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My wife is my biggest critic. She always craps on anything I do including my cooking.. My mom used to say if you don't have anything nice to say then shut up..
In my experience, a woman being constantly critical to her husband is a symptom of something else going on. It sounds like she’s lost her attraction to you for some reason and she’s lashing out with contempt. If I were you I’d come right out and ask her if she still wants to be married to you because as it is if she doesn’t smarten up and start treating you like a human being, you’re out.
It won't change without a catalyst, meaning, you're worth an answer to your questions about your relationship. It won't change. If it goes south, better now than in 10 years. You are worth more than committing yourself and your resources to someone who acts ungrateful.
Me too because she is everything BUT happy! Women like her will always just bash and diss other women and hate on them just because her own men likes all the other women more like her, should not make her lie to other women.
I agree. It’s a subtle difference, but the devil is in the details. Niceness is concerned about others perception of you. Kindness is concerned with the well being of another. Kindness sometimes requires hard, not “nice” truths. I have been very deeply hurt by some very nice, but unkind women. One most recently I was sure I would marry. I still love her, but she chose to stop loving me, but couldn’t say it to my face, she tried to be “nice” and it cut me all the deeper. If I call some one nice, it’s pretty much never a compliment. Still love the original message though. I want someone to love me despite my flaws, which I’m working on, and respect me and be kind to me for what I provide and strive to give her. *edit was adding a missed word *
I will never understand the mindset of st@ b bing someone in the back when they are good to you simply because your hypergamy makes you interpret niceness as weakness. Mind boggling.
I have been with the same woman for decades. Ever since I started respecting myself things turned around in a good way. I have 2 basic rules when I meet with all people. 1) be polite, honest, & direct. 2)My words and actions MUST ALIGN. Now she rarely tests me. I forgive honest mistakes & the OCCASIONAL bad day. But she knows I have no patience or tolerace left for disrespect. The last time I told her I was done being treated as a doormat, she tested my resolve. My reply was treat myself as someone who mattered. During the depths of COVID, I started scanning the 'net for a new place to live. She was in the same room. When she asked me what I was doing, I calmly told her. I also told her I would stop looking if she gave me a legit apology. I forced her hand, she decided she was better of with me (& my wealth) in her life. She gave me a legit apology, with no ifs, ands, and especially no buts. We are still together since the early '90s. I paid most of the bills until she chose to stop working many yrs ago. Since that time I've paid all of the bills. I then told her very politely, honestly & directly- if I'm supporting you, you now work for me. If you want job security, then you must do your job better than any other woman, or women who might replace you. I am not a union shop and I don't grant tenure. She knows I will leave if I'm not appreciated. So to get what she wants & needs, she gives me what I want & need. There's no free lunches. Also no unconditional love. If she's ever unwilling to her job, She will get replaced. I will only tell her we had a good run. And thanks for memories.
To all men with ears to hear, you will ALWAYS be on the bottom of the totem pole, if not completely buried beneath it! The only winning move is NOT to play the game!
the special bag dispensed from the special dispenser to pick up the dog droppings...when you see she treats the dog S with more Care, Respect, Consideration. - time to go
@@edomann That’s true. The fact that men are expected to produce, protect and provide for women, children and society for their entire lives and are expected to sacrifice themselves to protect women children and society should be worthy of respect.
@@terry9238 So tell me then, are men giving women enough respect? If not, please explain. Men have allowed women to vote, to displace men from the workforce and to enter the world of competitive and professional sports, which men subsidise. After all of that men still get no respect from women. There are no male only spaces left in society while a plethora of female only spaces exist. Men do not complain about women out earning them on beauty and sexuality. Men have had enough and are not young to concede any more territory. In fact, men are going to take back the world they have built.
@@geraldfranklin6049 yes. That is correct. Also, the wife cannot be physically intimate with the kids or parents. They can give the wife conversation and emotional support but not, well, I'll just say it. Sex! 😂. ✌🏽
She put the church before me. I’m not saying God, but the church and people instead of the man who slaves for decades to give her six kids and got nothing in return
She will never tell you that he hates her for that and keeps dissing and disrespecting and hating her on a daily basis but she will never tell you that - she rather likes to lie to women and by the way she has the most sad looking eyes i‘ve ever seen why is she not at least looking happy?! How can I take advice from a woman who calls herself happy but looks in fact like the most unhappy, sad creature i‘ve ever seen?!
A commenter said she was making him cry. I wish I could cry. I feel 2 things. I feel like I've been punched in the gut emotionally. It's almost a physical sensation. The other feeling I can best describe as a child that just wants to be included, liked. The child finally gets invited to the sleepover or the birthday party, to wherever. Another kid shows up. The inviter tells the child, "Oh I can only have 5 guests. I want to invite another person, so I have to uninvite you". That's how I feel in my heart.
Most women and feminists will say that loving and respecting a loving and respectful man is slavery or disempowering... They want the power and control in the relationship.
