I used to had a crush before into some guy who is bad towards me, even though he's saying those words that could easily hurt me i still liked him. But now im starting and trying to move on
He said I'm so dumb and other words that hurted me I finally move on after two year and when I'm in relationship he's starting want me but I Chase him away
The toughest part is leaving such partner, coz by the time u realise that ur relationship has becoming toxic, u have become quite attached to that person
@@dikshaa7401 Move on, go with the flow and don't turn back. Especially as women are considered weak, we must never let them over take our mind. It's better to move on, the time we realise we should rather than having a heat break at the time we've let the other person over power us
She left me because i stood up for myself and fought against her Toxicity. My heart shattered when she did. About a month later she spoke about it in a Livestream a friend of mine happened to see, he screen captured it and showed me how she talked about the relationship and me. It was hurtful, disrespectful, she openly admitted to flirt with others while in a relationship with me. She admitted to read Soft porn while laying next to me in bed while cuddling (small context, she’s lesbian, i used to be her best friend (i‘m Male), she hit on me and started the whole thing, she asked me to f*ck her when she was single bc. She wanted it, she acted like she liked it, she asked me out and if i wanna be her boyfriend.) in the stream she said the Sex was bad, it was unromantic, it was weird, she read lesbian soft porn while cuddling with me in bed and later having sex with me. (Another context, it revolved about her, i came once in many months of relationship, she never told me she didn’t like it, even though i asked many many times if everything is alright, if i should do something different bc. I‘m inexperienced and wanted her to be happy.) Our relationship started after being best friends for about 5 and a half years, and lasted for 6 months when i ultimately stood up for myself and only wanted minor adjustments because i simply couldn’t handle it anymore. I truely loved her, she admitted she had feelings, but most likely they were out of desperation bc. She broke up with her Ex girlfriend only a few weeks prior. That was the moment my Heart broke a second time.
O'SSÉIN - Master Your Mind With Me just want to say that letting go doesn’t heal. Emotional and psychological abuse create habits and behaviors that take AGES to fix, if at all. Letting go of the past is a step, and a big one. But it’s the first of thousands. Keep in mind, trauma isn’t caused by holding on to the past. Letting go alone doesn’t fix things.
@@CorynWarriorKitty so so good, so true. No one "needs" to let go in order to heal!! It even can be dangerous to our system. Letting go involves the body and is not the only way to heal!!
It's hard when your relationship is like a rollercoaster, sometimes you feel or know that you are in a unhealthy relationship but moments after you start to create courage and think about ending things over, your relationship starts to have a really good time and you can only wish that it would never end... It's good till bad things happen again, like a never ending circle.
My partner is a playboy. He likes to sweet talks to others especially girls..but he never communicate with me.. not even reply my texts. I want to end this useless relationship because of this dysfunctional partner but he never want to let me go. I wish I could end this useless relationship, so that he can continue sweet talks and wooing other girls like he used to do now..so that I am totally not in that sad circle again..
May be it's better to have stable relationships, not rollercoaster. I'm not sure, that person can always feel high in healthy and long lasting relationship
1. You fight... A lot (yelling matches) 2. You hide things (lying, dishonesty) 3. This way or the highway (no compromise and discussions) 4. You feel guilty 5. It's one sided 6. They put you down (and dont support you and your dreams) 7. They refuse to Do things that matter to You (no respect) 8. You are Codependent 9. They make u feel insecure 10. They're abusive (verbally, physically, sexually... Get help and get out!) 11. You change yourself to be what they want (they don't love you for you) 12. You're unhappy
All this.... Is what I'm going thru im scared to get out... I don't feel beautiful anymore im unhappy, we are fighting sometimes and theres times when we love each other but ... Its not the same.. Im so hurt that this is happening to me because i love her... 4 years down the drain already because im unhappy.... Idk what to do . we live together
@@jayviolet7480 I'm so sorry... Your situation sounds really rough, especially with the lock down going on. Have u tried counseling (is she open to it)?
Here's the issue with the guilt and insecurity ones: if you've experienced longterm abuse from other people, you sort of get stuck into always feeling guilty and insecure no matter how people treat you, which is why those who have been in abusive relationships, had abusive family members, etc have a hard time knowing whether or not a relationship is healthy.
