INFJ here. I feel it somehow. As you said Se prevents us somehow from keen observing.I think a lot also comes from seeing patterns. INFJs are experts in this. And often I feel that happens subconciously.
We watch . And when we do we think about what we see. Personally I can see false people . I dont know how I do it . I just do . I never have liked bullies . Owing to the fact that I have been bullied . I also am well aware of con people .
I really resonate with what you're saying. I have a YT channel, so I read comments that people leave. I can tell almost immediately what is behind the comment: whether it's a sincere question, a challenge, someone trying to belittle or demean me...or even a bot! It really helps me focus my energy when I leave a response. People who are sincere get more of me and my time. Those whose motives are on the ugly side, get less ..or nothing at all...and some are blocked. And the amazing thing is that it's super easy to tell the difference...for me, anyway! Now I know why. Thank you. Your analysis made perfect sense to me.😊
Omg i'm not alone!!! Im so happy this info is trending! I get intuitions on things all the time. Long before i know what my assertion will be. It hurts so much when someone gaslights u and betrays u when u plainly share these insights.
Ive had speech pathologists tell me that I am very articulate and i only went to highschool. But this has been my reality my whole life. I am better speaking and not over thinking in writing. I can also pick up on a ton about personality based on single still images due to facial expressions. Its like I can see how their face likely looks when they're feeling all emotions. Omggggg sooooooo true about picking up on ALL subtleties like this. Its why criminal interrogation and the science involved due to the psychological implications found in behavioral nuance helps cops and investigators can tell what an innocent person normally sounds like.
Thank you, this is highly insightful and helpful....My belief at this time is that one thing that might prevent an INFJ from spotting/realizing when someone is lying would be some type of mind control blinding them to what they recognize on a deep level.
It is always important for every INFJ to try to verify what their intuition tells them with something in the real world, which is why I highly recommend every INFJ (as well as most introverts in general) learn body language. There should always be a cross check in the real world. Thank you for sharing your insight on this topic. Take care. 🤗
Right when you said it, it clicked. You nailed it! I too would have those huh moments. I never could put my finger on it, all of a sudden I would just know you're lying, this isn't make any sense I wouldn't know what was going on I just knew as you said don't trust them. They're not being honest. There's more to what's going on. It would take time, observation before I could observe with the real motivation was but I would have those huh moments After you said this, now it makes sense because as you said most time I'm halfway listening to people, simply because I've heard most of these discussions, arguments, reasonings so many times you already know what they're going to say. You already know where they're going and then all of a sudden huh? And as you said, if you believe certain things, the conversations are predictable, the words you're going to use are somewhat interchangeable but they all lead to the same direction. So when someone says something that's kind of off, like you said it's kind of like listening to a song and then someone hits the wrong key. That switch getting your attention and I hadn't really thought about it never occurred to me until I heard you say it and it's like wow you nailed it
Ive couldn't detect my dad when he was lying till I was 18... And then I realized he was narcis grande, now I know he is always lying... Does anyone play poker and use this superpower?
My military buddies used to always say I would be good at poker. But I never played. You don't talk much in poker. Maybe I'll give it a shot some day. 🤗
A friend once told me that I have the ability to see if someone's Evil Within 3 minutes and it takes them at least a year or more to see what I try to explain initially. I didn't quite know what it was then but I do know
Ne and Se give fluency. Ni and Ti give depth. INFJ are sensitive and theoretical and objective big picture thinkers. Most aren’t, so don’t get us or our perspectives.
Holy faark.. Light bulb moment!..mate thankyou for your wisdom. This I have dealt with my whole life and I could not explain the why or how, just that someone or some reason/explanation didn't sit right with me.
Only took me half a century to figure out, lol. But seriously, thanks for watching. I'm glad I was able to share it with folks who would understand. ❤🤗
Of course, there is body language observation, which is both innate and learned. This particular observation was when I realized I was doing it when only listening to people, which seemed a bigger puzzle to me. Thanks for watching! 🤗
@@ConsciousPatterns It gets worse. Everything is a language… a code. There isn’t a thing that isn’t. And then it gets even worse - those who have learned how to tell lies with the syntax and structure of the truth. And then it gets worse-worse - the expectation that things should be as we think they should be when this world will never be perfect, but will die. One must ask the question, “What is the true ultimate purpose of this surface existence and what is the true underlying existence?” That is to say, to live in a matrix which contains lies within a greater matrix within which there is no lie, within an expanse of pure potential… being one of flesh and prone to ways of this matrix, what about our own potential for fooling ourselves? Ahh… see, that’s how we really know others are lying… we know who we are. So unless we are getting the truth from a pure source, one can expect only lies. If only introverted intuition was utterly and completely pure; but we color it with introverted thinking and introverted feeling processes. We attempt to reason with the truth to discern it or we attempt to feel it… and yet, the truth is simply come before us and existed before us and is bigger than us. At the same time, it is simple and not complex; and without respect to our version of our own identity or feelings concerning the matter. And therefore, if the function is tied to the flesh, it is of it… therefore it is merely the most efficient and wise knowing function, but it is still purely anecdotal. It is always the subjective perception of what the object is and what it is doing. Whether the object concedes this point is merely an artifact of the subjective experience. Therefore, the actual and whole truth must be planted within from an underlying layer, an extraneous source which becomes internal; and from a singular and perfectly true mind; from whom and whom only can any lesser mind have come to existence. Logos - Greek for “The Word”. Ni is only the most efficient flesh process. It does not, unfortunately, in and of itself, contain purely unadulterated perception. An atom of lead in water makes it to be an imperfect dihydrogen peroxide… which without that Pb would be otherwise known as pure water; pure, living water is completely unadulterated. It is only with this understanding that Ni can actually be used appropriately.
