She really wasnt making it about her. like yea shes in the wrong, but she vlogs everything. she obviously shouldnt have recorded n shit the whole time at the wedding but its j a normal thing for her. Def doesnt make her toxic, plus she drove 3 hours to be there.
@@stewped_6932 I’ve driven hours for friend’s events like weddings and graduation, and while I’m not an influencer, I don’t make it about myself. She literally did and disregarded the rules about having phones off
@@stewped_6932 the sign at the wedding clearly said "be in the moment, please turn your phone off" do they not know how to read? seems pretty easy to understand to me, then they make an entire vlog at their wedding, and even take a picture in the middle of the aisle 💀
I remember Tana or Brooke saying something about lilah having no self awareness or self control and that’s why they chose to distance from her a bit. And this proved their point. I really hope they address this on cancelled
Yup! She was a horrible friend to them. Dont forget the plane story where Tana had to pay 20k bc the plane had to land bc lilah on her way home from a tropical vacation paid for by Tana of course, couldn't wait until she got home and had to smoke *god knows what* in the bathroom of the plane. Then lied and said she didn't do it and that the workers were just transphobic and tana believed her and stood up for her... just for her to admit in a vlog while giggling that she lied. She weaponisez her being transgender to constantly play victim in situations where she's in the wrong, and to 100% avoid accountability about the MANY things she's done wrong.
Truly why would they address this on cancelled though, yeah they used to be friends but it would be so messy to just start shitting on her for something entirely unrelated to them? Definitely not something that they would need to address or even speak on publicly imo
*She wanted to be the first one to post any content so she'd get views. That's the truth. She didn't want to post after because she feared people wouldn't click hers once others posted whatever content they had. It was tacky. Glad she got called out for it. Zero respect. Her excuse was literally "well other people might be doing it so why can't I?"* 😂 *What an absolute joke.*
Absolutely. She's so thirsty for views/attention/ clout that she made sure to post her content, even before the bride & groom could post theirs. She also made the whole day about HERSELF - eye f*cking herself while standing in the middle of the aisle filming a boomerang for IG 🤨🤬
It’s really disappointing that she couldn’t even follow their simple rule of it being an Unplugged wedding. I don’t understand why she couldn’t wait a couple days until Kouvr and Alex were able to post their OWN wedding content first.
Unfortunately many people do not follow that rule. I got married in November and made it clear to our guests multiple times leading up to the wedding and at the wedding (had a sign and our officiant made an announcement before we started) and unfortunately there were many guests I saw as I was walking down the aisle with their phones out. I was so upset.
It’s not that disappointing when you already expect this from Lilah, this is literally who she is. I’m not entirely sure why they invited her and didn’t expect this.. Then she gets called out and blames It on people being transphobic.
She drove 4 hours to recode it. She knew better and her bs about no rule book is just crazy. Its normal wedding etiquette to note make someones wedding about themselves. Oh and f her for trying to shift people to trans rights and use them as a way to take the heat off her. That was pathetic.
I agree! I'm all for trans rights, but that was a slimy intro to that. You wanna talk about trans rights make a separate post about it, nothing to do with this situation or brushing off the criticism. That isnt the time or place. And as a trans person herself, she should be ashamed. She's taking away from both conversations by trying to change the subject. You cannot combine those topics in one post, its not right and comes off badly. If you truly want to make a difference with trans rights, use your dam platform correctly.
10:38 'my way of showing gratitude and love for anybody is showing my experiences... which is why i decided to cash in on this opportunity and post content of myself disrespecting the bride & groom's wishes before they could even post their wedding photos/videos first😊😊😊'
Influencers not being able to clout chase impossible challenge. Like that is so disrespectful there were clear rules about no phones or cameras but clearly she didn’t care. Cause she wanted her content and make it all about her experience at the wedding like it’s not about you it’s about the bride and groom that is wild. Best believe I would’ve have the argument with this person if I was the bride or groom. The way she says “UnForTunAteLy i VlOggEd iT” like no you chose to do it and ignore the rules.
