Interview with "The Bachelorette" Charity Lawson and her new fiance Dotun 

I also was always team Dotun from the moment they connected and I saw the spark that kept growing.

@@Lynn2011Joined Exactly 💯!

lmao if you call him the best I pray for you and what you think is good....

Amen 😅. A big nice Nigerian wedding

Me too I know African weddings are the greatest I cannot wait to see it.

Yea

wow hopefully she gets to be a woman and live what she wants for her life cuz he aint gonna let her live it the way she wants ... so sad she picked him

@@user-gc6mf2xe9t wat are you on about ...

100% I’m in complete awe of her.

people really want to see her with Xavier

@@lovegodschild1430 which people are those? Cz clearly those people don't like her

@@sharleenmagetto5051 his fans and I did as well he is very handsome and has a lot of good qualities and come from a nice loving family that is the most important thing I'm sure charity has plenty of flaws nobody no about but her nobdy is perfect and deserving of a chance to admit they mistakes and show better character and she didn't give him that grace chance or opportunity

color shouldnt matter if you think it does than maybe you should have a reality check racism went out alng time ago

❤

Well, he's 6'7" and she's 5'3.

A good example for the black community? Because they talk eloquently . Why did you have to even bring that up. That’s a back handed compliment

You are too serious..it is a silly tv show. Good grief…

It aired 3 nights ago so how is it a spoiler?

😂😂😂😂 oh yeah sure, they are going to wait a whole week just so you the entitled one don't feel bothered, get over yourself!

@@l.mendes547I’m a parent who can’t always watch shows the second they come out and actively avoids spoilers until I can watch it. I’m just asking this channel to use a non-spoiler thumbnail like so many channels do so that when RU-vid puts this channel in my feed (I don’t subscribe to them) that the show is not ruined for me and others. Pretty normal request. It would also be really nice to be able to comment without being called names. Let’s not attack people just because we have different perspectives.

@kimthomas789 I’m a mom too, I get it. It’s probably best to stay off of RU-vid and social media if you don’t want any spoilers. Hard, but totally possible. That’s what I did and always do if I’m interested in the season and delayed watching because of how busy things are. I really enjoyed this interview, they are such a sweet couple. ❤️

Ithink they mate him first they just made there mined already

Arie's parents preferred Becca when he preferred Lauren. Well we all know how that ended

My goodness 😂😂😂😂did you date him?

Don't hate there's a lot of that in this world today

I agree, it's all about him him him

@@gregbell3559 good thing is he's not yours so nothing for you to worry about. Give it a rest already

@@sharleenmagetto5051 guys know how guys operate I only said it's him him him

Xavier is the player not Dotun.

@@user-yi5fc2ef5k what you lost in the drama ? cuz Xavier isnt even in the running maybee you need to be informed on the reality of the situation ... and realize that she picked the wrong one and tv drama got the best of the situation and she horred around to the loozer

What is racist about Black love, in your opinion? I invite you to reimagine your thoughts on this. Love IS A BEAUTIFUL THING, ESPECIALLY WHEN ONE LEARNS TO APPRECIATE, RESPECT, AND LOVE ONESELF. Even after the post-traumatic slavery that has continued to find its way in dormancy today. This can go for any family. However, to respond to your comment, I invite you to learn where Black love comes from. It's remains today that trans-generational traumas that still affect people of color today. Black love has historical aspects from the Antebellum slavery period. Blacks were prohibited from marriage, to say the least. THEN, when it became legal, the slave had to get permission to marry from "Massa." The "massa" could still sell you off to another plantation if he so chooses. The "massa" could rape your spouse, and you couldn't press charges against a white person. The list goes on and in ... But TODAY- BLACKS can see themselves as one of love and receive love as well. Appreciating and respecting love regardless of your age. After our history, it's hard to break that trauma. Black love STOPS the bleeding that trans-generational post traumatic carried to our now. Black love allows us to reimagine our lineage and connections to ancestors through passion and empathy. It means recognizing that divorce isn’t necessarily a sign of universal “failure” and marriage may not be a “success.” Black love means allowing for balance and yielding space, while allowing a person to grow and change, and figure out ways to navigate the world separately and with a partner. Through black love, people learn that "NO" IS A COMPLETE SENTENCE. 😀 Let the church say AMEN...😀

It's not a surface level thing, definitely not racist, there's a lot more to it.

@@sowande1146 have you stopped to think about white love? does history enable a right to just cause on love? color shouldn't matter, it's all in the heart. When you label colors its racist and offensive. If we keep shouting colors, we are no better than the past ... We all don't like what happened before but at one point it's got to stop being about color and try to move on from the past if we continue to say history blah blah blah, we aren't growing as a united front, change is and should be in all.

Why do you say that?😮 Dotum has been in America since he was four, and his family has adjusted well, and though they acknowledge his culture, he is educated here as well plus he resides in a diverse community. Both are well educated and have advanced leading careers. She does have African friends. Unlike me, I don't have African friends and I know my African roots. It would be tough for me but I am much older. They'll do well. Also her parents are retired military and most have been integrated in diversity from childhood. Did you see the parents sitting with each other at the finale? That was so great❤..

No disrespect taken but I'm entitled to my own opinion.

why do you say that?

have you been in love ,,, well she played 4 of them and reality common you fall in love you dont find more

when you find love no one else matters you play a game and use peeps this happins and ouch it bites you back hes not into her ... he is onto the fame of her thats not love

Why do you think he's playing her??

His brother told Charity when she visited his family that he doesn't sleep around, and when he has been in a relationship, he is only focused on that person. So how you people making your own assessment is mind-blowing to me. Everybody just upset she chose a real man and not one of those pretty f---boys who would have used her and then dumped her.

OK dummy. She plays and uses other guys? THIS WAS A SHOW WITH ONE GIRL AND ABOUT 25-30 GUYS. THIS IS WHAT WAS SUPPOSED TO HAPPEN!!!!!!! I doubt she is like that in real life. Some people (you) just have serious mental issues.

You have a problem

Carlene Francis, Just because you have gotten abused in your relationships does not mean every woman gets abused. You need to be strong. This sister and brother have their stuff together.

@@marcialawrence5459 thank you👏👏👏 she's projecting her life on others

What is wrong with you? You stated that like it was a fact. Do you have some kind of inside information on Dotun or are you an abused woman? Not every woman gets abused, and not every man abuses. You hear about the abuses, and little about the wonderful marriages. I think you may need to see a therapist. A psychiatrist.

Lots of hurt people out here, so sad. Go to therapy.