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Is Modern Feminism starting to undermine Itself? | Jess Butcher | TEDxAstonUniversity 

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Entrepreneur, Non-Exec Director and Angel investor. Co-Founder of Blippar, one of Britain’s best-funded technology scale-ups and one of the world’s leading computer vision and augmented reality technology platforms. She is the recipient of numerous female entrepreneur and tech awards including BBC’s Top 100 Women and Fortune’s Most Powerful female entrepreneurs and is a passionate start-up mentor, public speaker and writer on subjects as diverse as women in technology, female entrepreneurialism, digital innovation, digital detox and work-life balance. She received an MBE in the 2018 New Years Honours List for her services to technology and entrepreneurship. Entrepreneur, Non-Exec Director and Angel investor. Co-Founder of Blippar, one of Britain’s best-funded technology scale-ups and one of the world’s leading computer vision and augmented reality technology platforms. She is the recipient of numerous female entrepreneur and tech awards including BBC’s Top 100 Women and Fortune’s Most Powerful female entrepreneurs and is a passionate start-up mentor, public speaker and writer on subjects as diverse as women in technology, female entrepreneurialism, digital innovation, digital detox and work-life balance. She received an MBE in the 2018 New Years Honours List for her services to technology and entrepreneurship. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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Комментарии : 7 тыс.   
@glosterboy24
@glosterboy24 5 лет назад
When I make these exact points, I’m mansplaining. Thanks feminism
@MungeParty
@MungeParty 5 лет назад
Womansplaining smashes the patriarchy, so it's ok.
@rickyadames7714
@rickyadames7714 5 лет назад
The patriarchy boogeyman is real! Real as the wage gap I tell you! You can trust me, I'm a woman...
@anthonypc1
@anthonypc1 5 лет назад
Ideas hold different weight depending on which genitals or skin color the speaker has. *Get WOKE*
@USA2Brazil
@USA2Brazil 5 лет назад
Mansplaining aka using logic.
@anthonypc1
@anthonypc1 5 лет назад
-slpaining means saying anything, while being associated with an identity category someone doesn't like.
@deangreen2567
@deangreen2567 4 года назад
“Women, Children and Dogs are loved unconditionally. A man is only loved under the condition that he has something to provide” - Chris Rock.
@randomuser5443
@randomuser5443 4 года назад
Being warm is a good quality
@deangreen2567
@deangreen2567 4 года назад
Random User If you’re talking about warmth as in kindness- then I’d say everyone should possess it. If you’re talking about actual body heat, think about that for a second. It’s good for you, less good if someone else is sapping it from you.
@mgw622
@mgw622 4 года назад
@@deangreen2567 warmth begets warmth. Giving is receiving.
@deangreen2567
@deangreen2567 4 года назад
mgw622 Tell that to Jack after the Titanic went under
@GardeDuCoeur
@GardeDuCoeur 4 года назад
@@randomuser5443 provide warm yes
@Johno143
@Johno143 Год назад
I stood up on the bus and offered my seat to a young pregnant woman to sit down. She angrily said " I'm pregnant..I'm not _ucking disabled" As a father of 3 and a grandfather I sat back down looked straight ahead and worried about the future.
@hiya2750
@hiya2750 Год назад
You are good human being I am sorry you have to go through that humiliation
@markenetube
@markenetube Год назад
Welcome to 2022. You're dammed if you do. She should have had the good grace to thank you and say no.
@ghostlyphantasm2352
@ghostlyphantasm2352 Год назад
I held a door open for a group of people behind me at work, the first in line was a woman who looked down at the floor like I was insulting her. So I kept the door open and let the men through and once they had finished I closed the door on her, in which case she forgot her id card and had to wait outside for 5 minutes before someone opened the door for her. It's madness but it's real.
@roysalo
@roysalo 13 дней назад
She said this 5 years ago and now we are finally on the turning point. It is clear why she was so successful in her business, she has great insight and ability to look forward.
@kenbellchambers4577
@kenbellchambers4577 5 лет назад
There are bad abusive men, and there are bad abusive women. Women however, almost always get away with it.
@jwolf1125
@jwolf1125 5 лет назад
Jake Dean unless they use a weapon or manipulate someone to do it for them
@sofftskies3769
@sofftskies3769 5 лет назад
@@jwolf1125 that doesn't stop there being an exponential difference in how many times it goes from abuse to murder, not even for big things either. there's plenty to complain about with feminism, but men need to work with us and not constantly fight us. too many people assume and jump the gun that EVERY woman hates men and EVERY woman wants to control them, but that's not true. but when you look at social media, you see hundreds of thousands of men who seem very willing to put women in their "place" constantly. women also need to stop minimizing the issues men experience or mocking them for their circumstances. we really do have to sit and hold hands and listen to each other properly and understand neither side are good nor totally bad.
@jwolf1125
@jwolf1125 5 лет назад
Jay Evans I understand that and your right all I was saying is that women could hurt a man by other means and it sometimes hard for some men to work with some women because some women only talk about subjects of how Men are wronged but they only do this because they want to make money off those men they sometimes don’t even really care about men problems just themselves so it’s tough to see who really trying to work with men
@sofftskies3769
@sofftskies3769 5 лет назад
@@jwolf1125 no no i got what you were saying. and yes theres a few women out there ready to capitalize on the suffering of men and other folk, but these people typically get denounced (and if they aren't, denounce anyone who supports them). but nobody listens to the women who talk about how men are abused and hurt, and men in general don't seem to want to stand together to work with feminism about how to treat the issue, instead they bully each other over it and it's horrible (see: toxic masculinity). theres a lot of issues that effect both men AND women equally, but nobody can ever go over it or discuss it without being shut down and it's a huge problem, and we can't afford that to keep happening at this time.
@jwolf1125
@jwolf1125 5 лет назад
Jay Evans ok that’s cool but I don’t think they want to work with feminisms because of what is feminism doing today which is mostly only helping women I mean if look up feminism it’s the advocacy women rights for equality why would men work with something that would only benefit women when their trying to fix both genders and the main problem with feminism is that they think everybody is equal but we are not men have their strengths and weaknesses and women have their strength and weaknesses it’s always been like that
@GuppyPal
@GuppyPal 4 года назад
"Feminism has become obsessed with female victimhood." Spot on. Excellent talk all around.
@tagoldich
@tagoldich 4 года назад
ALWAYS has been.
@madspunky
@madspunky 4 года назад
Personally, I feel empowered by feminism, especially modern intersectional feminism that understands that the patriarchy affects me in a different way than other men do.
@MrALenCar321
@MrALenCar321 4 года назад
@George Bush Correction! white women not other races. Asians and middle eastern women still struggle
@camillefaith2005
@camillefaith2005 4 года назад
@George Bush WHITE women.
@danzel1157
@danzel1157 4 года назад
GuppyPal. Feminism ain't about women, buddy.
@laurahamdi9697
@laurahamdi9697 3 года назад
"Does power exist solely in the boardroom and at the highest levels of politics and business? Or is there the possibility that it exists in choice? And arguably, don't women have more of that? Does the equality of opportunity have to equal the equality of outcome?" I had to stop at this. This is my thoughts in words! So well said!
@angelsrageunleashed5441
@angelsrageunleashed5441 3 года назад
Yep!
@scottcebulski4350
@scottcebulski4350 20 дней назад
Nobody is saying it has to. That’s just a misunderstanding of the goals of feminism. This lady doesn’t seem to understand the first thing about feminism, and is treating the subject exactly as a 13 year old boy would.
@laurahamdi9697
@laurahamdi9697 16 дней назад
@@scottcebulski4350 I don't remember this video or my answer anymore. Ypu moght be right. I've written this 3 years ago. I think my mind has changed since then
@DieLazergurken
@DieLazergurken 4 года назад
This TedxTalk should have way more views.
@jimsimpson1006
@jimsimpson1006 4 года назад
“Its actually not my daughter I’m worried about bringing up in this brave new world, it’s my son.” Exactly.
@audiovega55
@audiovega55 4 года назад
I am with you.
