My problem is Why Do I "Inspire" Others To achieve Things, Yet I Am So Unaccomplished? I've Literally Inspired Friends To Become A Doctor (by telling her I was going to school to be a PA), A best-Selling Writer (by relentlessly getting her to not give up on getting with this guy in college who liked me but she didn’t know. I convinced him to give her a third chance and they ended up getting and staying together and he has the money & connections to fund her book), Start Their Business (when I joined my friend’s MLM that she was in for years, she finally took it seriously and went from $50.00 checks to now $1,000s in 3 months), yet I never accomplished anything….I never became a PA, I married a loser, and my business is going nowhere 😩 What’s going on with me? Why can’t the luck I being others happen for me??
Omg. My whole adult life has been working toward my goal. It’s been emotional exhaustion trying to be supportive of people who were not supportive of me. I’m ready.
jesus Wenzes you're a genius, i never even considered giving myself a year to accomplish goals! i feel such a relief, i have been trying to accomplish things instantly and just been draining myself.
Wow! I seriously thought this was just something else that was wrong with me (add to the checklist 🤣), because I'm missing a relationship with someone for the last several years. I have like 10 different hobbies and things I really enjoy doing, and then I go all-in on them for a little while, and then I get burned-out, and then move on to the next, then continuing in a vicious circle...
Wenzes - I hope so. Because trying to fill that emptiness and loneliness in my heart is causing me to go broke... I have more than enough crap (possessions) than I’ll ever need, I would much rather spend my money on someone else, making sure they’re happy, comfortable, secure, feel taken care of.
I live alone I have a lot of energy. When problems happen in loved ones lives it saps my strength. I know it. Most of the time I’m fine. Right now all my projects are scattered all over the house. Usually I can get on task and get er done. I know I can’t do it now. So I’m in my keep up with chores mode. If I walk into another room I’ll put one thing in its place. I usually go to the gym and that’s not going to happen today. In a week or two things will be back to normal in loved ones lives. Right now that’s where my thoughts and feelings are. Charging my batteries really maintaining. Two weeks ago I was all over the place enjoying life. Last week I was at a drive in theater. I have to concentrate on me and lived ones. Thank you Wenzes! About 11 people are hurting 1,020 miles away and I feel it all. I know I’ll get through it I always do and usually stronger. In a week I volunteered at a local pet rescue. I look forward to that. I’ll ease into it. 😊well another cup of coffee get my blood sugar up and get something anything done. I get grandiose ideas about the day maybe 1/32 gets done. I’m fine with that. Tomorrow I don’t have to think about it again just do. I’m the prayer warrior. I can do that anywhere and everywhere. Already seeing fruit of my steadfast prayer. Love em all even the wicked. I won’t tolerate their behavior though. Soon the house will be clean. Some form of organization. Then I’ll be on a plane ✈️ bouncing grandchildren. Three birthday parties 🥳 and spreading the love. Then home ✈️ and recovery. Cyclical and linear. Next days has its own issues. Hahaha 😂 Thank you Wenzes. Someone’s dealing with BPD and it causes a ruckus. I felt it in my spirit for over 4 weeks and sure enough I was correct. 🤯
Oh man! You hit it on the nose! I can go to work everyday no problem but man when I want to do something for MYSELF, other than working out, I can’t! I don’t! That is my main problem 😩
I’m currently in a funk, after 6 great months of the year, I thought I would be doing even better, and like magic the 7th month was a huge drop in motivation cuz of this self emotional let down. And now on month 8 I’m still in this funk.
excellent point of view. although our goals are always about serving others, our interaction with people or all situations that force us out of our shell, leave us exhausted and we always need that moment to charge the batteries.
Really great points! Slow and steady gets the prize. I used to have so much energy, ambition, and motivation in life. It evaporated - I am not sure why. I feel like everything is an up-hill battle. 🤷♀️
I so want u to be my InFJ life coach! And trust that it means alot since I'm so frugal! But alas as I go to your page I realize I cannot afford your coaching! Damn! Another perspective presents itself; I'm so happy for your wisdom! Thank you for your posts!
Dawn B Was just thinking the same, who are they? For me I started watching frank James, then Tom davison but honestly Wenzes content is giving me so much growth advice more than relatable advice and I'm here for it. ♥️ Thank you 🙏
What part of my life would I like to have more motivation for? The de-cluttering. I'm working on that little by little, yet, I need to turn the heat up on it so that my garage and home have more room and are both set up the way they need to be.
Watch videos on garage decluttering. I find stuff like this hugely motivating because they give you an impression of how it could look like and how that would fee like
This combined with the video about upgrading your life in one small step every week really, really reasonated with me because the upgrade is the thing I can physically see to keep me on task with the motivation. Thank you. 🙏
Excellent video! Today I was struggling with less-than-stellar motivation. At this point I knew that sooner or later, there would be an answer and I would feel better. Thanks to this video I now feel more recharged. I especially appreciated the reminder of the "exponential" factor. Also, your insights on the INFJ's relationship to SE continue to be practical to me - I've always had an "iffy" relationship to SE , and you're good at showing us how to cope with it to our benefit.
I live alone I have a lot of energy. When problems happen in loved ones lives it saps my strength. I know it. Most of the time I’m fine. Right now all my projects are scattered all over the house. Usually I can get on task and get er done. I know I can’t do it now. So I’m in my keep up with chores mode. If I walk into another room I’ll put one thing in its place. I usually go to the gym and that’s not going to happen today. In a week or two things will be back to normal in loved ones lives. Right now that’s where my thoughts and feelings are. Charging my batteries really maintaining. Two weeks ago I was all over the place enjoying life. Last week I was at a drive in theater. I have to concentrate on me and lived ones. Thank you Wenzes! About 11 people are hurting 1,020 miles away and I feel it all. I know I’ll get through it I always do and usually stronger. In a week I volunteered at a local pet rescue. I look forward to that. I’ll ease into it. 😊well another cup of coffee get my blood sugar up and get something anything done. I get grandiose ideas about the day maybe 1/32 gets done. I’m fine with that. Tomorrow I don’t have to think about it again just do.