Yuppp. Im just trying to see if its just me being paranoid or if the uneasiness in my gut is true. Their my ex but i cant let go but the more i stay the more unhealthy it gets. I was in a good, caring and loving relationship, but instead i keep being infatuated by the person i hate to love and love to hate.
Guinea pigs are cute- And it can make the feelings of guilt so much stronger. Especially if at one time, you couldn’t imagine your future without that person.
yeah he keeps talking about how we will get married, and it first i saw it too, but over these 8 months of dating him, i started to realise how annoying he can be, if im not calling him or at least texting him multiple times in a day he starts suspecting me of cheating, when he will start telling me how in his dream he had sex with other guys, he gets mad and overreacts over everything, and now our whole friend group keeps saying that they will see us getting married, and now i feel bad for wanting to break up with him, i told him that i wanted space but he started to act like he was depressed and started saying how he would kill himself.( ive only dated girls before so this was my first guy i ever dated, but honestly over this time i kinda reliased that im still straight inside, not that i have a preference though i date whoever makes me happy(ﾉ´∀｀*) sorry for the long text(@@;)
@@chickenbox400 your bf honestly sounds like a very toxic person, if you want to break up with him, you should. Don't feel guilty about it. He's not going to kill himself because you break up with him.
Chicken Box him telling you that he will kill himself because you said you needed space is literally a form of emotional abuse, he is trying to manipulate your love and fear for him. RUN
@@chickenbox400 late comment but approach him about these things. Bring it up and listen closely for his reaction. Sometimes, as you would know, men are stupid, and sometimes we stay locked on a certain type of mindset. Bringing up your issues is a good way to kinda snap them out of it if they really love you. If they don't...its probably time to gtfo of there
Thanks to all the videos on toxic relationships, I was able to see that my boyfriend wasn't good to me. He was very manipulative and always played the victim card. Thanks to you I was able to break free from him and end our 3 year relationship. Now I am happier than ever ^^
I'm getting the same thing from my boyfriend and our relationship is also of 3.5 years , it has become quite unhealthy but I've grew so attached to him that I can't think rationally
Walking (or talking) on egg shelves is another big one: when you filter what you say and do around them because you clearly know that talking about a certain person or experience in your life will make them flip out. I mean, we are all a bit careful what we say and do in the beginning stages, that is ok. But when you are clearly aware that some topic and actions are better to avoid even if they are important to you, well, that was a big sign for me (that I ignored for quite some time). 😀
I recently got out of a relationship like that and it also ticked many of the traits mentioned in the video. It’s sad cause I truly loved him but I had to leave to protect myself.
You can have not quite-the-opposite as well, when a person believes they have to walk on eggs shelves just to talk to a person when in reality that very belief and the actions which follow - Not talking about certain subjects etc... End up drive you apart.
I loved so much that i had to let my boyfriend go. The relationship felt too codependent that without me he can’t live. Literally. He threatened to kill himself. I had to step away so he can see clearly of the mental abuse he put me through. Making me feel guilty about not being with him. I couldn’t take it anymore.
I'm going through the same thing... He has been through a lot and he thinks I am all he has... And I know that's not true... He constantly says how he will cut himself if he goes through anything horrible again, so I've been scared to do anything that would hurt him in case he cuts himself again T^T. But at the same time, he is so clingy, and I mean SUPER CLINGY, and when I say, "hey can't answer rn, I'm with a friend" he gets really sad and angry saying that I thought of my friend more than I did of him... He even gets mad when I'm just hanging with family, like... Omg.... I knew it was a toxic relationship... Anyways, even though I am frustrated, I am so scared to break up with him in case he cuts himself again, or worse... Kill himself. Then I'll never forgive myself...
@@Reverie876 I totally get that, that pops into my head from time to time with my current bf. It wouldn't be your fault, you cant control what others do. I believe my bf feels I'm the only one this close to him and if we were to break up id be worried because he said he'd never date again and not have the kids he wanted because he doesn't want to invest in another person after me. I worry that his tendency for suicidal ideation would worsen if we split up too.