@davidbolha
@davidbolha 4 года назад
Just goes to show her care & concern is not for/on about ALL men, but just her own spoiled brats. Bias confirmed. 😒 She's just using that known Chameleon Syndrome that we heard about from Esther Vilar's book. 😏
@EggBoxGaming115
@EggBoxGaming115 4 года назад
@@davidbolha no
@drmangrum
@drmangrum 4 года назад
@@davidbolha You completely missed the point. She outlined how society is harming men and putting women on a pedestal. She's not concerned about her daughters because she knows society will grant them massive amounts of support whereas there is almost no support (or negative support depending on the context, e.g. education) for boys.
@oldheadplayhou5e
@oldheadplayhou5e 4 года назад
me too...about your kids.
@peterfields2179
@peterfields2179 5 лет назад
It's depressing that these concepts needs to be explained to anyone.
@MrCmasternumber1hero
@MrCmasternumber1hero 5 лет назад
I know, but at least some people are actually bothering to do it. Not that it'll make much difference anyway since society is starting to wake up far too late.
@peterfields2179
@peterfields2179 5 лет назад
It's not to late at all ... Society as a whole is in the best place it's ever been. It can just be worlds better.
@MrCmasternumber1hero
@MrCmasternumber1hero 5 лет назад
Technologically, yes. Socially, I'm not sure. It really seems like it's about to drop off a cliff. Maybe it's not too late though.
@98230983290
@98230983290 5 лет назад
+Peter Fields have a look at something called demographic projections, that is, if your country makes those kind of stats available... It's over and the only thing left to do is sit tight and enjoy watching the world burn.
@rosshealea
@rosshealea 5 лет назад
hasn't every concept been explained to you at one time? when we are born we know nothing.
@Josaiah_Briggs
@Josaiah_Briggs 3 года назад
This is so true. People keep lying to women telling them that they are being mistreated but they're not. They in fact have the same opportunities and sometimes even more. I grateful that someone had the guts to say this out loud
@magatsuverison3835
@magatsuverison3835 4 года назад
This woman is speaking the absolute truth and I wish more of this could be shared . But few would hear it
@SandyERA4all
@SandyERA4all 3 года назад
I, A WOMAN, AM HEARING IT! I SAY, try just TRY to listen to me. Sure WOMEN AND LITTLE GIRLS EXPRESS ANGER AT PARTISAN MEN IN US SENATE VOTING AGAINST ALLOWING US , AFTER 100 YEARS OF STRUGGLING TO BE ADDED TO THE US CONSTITUTION VIA AMENDMENT #28 ALREADY MEETING ALL TOUGH REQUIREMENTS FOR ITS ADDITION TO THE US CONSTITUTION, THE NATIONAL CONTRACT, THAT MOSTLY MEN IN US SENATE STOPPING OUR CONSTITUTIONALLY REQUIRED ADDITION VIA #28, TO THE NATIONAL CONTRACT--THE US CONSTITUTION. WE REMAIN CONSTITUTIONALLY UNPROTECTED AS OUR FINE MEN HAVE ALWAYS BEEN. WOULD MEN BE ANGRY IF IT HAD ALWAYS BEEN SO FOR THEM? SURE. DON'T BELIEVE ME? IF YOU HAVE AN OPEN MIND NOW, PLEASE CALL AS MANY US SENATORS OF "THE OTHER PARTY" AND URGE THEM TO VOTE TO PASS THE FAIR, AND GDP HELPFUL , EQUAL RIGHTS AMENDMENT FOR WOMEN AND MEN, THO WOMEN ARE IN DIRE NEED NOW BY ERA BEING EXCLUDED FOR 100 YEARS! PLEASE. TELL THOSE SENATORS: THOSE WHO VOTE FOR S J R 1, WILL BESIEGE THE VOTING BOOTHS TO VOTE FOR THEM! THANKS SO SO MUCH FOR HELPING US UP OUT OF 2ND CLASS. YOU will Will WILL be gratefully rewarded in your relationships with real women!
@gamesgames2389
@gamesgames2389 3 года назад
@Sandy Oestreich Wat?
@AmazinglyGayPhil
@AmazinglyGayPhil 3 года назад
@@SandyERA4all Lol you left your caps on.
@aradhyajain2064
@aradhyajain2064 2 года назад
@@SandyERA4all learn how to type. also women throughout history have been given more than they even deserve. it was men who built everything, who fought all the wars, who built our entire world. this is why it has been tough for women to gain the right to vote or whatever youre talking about. it cannot be the same for men because it was the men who did everything. be grateful that men have been so generous to give women more than equal rights today
@derekstarr30
@derekstarr30 2 года назад
@@aradhyajain2064 Men gave women "equal" rights grudgingly and only because women got tired of being considered property by sexist, elitist bastards. The same sexist, elitist bastards, I might add, who want to take away rights for anyone but themselves. REAL men are not threatened by the idea that women are people too, and should be treated as such.
@LS-ot6vd
@LS-ot6vd 5 лет назад
I just shared this video with someone else, they immediately started misquoting the speaker. Misinterpreting what the speaker said. As if hearing what they wanted to hear (or didn't want to hear). I had to share certain parts of it again and say "she didn't say that though, listen again carefully". We obviously live in a time when logic and truth are subordinate to emotion and political agenda. People twist the truth or ignore it completely if it doesn't fit with what they already believe. Very sad.
@lrdisco2005
@lrdisco2005 5 лет назад
He/She said, she heard.Everything is ran through their own personal filter where facts and evidence are erased by feelings and opinions.
@P3RF3CTD3ATH
@P3RF3CTD3ATH 5 лет назад
"As I mentioned before, exposure to true information does not matter anymore. A person who was demoralized is unable to assess true information. The facts tell nothing to him, even if I shower him with information, with authentic proof, with documents and pictures. ...he will refuse to believe it.... That's the tragedy of the situation of demoralization." -Yuri Bezmenov, KGB propagandist for RIA Novosti, speaking about ideological subversion
@billroasts6701
@billroasts6701 5 лет назад
Sounds like you shared it with a woman. What reaction did you expect? A rational one? Ha!
@Genesmifying
@Genesmifying 5 лет назад
The problem as I have come to understand is due to all of our beliefs are emotionally reinforced. Every belief I hold on to is emotionally reinforced and would probably meet with resistance upon being challenged. Being open to change that can be different factor
@breakmanradio2530
@breakmanradio2530 5 лет назад
That's always happened. We don't teach students to study opposing viewpoints, evaluate the logical validity of the arguments, weigh the evidence, and then come to a provisional conclusion. No. We teach them one point of view, one which they must memorize and regurgitate.
@dharvell
@dharvell 4 года назад
On Facebook, I ran across a post that simply read, "The future is female!". My comment drew a ton of criticism, but I still think it's true, to this day: "No, the future needs to be an equal, collaborative effort. If it isn't, we don't deserve a future, as a people."
@tarkamlokar9709
@tarkamlokar9709 4 года назад
@Entrenched Mgtow Let's pretend men were objectively worse than women at everything except for their unique part in reproduction. They are still roughly half of the human population on earth and necessary for reproduction therefore being immensely important to the future of humanity. So men could be worse than women at pretty much everything and still be important. The future being female and men being important is not mutually exclusive. I'm guessing that's what they're thinking.
@dharvell
@dharvell 4 года назад
@@tarkamlokar9709 - The push to elect a female into every political position there is based solely on the fact that they are female, ignoring important things such as qualifications and political platforms, suggests a different line of thinking...
@omfglongbeach
@omfglongbeach 4 года назад
sexism with its polarity reversed is still sexism
@lieutenantdiamond5601
@lieutenantdiamond5601 4 года назад
That is a great comment, and words to live by.
@lieutenantdiamond5601
@lieutenantdiamond5601 4 года назад
@@omfglongbeach Exactly.
@Dani-it5sy
@Dani-it5sy 3 года назад
I was at an eye clinic the other day and I seriously saw at least 15 of their staff. From the receptionist to the doctors, assistens, cleaners etc. They were ALL women. I mentioned it to the doctor and said that can hardly be a coincidence. And she was really smiling and being like ''yea.. they get it back you know'' I was shocked. Like who gets what back? I have never been discriminating towards women and so has 95% of men. And here you are admitting that you only hire woman to get some kind of revenge on men? And she was even proud of it. Like ''we don't want men here'' . Imagine it would be the other way round? Many women have completely lost it in this area if you ask me..
