Its so sweet the way he looks at her. KK is a smart woman who knows how to make a happy home and Bran is lucky n wise enough to realise that at such young age !
Great interviewer! I give a sub :) I like how she is very mature, classy, very straight to the point and understandable compare to the other interviewers I seen on sg RU-vid who over laugh, loud and sometime a bit inappropriate.
Even if it was movie once a month, I would go for the cheaper one. So i understand him more. 😂 Different standards of living. As a woman, i wouldn't want my man to pay for everything either. To change my lifestyle to fit in your higher bracket is damn scary to know that if I get accustomed to it then that would also mean I may become reliant on your money. That's scary leh. What if one day I can't protect you and you made a foolish decision on money that I can never fanthom even having. 😂😂😂 I don't think its a gender issue... 🙄 How a poorer person uses money goes through more channels of thought. It is damn stressful to see how you casually spend $40 on something I wont care about while I try to save every bit I have to get something useful for myself.
As someone in my late 40s and have dated mostly younger guys with age gap between 10 - 15, i've also been at the receiving end of many unsolicited nasty comments from close friends. Been called a paedophile, nanny, sugar mummy, desperate etc. Some even suggested that the younger men were interested only coz they were looking for short term fun, and could get laid without risk of unwanted pregnancy. These comments used to hurt, a lot, esp coming from close friends. I've learned since to keep my private life, absolutely private.
This girl KK’s face looks very artificial. Like got Botox on forehead, some procedures to make her face very artificially v shape which is trendy now.. a lot of girls do that and they all look similar.
I feel that deep down she might be very sensitive or insecure about him. Caz now that he is also successful and still very young. And that he cares a lot about her. But men will come to a point and get tired if their partner are so sensitive.
“any words of encouragement for ppl who feel concerned about being judged by others? you have only one life if you spend your whole life caring what other ppl say, you might lose out on happiness ppl will always imposs their own fears insecurities on you, so just don’t bother about it” 😊
This is my first time listening to your postcast and I've enjoyed it. My husband is 13 years older than me. I actually hid my relationship from my family for 6 years and we've been together 24+ years now. I was so young when we met and I wear the pants in our relationship ☺️ Kaykay & Brandon are so cute together!
Ohh, you might want to rethink that wearing the pants thing. I think that causes a lot of issues for men and even affairs, because they more naturally want to be in control..
I have dated older and more successful ladies. but I also understand him, it feels so bad that I can't do all those things, but is that just social norms on conforms on genderism bias ? Even then the ladies just picked up the tabs, as the waiter just approached me to again the gender bias. Clearly, this isn't a rich or poor issue more than a gender issue as to what most podcast over the world are skewing towards. I prefer the to each their own bank accounts and contribute where they feel like its best to help each other grow ideal. Its tiring to put social norms to everything, I`ll be the house husband, and i`ll tell my kids OF paid for your diapers. So be it. Or go " This Iphone14 is so expensive, now mom has to sell 200 pictures and videos on OF to get this for your birthday present. " just to combine the all the recent topics covered so far.
That is so generalised. No one knows when someone will die… you can’t plan these things… or look for someone younger cause he is going to die around your age… he may die much earlier or you much sooner… we can’t predict death.
She looks much older than when she was prominent in social media back then. I mean, obviously due to the passage of time. But kinda interesting to see the same person now after so many years
I relate so much to Brandon, literally how i think and act exactly. I've also thought about dating older women a lot but I just don't know still. But I totally get you Brandon. Thank you for making this video clarity!
Get her pregnant first, and then tell your parents. This is a diversion tactic, they'll forget about the age (difference) when they have the expectant grandkid.
Ive been dating younger guys since my divorce and there are so many men out there that likes older women especially the under 45 guys as times have changed. However, I still find myself having to defend my preference for younger men with all my friends. They always have this incredulous look when I mention I am dating a younger guy.
Facts you only one life why does it matter what people think! I always say they don’t pay our bills so why do their opinion matters! Keep living your life!
Would love to see more of them :) while I would also want Bran to answer more questions/elaborate, my husband is like Bran and this RU-vid interview may be slow and boring if we waited for him to look at partner, think and answer/elaborate… so I can see why Kay Kay interjects a lot. However, my family and friends also like listening to him so I’ve learned to take many steps back, lose the control and be okay with momentary silences while he takes his time to reply. Usually he will reply and not need my help, only occasionally :) it’ll just be slightly slower paced lor, and he won’t elaborate too much unless probed further by host
This is exceptional content. I read a book with a similar theme, and it was absolutely mind-blowing. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
Some successful women love the man whom they could have more control in relationship. The "alpha" type is definitely a no to them. In this interview, it's pretty obvious when he said "YOU ARE!" ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-j8g8khYm39g.html
I know this Post is from a year ago but if I knew now what I didn't know then, and understood the complications of being younger than my wife. I would have not made the decision to get involved in the long term. I haven't had any intimacy on over 3 years. She asked me the other day if she should be concerned about me being involved with another woman. Repeatedly being shut off and berated by the way I do things and not seeing any interest in intimacy like she used to be, turned me off in so many ways. After many years of therapy, it has been a very mundane relationship. Excitement comes from outside the relationship. Married almost 30 years. I wish you all the best.
