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Intimacy & Disability - How We Make It Work - Q&A Part 1 / Squirmy and Grubs 

Squirmy and Grubs
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Part one of a Q&A series about how we manage intimacy in our interabled relationship.
Hannah and I absolutely love making videos for you. If you would like to support our work so that we can continue sharing our life and relationship with you for years to come, you can do so on our Patreon: / squirmyandgrubs
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Shane was born with a neuromuscular disease called Spinal Muscular Atrophy that requires him to use an electric wheelchair. He is the author of several award-winning books, the President of a nonprofit organization called Laughing At My Nightmare, and a renowned public speaker who has performed across the country at places such as Harvard University, The University of Florida, The University of Connecticut, Princeton University, and many more.
Hannah just graduated from Carleton College, where she studied Sociology and Anthropology. Her future aspirations include attending graduate school and owning a goat sanctuary. She films and edits the “Squirmy and Grubs” vlog.
Shane and Hannah have been dating for 4+ years and living together in Minneapolis for 2 years. On June 15th, 2019 they got engaged!!!! Their interabled relationship often confuses people, because much of society still cannot fathom people with disabilities being involved in loving, intimate relationships. Anyone who watches these episodes will quickly see their relationship is just as “normal” as any other. Sure, Hannah helps Shane use the bathroom and brush his teeth, but those activities do not detract from the emotional, intellectual, and physical connection they experience together.

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Комментарии : 6 тыс.   
@yamaina478
@yamaina478 4 года назад
That intro was so intense I almost got convinced I’m one of the people who “shouldn’t watch it” 🤣
@kathygo12
@kathygo12 4 года назад
🤣
@justinmcgraw1928
@justinmcgraw1928 4 года назад
kathy alaimo same.
@tychoruniko
@tychoruniko 4 года назад
Same
@mariarivaldo9593
@mariarivaldo9593 4 года назад
ME TOOOO 🤣
@Stronger2gether
@Stronger2gether 4 года назад
😂🙈 same
@trl2437
@trl2437 4 года назад
This man is blessed ! He can breathe and he has the most beautiful woman by his side .i wish them nothing but success
@kevindao6785
@kevindao6785 4 года назад
Facts yo
@humanearthling4661
@humanearthling4661 4 года назад
💖
@jazminevermillion3975
@jazminevermillion3975 4 года назад
I know you meant well but this complement is backhanded. you are saying he is lucky he has a woman, meaning he wouldn't have gotten a woman if it weren't for Hannah? they are both lucky to have each other.
@user-ju6zx3rm8d
@user-ju6zx3rm8d 4 года назад
he is rich, so he has success. This is a fake couple
@lollipopohlollipopoffsetwo3618
@lollipopohlollipopoffsetwo3618 4 года назад
D boy be quiet you was just trying to sell someone a used sofa
@jamiesingle4210
@jamiesingle4210 4 года назад
I have a son in a wheelchair, who has spina bifida.... I wish this type of relationship for him.....
@JamaicanRain
@JamaicanRain 4 года назад
Send him to a day program. Many of them pair off.
@JAB2010
@JAB2010 4 года назад
C B Shane and Hannah were together before their YT days.
@cw8682
@cw8682 4 года назад
C B literally why would u think that?
@kolesailor8489
@kolesailor8489 4 года назад
@C B Jealous?
@mollymontana509
@mollymontana509 4 года назад
C B imagine being that misinformed
@ashleybehr8789
@ashleybehr8789 3 года назад
“I know his body as well as I know mine,” what a beautiful reflection of true intimacy ❤️✌🏼.
@boomchickaleelee
@boomchickaleelee 3 года назад
I feel the same about my husband.
@KKKaTTT123
@KKKaTTT123 3 года назад
@@boomchickaleelee same♥️
@sharonbrown6595
@sharonbrown6595 3 года назад
My bf later husband we talked a lot about our sex life what we liked and not liked. Communication is very important for all couples, practise makes perfect. I think love and caring and respect if so important
@sebastianconstantin5176
@sebastianconstantin5176 2 года назад
@@sharonbrown6595 what is that have to do with them? its not like they have much options, shane cant do nothing... they can just cuddle and sleep together. what do you shane could ever do and hannah dont like? nothing, cause he just cant. you people blind or what?
@elliottboswell6470
@elliottboswell6470 2 года назад
Dnt go out with you're friends and family 👪
@itiswhatitis6785
@itiswhatitis6785 4 года назад
She loves this man .... she don’t even look at the camera she looks at him.
@ashleychamon6446
@ashleychamon6446 4 года назад
Who do you look at when your having a conversation? Lol 😂 I always get confused when people mention in couple videos how the other person is looking at the person. They are having a conversation!! You are suppose to look at the person, it’s called conversation etiquette lol
@Sarjo1985
@Sarjo1985 4 года назад
@@ashleychamon6446 you would be surprised how little people make eye contact or even look in a person's general view. I've dealt with it regularly, it makes me feel absolutely awful. I clearly can tell they don't care about what I have to say. And even when I say, hey are you listening they either ignore it or get aggravated. Eye contact is very personal and intimate :)
@Haazziee
@Haazziee 4 года назад
Sarah Wells yup. My grandparents have NEVER given me eye contact growing up. And I’ve lived with them my whole life. I’ve never felt listened to because of this. Now eye contact is SUPER SUPER important for me, to know someone’s listening. My fiancé gives me great eye contact. It’s amazing. Not everyone does that sort of thing and it’s a shame. You miss out on a lot of the conversation.
@leo-rs3cj
@leo-rs3cj 4 года назад
@@ashleychamon6446 I never look at peoples eyes when I talk to them
@itiswhatitis6785
@itiswhatitis6785 4 года назад
Just4 Utube well she obviously has the conversation etiquette and from watching loads of other videos everyone is always talking to the camera
@vanessaangel2978
@vanessaangel2978 4 года назад
The way she looks at him Is the way everybody deserves yo be look 🥺
@codeyhorn2406
@codeyhorn2406 4 года назад
It’s beautiful I wish I could find that I myself are disabled with muscular dystrophy an cerebral palsy
@codeyhorn2406
@codeyhorn2406 4 года назад
Thank u for liking my comment
@michaela8275
@michaela8275 4 года назад
you can look at me that way😁
@robertsolimanm7031
@robertsolimanm7031 4 года назад
Can you have children and are you gonna have children ?
@barackputin
@barackputin 4 года назад
michael A simp
@neyokabush2587
@neyokabush2587 4 года назад
“Ik his body as much as ik mine.” That’s was beautiful.
@user-ju6zx3rm8d
@user-ju6zx3rm8d 4 года назад
it's also fake
@zauberlehrling2700
@zauberlehrling2700 4 года назад
@@user-ju6zx3rm8d you are just stupid, grow up
@specializedchemicals6669
@specializedchemicals6669 4 года назад
@@user-ju6zx3rm8d Who hurt you? What made you so bitter? Who or what made you so hateful that you keep replying misinformed negativity to positive comments about their relationship?
@scapegoatedstudiosllc
@scapegoatedstudiosllc 4 года назад
@@specializedchemicals6669 probably the feminist trash over running our society
@DoodletheTravelBug
@DoodletheTravelBug 4 года назад
They're the cutest!