@@jujutsucryin3256 How did we get ourselves into this DX.... I feel so horrible about it, I honestly don't know what to do... I get that I shouldn't stay in a toxic relationship but at the same time I also know that if I left him now it would be out of selfishness and I can't do that to him
@@jujutsucryin3256 however... I talked to him about it recently, I told him the most major problems our relationship has and he said he felt really bad that I felt that way, now he's doing a lot better and is being more supportive and trying really hard to make sure that it's not just a one way relationship
Thanks for the video, it was definitely eye opening. I've been depressed a lot lately in my current relationship of 3years and I felt I was the problem. I'm in college and I live with my girlfriend, so it's been tough and sadly I haven't made many friends here. My family and friends now live 5hrs away so I'm stuck with hanging out purely with my gf but she is always getting upset when I have to study or want alone time. I feel like I'm being sofficated, so I recently started calling and talking with friends and family a lot but she gets upset that I'm so excited to talk to them and says I'm not that upbeat with here. I work my ass off to make her happy and spend time with her, I even do all the cleaning, dishes, laundry and buy most of our groceries, but she never seems to appreciate it. She gets angry with me when I ask if she’ll start cleaning up after herself or if I say I can't afford to do something, such as take a trip in the middle of the semester. It wasnt until last night when I mentioned to her I didn't appreciate that she was being rude to me for taking 30min to clean up after dinner instead of immediately watching a show with her and leaving a mess in the kitchen. She then proceeded to yell at me for even mentioning I was upset and started bringing things I've done in the past up. I told her I wasn't going to be treated that way and left the room, shortly afterwards she came out and yelled at me again and angrily said sorry but then proceeded to say it was my fault. I told her I wouldn't accept that sort of treatment anymore and she then retracted her apology and said she didn't mean anything when she apologized. Before she left the room she let me know I was a bs, that I was the meanest and most cruel person and she couldn't stand anything about me, followed by an “ I hate you so much.” I didn't say anything back except that I was going to sleep on the couch. She screamed and cried in the room for awhile and I sort of felt bad but I realized it's her playing mind games. She woke me up at 2am to say sorry and I said I forgive you but when I said I was still going to sleep on the couch she told me I was ruining her life. I'm exceptionally upset atm and only slept 2hrs before coming to class but I've decided to stay on campus and out of the apartment today. She's already called me 5 times today and said terrible things about me. I send her a message telling her I wanted us to communicate in a healthy manner and respect each others opinions and emotions to which she replied you don't care about anyone but yourself and I'm going to ignore any conversation with you. I'm horrified i’ve stayed this long and I'm sad with the insecurities i’ve taken on throughout this relationship, but I know I'll work things out if I can get out of this relationship. I believe I've been too kind and accepting of treatment that I would never do to anyone I care about nor her. I pray she overcomes her demons but I can’t fix her.
Two months before I‘ve been in my first relationship. I really loved my bf back than and we we‘re very close . We started dating in January and everything was great until February. I startet to feel depressed in this relation ship. I cried myself to sleep every night,not knowing why I felt that way . This stage continued and got worse everyday to the point I thought about sucide. In May I found out that my bf was the reason for me feeling bad ,but I didn’t want to believe it . I knew that I felt insecure because I wasn‘t sure if he really did love me as much as I did , I started to hate myself and change for him and I totally forgot about my friends and didn’t do anything with them anymore. He also started to get mean...My dream is it to become a Therapist ,so I could help people . I told him about it and he just laughed at me and said that someone who’s depressed like me can’t become one . I noticed how unfair he was sometimes and I even thought about breaking up often because I felt such bad ,but everytime I wanted to he was acting more romantic etc. and I forgot about everything . But then he broke up ...over WhatsApp. And 4 days before everything was fine and he even wanted to marry me that time . Afterwards he already tried to get a new girlfriend just to make me jealous and I felt worse than ever before . But now I‘m glad that I got out of this and I‘m finally able to be happy again !😁 But I‘m still scared that he‘ll might try to come back one day and I‘ll fall for it... I never want to feel that way in an relationship again
I watched this video after months of not feeling happy in my relationship. It taught me so much about what is right and wrong. Massive red flags, I had missed. I knew after watching this video and sleeping on my decision, breaking up was the right thing to do. My ex was saying things to hurt me and take him back but I knew it was just him manipulating me, like he had done for the majority of our relationship. It’s been two weeks since we broke up and I feel so much better. Thanks for creating this video, you saved my mental health.
This is so true! What tips would you recommend to those who know they are in an unhealthy relationship, but not sure how to improve or leave the relationship?