Actually all I wanted was for her to be loyal and to believe in me, she didn't have to like me she could have been fine if she had just kept it in her pants. I don't know what it is with women nowadays.
Nice? Sure, maybe if his wife is mean. Men want to be respected. Even if that means to comfort and challenge. Simply being nice can come off as patronizing.
This video is so true. I cook, clean, pay all the bills. Don't drink dont smoke. I take time off work to take my wife on shopping excursions. She doesnt have to work because I make a decemt living. I wake up everyday and ask myself "what can I do today to make my wife happy." and all I get in return is just get criticized. I just wish one day I could get a thank you or I appreciate what you do for our family and most of all just one ounce of affection.
Karen, you have absolutely been the best thing in the world to come along for men (and the women who aren’t too far gone)! Sadly, it looks like my spouse is too far gone for what I am able to handle anymore. Ready to start living again and enjoying life!😊 Thank you 🙏
This is why I love my wife, she thinks she's perfectly normal and doesn't realise how special she is. The amount of time's she looks at modern girl boss characters, hears about women's insane opinions or is reading a novel written from a feminist perspective and just says: "Where are all the nice women?" Because it just wouldn't occur to her to be anything but kind and caring to people around her, especially to me. And yes, I'll be the first to admit I've been lucky.
What a good man wants is respect that's what they want women want to be told I love you men want to be told I respect you thank you for taking care of me and the children or such as that I grew up with five brothers they struggled financially so I thought being a good wife I would take some of that pressure off of my husband I ended up in a job that made more money than he did I had no idea that he hated that we bought a home we got a better car I thought he was happy about those things He always acted like that's not what it was my job anyway we ended up divorced I tried before the divorce to get him to go to counseling to open up to let me know what was going on He would not communicate the crazy thing is after our divorce he went through a few girlfriends then Wanted to get back together he told me it was always my job that was the problem By then I could not reconcile because I could not put my daughter's through all the pain that they went through or myself I'm sorry it ended that way Friends talk to one another You communicate with people you work with In a marriage it's crucial you communicate Please love your children enough to see a counselor before you divorce it crushes them and it crushes you
Religious folks simply call this the golden rule. Modern folks have thrown that to the wind and can't seem to figure out why marriages and families break down. You reap what you sow.
I used to ask my wife for this for my birthday every year. No presents or cake, just be nice to me for the day. She never took it seriously. Throughout our marriage she treated me harshly and dismissively based on her own echoed grief. I so wanted to be the good man Karyn describes in her videos. Now I sit here with a convicted conscience, because I became everything my wife projected - withdrawn, cold, controlling. :(
Funny riddle I heard one time.... If it's you, your kids, her family ask drowning in a pond, who would she save first and so on? I asked my kids one time to list an order who mom would save first...all 3 kids said she would save me last! I picked that to btw...all 3 kids selected her family over them even! 🤣🤣🤣
My now ex didnt understand this and she is my everything...was always being compared to previous relationships or cut off...never got higher than 3rd on her list.
This is so true,but the more effort I put in the more she saw me as weak,this was not only painful,but extremely inconsiderate and confusing for the most. Way on the bottom I guess. Great topic
This is asking too much in some cases and I'll explain why: There are cases that men have permitted a woman higher in psychopathy to latch onto him. Psychopaths are known to pursue a parasitic lifestyle which marriage directly facilitates. I recall a woman I worked with laughing about how she married her husband for his money. Psychopathy is also associated with pursuing relationships with those who are unkind. This likely in part explains some cases of women sabotaging the lives of kind men while rewarding unkind men likely higher in the Dark Triad (narcissism, Machiavellianism, psychopathy).
It sounds so simple, right. Yet, I have watched women get divorced, lose all access to children and die on the streets of drug OD and starvation before they will admit fault, apologize or be kind to a man.
Not "a" proirity. THE priority. Most women hate it because it entails what naturally follows from geuine relationship and dynamic of a woman being obedient to a good sacrificial man. Same shit differnt day since the French Revolution and thinking apart from truth
I have a genuine question for the women who don't do this: so you think you're going to find what you're seeking in the arms of another man if you treat the one you are married to like dog shit every chance you get? Because even Chad and Tyrone watch and listen to your husbands when they complain. They have your playbook, ladies.
Ok this is just semantics but we want kindness. Not nice. Nice is fake and self serving. We want our wife to be kind considerate and compassionate. Again not contradicting... Just the wrong word. We want a kind wife.
Where are these men? They’re certainly not in the religious cult that I grew up in called Baptist. I married the preachers kid. It was all show. You had to appear perfect in public but it was a mess in reality. The narcissism in that familywas astounding. I’ve been out of it since the year 2000 and I’m still trying to recover.
They exist, you should definitely find a good therapist to help you work through that trauma though. Sorry you had that experience. I hope you didn't let that terrible family turn you away from Christianity 🙏
