Ignoring signs of an abusive relationships

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@________1516 Год назад

Ugh, this is relatable. They all make you sympathize with them, therefore ignoring what’s really going on. It’s tough!

@gb259 Год назад

It feels almost like being paralyzed with fear that if I leave, I fail or I would die.

@sakak977 Год назад

I know... Its a terrible terrible terrible feeling. A part of you wants to save the relationship, come what may. A part of you wants to be a fighter and fight it out till the end. A part of you wants to crawl into a corner and hide. It's like you can feel someone drilling a hole into you while you're wide awake.

@cheetavontiebolt9971 3 месяца назад

No one deserves to be abused

@noelcarter2100 Год назад

I can relate . I been there before with my ex husband . He was verbally abusive & very controlling . He wouldn’t let me even talk to my mom. I got out after 1.5 years

@valeriearmstrong8874 Год назад

🧑‍🎄⛄🦌🎄🎶🎵 Noel, Noel, Noel, Noel 🎵🎶 LOL ok... couldn't help that. Anyhoo, sweet girl....be thankful to the good Lord above that you wasn't stuck like me 21 LOOOONG A** YEARS then you blink and before you realize it, you are 51 years old and come to the epiphany that I never knew what true love looks like or feels like and it's too late for me. I am so angry at myself and I'm trying to forgive myself. I hurt so much most days...and when I have tried leaving him, I get sucked back in. I resent him so much so that I am planning to try another "reset" very very soon and on the DL. PRAY FOR ME EVERYONE 🙏 .

@sirajammunira7642 11 месяцев назад

sammee for 3 years even now physically abusive

@dipalipatil2233 Год назад

Totally relatable. My husband hooked me to the idea that I could 'CURE' him of his childhood trauma. I would be one of the few people who would thank pandemic because first lockdown showed me his real face and second gave me the distance to realise that his inhumane abuse was not ok and it has nothing to do with childhood trauma. And that gave me the courage to leave. Otherwise I would have been one of those people who are unable to leave a narcissistic partner for lifetime.

@deeempath220 Год назад

I see myself😢 25 years of manipulation and gaslighting, still here but leaving soon! Pray for me🥹

@airyeeblesid824 Год назад

Exactly what this is! First thing that came to mind! Gaslighting and manipulation at its finest!

@averagemo8487 Год назад

Get out quickly and quietly especially if they are a covert narcissist. They are the most dangerous of them all. I pray for you. I had to do the same thing.

@megamierra Год назад

Happened to me and my fiancee. I also tought that his childhood trauma made him act like that. And hoped that my love will help him. But it all got worst in time. When we broke up he even got psihical and left a bruise on my arm. I am happy that i had the strenght to leave him when i did.

@januarybaby Год назад

Omg the childhood abuse card YES

@cheltziehentz1073 Год назад

UUUGGGHHHH!!! YESSSS!!! FINALLY ABLE TO SAY what my mind was thinking for 8 years in explaining my narcissistic abusive relationship to others who didn't understand!!!

@davidjoshua1075 Год назад

codependents and narcissists go perfectly together for a disastrous relationship... one wants to help because they had been hurt so badly as a child the other once wants to hurt because they have been treated badly as a child. The narcissist takes advantage of the codependent and the codependent takes advantage of the narcissist.

@unomeecj Год назад

FACTS 💯 30 yrs later Still planning my escape

@christinecronk9234 Год назад

Oh, BINGO, that's the same thing I thought. They make you feel sorry for them it's a warning for what they are about to do.

@kateca94 9 месяцев назад

This is me! No one around me doesn't understand

@Type_null14 8 месяцев назад

Going thru this now. If I had the money I’d be gone yesterday

@1vonehrenkrook Год назад

Yes!!!! Childhood trauma cycle. Gotta break it, and not okay it.

@janeleigh731 Год назад

I can completely relate, it's weird you sort of think you're the only one all this is happening to.

@leafyveins4985 6 месяцев назад

I wanted out 3 months in. He sensed that and started making very subtle threats about hu**ing/ki**ing my family and my two dogs.

@msj793 Год назад

If they are abusive and you try to leave and they hit you with this Line: Being wit you makes me a better man….go head and run boo

@Victoriah.29 Год назад

Wow this is exactly what just happened to me!

@rh5273 5 месяцев назад

Dang because of him i have to go therapy. I thought i have somehow heal but when i got together with him he causes more abuse and i am back to square one.

@shaktune57 3 месяца назад

So relatable

@Yeahithappened Год назад

Yes this is so me. 😢

@staceykunesh1001 Год назад

Ugh I can relate to this.

@jennifermartin4505 Год назад

I have so been there

@anniel13 Год назад

Yep

@sakak977 Год назад

Is this relatable or what????? Its like pressing a rewind button in my life, countless times. Especially the bit where shes explaining how she stayed thinking that her loving him unconditionally would change things. Hit me like a dart... Bulls eye! Leaving is not that simple or easy as others around you perceive it to be. You actually have feelings for the crazy narc that stop you. Even after it's all over you tend to replay the good memories and times you had with them. Its a normal human reaction and we have a tough time because we're normal humans. If we were evil lunatics it would be a joyride.

@unomeecj Год назад

I concur

@rh5273 5 месяцев назад

I agree. The memories just hit like a brick even after leaving. 😢

@sakak977 5 месяцев назад

@@rh5273 I understand exactly what you're saying? How long have you been no contact? Time doesn't give you a brain transplant. It's natural to miss and grieve something which you have lost. I feel like slapping people who tell me to just get over it or to let it go. It's not that simple.

@rh5273 5 месяцев назад

@@sakak977 it has been a month. I am trying my best to forget him. But it is not easy as what people said. Flashbacks after flashbacks even when i closed my eyes. Even a simple task is the hardest for me to focus because i can still see him.