@ashleightatarcyk375
@ashleightatarcyk375 2 года назад
I’m not going to lie, when I first saw this couple I was confused and a bit unkind about their relationship, thinking it was fake. But as time has gone on, I’ve come to really appreciate them and their content. I love that they are taking this subject on with dignity and humor, it’s an common topic a lot of people have questions about but no one wants to share. I believe their conversations around this will open doors and lead to less stigma (my own included). I’m happy for them and can see how much they love each other. Thank you for changing my mind and opening my perspective. ☺️❤️
@clairee2610
@clairee2610 2 года назад
This really shows growth. This is a very beautiful comment😊
@pattis6543
@pattis6543 2 года назад
Hi Ashleigh,I understand what you may have been thinking in the beginning. I am midly disabled and I sadly had a different perspective as well. I'm ashamed to have had those thoughts,but think I was programmed to be sucked into seeing different relationships but then finding out it was fake. I have been watching the two of you and am so happy to see a true love story. Bless you both!
@AmiyaSenapati-d9n
@AmiyaSenapati-d9n 10 месяцев назад
Really baby u r absolutely correct. U know baby in India bachelor can't hug to anyone before marriage. That's why bachelor r in stress. No men can't share their feelings. Really baby I love ur culture.
@helpstopanimalabuse8153
@helpstopanimalabuse8153 8 месяцев назад
A priest told me when i was a teenager that there are subjects in life that people just do not talk about. He named a few. Income, how much $$$ in their bank, sex life at home etc. He said that if i came across people who were discussing these then they almost certainly lying. As my life has progressed this advice has been like 98%. I have been watching quite a few of these guys videos & the more i watch the less i believe them. I feel that the male has been propped up just like a circus freak & is expecting sympathy & people feeling sorry for him. I think it is nothing short of a opportunity to get a cash grab on the empathy of the public. They are disgusting human beings.
@haliamariex5712
@haliamariex5712 4 года назад
I’m disabled and you guys give me hope that one day I’ll be in a “normal” romantic relationship and that someone will find me desirable. .
@xtracyxxtracyx9983
@xtracyxxtracyx9983 4 года назад
I'm sure love is on it's way to u lovely xx
@abcl7052
@abcl7052 4 года назад
You'll find your one💖
@andralakiera2098
@andralakiera2098 4 года назад
Your person is out there beautiful! It's not nearly the same as being disabled and I'm certainly not comparing, but due to being obese all of my life and seen as undesirable I accepted being treated poorly in the past and thought I'd never find my person. But after many years I did find the person who loves me for exactly who and what I am and is so proud of me and loves to show me off. Be patient love your person Is out there and he or she will find you when the time is right! You are worthy and beautiful, you deserve to be loved the way you want to be loved!
@rubenceballos6760
@rubenceballos6760 4 года назад
As another disabled individual I can certainly relate
@cryssalyssa8013
@cryssalyssa8013 4 года назад
xtracyx xtracyx has to
@em0ji775
@em0ji775 4 года назад
As a disabled person myself it’s nice to see that there are people like Hannah willing to love us for who we are instead of what we have or look like I hope to find my mate one day that I can share laughs and love unconditionally just the same. I love you guys!!!
@wnterbird2976
@wnterbird2976 4 года назад
I think it says so much about the power of this couple in how you said "that there are people like Hannah willing to love *us* for who *we* are". I think you're right and I think there are more and more people learning that they CAN love a disabled person just the same. I think it's breaking so many false ideas that lead to fear of even falling for someone who is disabled. Which is huge. But it's so great to see how one person, Hannah, can make an entire community of people see Hope.
@wired4933
@wired4933 4 года назад
I hope you can find a wonderful partner! Disabilities shouldn't be a reason why love doesn't happen between two people. I'm glad this channel exists.
@beatricecarey8330
@beatricecarey8330 4 года назад
‘Am I even there?’ 😂😂😂 I was just cracking up watching this in the park. Also... severe intimacy is my new favourite phrase.
@milobar100
@milobar100 4 года назад
@Marianne Havisham maybe it's not the 'disorders', maybe it's your addiction. A distorted view of the world due to substance abuse can be a major problem in relationship. Get over your addiction, get real help for your other issues and love may happen. Don't wallow in self pity and expect someone to hop on your pity train and struggle with you. And don't hide behind labels: ADD etc. These labels start to define you after a while and it becomes more and more difficult to be happy. You may have all these issues but you are aware of them and that's a step forward to healing. Good luck.
@jessapi6328
@jessapi6328 4 года назад
Hi I’m disabled as well, although not wheelchair bound, and While dating is more difficult I’m still able to find people and have sexual relationships. (: you’ll find someone 💖
@ThuyNguyen-bu9ge
@ThuyNguyen-bu9ge 4 года назад
He must have been raised by really amazing parents/people who helped him love himself and his life. That positive energy is powerful.
@solidillusion8008
@solidillusion8008 4 года назад
Foreal, I wish I could have that kind of energy, but I mostly just radiate lots and lots of negative energy lol
@onyabikejoe7643
@onyabikejoe7643 4 года назад
That’s a very thoughtful comment 👍
@cinnamonschick
@cinnamonschick 3 года назад
You should watch the interview video he did with soul pancake. That's how Hannah found him and started emailing him after reading his blog. His parents and brother are in most of it.
@yellowdayz1800
@yellowdayz1800 3 года назад
Well uhh having a wife like that is making his life a million times better!
@t4kumi704
@t4kumi704 3 года назад
@@yellowdayz1800 true fact it's the other way around
@EROK1R
@EROK1R 3 года назад
I have a disability and one of my biggest fears is not finding love :/. However, you guys give me hope that one day I can and that someone will truly love me for who I am regardless of my disability.
@alvaroarriolar-5857
@alvaroarriolar-5857 3 года назад
I truly think you will, because you deserve it. Do not worry.
@EROK1R
@EROK1R 3 года назад
@@alvaroarriolar-5857 thank you so much I appreciate it😁!!
@EROK1R
@EROK1R 3 года назад
@TheRealDeal that’s true. I’m not to fat girls though. People might say beggars can’t be choosers, but I say why be with someone your not into! As for someone with a disability I wouldn’t mind if she had a disability. Tbh know that think about I really haven’t put my self out there due to having low confidence because of my disability.
@bxstar5276
@bxstar5276 2 года назад
I was looking for love for years. As soon as I became disabled boom I found love 😱
@SpecialBlanket
@SpecialBlanket 2 года назад
@@EROK1R I hope you were replying to someone who specifically mentioned fat girls, because... not sure why you think fat girls would be any more likely to response to a "beggar". I'm only attracted to fat girls, so I can attest from dating them and knowing a bunch that they are completely normal in their tastes, ability to get dates, etc. Now if you're saying "girls with poor body image whose vulnerabilities I can exploit"-- that's just being a sicko.
@lotanhelfman7660
@lotanhelfman7660 4 года назад
Honestly, this is so sweet. It really normalizes intimacy between those of different bodies, which really ISN'T discussed enough. Thank you for this. It's so, so helpful. You two are darling.
@rafaelagoncalves8825
@rafaelagoncalves8825 4 года назад
@spooky katt you're so sad
@izzaghassani7187
@izzaghassani7187 4 года назад
@spooky katt get out of here
@user-ju6zx3rm8d
@user-ju6zx3rm8d 4 года назад
it gives false hope to men with disability. This is not a real relationship. Any woman can get a man. The reverse, is not true. Use your head.
