Is MARRIAGE FOR EVERYONE?? CHOOSING THE RIGHT PARTNER |SINGLE AT 30 | SOCIETY PRESSURE  

What do you think the right time is to get married? Settle in and let’s dig into this episode Let us know in the comments what your experience is being married, and how the pressure is going if you’re single 😎 Follow the conversation on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter @bumploveug Credits; VIDEOGRAPHY & EDITING: Garage Group BEVERLEY'S GLAM; Accessories: The SN Store Wardrobe: Arija Fashions MANUELA'S GLAM; Wardrobe: Cadia Fashion House Make up: Tina Brows +256 779 790379 Hair: Zuri Uganda BARBARA'S GLAM; Wardrobe: Arija Fashions Accessories: The SN Store Hair: Zuri Uganda Make up: The Sununu Effect

Beverly is spot on, "don't work to become the best wife, work to become the best version of yourself"

Ladies, we need you to please start walking into the studio and first show off your beautiful outfits ❤❤❤. You always look amazing. Bev's color blocking♡♡♡♡♡♡ Barbara's puffy blouse is fab. And Manuelles legs ❤🎉 Lets vote for a walk in♡♡♡♡♡

I got married at 32 and it was the right time 🙏🙏

Thank you so much ladies for giving me hope am 32 and not yet married but am waiting for God's timing

"When the right time comes, there's a quickening," Barbara is a gem, so relatable & a natural on B❤!

Great conversation beautiful Ladies.. there is a side too maybe I can try to share. Coming from an emotionally challenged parents who were in an arranged marriage for 40+ years n 7 kids later. I ended up in a marriage very young. 19yrs n my husband 20 yrs. I wasn't close to even thinking about preparation but mostly wanted to fill a gap that my parents created. Now, 11years in this marriage n I can't think of a life without my husband. We have grown up together in a way. We are merged to a level that many may not understand. And yes, we are still learning more n more...biggest of all healing from our own childhood n shaping ourselves into one being. But hey even twins fight in the womb. So here we are .....not prepared but would not have it any other way.

Banange ladies the way you unveil this thing, it brings me chills down the spine 🤯🤯 Especially the godly part of it in marriage. Mukama abawe omukisa.

Ladies, you are smart in your looks and Spirits! As a woman who has just made 30 years in marriage, im proud of you! Baseline= Marriage is right! St. Paul said if you can't handle your urges or passion, then marry. Meaning, if you are able to control your passions not only in regard to sex but the single life in its entirety, including not having to be desperate to have children of your own, or a companion at some point, then stay single and serve the Lord without disruptions. Very few people can be celibate. Marriage is the way to go for the majority. "When I'm weak then I'm strong". Married people are strong only in God as Mrs. Mulondo said. Thank you all.

And Manuela's skin is always goals for me, she's such a beauty. Actually the 3 women are just so beautiful. Uganda women have such flawless skin.

Hello bump lovers😍. I can now end my week. Marriage is Holly! And it's sweeter when partners understand each others' language. Love from Rwanda

First of all Bev, your energy today is exactly what I needed to get thru the day❤

I think marriage for everyone because there's a natural yarning at some point when one can't help but have a partener and offsprings. So marriage is for everyone.

I paused the video to write this up, maze nakyo ebanga now is the time, Beverly i love the way you bring out your words, articulately carefully, intentionally and strongly, indeed your a poet i love listening to you speack all day ❤😅

I agree with Barbra on equipping children with value systems earlier. It doesnt mean they will marry someone who has the same but when shit hits the fan, they will leverage those tools they were equipped with when young.

I think that marriage (much like motherhood) is a calling and when we say it’s not for everyone, it doesn’t mean that it’s bad. It just means it’s not everybody’s calling. There are so many unmarried women who are just as happy as those who are, and have found fulfillment and joy in other things…constantly finding themselves, loving on other people and their communities etc. There’s no one thing better than the other. And there’s a place for everyone and whatever each one of us has been called to do. The challenge is we have put the whole idea of marriage and especially for women on a pedestal and we teach girls from a young age to aspire to and fixate on this thing, that should it not happen for them, then there’s a problem with them -and that’s how they make mistakes and kutomera all in the name of getting in done and trying to do it right. I’d advise young women to keep their minds open about it…. That should it not be in the books for you, that too is fine. Life can still be beautiful. It’s the pressure that will strangle you. PS: You could find your one even at 50+. Just be open to the possibilities. The ultimate goal is happiness… and there are many ways to it ❤

I love Barbra's submission about how society has seen and knows why people need marriage.

Beverly closed well. "my identity is who I am in God not in marriage ". Thank you ladies. Great show.

This is was such a rich conversation, am looking forward to remarriage with a whole different mindset. You're a blessing beautiful ladies.

