You should make a video on ' infj's potential ' because you know that most of the infjs dimmed their true potential because of their so much introverted thinking and exhausting themselves in others feeling
I'm starting to get it. "Co-dependency: They need me. That makes me valuable." I've felt like that way too many times and all of my romantic relationships have failed. I really do get it now. Thank you for what you're doing. I appreciate you. I'm going to share this video on Facebook so that you can help more people.
You dont kill the ego. The ego is the lens with which we see the world through, The left brain, carnal subjective lens and the right brain, creative, objective lens, and then there is the special, seat of the soul in the center. These are 3 different perspectives, that can be seen through, at seven different levels of states of being. Subdue the ego, wipe it clean and see new-clearer. Use fasting, meditation and positive self talk to reset your mind and nervous systems. Once you kill the false self to free the inner child from within you can become whole and new. It's like the reset button. When you wipe the ego clean, you become me and I you. IAUMU We are all one but people cant see it because of their programming systems, cultural programming and belief systems, as well as the negative thought and energy forms that are attached to them. If you strip these habits, behaviors, and negative thought forms; losing what doesnt serve you or others; then add back, keep what knowledge, innerstanding, and wisdom you previously obtained, that serves yourself and others. When you kill the false self you will see so much clearly. Your personality will change but not totally. Forgiveness for self and others. Love yourself and others. Life is about balancing everything in life to find harmony, within and without your Being. Them: Why dont you think less? Me: Why dont you mind your own damn business and work on you? They think they have a clue how we work. There is a difference between arrogance and confidence. Arrogance is a shaky confidence in what you believe. Confidence is a firm knowledge and intellect in what you know, and not in what you believe. I have done everything you have suggested and they all still hate me so... I'm ok with that. I love them anyways. It takes time to change even if you use the tools I suggested above. Never give up and never surrender. To infinity and beyond. Come ok n Buzz, let's go...
Damn Wenzes - this is the pinnacle of our evolution as INFJs - what a ground breaking concept you present to us today. You are telling me I can break free of the “ego-based” personality traits I have held as a badge of honor for years? Ima have to let this one digest. Good ish girlfriend! Thank you.
Your Ti is what makes Fi users think your cold, it really doesn't matter how many lives you saved on paper, at the end of the day Fi users always judge u based on emotional depth.
Agree and disagree. I've gone through the same sort of thing. I'm afraid, to be strict about this, there is no difference between your soul and your personality, as you present them. This is a way to process giving up on your idealism and compromising yourself in order to survive. I'm not saying you were wrong to do it, and I'm having to do the same, but there is no 'trick' you've discovered that most other INFJs have missed. Sadly, this is just not a nice world to live in as an INFJ or other deeply compassionate person.
Today I kill my ego !!!!!! :) I am slowly working toward this. My passion is the same as yours, to help others. I am getting back into making RU-vid videos again! Wish me luck
I really needed this. I'm currently going through a part in my life where i can choose to stay small and feel worthless or try my best to be someone who i know i can be but i'm afraid of showing. I've been feeling pretty down and stressed because of it, but videos like this one make me consider i can change. And you're right, it's the ego.
"This above all: to your own self be true, And it must follow, as the night the day, You cannot then be false to any man." (Shakespeare - although I modernized the English.) He summed it up great. But you did, too, with practical details on how to do it! 🙂
I totally do this, but recently I did start to give up my sidekick persona. Now I save that need to help and that need to put myself aside for others for my counseling practice and I am less "nice" to friends and partners. It was weird at first but now it actually feels good. Last weekend I even called out a date because he was bragging too much and not interested in who I am.
For example, I used to think it was enough in a relationship for me to find my partner interesting. But now I want someone who finds me interesting too lol.
She said this is gunna trigger some of you and I was like no way, I don't get triggered. I was triggered 2 mins in lol. TY for the content. Off to move mountains.
I never knew that there was a name for my personality I’m obsessed with finding info I’ve been asking myself these questions as long as I can remember even as a little girl
Wenzes,i love you friend( common phrase here, means like:" you are a genius, you solve one of my problems,thank you!". Its like my future me talking to myself in my head but now is a beautiful girl full of confidence looking to a camera and shearing it to the world... I do really love yourself and soul and please, keep on this path! I can see the beautiful person you are and how you are growing, its just beautiful think of a world with more people fulling their souls with power and shareing their lights. Writing from Argentina...Hi!.
That's something I was thinking all the time and I'm still thinking that way, although I got healthier in the last few month 😊💝 However I still feel that the urgent "need" of helping people is still a part of me. I will think more about my own needs though, or at least try to do so, because I know that's important
Am I afraid to kill a part of my personality although it doesn't serve me any longer ? No. Yet, I'm not sure if I can kill it or not, yet I do know I could at least "turn down the volume" on it, or maybe "let it out of the cage" only when necessary. That's what I have done in my time of self improvement and development. As an INFJ, I don't have a bunch of friends, yet the ones I do have are good quality people. I really like this video. You touched on some in depth issues we deal with constantly. Thank you again.
So basically: be someone you're not to be happy. And if that means thinking about yourself instead of others, about money instead of ideals, and doing things you don't like: so be it. Very weird advice.
Thank you, Wenzes. I have had to change aspects of my personality before, but the information that you had in the video not only resonated, but it described the feelings perfectly! I'm really trying to create the INFJ epic life. Keep up the great work and content! Thank you
That’s what I said! This is where she has been leading us - the ultimate step in personal self growth - willing to become less of who we think we have to be to be more of who we really are - this is exciting to get to this ☺️
Not what I expected. Depression video about killing your ego.... I fully expected a talk about INFJs taking psychadelics. I found a few grams of mushrooms will kill your ego. Helped me with depression and breaking the bad habits you talk about.
MORE FLUENT WAY OF KILLING EGO IS WITH STRING BEATS AND HAMRMONY THEN DIRCT DOWN FALLS OF MAN KINDS KILLING ZONES. BUT NOT ALWQAYS. sorry for caps but it will prove point as well I will keep it ..
While I am listening to this video I see that I no more raisonate with what you are describing. Maybe I've changed a lot. And also I think because INFJ NiTi dom is not like the typical INFJ NiFe dom.