@rafaelagoncalves8825
@rafaelagoncalves8825 4 года назад
@@user-ju6zx3rm8d they're dating, it's a real relationship who are you to say otherwise? Mind your business
@emilychick4836
@emilychick4836 4 года назад
Some of the comments making out it’s disgusting and she’s not in love with him really upsets me
@emileemayberry8900
@emileemayberry8900 4 года назад
I just ADORE how Hannah listens so closely to Shane when he is talking. She values him so much and I just love it. The love you have for each other is so evident! ❤️
@Shayleesmakeupworldxoxo
@Shayleesmakeupworldxoxo 4 года назад
I agree it’s so beautiful to see and so inspiring for other people with a disability
@creatingdestiny7
@creatingdestiny7 4 года назад
Saaammmeee!!!!
@user-ju6zx3rm8d
@user-ju6zx3rm8d 4 года назад
because he has the bank account
@simplehealthyliving4681
@simplehealthyliving4681 4 года назад
Do you value and look at your husband like that? Are you learning nothing from this?
@ercieberwick1513
@ercieberwick1513 3 года назад
Then she goes to her apartment and takes up with her boyfriend,, and the caretaker takes care of all of Shane's needs. Be real, people. You surely don''t believe these two, do you? But they keep raking in the money, so they planned this fake life well.
@juleh1642
@juleh1642 4 года назад
Me: “why is anyone trying to pry into someone’s private sex life??” Also me: *clicks play as fast as possible*
@tshimangadzomavhungu3563
@tshimangadzomavhungu3563 4 года назад
😂
@autumn2964
@autumn2964 4 года назад
sameeeee
@FirstNameLastName-rq1nn
@FirstNameLastName-rq1nn 4 года назад
me.... why are they responding to people prying..... best guess... they really do want to share to others with disabilities that there are ways.... second best guess ...shanes a total perv lol ...
@bananabreadloaf
@bananabreadloaf 4 года назад
First Name Last Name I think he’s tired of the bs and wants people to know he’s a man!
@DevanDoxtator
@DevanDoxtator 4 года назад
LOL same
@shadowhwk99
@shadowhwk99 3 года назад
As a paraplegic since I was 4 years old I can say I love this video! It mad me laugh and smile for so many reasons. While I am not currently in a relationship, I have a 5 year old son, and get surprised faces that I can be intimate and/or have kids. I try to be open and explain just you guys, keep up the good work and making memories.
@Anniekelseyty
@Anniekelseyty 2 года назад
❤👍🏼
@metjituavikairi4534
@metjituavikairi4534 2 года назад
♥️♥️♥️
@starsigngirl9789
@starsigngirl9789 Год назад
😂 aww your so cute
@SCBran2002
@SCBran2002 Год назад
I enjoyed Drunken Wheelchair Trials. Just like the vids from about the same time with my buddies
@itsrileylyn
@itsrileylyn 4 года назад
I think people with disabilities often have to walk a fine line between respecting their own privacy and educating society. I think the two of you handle that tight rope walk very well!
@soraya4890
@soraya4890 4 года назад
He is so funny..i see why she fell in love with him...and she looks at him with so much love..they are so cute...
@user-ju6zx3rm8d
@user-ju6zx3rm8d 4 года назад
it's fake
@AndrewSmoot
@AndrewSmoot 4 года назад
@@user-ju6zx3rm8d Jealous much? The looks they give each other, and the way they speak to, and about, each other, cannot be faked.
@ocodeskamcdbsm
@ocodeskamcdbsm 4 года назад
@@user-ju6zx3rm8d you are so jealous. Hopefully someday you will find someone special
@ocodeskamcdbsm
@ocodeskamcdbsm 4 года назад
@@user-ju6zx3rm8d exactly where did I say anything about your sexual worth? Your the person who clearly has the issue with a person's sexual worth or jealous when you think a person in a wheelchair can't find happiness and love. Why is that
@littlemisscupcake9280
@littlemisscupcake9280 4 года назад
@@user-ju6zx3rm8d incel
@MrBi1166
@MrBi1166 4 года назад
"I know his body as well as I know mine now" might possibly be the hottest thing someone can say about a partner.
@ishmaelm1932
@ishmaelm1932 4 года назад
I mean she bathes him and washes his poop.
@elisagurnia6312
@elisagurnia6312 4 года назад
@@ishmaelm1932 still the hottest thing 🤷🏽‍♀️
@taliamasino1198
@taliamasino1198 4 года назад
Right!!!!
@ishmaelm1932
@ishmaelm1932 4 года назад
@Aidan McSweeney I meant his butt. Poop stains on the butt
@harveyabel1354
@harveyabel1354 4 года назад
@@ishmaelm1932 Who on earth "washes" poop?
@christieschmidt8960
@christieschmidt8960 3 года назад
I was born with Spina Bifida and I'm paralyzed from the waist down. My husband is wonderful during intimacy too. Thank you SO much for helping bring disabled intimacy into the limelight along with able-bodied intimacy!! 💜 💯
@brinahmltn
@brinahmltn 4 года назад
I laughed so hard when Shane was like “BREAK ME”. 😂😂😂 Thanks for always choosing to be so transparent and vulnerable with your viewers.
@ZPraterOne
@ZPraterOne 4 года назад
I was dying at that, sooo funny!
@alexharper9819
@alexharper9819 4 года назад
Tbh I think Shane should just let Hannah be intimate with other men since he's in a wheelchair
@itsyourmethod
@itsyourmethod 4 года назад
That was good! Yeah!
@Effervescency
@Effervescency 4 года назад
And I’m pretty sure that wasn’t a joke, I could see him actually saying that probably! Hahaha!
@jessielinn9713
@jessielinn9713 4 года назад
@@alexharper9819 You should let your girlfriend date other men because you can't possibly satisfy anyone with that attitude.
@erics1626
@erics1626 4 года назад
"Just break me, go ahead", lol. What self respecting man has not said that to a woman at some point in their lives?
@melissasouthard900
@melissasouthard900 4 года назад
What self respecting woman hasn't said this lol. I was 105 pounds and I was told that by an ex, I told him to go ahead and try.
@laproserpina2620
@laproserpina2620 4 года назад
Women gotta say* that too 🤐
@SherioCheers
@SherioCheers 4 года назад
If I had a dollar for every time I've said "I don't want to hurt you." and he responded "Oh you won't"
@sinjon
@sinjon 4 года назад
Sherio88 The only valid reply is “challenge excepted”
@amberjohnson5488
@amberjohnson5488 4 года назад
I am a woman sir lol and I have said self same agreed
@Roselina1151
@Roselina1151 4 года назад
Hannah looks at Shane how my boyfriend looks at his PS4. Edit: okay holy moly I never expected this comment to blow up, but my bf and I are very happy together.... but that man does love his ps4 😂😂 UPDATE: We got married on June 28th 🤍🤍
@bobbymessbob2547
@bobbymessbob2547 4 года назад
😅😅
@yolandafraga5182
@yolandafraga5182 4 года назад
please dump him😂🤷‍♀️
@rhig4081
@rhig4081 4 года назад
True love ☺
@elizabethann5308
@elizabethann5308 4 года назад
Go get someone else who will look at you the way hannah looks atShane.
@nataliealfonso8505
@nataliealfonso8505 4 года назад
Lol
@Me0wAndStuff
@Me0wAndStuff 8 месяцев назад
I just want to say, you're not just answering curious people's questions, some of us are really struggling with being disabled and trying to have a sex life. We thank you.
@krismonty1234
@krismonty1234 4 года назад
You guys are brave and I’m sure this has opened many peoples eyes to realizing once again how very normal your relationship is. And how disabled people are very able.
@alaxmartin2007
@alaxmartin2007 4 года назад
GlenOStevensII love the Incel comment
@joeboi1342
@joeboi1342 4 года назад
Alax Martin why are people saying incel so much
@lynncrf
@lynncrf 4 года назад
Exactly. This was quite click baitey, but didn't actually really provide any answers. It's none of our businesses, but I don't see the point of setting up a video like this that doesn't really explain anything.
