer in two bands with weekly gigs, and I own my own business, but still struggle to meet women. I go out every weekend and get numbers, but we all know that cold approaching basically doesn’t work anymore. So how the hell am I supposed to meet people now? Never going back to dating apps; we all know those only work for the top 10% of guys now.
Go to a good church, most quality women you can possibly find. Still I've found issues with some due to age and maturity, but the golden ones are there if you just get involved and networked
Lol, at 4:15 you have already said what I only realized in hindsight, about my cov-narc-exgf. Effed my brains out for the first month, had me hooked, then started the games and gaslighting. Ya she's sh tty person, most important is that I let myself get taken. Thats on me; that wont happen again
The more you put into a relationship to keep her around, the less she feels she needs to do to keep you around. Then one day she stops completely and goes in search of another man who won't steal her role in the relationship.
Okay, so thank you again for this message. I am that good powerful dude that you speak of and is currently experiencing less intimacy from her when we do meet. I’ve decided to start ignoring her text, but I do find her attractive in my eyes. When do I know to reply again to her … if so ?
No need to pull back only to allow her back in? Don’t need her. Don’t need her interest, don’t need something from another unwilling to reciprocate. Commitment to a liability and problems. A waste of some of the most valuable revolutions around the sun. At the end of the day, a man is left with his self respect, and if you men get involved with these jezebels, you’ll be left with trash and exhaustion. Respect yourselves. Been there, done that.
My ex has gone back to school and in a all about her bubble, she started gas lighting me and showing no signs of wanting out relationship. She even asked for me to wait for her while in school and she said it will be bad cause she wants to get her doctrine done , I tried to help and support her with this for 6 months . Then while she was on break it seems like she came back but then as soon as she started school again bang she was in her bubble again and I said I’m done I’m walking we were together for two years . Exactly what you said she stopped putting in the work haven’t heard from her in two months. I don’t get respect you don’t get me plain and simple . Good luck
There are two kinds of women. The angel one and the snake one. Money has nothing to do with it. Money is also a form of evil. 1 Timothy 6:10 For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs.
This is why that dumb ass book called “The love dare” which I tried with my ex, and only made it worse. Women love doing the chasing, not being chased.
I imagine pulling back like that only ‘works’ if the other person is kinda toxic. If someone thinks they’re training a woman to be a certain way by pulling away, that’s a HUGE turn OFF for a woman who was only after a healthy relationship.
What if they want a healthy relationship, and start withholding in the bedroom, anyway? You probably don’t even know how important this is to us guys. To get a better understanding, YT “family f€ud do what for s€x”.
I believe pulling back is almost like giving space to each other. Longest and most passionate relationships come from people who on regular basis spent time away from each other. When couples are together all the time, be it at work, at home, and anywhere, naturally the tension and spark reduces. There has to be a balance. Relationships are a never ending courtship and maintenance process. As soon as you relax and let yourself go because you think you're "officially together", "married", or "have kids" you will start to slowly decay this attraction to each other that will evolve into something ugly where instead of being passionate about each other you put up with each other. Today I see many couples who act miserable in each other's company just because they both stagnated into toxic decline. Both a man and the woman has to work in maintaining self respect and do their part in managing this passion for each other. Because if it's gone then there's no reason to remain.
This shit guy right here has a high level of game. I literally just went through this exact situation, and I cut her ass off soon as I recognized what she was doing lol. Salute to you bruh. Peace
This is narcissism / bpd. Watch what they do once time passes. Intimacy stops? She thinks she doesn’t have to put any more effort in and will take more and more from you. Leave
You’re absolutely right. I have a hot girl with fake tits that somehow decided she wants me. I told her my priority is my nephew, which I spend my free time taking him to museums and Zoos and teaching him to work on cars, and this lady is sending text every 15 minutes. It’s crazy