@niarlatotepbasset
@niarlatotepbasset 3 года назад
Narcissistic behavior is female nature.
@scottydu81
@scottydu81 3 года назад
I would have reported them to some kind of equal opportunity body
3 года назад
95% of nurses are women... despite men getting 1/3 of nursing degrees. No bias though...
@Dani-it5sy
@Dani-it5sy 3 года назад
@ Interesting. But I bet you feminists will look as long as they can to find excuses for this instead of just admitting men get discriminated when they apply for a nursing job. While at the same time when women statistically earn less than men it MUST be because and only because they get discriminated for being a woman.
3 года назад
@@Dani-it5sy Yep, seen some try to claim all those men went on to be doctors. And the funny part about the wage gap is it's more than explained by overtime alone. Meaning men are a little underpaid compared to. Even more comically, Berkeley of all places found women performed on piecemeal work at a 98 for men's 100. So a little less value for the same pay.
@UnityFromDiversity
@UnityFromDiversity 3 года назад
You can't have womens rights without womens responsibilities.
@user-yn3vy3sn8n
@user-yn3vy3sn8n 3 года назад
Examples please ?? I want to understand this comment ..
@TungNguyen-ku3yo
@TungNguyen-ku3yo 3 года назад
@@user-yn3vy3sn8n just go and watch Dr Shaym videos
@nuzayerov
@nuzayerov 3 года назад
And then, the monstrosity called "Believe All Women" came, what about fair justice? Innocence until proven guilty?
@-bubby9633
@-bubby9633 3 года назад
@@user-yn3vy3sn8n For example women argue for abortion with "my body my choice" but the man always has to face the consequences even though he got no say. If women can opt out of parenthood post pregnancy then equality says men should be able to too. My body my choice? Your choice your responsibility.
@maocharlisme
@maocharlisme 3 года назад
@@-bubby9633 exactly!
@AprilHarmony9
@AprilHarmony9 5 лет назад
This speaker is saying exactly what I feel but as a student in college I see modern-day feminism firsthand & it's revolting. I want zero parts of it.
@tk-jv4zd
@tk-jv4zd 5 лет назад
well then start telling them that, go against the stream.
@JesCastell
@JesCastell 4 года назад
🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
@stevecook413
@stevecook413 4 года назад
April Harmony. there are other career options, stay at home mom for one. Hard work, no pay. .... No college debt, instant gratification. Oh, let's not forget God's blessings.
@alvarogabrielaguirregarin3933
@alvarogabrielaguirregarin3933 4 года назад
Zero parts, but the rewards.
@boutchie06
@boutchie06 4 года назад
It’s not conservatism, but nonconformists, free thinkers.
@JWS1968
@JWS1968 4 года назад
It was very noticeable how uncomfortable she was delivering that speech. A sign of the times that to simply get up and voice an empirical truth would have the potential to leave you open to vilification if the audience was populated with the progressive modern feminists of today. Bless her for having the courage to speak up for the men in her life.
@shockinglyoriginal
@shockinglyoriginal 4 года назад
This was very brave of her. She did this with clear knowledge of the backlash she would face.
@davidbolha
@davidbolha 4 года назад
Look up Esther Vilar's "The Manipulated Man" book. There's a chapter in there on the Chameleon Syndrome. You can find it online via PDF. 80 pages or so. You won't regret it. 🤔😉 The other book is from Lawrence Shannon - The Predatory Female. This one is a bit longer (350 pages ?), but still worth it. This is all virtue signalling basically. She's biased because she has children. She doesn't care about men. Just about her daughters (who won't be able to find husbands). 😉👉
@shadowwalker9203
@shadowwalker9203 4 года назад
Chameleons are all around us. Open your eyes. They can only hold that facade of colors for certain period of time. After that, their true color will show.
@shadowwalker9203
@shadowwalker9203 4 года назад
@@davidbolha Exactly
@BucketOfFuk
@BucketOfFuk 4 года назад
@@davidbolha Uhm she has a son too
@blooeagle5118
@blooeagle5118 2 года назад
Equal opportunities =/= equal outcomes
@langshu6446
@langshu6446 7 месяцев назад
This is what a strong and independent woman looks like. She wasn't calling out, discrediting, and slandering people, like many feminists do. She instead addressed the facts and issues and encouraged those listening to think for themselves rather than conform to the dangerous mindset that's regrettably become the face of feminism.
@Hammerhead137
@Hammerhead137 4 месяца назад
That was always the true face of feminism.
@danzel1157
@danzel1157 4 месяца назад
In other words, you agree with her. 🤣
@jasongary4925
@jasongary4925 5 лет назад
The ultimate irony here is: it doesn't matter how right Jess Butcher is; confirmation bias will drown her out. I can't even share this video with my female friends or wife, because if I do, I (and the video) will be automatically dismissed as hostile. It's the ideological equivalent of sticking fingers in your ears and humming. Until people are willing to listen on BOTH SIDES of the discussion, there will be no actual progress.
@kroon275
@kroon275 5 лет назад
If you cant share it, that means you MUST share it!
@GinoNL
@GinoNL 5 лет назад
True
@ChaosMagik
@ChaosMagik 5 лет назад
Yeah, I’m in the same boat and I want to share because I feel it’s wrong I should be afraid to share it. At the same time I don’t want to be ganged up on.
@arai6147
@arai6147 5 лет назад
You need to get divorced, man. Find a good woman with traditional family values that sees the world as clear as you do. Not to be harsh but it'd be for the best if you hadnt had a kid yet. If you have, my condolences.
@jasongary4925
@jasongary4925 5 лет назад
@@arai6147 It's not really that simple. The brightest, strongest women are caught in a whirlwind of sociopolitical punditry. Marriage isn't about "finding someone that agrees with you," or someone with "traditional values." Marriage is about being with the person you love, and who loves you back, and accepting that you won't always agree.
@ThnkEnjinn
@ThnkEnjinn 4 года назад
She got some balls talking about this on stage..... I wonder how many women attacked her on social media.. I wonder how many women friends she lost standing up for what she believed in... We need more REAL STRONG WOMEN like this....
@suhasop4919
@suhasop4919 4 года назад
Don't say "We need people like her/him" Say that "I will be like her" Then only we will progress for the sake of mankind....
@rebelmnk2382
@rebelmnk2382 4 года назад
If they attack her, it just shows how "pro women" they are.
@danzel1157
@danzel1157 4 года назад
Berders_WillBurn. Have you ever wondered how many women die from male violence though?
@stevecook413
@stevecook413 4 года назад
She never lost a women friend. However I'm very certain she lost numerous female "friends"
@danzel1157
@danzel1157 4 года назад
@@stevecook413 Why, whatever do you mean?
@kayla_battle
@kayla_battle 3 года назад
I think this all boils down to Both genders dont Trust each other anymore. The relationships have been damaged.
@Misslivvie
@Misslivvie 3 года назад
How are you not getting top comment for this?😭
@jhonperegrino5636
@jhonperegrino5636 3 года назад
My sisters told me it was fairly common knowledge to them and their friends that men were more trustworthy. I wondered why.
@ironwillie7666
@ironwillie7666 3 года назад
Nothing to do with trust. Its a war, women are throwing stones as men retreat and walk away. It's not that we don't trust, its that we don't care anymore. Women have blamed men for everything. As a man, a ladies movements have no effect on my path. If she is kind, she will be allowed to tag along. There just are not many kind women left and mankind is not made of kind man.
@t-bagbagwell1327
@t-bagbagwell1327 3 года назад
@@jhonperegrino5636 i heard it from a female colleague about this point in specific.
@zerubbabelsbridge
@zerubbabelsbridge 3 года назад
You're right. I don't trust you.