I've never seen someone take a picture in the actual aisle. That's just wild. And it's an influencer wedding, so you know they probably had these cute little setups for pictures around the wedding venue..
My mil posted pictures of mine and hubs wedding before we did. It was just as unacceptable as this! Is it not COMMON SENSE that you don't post somebody else's moment?????
LMAO one of my aunties posted pictures of a cousin's wedding WHILE THE WEDDING WAS GOING ON. She was so surprised pikachu when she got snubbed at the next family reunion.
All she had to say was she's sorry and she should have waited until after the bride and groom posted their wedding to post her point of view. Her explanation was so long and unnecessary.
She quite literally did not even have drag trans issues into this.... Like apologize and move on but like as a trans person myself that felt so like red herring. I dont know anything about this lady if she is trans or not, I won't assume. But it's just like idk, just yea it is an issue, but, it's not THE issue that you set up your camera to talk about.
The moment I heard Brooke talk about Lila being disrespectful to the jet crew and how they had to teach her that you can’t just talk to people in a disrespectful manner is when I came to the conclusion I didn’t like that girl.
a) no public apology to the bride and groom who expressed they weren't happy only "i wish they'd text me" and b) "I drove 4 hours" okay? you could've walked 2 mins to the wedding you still did the universally disrespectful thing of POSTING THE ENTIRE WEDDING BEFORE THE BRIDE AND GROOM
Also bro who cares if you drove 3-4 hours?!? We had people from different countries and across the US to come to our wedding its not about you its about the bride and groom.
“my way of showing gratitude and love for anybody” is by punching people in their face and that is something I’ll never apologize for, being myself! Now don’t worry about me, look at all the other fucked up shit in the world! It’s worse! Ok bye! Solid logic.
I think her response made it so much worse!! Sooo much gaslighting woah! To then blame the couple and say you wish that they would have privately messaged you😅
I understand they invited a whole bunch of influencers and yes others may have filmed some content. HOWEVER, posting said content the same day or the day AFTER the wedding when its not even yours is CRAZY.
I knew as soon as he spoke that had to be a man lmao... combine trans narcissism with influencer narcissism and ooooof. 😂 "I'll never apologize for being myself" the irony.
I have no clue who any of these people are but that's the biggest clout chaser I've seen lol I would be soooo mad if anyone posted my wedding before I did.
I don't have any kind of following online other than friends and family, and when i got married last year, and I even had a friend ask if i was okay with her posting pictures since I hadn't yet. I didn't even care but it was literally a basic consideration.
I can’t be the only one that’s tired of this perpetual victim complex that some people in this generation have, she didn’t have to mention the anti trans laws and only did so to deflect from taking accountability it’s so draining…
Their no filming sign was way too small. That’s something that needs to be huge where the guests are being seated IN ADDITION to the officiant telling everyone to put their phones away before the groom walks down the aisle. But, as someone who is planning a wedding rn and has been to some, nobody ever listens to the sign that says it’s an unplugged wedding. It’s so annoying but it’s something the bride and groom would unfortunately need to accept that some people won’t listen.
@@rachelrandolph2579even if they had it on those items it’s never enough. When it comes to wedding u unfortunately have to treat guests like toddlers and make things so loud and clear and really belabor the point until they can recite it in their sleep
@@Jvideowatcher yeah for sure and even then they still won’t listen :( Alex and Kouvr still real people regardless of their following, and she’s lucky enough to know them to be there. The least she could do is respect them :(
For all we know they probably had it on a bigger sign even so that's weird to vlog someone's wedding like is that not common sense to not film it and to at least wait til they put it out themselves??