@carlos66965
@carlos66965 4 года назад
Actually incels are a thing. There's whole forums online with them spouting their nonsense. Has nothing to do with "not getting laid", it has to do with how you react to it.
@herrlich3720
@herrlich3720 4 года назад
They dont have Penetration right?
@thefilmlodge
@thefilmlodge 4 года назад
I remember when my ex-wife used to look at me that way. It was a beautiful thing, it made me feel I could take over the world...I miss that the most.
@jamiesung4755
@jamiesung4755 4 года назад
that is so incredibly heartbreaking and sweet
@laurawatterson3310
@laurawatterson3310 4 года назад
I'm so sorry that your marriage ended. It sounds like you are quite sad about it still. I hope you have found or do find someone amazing who will look at you that way again and for the rest of your lives.
@diving.deep.
@diving.deep. 4 года назад
What’s your best advice for young couples?
@thefilmlodge
@thefilmlodge 4 года назад
@@jamiesung4755 Extremely heartbreaking. Met her at 24, I was with her for 20 years, married for 7...it just fell apart, right threw my fingers. I wasn't the best husband, she wasn't the best wife. We loved hard. It's tough to move on, but...you just have too.
@thefilmlodge
@thefilmlodge 4 года назад
@@laurawatterson3310 I really appreciate that, thank you. I'm getting by, slowly. 20 years is a long time with someone...I'm 45 now, just looking toward the next half of my life.
@rhyaweeks
@rhyaweeks 4 года назад
You can just see the love in her eyes when she looks at him.
@heatherbolton735
@heatherbolton735 4 года назад
I dont know about that, she kinda looks at him all delusional
@bumblebee9649
@bumblebee9649 4 года назад
Yep I agree delusional.....totally
@DonaBologna
@DonaBologna 4 года назад
You mean dollar signs? 🤑 Lolz
@billiekinkade3889
@billiekinkade3889 4 года назад
@@DonaBologna Wow look more ppl going along with the " norm" because of their own insecurities
@DonaBologna
@DonaBologna 4 года назад
@@billiekinkade3889 what the heck? Hannah looking psychotic in vids has nothing to do with me 😂
@broncoschic6512
@broncoschic6512 3 года назад
My dad was Paralysis in a coal mining accident in Pa but I have 14 brothers & sister nothing stoped my mum & dad to have a wonderful family
@grafvonrotz2233
@grafvonrotz2233 3 года назад
Wow, 14! You guys are 15 kids, that is nuts, wooow :D!!! Can't imagine the fun your parents had :D.
@smollilbean
@smollilbean 2 года назад
@Chris Canavan II you must be sad and miserable trying to look for the bad everywhere.
@Lvsdawgs
@Lvsdawgs 4 года назад
I, personally, am not curious about your intimate life. Watched it because I knew it would be informative, discrete, cute, and hysterical.
@89TNash
@89TNash 4 года назад
But you clicked to watch video.... soo..... yeah....
@rhig4081
@rhig4081 4 года назад
You watched it because you're curious. Like everyone. Believe me....I wish I wasn't curious but it's human nature.
@m.s.s.2993
@m.s.s.2993 4 года назад
Then why did watch it....... 🙄🙄🙄 dumb
@89TNash
@89TNash 4 года назад
Rhi G I randomly clicked video and was like sure tell all why not
@Lvsdawgs
@Lvsdawgs 4 года назад
@@89TNash It wasn't random, I watch all their video's.
@gk-de5gb
@gk-de5gb 4 года назад
Wow they have been together for so long and still she looks at him like he is her destiny and laughs to every joke(well he is funny) its unbelievable, that's the secret to making it work I guess
@user-ju6zx3rm8d
@user-ju6zx3rm8d 4 года назад
it's called acting.
@SpartacusQuoVadis
@SpartacusQuoVadis 4 года назад
D lol 😂
@ocodeskamcdbsm
@ocodeskamcdbsm 4 года назад
@@user-ju6zx3rm8d for you it's jealousy
@kyssedbyfyre915
@kyssedbyfyre915 4 года назад
@@ocodeskamcdbsm 🙌😆🔥
@DMarci2001
@DMarci2001 4 года назад
@@user-ju6zx3rm8d dude you are a wreck
@anamaressasantos9514
@anamaressasantos9514 4 года назад
Can I just say that she looks more in love and happy with him than most women in relationships. Shu, this is too beautiful!!
@user-ju6zx3rm8d
@user-ju6zx3rm8d 4 года назад
it's called acting
@ocodeskamcdbsm
@ocodeskamcdbsm 4 года назад
@spooky katt you must be lonely
@remply6818
@remply6818 4 года назад
@@5th_Interaction Das
@ShawnAR25
@ShawnAR25 29 дней назад
Bro lol I doubt it
@bixby451
@bixby451 3 года назад
Shane is hilarious and charming, who wouldn't fall for him? They're both lucky they found each other
@AnnAndNala
@AnnAndNala 2 года назад
100%, totally agree. They are the coolest couple. Love them.
@Wonders19_
@Wonders19_ 2 года назад
When he said, Break Me! Lol
@armyshope
@armyshope 2 года назад
Not me I think it would be difficult to deal with such person I can't even take proper care of myself.
@lauraborabeee
@lauraborabeee 2 года назад
I was just thinking that! He’s so sweet and funny I wish more guys were like him!!
@kidfazer
@kidfazer 2 года назад
You know damn well none of you women would EVER seriously date that man. Stop with all that fake shit
@ariaoharra6438
@ariaoharra6438 4 года назад
Honestly, I have never seen a relationship like this before. I'm thrown off by it because normally any time I saw something similar, it wasn't genuine. I'm blown away and speechless. This is breath taking.
@DoodletheTravelBug
@DoodletheTravelBug 4 года назад
so honest! And it took a few times watching before you can feel the love radiating.
@rookere1604
@rookere1604 4 года назад
@@DoodletheTravelBug I don't see love at all, she seems like his caregiver and has a good fake laugh.
@sianrohde8714
@sianrohde8714 4 года назад
@@rookere1604 you see what you want to see, and obviously jealousy is a big thing here with you.
@madokamagi4eva
@madokamagi4eva 4 года назад
@@rookere1604 ur sick. If u didn’t know, i can click on ur profile and see the stuff u’ve commented. I hope one day you experience a disability like his and maybe gain a soul because he has more genuine feelings and personality then u ever will. Ur gonna rot w the thoughts u have while he continues to live a happy life. Some of the things u commented are truly vulgar. Karma will come to those who deserve it. Have a nice day.
@ceIIardoor
@ceIIardoor 3 года назад
@@rookere1604 I was just thinking that! Her laugh is fake af, and she kinda talks with him like a caregiver would talk to a patient (you can tell she actively tries not to though).
@meganfucci2226
@meganfucci2226 4 года назад
I want to recognize that the balance of keeping your boundaries but also advocating and educating can be so so hard! I continue to be impressed by how well you both maintain that balance! Thank you for sharing!
@erossore8500
@erossore8500 4 года назад
So well said!
@user-vt2zc1gu2m
@user-vt2zc1gu2m 4 года назад
“you don’t have to list them all Shane” LOL she’s validated as a woman and hes comfortable enough to engage everything verbally... this is so very beautiful
@kalangalang6298
@kalangalang6298 4 года назад
Gae
@Maddie9185
@Maddie9185 3 года назад
I love his sense of humor and how he doesn’t take himself or his condition so serious.