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For the insecure part: I’m insecure all on my own. My boyfriend brings me up whenever I’m feeling down. Some days we become codependent on one another, but I have friends who are able to bring me back to reality. And I’m trying to get my boyfriend to make some real friends in the world. Other than ones online because I feel like he needs real people to hang out.
Work on him!! Give him the chance to understand, you cant imagine how satisfactory is to see the love of your life (Or anyone lol it can be a brother too, parents with smoking problems, etc) win a battle that was causing the person to have bad life momments :D
@@Vidadrainer Well, I am. I'm doing my very best to encourage him that he should find friends. He's just terrified of losing me. He has Asperger's from an accident when he was younger. He had been playing on a game system one minute and then falling out the window next and landing on his head. He doesn't remember how it happened. Just that it did. He won't lose me if I know that he's safe with friends and away from his abusive and judgemental step father. One time, he had been shoved against a wall and was being suffocated by him. I want him to be able to be away from him. I'm more scared of when he's home than when he's away. He had such a blast visiting Japan a couple months ago for 20 days. He was smiling and less cautious about me video calling him and begging for his attention. Like he is now that he's home.
He hit me once today ; his friends think it was just a mistake but I feel hurt ; I feel like I’m the problem .........I’m always making excuses for him acting that way . It’s just so sad
In my life I have learned and I am still learning concerning relationships firstly before you love someone you have to love yourself in one way or the other persons would gravitate towards you if they are aware of your vulnerability don't let your guards down secondly you can live with someone for 20 years and they never reveal their true personality very scary be cautious thirdly people with sad stories about their exes they would say what their exes did wrong but would never reveal their toxic side until you get too comfortable and they reveal their evil ways so my advice is to always approach with caution ask questions snoop around a bit because in modern times it is much more difficult for a person to hide their dirty ways thanks to social media and intuition all the best
We watched this in class and I was literally soo happy that our teacher showed us this vid, cause, when I first heard and saw that intro I was super happy because I really love this channel and it's one of my favorites
Iv been in a relationship for about 5 years, we have broken up before due to the same issues of his behavior. He has opened up to me about a year ago and told me hes never told anyone that he went through horrible childhood abuse, I knew his father was not a good man but I never knew this. His behavior often exhibits those of his father and he has realized this and has been doing things to fix himself. I know these things take time and We both love eachother so much and connect so well. The only issues are the way he handles “conflict” when it shouldnt even be conflict, rather a disagreement or just me pointing out something I dont like. Things get blown out of proportion. He puts his walls up and feels he needs to protect his ego. After all of it, he realizes what he did wrong and is so remorseful. Genuinely. But the same things keep happening and he recognizes he needs to change but he cannot afford therapy. Life has been very stressful for him, and I can understand it. I dont think he means to do any of these things but his father basically taught him these behaviors. I want to be here for him but its hard when Im the one dealing with the side effects. I know he needs therapy as he knows aswell. I wish it was easier to get mental health care. If there are any resources or advice that some can provide me, I would be so grateful.
Number one: *Be in a relationship, because why are you looking at this if you are all alone like me?* :'( Tbh, this is so helpful to those who have problems in their relationship, keep doing videos like this they're awesome. 💕
And remember, just because the relationship starts off as looking healthy, it does not mean it cannot change to become unhealthy. In the beginning of my relationship, my partner was very supportive of my goals, but as the relationship progressed that started to change. He started to make fun of my singing, my novel (aka saying, "I'm not interested in hearing your 'insights'" and saying he wanted to date someone dumb and he didn't like that I cared about school. He would make fun of me for liking school and my grades saying, "I can't give you an A for that," whenever I would tell him I deserved better and I am good to him. He would shift the blame onto me a lot calling me controlling when I checked in on him as I was concerned about his drug use, I did not try to force him to stop but I was concerned and I wanted to check in. His friends made fun of my ideals and values (feminism) and started making sexist jokes and made jokes about my dog dying. I felt unsupported by my partner who sided with his friends over me whenever they would bully me. After he broke up with me, I felt confused because I thought he was the perfect partner, in the beginning of the relationship he took me on expensive dates, traveled with me, had an incredible career and supported my goals by coming to see my shows. But in the end I started to realize that he was just infatuated with me his commitments and promises of love were not met by his actions. The relationship took a turn for the worse and now I pray we never come into contact again. I do not hate him, but every time I speak with him he lashes out at me and calls me names. I always think it will be different before the phone call, but it never is. I wanted to write an article about my feelings but he threatened and scared me out of it. But I think I still will. I lost feelings for him now, but I feel very afraid and anxious all of the time. His friends tried to tell me the relationship was not abusive and called me names for saying it was, but I know the truth. My ex-partner emotionally abused me. And I do not have to stay silent about it, despite threats. Relationships can be healthy, but what I recommend is setting clear and consistent boundaries from even before you enter the relationship, and if they are not being met, have the courage to leave. This can change at any time during a relationship, so it is important to always be aware of yourself and your feelings and your partners feelings. It can be very hard to tell when your partner is just making a one off mistake or is consistently bullying you, but once you identify abuse in the relationship, do not give your partner another chance. End it forever. There is nothing wrong with being single, always choose being single over being in an unhealthy relationship, it could ruin your life.