@mkd3351
@mkd3351 3 года назад
Women see the 1% of male CEO's doing exceptionally well and want that lifestyle without working 90 hour weeks and sacrificing a family life. The other 99% of men struggle massively and are frequently left in poverty while women marry out of it, men cant do this as women don't share their wealth with men of a lower financial class
@kevonjames1994
@kevonjames1994 3 года назад
Facts..
@danzel1157
@danzel1157 3 года назад
MKD33 Please address your complaints to the management, which is composed, overwhelmingly, of... er, men. Oops!
@mkd3351
@mkd3351 3 года назад
@@danzel1157 that’s because men are for the most part hard working, more rational and more ambitious. It’s just how it is. Sorry if it hurts your feelings but that’s what’s up. Funny how most people who ask to see the manager are temperamental women though huh 😂😂
@danzel1157
@danzel1157 3 года назад
@@mkd3351 I don't think I've ever seen a case of a point being missed in quite such a blatant manner. It appears that you have no idea how society works.
@mkd3351
@mkd3351 3 года назад
@@danzel1157 😂😂 ok champ.
@Keyser666
@Keyser666 5 лет назад
The self-fulfilling prophecy part is HUGELY important. If you teach girls that they are oppressed and victimised, they grow up into women who will see that everywhere they look, regardless of whether it's actually there.
@jessbfoster
@jessbfoster 5 лет назад
Who's teaching them that? You guys have a warped view of the movement. If you study the field you realise it's so much stronger and sure of itself than relaying victimization. Twitter feminism isn't feminism.
@killman369547
@killman369547 5 лет назад
+Kazziemg. ok, here's a question then. if twitter feminism isn't feminism, then why haven't i seen any "real" feminists push back against it?
@mrshmuga9
@mrshmuga9 5 лет назад
Kazziemg Ah yes, the same feminism that teaches “women can do anything” yet screams at any sign of a hurdle. Remember there was a campaign to ban the word “bossy” because it was “sexist”? All it’s teaching women is to be insecure. Someone makes a fair criticism against a woman? Well they’re just misogynistic!
@flamenmartialis6839
@flamenmartialis6839 5 лет назад
@@mrshmuga9 My thougths to, if you can't take being called bossy then maybe you're in the wrong position.
@isrbillmeyer
@isrbillmeyer 5 лет назад
"Competitive Victimhood" Well said
@joelron26
@joelron26 5 лет назад
that is all the left has
@dadikkedude
@dadikkedude 3 года назад
Thank you, I really needed to hear this. My mom allways kept on saying these statistics to me and my brother and didn't really hold a positive view on men in general. That really diminished our childhood.
@TM-tw1py
@TM-tw1py 3 года назад
Amazingly insightful message in the times where hatred between men and women is promoted so heavily.
@KatLovin
@KatLovin 5 лет назад
FINALLY! This woman has perfectly articulated everything that I’ve been trying to tell my friends for the last few years.
@lowpull622
@lowpull622 5 лет назад
That's because logic and reason means nothing to the emotional mind...😒
@Xarkom89
@Xarkom89 5 лет назад
That means you're sane! Please can we go on a date? :P hahaha
@stevecook413
@stevecook413 4 года назад
Allow me to invite you to a picnic. I would love to get to know a woman that can think.
@stephenslusser2895
@stephenslusser2895 4 года назад
Men appreciate women like yourself but, most women can only see the problem when it starts affecting them. By that time, we have a real societal problem,and one that isn't easily rectified. I realize that I'm preaching to the choir but, maybe a smart lady like you can figure a way to disseminate common sense. As it turns out, common sense isn't all that "common".
@ghostdragon3754
@ghostdragon3754 4 года назад
Sarcasm sucks and so do you.
@colehalford1893
@colehalford1893 4 года назад
They needed to turn up her microphone. She’s not loud enough.
@MrProlynx
@MrProlynx 4 года назад
Oh I guarantee that was no accident.
@kyubeyz_7062
@kyubeyz_7062 4 года назад
I don’t think she has one.
@originalunoriginal4055
@originalunoriginal4055 4 года назад
Front row full of ultra feminists! She was more nervous than it being a technical issue. Women have become scared of their own gender
@pepethunder
@pepethunder 4 года назад
Just like truth these days.
@johnarmenta2199
@johnarmenta2199 4 года назад
It won't make - and it has not made - any difference. This video was posted Sept, 2018. And it has only gotten worse!
@renovatio93
@renovatio93 4 года назад
"Should we ban flirting in the campus and in the work place?" Theyve already done that. No flirting by men. Flirting by women is A OK! If you say anything youre an incel! 😊
@nadirwoodson9321
@nadirwoodson9321 3 года назад
you right I think the incel part is a bit harsh tho
@ricb123
@ricb123 3 года назад
No you can flirt, but only if your in the 10%....
@nadirwoodson9321
@nadirwoodson9321 3 года назад
@@ricb123 and if you ain't the same level of handsome as an actor then why would you even think about approaching a female in the work place
@handsomeed9013
@handsomeed9013 3 года назад
It's only ok to flirt if your hot.
@t-bagbagwell1327
@t-bagbagwell1327 3 года назад
@@ricb123 say what¿? Mate, i was hoping to be in the 20% club within couple of years and now you’re telling us it’s 10%? I gotta need another life to live to get in there.
@ggmiethe
@ggmiethe 3 года назад
This is very close to what I’ve been trying to get across for decades. Thank you.
@martinbateman2467
@martinbateman2467 3 года назад
Alas many women speaking in this way tend to be attached without the attackers stopping to listen to the message they are sending
@lorenza2589
@lorenza2589 5 лет назад
Thank you for speaking up at a time when men cannot.
@oknotyet9630
@oknotyet9630 5 лет назад
Who says you can't, Don't act oppressed because men aren't and neither are women. There are isolated incidents of humans being indecent towards each other it happens no matter what because people are unpredictable and are going to make bad choices sometimes. But if you feel there is a problem speak up nothing to be afraid of just be understanding towards the people you are trying to get too and share a rational point. This is a misguided assumption that men can't talk about this much like how white people can't talk about slavery for example Its seen as taboo or insensitive BUT. You can talk about it you may get laughed at or yelled at buts that not scary a bit of conflict is needed on occasion to get the point across. And if that happens then you shared your opinion to a person that was being irrational or is just misinformed or a product of who they hang around and what they see in modern media etc.
@rhadaze2509
@rhadaze2509 5 лет назад
@@oknotyet9630 you have no idea
@oknotyet9630
@oknotyet9630 5 лет назад
@@rhadaze2509 Tell me about it
@MarkMark-ji6ts
@MarkMark-ji6ts 5 лет назад
MGTOW it's like Atlas Shrugged just walk away from everything. In Japan it's the herbivore men minimizing any interaction with society. We men and women have been thrown under the bus.
@alanwolf5632
@alanwolf5632 4 года назад
OK NOTYET Find one men said the same as the women in the video and didn’t ended up being called a fascist, alt-right and sexist. One.
@billyjavier646
@billyjavier646 5 лет назад
If a male talked about these issues, he will get laughed at.
@Moviemaniac174892
@Moviemaniac174892 5 лет назад
Yup 😡
@nissairving397
@nissairving397 5 лет назад
Vanessa A I fully agree with this!
@nissairving397
@nissairving397 5 лет назад
Thank goodness there are women such as this one speaking against the ideology of modern feminism.
@christopheroconnor5740
@christopheroconnor5740 5 лет назад
Or constantly ridiculed and attacked, best example is Professor Jordan Peterson imo
@MrSpiritchild
@MrSpiritchild 5 лет назад
Surely, feminism will attack her, but I think she'll be okay.
@Bwh-rm3py
@Bwh-rm3py 3 года назад
Feminism saved me tons of money, because i don't date women anymore.
@juns597
@juns597 Год назад
YES YES YES. Thank you!!! Thanks for your courage to talk about this. As a woman myself, I feel empowered!
@magmax76
@magmax76 4 года назад
So telling that a woman has to make these points in order for them to be heard.
@fernforwood3989
@fernforwood3989 4 года назад
magmax76 You talk as if what she says is is being heard.