@@ZionDoesMakeup I 100% agree that it was super tacky to vlog it then upload it, but I don’t know why people are so surprised by anyone doing this. Feels super inevitable when you are an influencer couple and invite other influencers to the wedding
The way she says “unfortunately, I posted it” gives the same vibes as if she just flat out said “I did what I did, and I don’t give a damn” THEN proceeds to basically say because Kouvr and Alex “know” her personality that she should be exempt FROM THE DAMN SIGN THAT KOUVR AND ALEX THEMSELVES HAD AT THEIR ACTUAL REAL TIME WEDDING THAT SHE DECIDED TO IGNORE!!! But no Lyla is not in the wrong at all 😌
Lyla doesn't look well...idk how to say it nicely but she looks really thin. Also if TANA unfriended her.... I also hate it when influencers use the old "there's so many other things in the world to worry about " like there's room to be mad at many things. 😂
If she really thinks that talking about trans rights is more important than talking about a wedding, WHY ISN'T SHE MAKING CONTENT ABOUT TRANS RIGHTS???
"That's how I show my love, monetizing special occasions." This is like taking their wedding video and posting it before them, and saying it's a gift or on their behalf. Just wait to post (figured that's common courtesy) or even better (like the sign said) live in the moment!
9:06 Lilah no one cares how long or far you chose to drive. That is literally just filler information that isnt relevant. She just wants to have something to say, but like b, you cant defend this. Like, you even lied about having an okay. If there was "permission" im sure she said something that came off as a guilt trip and they said "yeah i guess" not "yeah totally post it!" Clearly you're in the wrong, its not that hard to say i messed up, I'm sorry and i have learned from this experience and won't ever be doing this again
If everyone was taking videos, then how come in lilahs own videos, NOBODY else has their phone out. I literally looked in every clip, and didnt see a single person with their phone out. Nobody.
Ok I haven’t seen Lyla since she was hanging out with Tana and I certainly don’t want to body shame but is she ok? She’s so much thinner than she used to be and she was very thin then. 😬 It’s so ridiculous that they even had to have a sign and even that couldn’t be respected.
I don’t know how many times I have to say this but here we go. UNLESS IT IS YOUR WEDDING, YOU SHOULD NEVER BE THE FIRST TO POST PICTURES AND VIDEOS no matter what job you have, what your hobby is, what makes you happy, this was never about u. Weddings are to celebrate to two people coming together and vowing to stay in a committed, loving marriage. You can take vids and pics all you want bc I’m sure the bride is going to be jealous she didn’t get that good of an angle. Believe me I had so many pics from so many people coming to me on my wedding day. But they all waited until me and my partner posted photos bc that’s how the world works. It’s called human decency. And bc she’s made this problem so public this may be the LAST wedding she ever gets invited to. But that’s my take🙌🏼 ok I think I’m done talking now lol sorry this was so long thank you to anyone who stayed for this crazy tedtalk.
Why did she said how much she drove until she got to the wedding? It sounds like she's saying - well, since i took my precious time and money to be there, you have to repay me with content. Sociopathic behavior...
Um. With all due respect, my intentions are not to body SHAME at all but she doesn’t look very healthy which may affect her way of thinking. 😔 *I never heard of her*
It sucks that they had to spend the day after their wedding responding to this. It’s also weird to refer to taking pictures/videos at a wedding as “content”.
Excuse me what did these two clout chasers think would happen when they invited so many influencers? Like i dont know the girl but i remember these two from back in the day, they love the attention and im sure they’re enjoying the drama / victimizing themselves. Its just a 5 minute vlog people wtf?
I went 10 hours to one of my closest friends wedding and I asked the BRIDE and GROOM permission before I posted anything on social media and I waited until they put something up before asking for permission. There is a time and a place she is disgusting.
She's so self absorbed. It's not even about the posting thing. It's what she posted and how she went on about the content she has. Imagine going to a wedding, taking photos and videos and posting them BEFORE the couple, making a whole vlog about it when she had no right to do so and not getting why people are mad at her is INSANE. She's babbling how she didn't see any signs when the bride and groom themselves posted a sign that they have up on their wedding and the couple are in Tiktok comments on videos siding with them. She's so toxic and will probably use this negativity too to clout chase and milk this whole situation.