I have an unhealthy relationship with my dad, he always gaslights me, shouts at me, "jokes around", manipulates me, and is just a walking red flag himself..
I am dating right now and i keep some secrets from him. He advantages me, doesn’t respect my opinion and get jealous quickly. I love him but i don’t want to break up with him. Sometimes i feel like i am single...
I haven't gone out on a date with my gf since the 29th of september 2019.The only time we spend together is the 15min to and from work.I didn't even get a hug on my birthday.She only seems to care about work and never has time for me even if it is just dinner after work.
I searched this up for my bestie because she's in a relationship that doesn't seem good at all. :/ I'm trying so hard to help her out and to make her realize about him. She doesn't know how to not be so attached to him and like she doesn't know how to let him go. I care about her and love her sm and I know it's none of my business but I'm trying to help her out. I sent this to her and yeah. Your videos always help me and I definitely think you're good at what you speak about.💗Stay safe!
The problem is, for some people the thought of being alone and the uncertainty of what happens after the breakup is so terrifying that staying with someone that doesn't really make them happy just feels more comfortable. They think they'll never find someone ever again. Which is, of course, not true but it's really hard to get into their heads. You're doing great by talking to your friend, but unfortunately she needs to realise herself that it really is not a healthy situation for her. But the signs of this video are really good indicators. I was in the same situation. I fell in love with a guy that seemed great. Unfortunately some stuff happened in the beginning of the relationship but it ended up making me feel very insecure, scared even and not happy about myself. He could be pretty possesive and everything was fine as long as I was with him, but whenever I wanted to do something with other people, he could respond just very bad. Up until the point I really struggled to say I had plans because I knew it could always end up in an argument. It took me a while to realise that sometimes its better to admit that we are both not making each other happy and it's best to wish him the best and go our own ways. But it was so hard because not all was bad and I did genuinely enjoy the good times and you grow attached to him. And in te good days he is very caring, kind and good. But it's what happens in the bad days that counts ultimately.
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I was here worried i was too obsessed and attached to my partner. And i think its safe to say We are perfectly fine, and i just havent felt a love so strong before.
How about ? 1. They don't trust or believe you. [Eg: you told you made something extraordinary and they question are you kidding me? Until you prove them you made it] 2. They always say they're correct. They're always right on the both sides of a coin. 3. They want you but can't understand you or express their love much. 4. They hardly ask you out. And sometimes you initiate a lot and then they make time to meet. 5. They don't want you to be around men. 6. They compare you with other women or men 7. They stop you from doing something you like and tell you they're really concerned about you hence they don't want you to do it. Are these red flags? But they always tell you they love you. They want you. They never want to loose you. At any cost.
1. Fighting a lot 2. Hiding things 3. This way or the highway 4. Feeling guilty 5. One-sided relationship 6. Putting you down 7. Refusing to do things that matter to you 8. Codependency 9. Making you insecure 10. They’re abusive 11. Changing yourself to be what they want 12. Being unhappy
i’ve had all of these problems in my first and last relationships, damn i fcking hate relationships and love after such an exhausting experience, i hope i’ll never fall in love again, such a terrible feeling
a friend of mine just got out of a relationship, and I just predicted it like 3 months ago, because their relationship wasn'tn exactly unhealthy, but it also wasn't rock solid. For example, my friend was kinda ignoring her during recess, wich isn't really his fault since he is just a dreamer, or he said he would come over to her house, only to hear that she needed to do some chores first, and that it was his responsibility to help her with it
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I thought I was in a healthy relationship this entire time we never fought and i thought everyrbinf was going well until it wasn't... This video made me realize that it really was like this and idk how to deal with it.