@sheiskaylinha
@sheiskaylinha 4 года назад
Hannah and Shane making the point that all relationships, whether able, inter-able, or disabled combinations, should have a large level of communication in intimacy is KEY and I love that
@lanekelly79
@lanekelly79 4 года назад
I think Shane is a real catch. A lot of men could learn from him. I can see why Hannah fell in love with him.
@avelineb8239
@avelineb8239 4 года назад
Totally agree!!
@DoodletheTravelBug
@DoodletheTravelBug 4 года назад
agreed!
@arthurshaw8368
@arthurshaw8368 4 года назад
And I think a lot of women could learn from hanna as well. Instead of going for a tall & handsome guy, she goes for shane. A guy with a nice personality and a "golden heart" ofc. Women could learn a lot from her.
@sharpequeen
@sharpequeen 4 года назад
Saaaaame
@Grannykatereilly1
@Grannykatereilly1 4 года назад
His sense of humor alone could keep them laughing for years!! Life is better with laughter!!😄
@mariarcgi39
@mariarcgi39 4 года назад
They are the cutest and purest ever, swing them so clearly in love and being so funny and sweet...idk...it made my day which is very much needed because finals week is hitting hard
@user-ju6zx3rm8d
@user-ju6zx3rm8d 4 года назад
i have a used sofa to sell you
@lexiiiiiiiiii
@lexiiiiiiiiii 4 года назад
Feel you 😪
@ceIIardoor
@ceIIardoor 3 года назад
@@user-ju6zx3rm8d lol
@dakotasabrynah9954
@dakotasabrynah9954 2 года назад
Shane : JUST BREAK ME You can see through how they interact and talk and joke. They're in love. She truly cares for him being comfortable. There's too many emotions involved for this to be fake. Stop lighting up people's lives with negativity. If it was my sister and she told me she loved him, id never question it. Love comes from loving the person. Not their shell.
@SceneryWithMe
@SceneryWithMe 6 месяцев назад
Very well said 😃
@darladelahunty4025
@darladelahunty4025 4 года назад
I've been married for 48 years and I can tell you that you two have what it takes to stay together. You're relationship is based on living, not whining, and you truly like each other. That is the key, because everything else is not as important. Love is what you do every day, a conscious decision, no matter how difficult or how easy. You are proof that love is a verb..
@ruthanneseven
@ruthanneseven 3 года назад
I call love a verb too! 😸
@onehandedmom6447
@onehandedmom6447 4 года назад
He treats her like gold. That's how he got her. There is no special recipe.
@JomToons
@JomToons 4 года назад
Tolkien!Fan you’re such a sad person. Grow up dude.
@arabiafascist
@arabiafascist 4 года назад
I’ve done that and they dumped me,bullshit girls want a douche bag who acts deep and emo
@Joebeenjaminv
@Joebeenjaminv 4 года назад
She is one of a kind no one else like her lol that’s how
@arabiafascist
@arabiafascist 4 года назад
Joe welp although I assume she ain’t this way but,girls who are chosen by someone who’s in their “league” will eventually dump the dude and go for higher “leagues” such as fuckboys an tiktok dick suckers,I really hope this girl doesn’t become this way
@neatsaber2056
@neatsaber2056 4 года назад
@@arabiafascist he is the master simp
@brithollatz7446
@brithollatz7446 4 года назад
I really need hannah to explain her makeup routine. Or at least this look. She looks flawless (as always) and completely stunning
@shelbell1279
@shelbell1279 4 года назад
What type of makeup...names that she uses would be good too :D
@daisyh7629
@daisyh7629 4 года назад
She is so beautiful inside and out 🥰 I love them both 💕
@bretteelana189
@bretteelana189 4 года назад
I feel like Hannah's make up routine is mascara. She is just one of those naturally beautiful women.
@brithollatz7446
@brithollatz7446 4 года назад
But she looks different this time. Maybe it's just eyeliner? But goodness. I need to know.
@celina.optimist
@celina.optimist 4 года назад
Agreed!
@brianmck7363
@brianmck7363 Год назад
I believe she truly loves him, she hangs on every word he says , and she’s gorgeous
@philipevary8470
@philipevary8470 8 месяцев назад
She does it for clout, let's be real.
@misfitmakeup1980
@misfitmakeup1980 8 месяцев назад
The only people who can't see true love when it's staring them in the face are the ones who are most lonley​@@philipevary8470
@vapeurdepisse
@vapeurdepisse 8 месяцев назад
@@philipevary8470 Of course. brutal
@riyou5467
@riyou5467 4 года назад
Intimacy while being disabled is definitely a thing. I have the same condition as Shane (with a little bit more mobility) and I’m having my daughter in a few days💖 I’m glad you guys touched on this
@Slowburn726
@Slowburn726 4 года назад
I'm so happy for you!! Congrats!!
@Alienpromqueen
@Alienpromqueen 4 года назад
Congrats mama!! I hope you both are healthy and happy
@Anonymous-vk5bt
@Anonymous-vk5bt 4 года назад
Congrats on your baby!!
@DR-fc1ey
@DR-fc1ey 4 года назад
You are such a horrible person i would hate to be your daughter, only a man should have a baby, a man who can provide and protect and teach, you cannot do any one of them,
@Alienpromqueen
@Alienpromqueen 4 года назад
G Scrototo I’m 100% sure her baby will be *WAY* better then you. She’ll love her child, it seems like you need a little extra love with so much hatred in your heart.
@11Juliet
@11Juliet 4 года назад
please put “SEVERE INTIMACY” on a t-shirt 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 (also, thanks for the amazing video!! you guys are doing so much for education about and normalization of interabled relationships and sexuality, you’re awesome!! 💜)
@melodytaylorstark5459
@melodytaylorstark5459 4 года назад
I love the comment! thanks!
@krismonty1234
@krismonty1234 4 года назад
Yes. You said what I wanted to say in better words . 🥰
@ingesexton811
@ingesexton811 4 года назад
I would buy that shirt!!
@TrailofRuin
@TrailofRuin 4 года назад
I second this motion.
@dyniellekent2127
@dyniellekent2127 4 года назад
Seriously, you guys made my day with this video...🙌🏻❤️🙌🏻I just love your connection and sense of humour together, such a rare gem.
@angieseminara3473
@angieseminara3473 4 года назад
“JUST BREAK ME, GO AHEAD” and “SEVERE INTIMACY” I cackled
@chroniclesofmc6601
@chroniclesofmc6601 3 года назад
I literally lol’d!! They are such a beautiful couple
@angelamelville67
@angelamelville67 3 года назад
I know...I spat my coffee across the room 😆
@vg7735
@vg7735 3 года назад
Then he mentioned Hannah spoons him lol
@layhurst2023
@layhurst2023 3 года назад
“Just break me, go ahead” I LOVED THAT
@Desiree2297
@Desiree2297 4 года назад
My mother’s friend got into a serious car accident a couple years ago and now he’s paralyzed from the waist down, but strongly believes no woman would want him because of his situation. I wish he’d realize how much of a quality human being he is and that he can have a beautiful relationship with no restrictions.
@abdul-rasheedadekoua7643
@abdul-rasheedadekoua7643 4 года назад
So you date him
@Haazziee
@Haazziee 4 года назад
Abdul- Rasheed Adekoua maybe she was never attracted to him in the first place 🤷🏻‍♀️
@zoe._.1850
@zoe._.1850 4 года назад
Abdul- Rasheed Adekoua I imagine the guys much older tbh
@Eclipse1369
@Eclipse1369 4 года назад
Desiree Burnet - you should share this video with him!