The right time to get married is when you FIND true Love And to you all out there love is Rare when you find it Grab it

Marriage is holy❤ everyone ought to experience it. I pray for a beautiful journey ❤️

God's timing is the best in everything so it's best to pray and wait for God's time to get married. Marriage is sacred and has it's ups and downs so if you don't put God in it, the struggle is real

Everyone deserves partnership in various forms, marriage I believe is a titled partnership, so you can be partnered without necessarily been married ❤ Marriage gives a sense of purpose and direction dependent on who you marry because as much as it's a blessing it can equally be the worse thing you have ever experienced. You ladies look stunning❤

I being a designer I focus so much on smartness and I just realized you all wore chiffon or satin scarfed tops❤❤❤ around the neck 😊❤❤

Thank you Bev, Manuel n Barb for this conversation. Kindly one day invite a guest who can share about the decision not to get married and one who can share about the decision not to remarry so that the conversation can be balance d. On the panel you are all married that is your experience. Invite someone who is not to share another perspective. I am emotionally exhausted by people who constantly bombard me with their advice n “prayers” why I should remarry. I pray people can allow people to be ok with their decisions. Pressure ekoya. Banange life is not a template. Personally I don’t tick boxes. I live my life and am enjoying it. I enjoyed my marriage and I love love marriage as God’s blessing. I am content and at peace. If someone out here is like me but yet face these societies pressures u are not alone🫂. Live your best life and don’t let people’s words get to you. Because marriage is truly a personal calling let those who want to get married and those who don’t let them be. And us who are not getting remarried plz let us be.

I agree with Beverly. Become the best version of yourself before marriage. Be happy being single first before marriage cos your partner is there to just do life with you but not to make you happy. And you will enjoy your marriage more when you know who you are. By this you know what to take in and what not to, you know what you can tolerate, you know when to pray for a situation and know when to walk away. Have boundaries also in marriage and this you can best do it when you know who you are so that you dont take in every crap that people have about marriages otherwise you can easily loose yourself in a marriage. Knowing who you are is the power to everything. When you know you, life becomes easy.

Flowers for Beverly. Let's tell women to never settle for less.the men know you're worth they just hope you don't. I love podcasts that lift women up.dont tell me I have 2 1st be domesticated 2 get married if I don't want 2.

Thanks Bev for your authenticity and standing proud as you. It’s refreshing to hear you speak and encouraging

This has been amazing@ Beverly Namboozo @ Manuela P Mulondo and @ Barbra. Bringing 3 different unique but authentic stories was bae. God bless u three❤

Manuela's look is 🔥

So true Manuela. Your definition of patience isn't the other person's definition,you love your food with supu he wants dry food. Just Know your person and do your thing as long as you are not inconveniencing your partner.

Thanks, ladies, for sharing. Wow, I have been watching as usual. Every Friday, I patiently wait for a new episode. What a team, you guys! Has anyone noticed that Barb is a voice of positivity here? She always steers the conversations back to a positive standpoint. No crucifixion here. 😅 Anyway, thanks, ladies, for lifting the torch for all of us to see. Back to today's conversation. Me, I always say if a relationship is hard and you feel like you are forcing things, that's not the right relationship for you, man or woman. Marriage starts from the beginning, and it all comes easily. Then everything else follows. #relationshipgoals #marriage #positivity

Happy and excited. Some times I don't get the notifications soo I rash here to check and confirm if the episode has dropped to cut down on my anxiety and pressure then plan to listen in. I must say thank you ladies. Because for the time when we were waiting for 2.0 those Friday's without episodes were hard to me Thanks ladies smiles from my side

Great topic, great conversation. I've finally embraced Bumplove 2.0

Bev has a rich vocabulary, 😊

I like the episode before watching. Happy to be here

The perfect conversation by far this season. Thank you Ladies ❤

Couldn't wait to watch this❤❤❤❤❤❤ We love you ladies. My mummy Manuela sending you lots of ❤❤❤❤❤.

Thanks alot lovely ladies. I'm learning and blessed with your program. I applaude your blending these conversations with the Word of God.

Wowwww Beverley, your hair. There is hope for us!

It’s the first time I listened to marriage advice as a single woman and it served the purpose, such wonderful and meaningful points to note with so much depth. Thank you ladies, thanks to bump love I have something to refer to if I ever forget.

I believe comprehension is part of communication. if the message is not comprehended then communication has not taken place.

Old age needs a friend😊Barbara thx for being vulnerable for sharing

That revolving door analogy is so true about opportunity

Wooow this is my best soo far, Ladies be blessed. Got married officially at 23yrs and neva pushed anything but things flowed in a mysterious way but one thing am so sure, God directed it to me because I insisted on praying and fasting be4 anything matured yet kuba bambi me I thought I wud be just in my crazy independent era😅 not marriage

Thank you women for reminding us to acknowledge our strongholds 🎉 not only focusing on weak points....There isn't a verse in the Bible that explicitly says one must get married/Marry..its all humanly... God takes care of them equally whether in youth or old age.. married or not married... priority is serve God's purpose in whatever status. Very engaging topic, i liked it

Amazing submissions ladies!!!really enjoyed the discussion...