@kellytrelawney8979
@kellytrelawney8979 4 года назад
The toxic feminism(2nd wave) was in new zealand in the 90's and the principal of a boys school(early 2000's) said that it was a damming statment that they needed to get a woman to front for their "building boys confidence" program as the media would refuse to take the program seriously, and would in fact only portray the program in a negative light.
@mishaangelo926
@mishaangelo926 4 года назад
Have you heard of Jordan Peterson for instance? I am sure he has been heard much (too much I think) more than this woman.
@lukadjordjevic2576
@lukadjordjevic2576 4 года назад
@@mishaangelo926 I don't know that guy, but just curious, why do you think he has been heard too much(again just curious)?
@A-Duck
@A-Duck 4 года назад
@@mishaangelo926 And just look at how he's treated by the mainstream. He is heard, certainly, but only to those directly affected by his messages, chiefly young males, while media outlets and various progressive groups do everything they can to stamp him out of the discourse. He has managed to get the exposure he has gotten through sheer force of merit in how he articulates and delivers his insights, along with a hefty dose of unwarranted controversy that he miraculously managed to use in his favor. Peterson is the result of a perfect storm of factors coming together at the right time, so he is certainly not the rule, but a very notable exception. I think OP's point still stands pretty well.
@men2dewy
@men2dewy 4 года назад
As a baby boomer in my mid sixties I have waited decades for this kind of discussion to come even close to going mainstream. You younger people are giving me hope for the future of society.
@johns8065
@johns8065 4 года назад
thats so great to hear. those constant disputes between generations makes me sad. we should work together instead of against each other
@Ugly_Scallywagg
@Ugly_Scallywagg 4 года назад
As a millenial, i salute you!!
@archades115
@archades115 4 года назад
It is nice to be granted faith by my elders for once. Istead of being called the worst. Thank you.
@mielipuolisiili7240
@mielipuolisiili7240 4 года назад
Decades? Has this even been an issue for so long?
@WealthEngineering
@WealthEngineering 4 года назад
Well I am a millennial and I have lost hope on the future of society... Things will only change if they get bad enough... And they are not nearly bad enough for change... The problem is as it gets worse it might eradicate civilization as we know it... Women will have kids with no men and have robots raise their kids in their pursuit of power and dominance over men... Men will choose robots over women, and will feel worthless as they will lose their sense of purpose ... And both gender will kill themselves as the suicide rate rise higher than cancer and cardiovascular deaths... Only then men and women will start realizing that they are meant to compliment each other and continue the eternal dance of masculine and feminine energy...
@DieKatja194
@DieKatja194 2 года назад
a rare example of a different approach- and also super important to communicate it
@georgembandeka5737
@georgembandeka5737 3 года назад
Much love and respect to this woman, as she looked a bit nervous and uncomfortable doing the presentation. She kept it together and powered all the way to the end. Thank you for that info, very informative.
@felix6764
@felix6764 4 года назад
My sister is against modern feminism and I'm honestly kinda proud of her.
@childishumehara9890
@childishumehara9890 4 года назад
Support her in every way you can the more women like her have children the more the battle doesnt seem lost.
@outsideworld76
@outsideworld76 4 года назад
@@childishumehara9890 Women don't need more support! What we need is less simps who put women on a pedestal.
@aureliagolden3038
@aureliagolden3038 4 года назад
She can get easily brainwashed though. So be sure to keep that in mind and be careful.
@xDragonInstallx
@xDragonInstallx 4 года назад
Eh a lot of women are kind of doing this now since men are really starting to hate on feminism. Every time I hear a woman say that, I just think of them as attention seeking or validating seeking from men.
@kallekallessons
@kallekallessons 4 года назад
Kind of? Lol.
@ggrthemostgodless8713
@ggrthemostgodless8713 5 лет назад
Women who speak on this are are so few, they really need to join together and fight against what they know is false with modern feminism. This speech is for women, men already know this.
@GinoNL
@GinoNL 5 лет назад
TheMostGodless SinfulBastard true. Never met a man in my life who stands behind feminism
@gigamesh780
@gigamesh780 4 года назад
@@GinoNL They exists...unfortunately, most of this guys are overly nice guys who are simps to the point they get convince to be part of the "supportive men" of feminism... This is akward
@edaboodie6346
@edaboodie6346 4 года назад
Women have banded together for men's rights & privilieges. They call themselves The Honey Badgers, and they're right here on the Tube for everyone's consumption.
@ajknaup3530
@ajknaup3530 4 года назад
@Entrenched Mgtow Anyone who supports Modern Feminism is a traitor to the whole human race: we must each play our part, men & women.
@davidbolha
@davidbolha 4 года назад
Look up Esther Vilar's "The Manipulated Man" book. There's a chapter in there on the Chameleon Syndrome. 🤔😉
@m.koontz5701
@m.koontz5701 4 года назад
Thank you for having some compassion for men and boys.
@obimaru925
@obimaru925 2 года назад
It really does seem like people lost the real meaning of Feminism, and turned Feminism into misandry, this woman restored some of my faith in humanity as she has shown me not all feminists, are so far gone.
@mikolajochocki2810
@mikolajochocki2810 3 года назад
Equality of opportunity? Anyone would support it, most peope would agree we've achieved it. Equality of outcome? How, with the infinite amount of ways we can categorise people, can we achieve that if not with tyrannical control over all variables?
@SandyERA4all
@SandyERA4all 3 года назад
HELLO: PLEASE TALK TO SOME EDUCATED WOMEN OR ANYONE WHO KNOWS THAT OUR ROAD TO FREEDOM , TO BE PROTECTED AND HONORED BY OUR NATION;S CONSTITUTION HAS BEEN BLOCKED SINCE IT WAS VOTED ON BY MEN SOO LONG AGO. WE WOMEN'S RIGHTS HAVE NEVER BEEN ADDED THERE: THE EQUAL RIGHTS AMENDMENT FOR MEN AND WOMEN PROTECT BOTH OF US. WHY NOT ADD WOMEN AND LITTLE GIRLS AFTER 100 YEARS OF OUR STRUGGLES THAT PROVE THAT WE BELONG THERE. SURE WE ARE CRANKY, WOULDN;T YOU MEN BE, TOO, IF LEFT OUT AS 2ND CLASS CITIZENS? WAIT AND SEE HOW THAT WILL WORK MIRACLES IF IF IF YOU WOULD CALL AS MANY US SENATORS ASAP TO URGE THEIR VITE YES ON S J R 1, SO IT CAN HAPPEN! WAIT UNTIL WOMEN CAN EXPRESS GRATITUDE. 94% OF ALL AMERICANS SAY, 'DO IT! YOU'LL BE GLAD YOU DID.
@Istian_Ikes
@Istian_Ikes 3 года назад
Tyrannical control is what they want.
@jimsimpson1006
@jimsimpson1006 3 года назад
Because with simple equality of opportunity, most boys will still opt for engineering and most girls will still opt for people-oriented jobs like nursing or social work. That's why they have become obsessed with this tyrannical equality of outcome. I think, ultimately, this is going to result in a very dysfunctional society.
@kursor52
@kursor52 3 года назад
Equality of outcome is impossible they can't get that in their heads. To have an equal outcome everyone has to make the same choices, have the same skills, have the same goals. Humans won't achieve that and why would we want to?
3 года назад
Men don't have half the opportunity due to funding back end. Not on average.
@susie6593
@susie6593 4 года назад
I was starting to fear I was the only mother afraid to raise my boy in this new “progressive” world we are living in! Thank you infinitely for your bravery in a time such as this!
@charity6372
@charity6372 4 года назад
I have 3 boys I'm with ya girl
@fenrir_thorsson7103
@fenrir_thorsson7103 4 года назад
I'm a father and even I am afraid of what will become of him in this new world
@charity6372
@charity6372 4 года назад
@@fenrir_thorsson7103 They'll be just fine with a dad like you 😉
@fenrir_thorsson7103
@fenrir_thorsson7103 4 года назад
@@charity6372 geez I hope so 😂
@yap7656
@yap7656 4 года назад
@@fenrir_thorsson7103 observe and record pay attention to what they mother does. Even if she's the best mother she may keep the tracker on you.