@larklarkannon9989
@larklarkannon9989 3 года назад
Tell him to get over himself. Most women would rather be doing dishes than their man, anyway, so he's 👍
@libertyellis
@libertyellis 4 года назад
Question time stamps Start: Q1 - How do you prevent injury to Shane? 4:59 Q2 - Because you guys use so much verbal communication, do you think this improves your sex life? 9:52 Q3 - Does Hannah ever feel more dominant, because you're doing all the comforting, do you feel safe/hugged? 12:27 Q4 - If money wasn't an issue, what would eb the most romantic experience you'd like to share together 15:17
@lady_lusungukondowe
@lady_lusungukondowe 4 года назад
I honestly appreciate this ..lol
@JamaicanRain
@JamaicanRain 4 года назад
Continue spreading your good will and assistance on RU-vid - it's appreciated! :D
@LifeCoachJesse
@LifeCoachJesse 4 года назад
Everyone deserves a relationship with such healthy chemistry and pure love like these two love birds. I hope we all get to experience this love.
@kendodd5090
@kendodd5090 3 года назад
You’ve heard this a million times but what you both have individually, and together, is special. You’re a lesson to many x
@625bmx
@625bmx 4 года назад
This man has it all... because he realizes that he does.
@brookemckinley5709
@brookemckinley5709 4 года назад
Adam Thomas wow!! And yup!
@alicecuenca6825
@alicecuenca6825 4 года назад
Tolkien!Fan what makes you thinking that? They met before he had money
@alicecuenca6825
@alicecuenca6825 4 года назад
Tolkien!Fan where can i find this information?
@alicecuenca6825
@alicecuenca6825 4 года назад
Tolkien!Fan ok i saw only one apart from the one he has now and she’s really really pretty too. But that doesn’t mean 100% sure it’s fake. I am sorry if i’m bothering but i am curious about it
@bossyboo29
@bossyboo29 4 года назад
Alex Jameson You’re the fool. You can’t even spell dude...
@burnice3901
@burnice3901 4 года назад
I really admire how Hanna is so understanding and carefree about everything.🤗🤗
@persiancyclops
@persiancyclops 4 года назад
I have such a girl crush on Hannah, she's so pretty and very smart with good heart, Shane is a lucky man
@maryweddington2218
@maryweddington2218 Год назад
I stumbled on your videos today. My dad had late stage SMA (diagnosed at 35). His progression was slower and used braces to walk until he was late 60’s. He made it to 77. I fought on his behalf to keep him in his home because it kept his muscles somewhat engaged having to do even simple tasks for himself. You both are amazing. 🥰🥰🥰
@zachwenger6525
@zachwenger6525 4 года назад
I've got to give it to you guys, you are both extremely brave putting this information out to the world, especially when you have so many narrow minded people. Huge, huge kudos to both of you! Also, happy early birthday to Shane who oddly enough shares the exact same birthday as me, May 28th 1992!
@amunetamunra5137
@amunetamunra5137 4 года назад
looks fade away so quickly. true love stays forever.. don’t forget. I love this couple ❤️sending lots of love
@AnnaG1996
@AnnaG1996 4 года назад
“When the relationship is good, sex is only 20% of it. When the relationship is bad, sex is 80% of it.”
@imaginationlord
@imaginationlord 4 года назад
Brilliant video! I love that you're responding to the ignorance in such a mature way while maintaining your boundaries and privacy. I also really don't see how people doubt your relationship, you only have to look at how you interact to see how perfect you are together!
@theoboegoddess
@theoboegoddess 4 года назад
Plus Shane makes me laugh so hard that I cry. Like why wouldn’t you want to be around someone who’s a good person and makes you laugh? It’s opened my mind a lot about new possibilities.
@Lyssa0095
@Lyssa0095 3 года назад
Lmaooo
@KristineJackson214
@KristineJackson214 3 года назад
“Just break me go ahead” lol lol I literally spit my coffee out 😂
@HouseMDaddict
@HouseMDaddict 3 года назад
LMAO
@matiassalazar4536
@matiassalazar4536 3 года назад
Minute?
@I_am_not_fast
@I_am_not_fast 4 года назад
I’m not going to lie, I’ve had questions pop into my head, but I know it’s none of my business, disability or not every couple is very different when it comes to intimacy. I’m selfishly happy to see videos like this, but I hope you don’t feel pressured or in anyway expected to do so.
@annbhatt4949
@annbhatt4949 4 года назад
they’re both so likable and their personalities mesh so well together, i love how wholesome this vid is
@zaer3733
@zaer3733 4 года назад
I want a girlfriend like Hannah she seems like a really loving woman who cares about her partner
@cerineko7984
@cerineko7984 4 года назад
I'm sure you will find someone like her!
@titan1941
@titan1941 4 года назад
nah shes just hot
@amberlyndsey87
@amberlyndsey87 4 года назад
I want a gf like Hanna too and I’m a chick who isn’t even gay 😂
@solfh
@solfh 4 года назад
I want a boyfriend as hanna.. capable of loving me no matter what and actually show it like her body language. Why men are so fking dry
@cosivantroopy7047
@cosivantroopy7047 4 года назад
What about a bf like Shane. I mean he is so funny and loving.
@zhansayabulegenova358
@zhansayabulegenova358 3 года назад
Plenty of disabled men, loved by women. Didn't see disabled women, loved by men in the same way yet.
@WeAllWeGot333
@WeAllWeGot333 3 года назад
Well that’s bullshit I’ve definitely seen that personally
@akaTheLaughingGirl
@akaTheLaughingGirl 3 года назад
There was a story on the news long time ago that a woman became handicapped after her friend push her into the pool at her bachelorette party. Her fiancé still married her after the accident.
@rodrigob8164
@rodrigob8164 3 года назад
You can literally see shows in tv about disabled woman loved my men.
@JaceyFoxASMR
@JaceyFoxASMR 3 года назад
Just because you haven't seen it, doesn't mean it hasn't happened. Not everything becomes a big story online. Some people prefer to keep their lives private
@Loveishopeinourheart
@Loveishopeinourheart 3 года назад
There is a woman I follow who has a spinal cord injury from birth, who is in a wheelchair and married. She’s now pregnant with their first child! ☺️ it’s out there!
@TiaTWCSH
@TiaTWCSH 4 года назад
“Just break me!” is literally my response during “severe intimacy” as well lmao.
@linettesanchez9955
@linettesanchez9955 4 года назад
Taylor Wolfe same
@melissasouthard900
@melissasouthard900 4 года назад
Same
@andream219
@andream219 4 года назад
Hell yeah 👌🏻
@paulaangelina7750
@paulaangelina7750 4 года назад
2 minutes in: "omg ow ow no wait" 8 minutes in: JUST BREAK ME
@jeremycarpenter2731
@jeremycarpenter2731 4 года назад
Same
@AlisonReeves
@AlisonReeves 4 года назад
“We didn’t pretend we knew what would be best for each other.” I love that and feel like it perfectly highlights the importance of communication during any kind of intimacy
@emilyb7195
@emilyb7195 4 года назад
I love how respectful you guys are when talking about intimacy. And honestly it takes a lot of guts to talk about this because its so personal. I hope you guys have a blessed relationship till the end!
