Unfortunately Dave didn't catch that. That's a major red flag. if she truly threatened to postpone the wedding over him not doing home renovations before she moves in there then she is an absolute child and he's headed for doom.
@@Mike_Thompson Unfortunately, it's probably too late. The guys that end up seeing the truth it usually requires a bad burn of some type to allow it to happen.
Likely a red flag, but it would depend on what he means by "home renovations." If the house is on the verge of being condemned, then it would be more understandable that she is pushing for renovations.
Just to clarify, I think the bigger red flag is her amount of debt vs her salary, not necessarily the home renovations. But a red flag is a red flag, I wouldn't want to combine incomes with her!
Am I the only one that would be cool with getting married in the back yard for like 1k? 15k to put on a show for one day lol, I’ll never understand it 🤷🏽♂️
TOTALLY AGREE WITH YA..... THE VOWS ARE WHATS IMPORTANT, THE PARTY 🎉 IS THE LEAST OF THE ISSUES. A FEW TABLES SOME FOOD AND CAKE 🍰 AND CALL IT A DAY.... 😁
I'd be totally down for couples throwing a huge 10- or 20-year anniversary party. That'd show that their bond was legit, and it'd way more meaningful than putting on an overpriced wedding gown and tux, especially since nowadays couples are usually banging before they get married in the first place.
@Robert Santiago 100% agreed. Dave is a simp because he's a hardcore Christian and believes everyone should get married. Dave's religious influence turns me off to the show.
She works for a ministry & doesn't make enough yet she can find money to pay for a wedding!? Her "mindset" is a red flag....this man may learn the hard way...
She’s going to take all his money, run up more debt and leave him. Hopefully without children but she might get a couple of those and half his money for 20 years
Wow dude run. She rather have you spend 15k on a useless wedding than her cc debt. She also threatened to not marry you unless the house is renovated?? She makes almost nothing. Holy cow get out! You are in for a long road of hurt trust me. You seem pretty naive by your question about CC payments and you seem like a nice guy.
"she's threatening to push the wedding back if the home renovations don't get done". I would be pushing the wedding back if there wasn't a clear sensable plan on her part to be on the same page with paying off her accumulated debt. Guy is in a world of hurt.
Wait wait wait...she is “wanting” to get out of debt, but is willing drop $15k on a wedding? Nope. She is a problem. It’s only going to get worse once she has access to your $100k income.
Exactly! If home renovations and debt reduction is important then do a simple wedding with immediate family only, set aside an emergency fund then pay off debt as quickly as possible
She us the one with the debt and she is calling the shots . Isn't that something. She still wants a princess wedding and she is carrying a huge burden. Ha ha I think love blind sometimes. He better look out after she is debt free and married she will flee. I see this is a convenient marriage. Kind boy look before you leap.
Definitely, I got one company to just wipe out 5k for 800 dollars. If payments are on time no chance to settle on those buddy. Sneak in home renovations. Lol.
Why is one collection agency who purchased charged off debt threatening to sue me? They sent a letter saying they will garnish my wages and my bank account.
They cannot garnish your bank account if they never get access to it (or if you feel like they do have access, take out all the money and deposit it into another account.)
She lives above her means and doesn't want to pay off her debt.. prolly the type to buy "stuff" to keep up with an image. No wedding until debt free!! Her debt is not your responsibility, it's hers.
Most creditors now don't even sell to collectors anymore including health care creditors they just warehouse her debt. I love the dead beats. This guy's marrying a woman who can't budget and will welch on debt bad signs. This guy's a meal ticket to her I guess god provided.
He is way out of her league he doesn’t need her why can’t she pay off her own debt simple solution would be him taking care most of the bill while she using 80% of her income to pay off her debt
She’s probable making him “wait” until marriage even though he’ll be the 20th guy who’s been with her. The guy seems way too eager to pay for her wedding, pay her debt, and pay for the home renovation that she wants.
@@agr-tech nah I don’t think that feeling will ever change everyone has a different opinion and I know enough that she just might divorce you after you pay it all of
How is Dave any different from caller ? He says Sharon want to get a better car but Dave said he wanted to use the money to grow the business !! What about "Values" as presenter said and pay your debt off, even though made himself bankrupt ?? Caller right in my eyes if you dont need credit in future but Dave know it also but cant agree on air as banks would be pissed surly? again only my opinion and not proffessional advice.
Let's not be deluded. She was making 28k. How can you be financially "responsible"? And she was working for the church! That's a crying shame. Let's start paying people more - AND let's go easy on the $6 daily lattes. It's both.
talking of values, did Dave go back and pay off all his debts from bankruptcy now that he is worth millions ?? I think not, so please don't talk about values to pay a debt. So why worry about destroying a credit as Dave said when the goal is to never use credit again ? Default like Dave applied for bankruptcy and start again. Dave cant condone that, but if not worried about getting mortgage for 6 years in uk. Its an option but get professional advice. Just my opinion.
Don't be another SIMP that just pays off everything for her, pays for the wedding then when you are used up she leaves and goes for the bad boy that she really wanted all along.
Dave Ramsey suggesting guys move in a traditional way when woman are no longer traditional woman, steering men to their financial ruin unintentionally..
It should have been a stipulation that she be debt free before you wed. Its her debt, she has the cash to take care of it immediately. Its incredibly stupid not to do so. Red flags all over the place.
Bruh, she is bringing nothing but debt to the relationship. Dude already needs to give up 74% of his saving to get her out of debt and she is trying to make him spend even more money to renovate his house before they even walk down the aisle. Paying that debt down needs to be priority number one.