Thanks for the video, I do think a lot of these can be worked on together if spoken about between each other, especially if the partners have no idea what they're doing, or they have mental health problems they need to work on or if they have trauma issues too, trust issues etc, except sexual, verbal and physical abuse, that's just never ever okay!
I very much agree with that: no relationship is better than an unhealthy relationship. Unfortunately I believe most of us who found this video are already in one. Or worse, are already married
2:25 “They put you down. We don’t mean physically,” Oh phew, I was thinking that at any moment my future partner could at any moment just stick some syringes of anesthetics and standard death row euthanasia meds
i was in an unhealthy relationship, but due to my low self esteem, i felt that i had to stay because no one else would want me, and i knew that if i were alone i couldn’t bare the sadness and do something i might regret, so i stayed. i cheated on him, and i will forever regret it, but it was the only thing that made me realize that i didn’t need him as much as i thought i did. once he realized that my well being depended on him, he used that to manipulate me. made all the things he did wrong my fault, constantly putting me down, constantly saying i’m selfish because he wouldn’t talk things out when we argued because he wanted to go to bed by insisted with fixed it because i couldn’t bare the feeling of him being mad at me. i left him the day i cheated on him. i still think about how he’s doing and what will happen when i see him again. also, during our relationship i watched this video and i genuinely thought i was the toxic one. i wanted to watch it again now that i can think clearly and it was very much the other way around. it’s crazy what people can trick our minds to do. but i eventually figured out his bs because i just didn’t have it in me to care anymore so he’d use it against me saying that i’m the reason he does it etc. just be safe.
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I'm grateful for videos like these. I recently felt like I had to break up with my partner. I wasn't happy. Especially, when they would get super annoyed over the smallest things. There were even more unlikeable things about them. I feel sad after breaking up with them but I think I made the right choice. I may be sad at the moment but at least I'm not in a relationship that makes me feel trapped. If anyone is in a relationship where they're unhappy, do your best to leave. It will hurt but at least you can move on and maybe you'll find a better partner.
I have a toxic Xbox Live friend and here's where they all meet the criteria of a toxic relationship 1. We fight a lot 2. I'm never happy when I'm with them 3. They put down stuff I make that I and others genuinely think is good 4. They always want me to change to be a combination of two of their friends 5. It's one sided. I'm gonna talk with my dad when I see him when I visit.
I’m in a very unhealthy relationship because the person I’m in love with doesn’t even know I exist or anything and he lives on the other side of the world..... his name is Kim Seokjin
I hate the fact that my bestfriend is in such a UNHEALTHY relationship but she can't seem to see it no matter how much I tell her. Like her relationship nearly ticks all of these
@@Psych2go I guess I feel nothing ,I didnt grieve honestly , my father gifted me a baby duck that just hatched and now he is 2 months old , he kinda took all my attention, ducks require a lot of attention
there’s every single one of these besides one in my relationship, i’m not even sure what to do because i love her more than anything and i’m just not strong enough to break it off
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I feel like I'm the problem in my girlfriends and my relationship. And after watching this I feel like it would be good for her if we broke up. I don't want her to waste her time with someone like me. I know that I have to change but I don't think I have the strength or motivation to change after so many tries. I just don't know how to tell her without breaking her heart.
these look like a true sign of splitting-up thing. but i must say the third one isn't so clear and definite . . . btw my man is just asking me for some great expereince in bed. as usual. that is my secret that i use natural drops spanish fly 10 minutes before so i'll delay him now for a while
I was in a toxic relationship. She gets mad a me for the little things like having a girl best friend. She gets mad and accused me for cheating. She’s insecure. When I broke up with her she always say imma kill my self. She hide things from me when I try to help her she gets mad. At that time she made my mental health go down. When I left her I felt sooooo happy my mental health is way better
@@aishwarya1567 another video is 6 Signs You're Dating a Narcissist, its coming out soon maybe, they have it on there dating playlist at the very bottom, its unlisted
I just broke up from my fiance. She was most of what was said, she didn't even realize that she is like this no matter how much i tried to talk her through. Its my first day being single again in a long time, and when my ex fiance just left my house i couldnt be more happier. Another thing that you should look for is if she is helping you financially and mentally because my ex fiance wasnt working and bitching in the house for a couple of months till i told her what was going on. It got to a point that we couldnt afford our dream wedding anymore... :(
I'm here because of a lopsided relationship. Once you realize that someone has to like the other person more than the other you can move forward. Unfortunately that's also bad news. Your going to either like the person too much or too little. Same goes for the other person. When things go bad, one person has probably met someone else are got their eye on them and don't want you to mess it up, at the same time they are trying to figure out how not to hurt you.