@elite6642
@elite6642 3 года назад
This dude got so damn lucky with her. Not because of his condition, I’m saying any guy would be very lucky to find a girl who cares and looks at you like that. And on top of that personality, she is also extremely gorgeous?? I mean come on man, having a girl like that is what we as men dream about. Usually you have to look like Brad Pitt to find someone like that lmao. And I will say this dude has a lot of courage to accept a girl like that into his life. You gotta think that he probably felt very overwhelmed by getting serious and intimate with a girl that attractive. He probably had thoughts of thinking he wasn’t good enough for her, or that she deserved better so he most likely didn’t just jump on the opportunity to get with her. All in all it’s a very unique and beautiful situation. One that gives me hope. Thanks for sharing, the internet is a harsh place and allowing yourselves to be vulnerable like that by opening up is very brave.
@nasarettjirumbi6775
@nasarettjirumbi6775 4 года назад
I love the way Hannah always look at Shane with a smile
@kevinp8108
@kevinp8108 4 года назад
@Nasaret Tjirumbi - I totally melt when Hannah smiles. I hope I will find someone who looks at me the way Hannah looks at Shane.
@sinjon
@sinjon 4 года назад
That’s because she’s plotting to kill him when they hit 1M subs. Lol just kidding
@kmorris101
@kmorris101 4 года назад
Me too
@aponiaa
@aponiaa 4 года назад
"JUST BREAK ME, GO AHEAD" lmao
@Stprincess
@Stprincess 4 года назад
I went SHANE When he said that.
@SGWndrWmn1211
@SGWndrWmn1211 4 года назад
💀🤣
@nikki10114
@nikki10114 4 года назад
Me tho As a less abled person i have sfae words or sex chairs .def helps.most of us have high pain tolerances just less stamina or more depending in flares and meds
@chelseapritchard95
@chelseapritchard95 4 года назад
I died at that part 😂😂👌
@lukeanddaleigh
@lukeanddaleigh 4 года назад
Hahhaha loved this 😅❤
@rebecculousrk
@rebecculousrk 4 года назад
The flood of comments you got accusing you of faking the relationship and asking you to lick, kiss, touch Shane to “prove” that you actually “let him touch you” are evidence of the problem people have seeing differently abled people as whole people rather than sexless, even as disgusting. Once again I just have to say that we need you, what you are doing is so valuable, so worthwhile. Thank you so much for sharing your private experiences with us.
@alrightmush215
@alrightmush215 2 года назад
Seeing you both happy this way reminded me wen I had a motorcycle accident I only was with my partner 2 weeks at the time and was told I wouldn’t walk again due to a broken neck and other physical injuries I was given 10% chance By then I had already lost my faith and my partner then was planning how we would live our life the best way no matter if I was disabled or not and after a long road I found the use of my legs because of my loveing partner now wife with 2 sons .she never gave up ,loved me through it all , she gave me the strength I needed to push . 5 years later I’m happily married 2 kids And I wanted to say I admire you both very much
@FMWS366
@FMWS366 4 года назад
I'm going to start calling sex "severe intimacy" from now on
@marias7599
@marias7599 4 года назад
😂😂 “Let’s have severe intimacy hon” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Nyar.canyada
@Nyar.canyada 4 года назад
I just showed my man this😅😅 I highly recommend it😆😆😂
@shabaraliberal1804
@shabaraliberal1804 4 года назад
Same 😂
@ceyhuntuncel1447
@ceyhuntuncel1447 4 года назад
😂😂 so do I
@marianahermenegildo740
@marianahermenegildo740 4 года назад
this needs to be said: shane’s humor is the BEST💕💕his personality is just everything, i mean, he’s seems so nice, so funny and good to be around. hannah is a lucky girl 💕
@deadykrueger9329
@deadykrueger9329 4 года назад
😂
@MajorBall
@MajorBall 4 года назад
mariana hermenegildo wtf 💀💀
@TheGlogee
@TheGlogee 4 года назад
I love how this video was made in such a classy and respectful manner, you guys go into just enough detail that we're really getting an education while also leaving enough out so that you two can retain some privacy. Thanks for being so brave and comfortable with all of us! Can't wait for the other videos.
@smokymountaingirl
@smokymountaingirl Год назад
I never ever ever hardly ever comment on any videos I watch and have recently stumbled upon your blogs and I am so in love with you two ... I can't even go into details of my life drama but needless to say Im married to man (able bodied) who shows absolutely NO intimacy with me (I am able bodied) and we have been together for over 10 years.. I just want to reach through this computer and hug you both and tell you how refreshing and REAL you feel to Im sure millions.. To have found one another must feel like the biggest gift from God. I could write a small book to you on how much I love you two and just am enamored with the love you express towards one another. From someone who gets absolutely no affirmation in my life or any respect I just love watching your blogs ........thanks for being and keeping it 100%. I think I will binge watch all of your videos now !! LOVE YOU GUYS!!!
@VicteoiriaEalasaid
@VicteoiriaEalasaid 4 года назад
I am so grateful for this series! I have a milder muscular dystrophy that has progressed quite a bit in the last few years. I have had an able bodied partner that has worried about hurting me. It’s been a difficult road navigating this and knowing how to explain how my body works to someone. It can be really hard to find information about intimacy for interabled couples. I really appreciate you opening up about this part of your lives from both your perspectives. You are creating a valuable resource for the disabled community and for abled bodied persons to not be nervous of seeing us as sexual beings and being with us in an intimate way.❤️💙💛💚💜🧡🤍
@myloveisallyours4217
@myloveisallyours4217 4 года назад
I have three siblings all of them have MD Two boys one girl, my sister is 26, she’s married and and has two kids, her life has been difficult but her husband truly loves her. Love knows No disability.
@user-ju6zx3rm8d
@user-ju6zx3rm8d 4 года назад
women can always get a man. The reverse is not true
@ericlee4447
@ericlee4447 4 года назад
Mad props to this guy. Somehow got one of the most beautiful women in the world. I dont know one guy with a gorgeous and supportive woman like her. My mind is blown
@ankolefx3272
@ankolefx3272 4 года назад
Buy bitcoin
@Annesantos0497
@Annesantos0497 4 года назад
@Nicholas White it cant be that good? U think we dont have that goodness in our world? Like its hell outside but there are people that is good.
@sierra1718
@sierra1718 4 года назад
Uh “the guy” is pretty great too, don’t sell him short like that he deserves her and she deserves him, they’re perfect for each other.
@ievam6879
@ievam6879 4 года назад
I am like this to my bf
@EyeLoveTheStars
@EyeLoveTheStars 4 года назад
Hes a funny guy so I can see why.
@lissioida
@lissioida 4 года назад
I was always so curious about that topic just because nobody talks about it, thank you for sharing!
@TaylorSwiftIsMyLifee
@TaylorSwiftIsMyLifee 3 года назад
Shane's sense of humour is GOLDEN. I have been laughing at almost every thing he says! "Whatcha guys doing in there? Oh making videos" "Back when we were still intimate" LOL :') You two are adorable.
@missygordon5418
@missygordon5418 2 года назад
he's hilarious
@dongxuemo4090
@dongxuemo4090 2 года назад
The flaming flamingo hahahahaha
@jsl2411
@jsl2411 2 года назад
Hes not very funny
@yyg4632
@yyg4632 2 года назад
I know right he's so entertaining lol
@shindylahoe
@shindylahoe 4 года назад
Love what you’re saying about communication! Able bodied relationships definitely can suffer from lack of communication.
@dannielleway3323
@dannielleway3323 4 года назад
Keep paving the way guys! It breaks my heart that people would post negative comments, but you have the victory of knowing that you have each other and they will always be there for you.