There's one element that was not even brought up which I think is an important matter to consider, if the man is dating a much older woman - childbearing. I know of a person who had reservations about settling down with an older woman bcos she was almost past her childbearing age. When it comes to offspring, it will definitely involve getting opinions/blessings of both parents, whether they are okay without grandchildren. Regardless of how advance technology is, somehow the guy has to be ready and willing to give up the option of having biological children or else this could be a 'thorn' in the relationship
"When it comes to offspring, it will definitely involve getting opinions/blessings of both parents, whether they are okay without grandchildren." Respectfully, I need to disagree with you there. The couple's parents don't get to decide if their children want to have kids. Whatever the situation (grandkids or no grandkids), they're just going to have to make their peace with it. The decision is out of their hands. If they choose to antagonise the relationship for this reason (against the wishes of their adult children), then they're risking their children cutting them out of their lives. To your other point, I know of plenty of couples who don't want and are choosing to live childfree lives. Gone are the days where kids were a must for a "happy stable family". I also know that "egg freezing" has become more and more popular. A few of my single female friends have done that (once they got close to a certain age). That + surrogacy means you're really not on nature's clock anymore. The obstacle is the high cost, more than anything else.
As a 42 YO woman, all I can say is that, contrary to these people in the video, I'm more of an "equal parternship" and do not expect the man to take care of everything financially (especially if he's younger). If I can see that my -potentially future- partner has drive, is serious about his ambitions and works towards them then I'll feel open to a relationship with him. I wouldn't even be interested in a man my own age if the guy had no ambition at all. It's really a matter of character and if you're putting action into your words.
Agent, as the way it is, always trying to think of fast shot to more money zzz typical low resilient men …but i believe the woman not stupid to give him money freely…the man is not young also…just got age gap….by the way both of them got plastic surgery just look unnaturally weird
@@SXLEOPARDSKINNED I mean its not really a trend if its been going on for a really long time! The focus used to be on the older women; why is she dating a younger man? Is she bored of men her age? Etc. Just as the focus used to be on Sugardaddies, now its on the sugar baby. Its just a perspective shift, but its still the same story thats been going on for a while!
@@SXLEOPARDSKINNED I mean it in a respectful way, with cub, cougar, sugar daddy and sugar baby used to describe a may-september romance. My observation is mostly on the shift on what society is focusing on now and how they are looking at it; from the lense of the September partner, to the lense of the May partner.
@@Fakeslimshady not in all cases. In recent years theres been a rise in discussion surrounding the sugar baby and why she chooses to be that. Also, if you noticed, the terminology used for older women/younger men relationship (aka calling the women "cougar"), also paints these women as predatory, so I don't really think its excluaive to either gender. In my opinion, the older of the two is usually viewed as predatory due to the percieved imbalance of power dynamics with one being much older and usually seens to be of authority and dominance over the other.
im so called dating this guy 3 yrs younger than me he's 19.. i'm 22. i have also been paying all our meals and expenses. im doing a small business and he is still interning, so he has not much money. i feel ok paying for meals cuz i sympathise with him but my problem is that he does not even mention anything about returning the favour or thinking of repaying me back in the future. not sure if we would even have a future tgt but its the lack of thought that threw me off. such as, he rather spend money on his friends and family but not me. when i have alr spent $300+ on him for our 5 dates so far.. its also not easy for me also since my business is not the most stable and doesnt earn as much as he thinks i do.. our lifestyle is also v different. he is born rich and im born poor. he wants all the branded things and i do not care abt any of those expensive brands..
Tell him to pay the next time before date. Ditch your “mother the saviour” attitude.Use your feminine charm to move him to save up for you. Shake him out of “comfortable gigolo mode”. Test him. You’re too easy for your own good - his ATM and cuddle bear!!
all i can really notice is how much bigger KK's face is compared to brandon's and sonia's...not just in the video but in her ig pics....O_O and also her chin and forehead filler which looks v big n swollen
For long term, usually not but for short term or for a one night stand, absolutely. Older women may not like the mind of a younger man but they absolutely adore and crave his body.
I'm not "old" but the guys I date are always younger. I game a lot so the men I'm around or connect with are typically younger. With that being said, We do. It depends on how you act.
hes wayyyyy out of her league bruh even if she were 20 idgi,....i mean we all know it was a shotgun marriage but.....tbh i think he closeted gay cause he is very effeminate and shes a coverup
No wayyyy, Kaykay was really the OG of beauty with brains. Of course age has somewhat caught up with her, as will everybody one day, but she was mad pretty in her 20s. You can see her in "Babe of all trades" and all the other clicknetwork shows. But being pretty is not even the most attractive part about her, it is the fact that she is very intelligent and capable as well, not just academically but also in the way she speaks and carries herself. We will all lose our youth & beauty one day when we grow old but attractiveness that stems from intelligence will be something that will always stick to us for a long long time.
Regardless of age, singaporean women only loves the most perfect man in the world, no need to be good looking, but must be rich with a respectable career with high monthly salary
Firsst of all, why the host is looking away from the main camera? Very strange.. I know theres another camera but doesn't look nice. There is no audience connection. jusst my opinion.