@bcptbcpt
@bcptbcpt 4 года назад
"it's actually not my daughter I'm concerned with in this new world, it's my sons". I'm father to a young boy and I understand exactly what she means.
@Superbatmanbro
@Superbatmanbro 3 года назад
Yeah it’s pretty hard for me a Gen Z and The other Gen Zers and millennials to be masculine men but also the constant threat of feminism trying to crush masculinity and call it toxic is annoying and frustrating
@manfrombritain6816
@manfrombritain6816 3 года назад
i think this is a misunderstanding of the situation. maybe in the short term the world is a playground for western women, but that will not last. chances are, your kids or their grandkids might end up in a very dangerous world full of *genuine* misogyny. i mean... i would never let my daughter walk around London
@Superbatmanbro
@Superbatmanbro 3 года назад
@@manfrombritain6816 I won’t never let my future children out around home town alone with out all their siblings
@loki1033
@loki1033 7 месяцев назад
2 young boys, 6 and 9. I know they're gifted and handsome and they're gonna be tall and strong like their daddy. They crush in academics and athletics already. Girls like them and they like girls. But after discovering what young women who attended college have largely become, I'm very worried there is going to be a precipitous population drop. Overpopulation is a concern, but if we decrease our population so drastically and so quickly, society will break down because there won't be anyone to take care of our old backsides in what we were hoping to be our own golden years.
@lovefortush
@lovefortush 7 месяцев назад
​@@loki1033how can they be decent looking, if they took from you? 😮
@horsey3206
@horsey3206 3 года назад
Wonderful, and courageous woman! Thank you so much!
@modernmanadvice
@modernmanadvice 3 года назад
This is simply brilliant. There are no easy solutions, only tough discussions. But that is all we have, open, respectful, honest, and compassionate discussions about this topic. We admire Jess Butcher for speaking to this matter and more importantly being the change. What an example of a woman of strength and courage. As she stated, we need more confident girls AND boys. Children that can become strong protagonists in questioning cognitive narratives and flawed social norms.
@iandms1160
@iandms1160 5 лет назад
End identity politics and focus on the individual. Have been saying this for years but feminists just call that sexist and misogynistic.... Thank you Jess for saying what many of us reasonable people knew but were either shouted down or could not say ourselves.
@mikevan1706
@mikevan1706 5 лет назад
I thought we lived in a meritocracy...but clearly that is going out the window.
@attilathehun5904
@attilathehun5904 5 лет назад
I love it that she states ~5:30 that *she* decided to cut back on her hours to spend more time with her family. Must be nice. How many men do you think have that option? Tell me again how this *equality* stuff works.
@tetrahedron_in_space
@tetrahedron_in_space 5 лет назад
AttilaThe Hun ... that’s precisely her point. She’s highlighting that she gets preferential treatment because of the modern brand of feminism instead of feminism’s original intent (whether you believe this was ever the goal or not): equality. Men don’t have this opportunity as often as women do, and she is troubled by this.
@Pichicha123
@Pichicha123 5 лет назад
Guy, she's her own boss. Any man in her position could choose to do this as well
@nate3152
@nate3152 5 лет назад
lots of men do. it’s because she’s in an upper management position, not because she’s a woman. anyone of any gender lower in a company’s structure is going to have less freedom to make that choice.
@donwald3436
@donwald3436 5 лет назад
Pichicha123 No, the wife would never let him.
@madkabal
@madkabal 5 лет назад
@@tetrahedron_in_space that was never the goal of feminism
@arturowagner4728
@arturowagner4728 3 года назад
You go, girl! Finally, an objective outlook...
@anthonylee3236
@anthonylee3236 3 года назад
Wow!! I so appreciate her perspective and open Fairness, we need more of this really! Our world will be a lot better place. I could not agreed with her more! This is kind of person who would be a great leader, well done
@madbahamut
@madbahamut 4 года назад
As a woman, I am terrified to live in a society where men are treated like no matter what they do, it's wrong. Everything they are and do is wrong. I am a stay at home mom of a daughter and I don't have many worries for her. She'll have lots of opportunity. I'm scared for my next child to be a boy and have to live with the burden of society treating him like a mental/emotional reject. I'm the only girl, outside my mother obvs, in my family. My brothers' children are all men. I see how this directly impacts them and it breaks my heart... When a man pays me a compliment on the street, it's prefaced with, "I don't mean to be creepy, don't take this the wrong way," or some kind of apology. Men's mental health support--doesn't really exist and men make up a majority of the suicides, nationally. It's horrifying and it's a world I fear living in.
@fbcaware8805
@fbcaware8805 4 года назад
Tell your local anti-male bitchgroup.
@tcjusttc5418
@tcjusttc5418 5 лет назад
Well said. Glad a woman said it. When I said even a fraction of this, I got called out for being a monster. We can't get along if we assume that it is men vs women, as opposed to men and women.
@cancelled_user
@cancelled_user 4 года назад
A monster? More likely would be labelled as a misogynist or, in worse case, a fascist.
@JohnSmith-uy4qj
@JohnSmith-uy4qj 4 года назад
So if a man say it your a monster. If a woman says it it's ok. Isn't that what's the word. Prejudice/sexist against men. I guess men have all the power and the money. So it doesn't matter if they lose every argument in their life.
@davidbolha
@davidbolha 4 года назад
Look up Esther Vilar's "The Manipulated Man" book. There's a chapter in there on the Chameleon Syndrome. You can find it online via PDF. 80 pages or so. You won't regret it. 🤔😉 The other book is from Lawrence Shannon - The Predatory Female. This one is a bit longer (350 pages ?), but still worth it. This is all virtue signalling basically. She's biased because she has children.
@IanBarnesAgent
@IanBarnesAgent 3 года назад
Extremely brave, thank you so much.
@ancientdarkmagic1409
@ancientdarkmagic1409 3 года назад
This talk gave me hope to keep living.
@sean3533
@sean3533 5 лет назад
Thank you for saying these things. Men are shouted down when they speak these things even in the most respectful and even timid ways.
@J.Moyine
@J.Moyine 5 лет назад
Try not to take it personally. Most of us are responding from a place of past trauma and oppression.
@sean3533
@sean3533 5 лет назад
@@J.Moyine attacking someone isn't validated by your personal story.
@SynetheSage
@SynetheSage 5 лет назад
@@J.Moyine Men have pasts colored by trauma and oppression too, it doesn't make it okay when they belittle women.
@J.Moyine
@J.Moyine 4 года назад
@@sean3533 I am not saying that it is justified. I am explaining where it is coming from. That is all.
@alvarogabrielaguirregarin3933
@alvarogabrielaguirregarin3933 4 года назад
don´t speak, ACT! go MGTOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@rohnkd4hct260
@rohnkd4hct260 5 лет назад
Sad part is the people who need to hear this will not listen
@victoriaburkhardt9974
@victoriaburkhardt9974 9 месяцев назад
Thank you for this truthful, timely presentation.
@harkthrokgedunth
@harkthrokgedunth 3 года назад
Thank you. This was wonderful to hear.
@18rickster18
@18rickster18 5 лет назад
Facts over feelings
@thisisntallowed9560
@thisisntallowed9560 5 лет назад
Yeah, men have no feelings, most women can't have an opinion because they have too much feelings, that's why men leaded for centuries and that was better that way! Society need to be leaded by intelectual people, women would destroy society. Facts over feelings.
@swayp5715
@swayp5715 5 лет назад
Good effort sister. If only more women were like you. Bravo 👏
@Unnefable
@Unnefable 5 лет назад
I bet she only started thinking like this after she had a son
@FreedomTalkMedia
@FreedomTalkMedia 5 лет назад
Unnefable, whatever it takes. That's Girl Writes's What's motivation as well.
@funkyguy99
@funkyguy99 5 лет назад
Sure if you believe in this cultural marxists equality, diversity social engineering bullcrap. But that's for people with weak minds that can easily be subverted!
@Saddamuel
@Saddamuel 5 лет назад
+Natasel she's doing more than me and it takes time for things to change. Have to respect and be grateful for the efforts of such people and support them in what little way we can.