@sergioc4633
@sergioc4633 4 года назад
I do have a physical disability as well. I feel like it’s hard to find someone who understands me. I’m so very happy for you guys
@arielryan5089
@arielryan5089 4 года назад
Awww sending hugs ❤️ you’ll find someone
@vongaichiwade164
@vongaichiwade164 4 года назад
100%^ xxx
@user-ju6zx3rm8d
@user-ju6zx3rm8d 4 года назад
men will not find such a woman. This is a fake relationship
@KatBurnsKASHKA
@KatBurnsKASHKA 4 года назад
@@user-ju6zx3rm8d why are you so insistent on commenting this? Are you projecting? I hope you can find something happy in your life that you can look forward to. Please be happy for other people that have found a good rhythm in life. I wish you well.
@ashleychanelle1997
@ashleychanelle1997 2 года назад
“I don’t know enough about it, money has always been an issue” most relatable statement ever
@dreamwalker3698
@dreamwalker3698 4 года назад
This is really what the world needs, more love, more laughter, more compassion. Lately all I see is hate more so than usual in the news, it’s just everywhere. You all bring such joy to so many. Thank you for inviting us into your home . Many blessings to you both 💜
@kathlynrojas7522
@kathlynrojas7522 4 года назад
I legit love the way Hannah looks at Shane. You can tell she’s so in love with him ♥️
@humanearthling4661
@humanearthling4661 4 года назад
When she asked, "Am I there?" when he was describing his ideal place , I almost died laughing...it was so priceless a question; and so honest. I have written poems about how terrible it is when a lover doesn't say anything during lovemaking. It's as if they are in a different world you are in, not connecting, not having shared fun......Lovemaking should be fun! It should be a sharing without reservation. The egos checked at the door. Not in the bedroom with you. I wish this couple all the happiness they can ever envision for themselves. 💖💕💞💝
@donna3465
@donna3465 4 года назад
I love this comment! 🥰
@hollydemarco2779
@hollydemarco2779 4 года назад
Beautiful comment. I'd love to read your poetry sometime. 💜
@marias7599
@marias7599 4 года назад
I totally agree with the lovemaking thing. It has to be shameless, and limitless. Just fun
@iheartlilly118
@iheartlilly118 3 года назад
They prove what true love is all about 100% Its all about freindship,Trust and Communication. That is how a Relashionship stays strong. Seeing You two brighten my Day!!
@rekebahlakes7993
@rekebahlakes7993 4 года назад
I’ve always thought that sex should be spoken about more freely between adults. So many people get to adulthood with questions and nobody to ask. It’s really healthy to discuss these things. Super tastefully done guys. Love it
@beaucowan357
@beaucowan357 4 года назад
As a person in a wheelchair myself I struggle with letting women know that I can do what I have to do intimacy wise. Shane how did you approach that subject with Hannah ? and how long did you wait in your relationship to tell her ?? Thanks for doing a series like this and shedding some light on an important subject!!!!
@Miss_Distress
@Miss_Distress 4 года назад
Just print it on a business card: "Yes, it works." (Sorry)
@Ktd1013
@Ktd1013 4 года назад
Wear a t-shirt that says “Available for Mild and Severe Intimacy”
@Lifeisgoodyall
@Lifeisgoodyall 4 года назад
As a woman, I wouldn't be concerned about if "it" worked or not. I could just be very creative, but umm there are lots of avenues in pleasure. A guy with a killer sense of humor is an absolute must.
@beaucowan357
@beaucowan357 4 года назад
MistressDistress haha I’ve thought about that 🤣🤣🤣
@beaucowan357
@beaucowan357 4 года назад
Katie P. D. Haha good idea
@joannajojospooner6706
@joannajojospooner6706 4 года назад
I love the way you both explain things and how you find yourselves laughing at eachothers comments. I think the way you chat about more delicate topics, (which undoubtedly will help others in a similar situation and relationship), allows us see how comfortable you are on this topic, resulting in being happy enough to talk out about it, to a wider audience. Good on you both, you're always a joy to watch. 😀
@vanillacapricorn8060
@vanillacapricorn8060 2 года назад
"Just break me go ahead" lmao !!! 🤣🤣 I love it and I think it's great that you two are super open to be able to make educational videos
@teunvoost7499
@teunvoost7499 4 года назад
Love the disclaimer at the start. It's like: PLEASE LEAVE! I'm literally begging you, look away...
@donnamonson4915
@donnamonson4915 4 года назад
“I have a question. Am I even there?” LMAO 😂 Shane that was hysterical-and Hannah that is an amazing wish/idea. Sounds incredible!
@shawnsorbom8907
@shawnsorbom8907 4 года назад
I'm still trying to imagine the "Flaming Flamingo". Dammit Shane, that one will be stuck in my head aaaaaalllllll day.
@mariezvackova2643
@mariezvackova2643 4 года назад
according to urban dictionary, it is a real thing :D
@ludettep
@ludettep 4 года назад
I wished the replaced the word intimacy with flaming flamingo.
@JusticeAnimeGeek
@JusticeAnimeGeek 4 года назад
@@mariezvackova2643 lol I also looked 😂😂😂 it is indeed
@shawnsorbom8907
@shawnsorbom8907 4 года назад
OMG! I laughed so hard that I cried! Yes, can confirm it's real. I deleteted the Urban Dictionary link since this is sort of a family friendly channel, but OH MY GOD!
@eej1983able
@eej1983able 4 года назад
I can't figure it out either lol. I love the term but I'm like 🤔
@joebalusikiii5811
@joebalusikiii5811 3 года назад
I've been a paraplegic for 26 years. I was married for 13 of those years. There is always something to learn. No disability is the same.
@dana102083
@dana102083 3 года назад
Im becoming more physically disabled as each year goes by..each day is never the same and mostly invisible. I cany go anywhere un public without constant interrogation for using neck and arm braces.. Its hard dating as a disabled person. I've honestly never felt so vulnerable on so many levels..
@darkking9836
@darkking9836 2 года назад
Can paraplegic’s get hard?
@joebalusikiii5811
@joebalusikiii5811 2 года назад
@@darkking9836 I can't speak for all Paras. Each injury is different; each level of injury affects different areas.
@suann9790
@suann9790 4 года назад
During my first long term relationship I had an injury and was partly paralyzed for quite some time. We didn't know if it would go away again (which it did) so I just accepted it. It changend nothing in my relationship and even though we aren't together anymore, this is a very valuable memory I will hold dear forever.
@kaleybarfield9964
@kaleybarfield9964 4 года назад
I always love the simplicity of Hannah’s outfits, she makes the most simple styles look so pretty and styled!!!
@garysmith1206
@garysmith1206 4 года назад
Since they started self isolating they started with 1 video about Intimacy. Now they're doing a series. Makes you wonder what they've been getting up to with all this free time on their hands, if you know what I mean 😉.
@beckiehubley5798
@beckiehubley5798 4 года назад
Pretty much what any young couple would be up to?
@garysmith1206
@garysmith1206 4 года назад
@@beckiehubley5798 Of course. My point was like any young couple stuck at home all day is they're probably doing a lot more of it. You can only watch so much netflix.
@tillyok183
@tillyok183 4 года назад
Lol why’d you be so creepy about it, it’s their business
@SirKnobofCheese
@SirKnobofCheese 4 года назад
@@tillyok183 To be fair to the guy they have just made 2 videos about their business.
@rialequay1787
@rialequay1787 4 года назад
A young couple with no children. Lmao.
@rachelbarr6712
@rachelbarr6712 3 года назад
I actually wanted to ask about the intimacy, but I thought it would be impolite. I think it’s quite courageous to share that information.
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