I did alot of work, courses about marriage, parenting. Hv read endless books and am still working harder....but thankful for the graceful bliss

I'm so in love with the new members. Excellent choice Manuela❤️. I love ❤❤❤

😂 I can relate with Manuala you have to learn to swim,float and drown sometimes. But these streets aren’t easy with different characters and backgrounds.😅

Thank you so much Bevvvv🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

Hellooooooo. Second one here!!!!! I love you ladies. I love your show. Waving from Kenya.

I really enjoyed this episode. Thank you ladies❤

Love love this episode 😍 ❤️

This has been so important to me after hearing from you ladies, thank u so much, God bless

What a lovely episode. Keep it up ladies😊

Just loved this❤

Wow....,..lovely. things just fall in place of when it's the right time for marriage.

Thanks ladies for thus topic. Very Blessed

Thank you for this informative conversation.Greetings from Ghana🇬🇭

kale me i love your melanin skin(all of u ladies). Its skinning

We needed this,, thank you Ladies ❤❤❤

Screaming YYESSSSSSSS COZ I AM ANOTHER BEVERLEY!

Bev, your smile, ANGELIC

Iam so blessed that I Found bump love you people ever since I started listening to you and watching you have made a big difference in my life , bless you women 🙏🙏🙏🙏

Great take, Manuela, spot on!!!

I have always been that person that waits and things fall in place the road might be bumpy but i pray, and work on myself then let His will be done because nothing is greater than His will

i like it Manuella, the way of GOD is the way of peace. there is a certain kind of peace that comes while with the right person.

Thank you ladies for wisdom 🎉❤

Oh how i relate with Manuella so much, from having a silent man who let you talk it all out and say nothing, to marriage having saved me. My marriage saved me

Very good view Barbra, I incline with your way of thinking on this marriage preparation matter

The right age for marriage is when one is ready 😊😊😊.

I relate so much with Bev in this episode

I have so many take homes, thanks ladies.

Marriage came my way at 20.After 10 years I was asking myself,"how did I get here?"Good enough no one pushed me there. 5 kids now😂😂😂

Big up to all you ladies of bump love, that is Manuela, nambooze and itchumar❤❤❤, to Beverly extra big up no wonder you were head girl in makerere college school, you have always been smart, cheerful and confident blessings to you all ladies❤❤❤❤ and your respective families

I got pregnant at 19 yrs, but I wasn't ready for marriage and I worked so hard to see that it ends soon.am now 32 years and I feel that am ready to someone who is ready but not every man available but the controlling, protective and kind man

It's the legs for me. Wooow Manuella wooooow

Am loving this

Very insightful session!

Beverly thanks for your wisdom

And when it's the right time, I can assure you that you will know because it feels right. No pressure because pressure is when you make mistakes. Sending much love ❤️ to everyone here for the engagements #positivity #selflove #inspiration

I love Barbara's personality..whawwww..❤❤

Someone told me she said I do but she didn’t know wat she was going to do!!!I this topic came in at the right time

I've also been told how lucky I was, good career, my own home, living my life n no man to stress me. Barbara, I can relate 😂😅

Manuella u r so right about misery loving company😅. Some pipo like to push others to that end so that they also feel it

Bev thank you🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿i am 28 turning 29 and am seeing someone but i know this aint it so on the verge of a breakup and eish society expecting you to be settled by now is crazy but thanks for this....

Bev I love your energy..😂

Thank you bump love 2o marriage is good

What i really like about this season’s line up is that it of belivers! And God’s acknowledgment in this conversation is phenomenal ☺️otherwise I think one is ready for marriage when theres been self discovery and a realisation of purpose regardless Marriage is Gods idea Trust Him with everything concerning it and it will be well with. Like one wise man has said; theres safety in the way of the Lord.

Thank you so much Ladies . People are pressurising to go for marriage 😢😢😂😂😂😂. I must wait until my season comes to avoid hitting the wall 🧱

❤❤❤ Beverly speaks for me hahahaha same feathers

Wow.Thax for sharing.But I have come to realise that there is nothing in this world as good as marriage as long as one gets their marriage and put it in the hands of God.

Very informative. It feels like it's not in our hands...... generally you pray and wait on God.

God the Match Maker by Derek and Ruth Prince 👌

I knew Manuela was gona mention “lips”🤩

Barbra, the voice of reason ❤😊

Ladies, this was wonderful, ended too early! Barbara, somehow everything you spoke today felt like it was personal for me, would love to hear more of your story!

Hellooo Friday 🎉🎉🎉

I think the principles and values in every family vary depending on a family you have grown up in…People who grow up from a family with a single parent may not be like those who grow up under a roof of a wife and a husband..For example Manuela said her mother used to put the money on the table and they all know how it’s going to be spent. Maybe she did this so that the children understand that she is the only source of income and they should be mindful of any other expenses which will hardly happen in a family of two. In a family of two maybe a child will learn that a wife and husband can bring their incomes and plan together…..So in this case the children are learning different values So yeah I think marriage is a whole experience and it varies. Thank you beautiful ladies for sharing❤