@AirAfter
@AirAfter 5 лет назад
Most women agree with her. The other side of the side is perpetuated by those who were not contradicted meaningfully from a young age.
@vsreelekshmi591
@vsreelekshmi591 2 года назад
This is the kind of feminism I believe in. Amazing talk. Kudos ❤️❤️
@ahuman5440
@ahuman5440 2 года назад
she is not talking bout FEMINISM. Shes talking about EQUALITY
@jqwiiiiqqirmnsnnsnnsnnsmjjrj
@jqwiiiiqqirmnsnnsnnsnnsmjjrj 2 года назад
@@ahuman5440 That's what actual feminism is though.
@Jamhael1
@Jamhael1 Месяц назад
​@@ahuman5440 feminism search an END of the differences and prejudice that diminish woman in society. "Femism", however, is the promotion of a misandrist idea of man. Feminism in its core do not desire to diminish man, but to make woman a respected equal.
@johnatspray
@johnatspray 3 года назад
Listen to the applause at the end, you hear the sound of offended people, and scared people. Great and brave speech.
@obimaru925
@obimaru925 2 года назад
I believe she is, a real strong woman, giving in to misandry like as seen so often today is not.
@Dougal-Mcguire
@Dougal-Mcguire 5 лет назад
how could anyone disagree with her. 100% factual and logical.
@marccas10
@marccas10 5 лет назад
Feminists will just call her an Uncle Tomissa.
@Izzy_iz_tired
@Izzy_iz_tired 5 лет назад
Personally I feel like feminism is one of the most damaging aspects of modern society. I think everyone should abandon it and realise that individualism is better than identity politics.
@TheBiostacle
@TheBiostacle 4 года назад
Sad Libertarian can’t be done we are a collective society, today days Individualism is a pure illusion, and that why feminism exists.
@Prometheus7272
@Prometheus7272 4 года назад
bit Ger In order for those days to come again society must experience a collapse.
@DrCruel
@DrCruel 4 года назад
Feminism is a problem for civilized society in the same way that racism, socialism and fascism are. They're the same damn thing.
@Prometheus7272
@Prometheus7272 4 года назад
@@DrCruel Its just another front for Marxism
@DrCruel
@DrCruel 4 года назад
@@Prometheus7272 Civilization doesn't have to endure a collapse. We finally figured out what to do with National Socialists. All we have to do is apply the same solution to all the other socialist factions.
@keithprice475
@keithprice475 3 года назад
Absolutely spot on! Could not have said it better myself.
@billsimons6658
@billsimons6658 3 года назад
Thank you. Yours is the first compromise position that makes fundamental sense as a way to move forward to a better world.
@tweakypoppy
@tweakypoppy 5 лет назад
Is it STARTING to? That ship has sailed, it has thoroughly undermined itself. How can you be strong and independent, but at the same time demanding a leg-up so you can compete with people who are better than you?
@Redtecho
@Redtecho 5 лет назад
Women are so strong they need the welfare state.
@alonq
@alonq 5 лет назад
I came here just to comment exacttly this lol
@shadowria4569
@shadowria4569 5 лет назад
Kicking at someone who is seeing a wrong path won't help. Stay rational, we can't make them an ally if we insult them.
@Gromulan
@Gromulan 5 лет назад
@@shadowria4569 they declared war on us. We don't want them as allies...
@shadowria4569
@shadowria4569 5 лет назад
@@Gromulan Fair enough, but at that point war will wage on until one side is defeated. What's the end game?
5 лет назад
Who else watched this whole thing expecting the fire alarm to go off...
@asteve4914
@asteve4914 5 лет назад
Joe Gibbs - literally! I’m only 2:40 in and am waiting for the first heckle
@ChristforHerpodcast
@ChristforHerpodcast 3 дня назад
I’m your 70th subscriber and I can’t wait to be on this journey with you ❤
@sixburgh4213
@sixburgh4213 3 года назад
Ladies in the comment section are a bit defensive because they know that she is right
@danzel1157
@danzel1157 3 года назад
SIXburgh421. Well, that's your take on it. So I wouldn't get too carried away.
@mjsart7399
@mjsart7399 2 года назад
Ya thats true a think some of the guys in here might be taking it a little to far as well. This is a very heated comment section. Be careful my dude
@rachelsmyth9854
@rachelsmyth9854 2 года назад
@@mjsart7399 agreed
@claireandslash
@claireandslash 4 года назад
I'm surprised TED actually posted up this video.
@slimmpickings3120
@slimmpickings3120 4 года назад
The chameleon strategy
@hortn123
@hortn123 4 года назад
They cut the video @ 5:45
@ViolosD2I
@ViolosD2I 3 года назад
It's TEDx
@pesamesagisum
@pesamesagisum 3 года назад
Why?
@claireandslash
@claireandslash 3 года назад
@@pesamesagisum because this speech breaks the narrative that women are oppressed and men are oppressors, as the far-left would have you believe.TED has proven time and again to be very left leaning, only allowing conservative voices very recently.
@ManInTheBigHat
@ManInTheBigHat 5 лет назад
I'm surprised TED allowed this talk. Has this woman received threats for not towing the party line?
@thecashier930
@thecashier930 5 лет назад
Surprisingly TED actually allows a lot of talks. Though most of the "rebellious" ones are majorly interviewed. Even Warren Farrell a major MRA has held one. TED is surprisingly free in allowing things.
@mimilaloutre7428
@mimilaloutre7428 5 лет назад
Don't forget Cassie Jaye
@speider
@speider 5 лет назад
This is a TEDx talk, not a TED talk, though.
@RichardChappell1
@RichardChappell1 5 лет назад
That's right. TEDx are locally run and managed. As much as I appreciate her talk, I don't believe TED would have ever allowed it at the main event.
@clownshoe1413
@clownshoe1413 5 лет назад
TEDx you have to pay to give. It's advertising.
@jasonlamour4787
@jasonlamour4787 2 месяца назад
Applauding this
@edwardcoffey963
@edwardcoffey963 4 года назад
Thank you
@Glurks
@Glurks 5 лет назад
Great talk! How can young woman be optimistic and happy when they are being teach victim hood and that the society is against them.
@Shyhalu
@Shyhalu 5 лет назад
Says way blacks handle it......play the race card every chance they get, violently riot and protest until someone gives them free stuff.
@felucca
@felucca 5 лет назад
Flashback to my teen years man... took me 10 years to unlearn.
@DanielKroker
@DanielKroker 4 года назад
A speech focusing on empowerment, open-mindedness and kindess for all. Thank you.
@davidbolha
@davidbolha 4 года назад
Look up Esther Vilar's "The Manipulated Man" book. There's a chapter in there on the Chameleon Syndrome. You can find it online via PDF. 80 pages or so. You won't regret it. 🤔😉 The other book is from Lawrence Shannon - The Predatory Female. This one is a bit longer (350 pages ?), but still worth it. This is all virtue signalling basically. She's biased because she has children.
@ChrisDeBeurre
@ChrisDeBeurre 3 года назад
Thank you very much for this wonderfull speech. This planet needs more people like you.
@spocktheelder2835
@spocktheelder2835 3 года назад
Hands down 1 of the best videos I have watched on YT.
@yousufazad5640
@yousufazad5640 4 года назад
5:45 did they cut her in the middle of something?
@anandpatel1074
@anandpatel1074 4 года назад
Good catch. This should have more thumbs ups
@seanparker4461
@seanparker4461 4 года назад
I'm sure they did. I'm shocked the recording even made it out of that building though.
@thedramaclassfan715
@thedramaclassfan715 4 года назад
good catch damn
@johnarmenta2199
@johnarmenta2199 4 года назад
Something was cut!
@gpsoftsk1
@gpsoftsk1 4 года назад
I think it was more than once.
@MagnusDangerMagnus
@MagnusDangerMagnus 5 лет назад
Is this video far too quiet for anyone else? I'm having difficulty with the clarity.
@iandms1160
@iandms1160 5 лет назад
yeah I had to turn my volume up all the way, it was fine then. But then got to remember to turn it way back down before you reach the end.