I was in a toxic relationship but I always pointed out on how he treated me, he promised to change, instead he cheated on me but he used emotional blackmail, it’s manipulation of using guilt, fear or obligation, he would say things like hurting himself and I always offered to get professional help but he said he didn’t trust anyone but me, he told me if I left him then he’d kill himself, that’s why I stayed for a year even if he cheated but once I broke up with him, he ended up getting with the same girl that he cheated on me with, remember your worth, you are not personally responsible for anyone’s happiness.
i’ve experienced a lot of these in my relationship, it’s my first relationship so i’m a little lost, but i’ve brought a lot of this up multiple times and he continues to do it. i feel like im constantly on an emotional rollercoaster bc it’s really bad some days but then so good on other days and im a little stuck. i don’t feel good in the relationship anymore but i don’t know what to do
They make me feel loved (sometimes) and happy, but I feel more they put me down more than make me feel loved. I try to be nice, but what they do is that they always say “ok” to nearly everything I say. I don’t think they love me. I don’t know if i can leave them. I want to, but i feel like i can’t.
I love my boyfriend.. but hes always putting me down and making me feel like im not smart or even enough for him. we have good days. i love him so much but i cant let him go. i just want things to be happy again..
How do i separate from someone who needs me...? I feel like I’m trapped in this bubble and can’t escape without them killing or hurting themselves... and I really care and love them... I don’t think they realize the burden this puts on me...
my gf doesn’t like my interest..as often fight and argue over text because of simple actions and mistakes.i really do love her and I don’t wanna end it.
I’m legit watching this and crying, it’s hard when you believe so deeply in you that your partner is going to change or they love you yet go through being screamed and and told your not loved and cared for... but inner me keeps saying he loves me. Shits the worse
I relate to most of these but we desperately want it to work but it's always so bad. He hates me and I'm really unhappy, we say it's going to change but only a few things have over the past year and a half. The way abuse was described reminds me of when he was really mean and I didn't realise it was emotional abuse. I know because this was from 9 months ago so no body will see this but I really needed to vent.
I have just come out of a 20 year relationship that got really toxic. I thought I had no hope or chance of being happy. I put my big boy pants on and went my separate way. I have met a new lady and she is literally the female version of me.And I love being in her company. Its early days but I cant believe i’ve lived like I have for so long.When there really is a brighter future if you just be brave. And get the fuck out of it 😀🙏
1. you fight a lot 2. you hide things 3. my way or the highway 4. you feel guilty 5. it’s one sided 6. they put you down 7. they refuse to do things that matter to you 8. ur codependent 9.they make u feel insecure 10. they’re abusive 11. you change urself to be what they want 12. ur unhappy
sooo my boyfriend broke up with me some months ago saying i was not what he expected me to be i told my friends everything that happened between us, and they said i was in a toxic relationship, and i should love me more some days ago my friend told me "what if your friend was in your situation?" and well i realized my ex tried to manipulate me, he ALWAYS said it was my fault things were going bad, he said i didn't demonstrate love enough for him, he made me hide my conversations with my bff bc i was worried he would get mad at me, he would ignore me for days because he thought i needed to reflect my actions that made him mad, he wanted to change the way i talk to my friends, he made me feel bad about me i cried a lot of times, but i never thought i was in a toxic relationship, even when he did all those things, he would tell me that he still loved me. when he broke up with me i was in another country, far away from my parents, friends, and anxious because i thought i wouldn't last 3 months working there, alone (the first two weeks were rough, but the other ones were pretty well). he said i was acting like a kid, and he didn't want to hear my concerns... now im good, he really didn't deserve me
Our partner probably feels the same way we do. So it's important to figure out what we are doing that makes them feel that way and/or WHY what we're doing makes the feel this way.
@Mylene Caranay awesome. Never heard of a broken relationship that got fixed. I know of compromise and someone giving into something they don't want to. Wish you luck