@Travis_Montgomery
@Travis_Montgomery 5 лет назад
yes
@theremoteseller
@theremoteseller 5 лет назад
It's almost as if t is muted, had to put the volume all the way up.
@hopelessdecoy
@hopelessdecoy 5 лет назад
"Silence the non-believer with the worst audio quality of any Ted video. We can't handle them handling the truth!" -TEDx
@graymatters7584
@graymatters7584 5 лет назад
Sadly, the production values of the video are abysmal -- in stark contrast to the importance of its message.
@garylangstaffjr2055
@garylangstaffjr2055 2 года назад
Thank you Mrs Butcher 🙏🏻
@shreyajamwal
@shreyajamwal 4 года назад
this is absolutely brilliant!
@foley15136
@foley15136 5 лет назад
It NEEDS to be 50/50 in high paying jobs. It’s fine if 98% of sewer workers are men. Nobody is screaming for that kind of percentage to change.
@benjaminmeusburger4254
@benjaminmeusburger4254 5 лет назад
@@re1644 I hear you. Same in Austria. Every man has to do 6 month military service (or 8 month civil service) and women don't. Furthermore the age for pension is 60 for woman and 65 for man. That will be adepted, the law was signed in 1992 and it will finally be changed by 2032. So it takes 40 years for something everybody sees as a clear legal discrimination in gender ;-)
@AdelaeR
@AdelaeR 5 лет назад
That's a lie. I dare you to show us those 2% of female sewer workers actually working in the sewers with their bare hands. They do not exist.
@jasmine_milkyflower
@jasmine_milkyflower 5 лет назад
@@re1644 omg I m a woman and that's so fuckin unrespectful... Like..."we can't do war cause we bear children...but we must work even if we bear children and get paid as much as men cause it is not my problem if your company loses an important component of its engine, I want it all!"....I m embarrassed for the hypocrisy of all this. ((Sorry if my English is bad I m not a native speaker))
@walkermike3065
@walkermike3065 5 лет назад
Yea they never fight to go work as salmon fishermen. If the job is in a comfy office with a high paying salary, and a computer to shop for shoes with and maternity they get concerned about being under represented. You never see them complaining about having to hold the stop sign on a construction site while the men are digging a hole either.
@kellyfontes7757
@kellyfontes7757 5 лет назад
Like the eternal 16 year old girls they are, they pick and choose.
@globe1987
@globe1987 5 лет назад
Being a woman isn't a disadvantage generally speaking. Women are often given preferential treatment in the workplace, in recruitment selection, in the courts and in health care. Guidelines straight that women should be expected to lift less weight in the warehouse and some do take advantage of that as a way of doing less (trust me, I worked in a warehouse) and the fact I would happily lift up to 25kg was mind boggling to them. "But we're told not to lift more than 16kg! Leave it to the men!"
@baskoning9896
@baskoning9896 5 лет назад
Take ANY situation: and woman are ( on average) severely privileged. Example: discord: 24 people (man) are trying to get a word in. In comes a woman. She can, by herself, now claim at least half of the speaking time. Because she is a woman. The ship is sinking. There are 100 people on board: and only 25 seats on the last dingy out. Guess how many woman will be on that dingy. Its wartime. 100's of people are needed for extremely dangerous work: with 30+ percent of the people assumed to be killed by this single mission. Guess how many woman go on that mission. Woman dont half know how privileged they are.
@sarahhess464
@sarahhess464 5 лет назад
Woman are normally discriminated against in jobs that require heavy lifting the smaller woman even more then the tall muscle bound woman who could break you in half with one arm.
@Yamassurgeon
@Yamassurgeon Год назад
Thank you for this
@CruceEntertainment
@CruceEntertainment 3 года назад
As the old saying goes: You give an inch, they take a mile!
@mathedidact5653
@mathedidact5653 3 года назад
Why is it it that you're "giving" them an inch? Are these freedoms not everyone's birthright?
@SandyERA4all
@SandyERA4all 3 года назад
You feel you are given short-shrift? I am eager for you to explain that "old saying". what do we steal from you exactly? Are you in a failing relationship? I am sad for you.
@MiG2880
@MiG2880 3 года назад
It's a metaphor. People really need to pick up a book once in a while. They tend to miss obvious things like that because their minds have atrophied.
@jasminetaank4847
@jasminetaank4847 2 года назад
Imagine living in 2021 ans still thinking that something is true just because "it's an old saying". Bruh. You know what else is an old saying? "All is fair in love and war." I hope you understand how incorrect that is. Tis "saying" you're so proudly quoting is wrong. Take a mile? Bro please. Men didn't 'give' women anything. It is a woman's birthright they took away. And women deserve evey right men have and visa - versa.
@kairon156
@kairon156 4 года назад
I expected the worst but this speech was very thoughtful and inclusive of men which is a nice change.
@damonvonschweikert131
@damonvonschweikert131 5 лет назад
It's refreshing to hear an intellectually honest assessment of contemporary feminism.
@brandonmitchell7436
@brandonmitchell7436 Год назад
Isnt it mr Damon isn’t it !!!. Non bias Lu with true integrity
@619to974
@619to974 4 года назад
thank you so much for this speech ! from everybody, not just men !
@mattypotts77
@mattypotts77 3 года назад
Well worth listening to. Have heard similar ideas postulated by male speakers but it is so good to hear it delivered with authority by a balanced intelligent female voice.
@JRobertMorse
@JRobertMorse 5 лет назад
A tragically under viewed video!
@anthonypc1
@anthonypc1 5 лет назад
Nobody dares share it within liberal social networks. and I'm sure RU-vid has suppressed it. (much like the audio level....)
@billrhoasts5456
@billrhoasts5456 5 лет назад
I'm going to start sharing this video everywhere as an example of how a female chameleon acts and sounds.
@anthonypc1
@anthonypc1 5 лет назад
What do you mean by chameleon ? is that meant as a good or bad thing.
@xxcelr8rs
@xxcelr8rs 5 лет назад
Her sound is so quiet it is un listenable. No coincidence. The lyin hardcore anti white Christian male ted talks are blaring full volume.
@adambergstein6219
@adambergstein6219 5 лет назад
Congratulations on audio quality, TEDx. I'm waiting for the scream scare scene. Any minute now.
@jonisilk
@jonisilk 5 лет назад
Yeah, volume turned all the way up. Sounds like I'm trying to listen to a frightened mouse. If she does have something worth saying, then please re-upload with better audio, so people can actually hear it.
@kevinl6231
@kevinl6231 5 лет назад
I had to hold my tablet to my ear. It’s a good video but I’ll bet a lot of people couldn’t hear it, gave up and turned it off.
@jackandblaze5956
@jackandblaze5956 5 лет назад
@@jonisilk - I've heard frightened mice louder than this vid for sure
@johnbearjunkyard
@johnbearjunkyard 4 года назад
WHAT
@midi510
@midi510 4 года назад
Thanks to your comment, I remembered to turn my volume down before I blew my speakers out.
@nafshy
@nafshy 3 года назад
Really eye-opening and informative!
@KGM962
@KGM962 3 года назад
This needs more views. Period.
@BingtheLizard
@BingtheLizard 5 лет назад
Other titles in the "Super late realization and only beginning to question it" series: "Alternating current doesn't just kill dogs." "Transistors show promise for electronic technology." "Communism may have negative societal effects." "The potential for flight using fixed-wing configurations." "China invents gunpowder."
@danielfisher7016
@danielfisher7016 5 лет назад
*Hits golden buzzer*
@Doutsoldome
@Doutsoldome 5 лет назад
Great talk. We need more people who do not conform to the dominant Borg mentality to speak out. Especially women, because a man saying these same things can way more easily be dismissed as "sexist."
@iandms1160
@iandms1160 5 лет назад
men say these things and are consistently just called sexist.
@YourWingmam
@YourWingmam 3 года назад
*TRUTH*
@dandrechesterfield5411
@dandrechesterfield5411 2 года назад
I need a wingmam
@funhavin5394
@funhavin5394 3 года назад
Thank you for saying what needed to be said! Hopefully Jess doesn't get beat up too much!
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