IS SUBMISSION IN MARRIAGE & RELATIONSHIPS WORTH IT?? The  

Let’s talk mutual respect vs manipulation when it comes to submission in today’s episode. Is submission in marriage/ relationships worth it??? Are you enjoying its benefits in your relationship? Grab your Newmans snack and drink and let’s dig in! Video credits: Production: Garage Group Set: Golden Tulip Kampala Outfits: Fashion Episode Shoes: Shoe Puzzle Hair: Zuri Luxury If you found this video informative, please like it, share with someone who needs to watch it and hit that subscribe button for more videos like this one. Follow us on: Instagram instagram.com/bumploveug Facebook facebook.com/BumpLove Twitter twitter.com/bumploveug?t=kR7O... #HappyFriday #NewEpisode #BumpLove

I was listening to Kenyan gospel giant Emmy Kosgei on an interview the other day. She said something I found profound about submission in a marriage. This is what she said and I paraphrase: submission is when it comes freely, willingly and natural. It is not submission when it’s demanded, forced or required.

Rossetti...girlll that whole attire is givingggg....

When Rachel said "I feel like marriage was made for me." it is amazing.

I really love Racheal’s eloquence, she articulates my thoughts so well.

Sometimes I just feel Racheal and Pumla should talk and talk … non stop .❤❤can’t get tired of listening to them

Let's give Rachael offertory for the sermon 😂. That expression of submission is an entire sermon damn...thank you Bump love

I remember the days we prayed and believed God for this country to hold such spiritual conventions, those that didn’t have to talk about immortality, kumansula and lies name it, and honestly I’ve been a bump lover and follower, for a year or so, you beautiful ladies are so amazing, I love how you truly share all your beautiful life experiences without us even paying a single penny, but to have a life touched what an amazing price you have chosen to pay…. This submission topic hit me so deeply God continuously bless you all, right from the camera crew to even the venue hosts. I love you Vee…

Who else wants to see OJ i love how she talks about her husband you can tell they are so much in love .

Nabachwa and ladies on bumplove thank you so much. ❤ In African family setting ,submission is trained to women from their home. When a woman gets married, she goes in full motion to practice her trained submission, but when in marriage she feels loved, protected and provided for, submission comes naturally, it is not trained, demanded or required. When a sane mature woman doesn’t feel loved, protected and provided for, her masculinity takes over femininity because of her natural instinct to love, protect and provide for her children. She puts on her guard and full armour and that’s when submission dies, because the trust is lost. She grabs the leadership role, because her helper role has lost meaning. Society has done so well to guide and prepare the girl child for marriage but has done little to nothing for the boy child, so when these two get married, it’s a recipe for disaster. Some men will prey on submission and take, take and take, until you are drained and have nothing to give any more. To Submit is to GIVE, ACCEPT TO BE GIVEN and ACCEPT TO GIVE IN. SO WHEN SHOULD A GOOD WIFE STOP SUBMITTING?

The story of the 4 women is in Numbers 27:1-7: Now the daughters of Zelophehad son of Hepher, the son of Gilead, the son of Machir, the son of Manasseh, belonged to the clans of Manasseh son of Joseph. These were the names of his daughters: Mahlah, Noah, Hoglah, Milcah, and Tirzah. They approached the entrance to the Tent of Meeting, stood before Moses, Eleazar the priest, the leaders, and the whole congregation, and said, “Our father died in the wilderness, but he was not among the followers of Korah who gathered together against the LORD. Instead, he died because of his own sin, and he had no sons. Why should the name of our father disappear from his clan because he had no sons? Give us property among our father’s brothers.” So Moses brought their case before the LORD, and the LORD answered him, “The daughters of Zelophehad speak correctly. You certainly must give them property as an inheritance among their father’s brothers, and transfer their father’s inheritance to them.

Racheal’s hair is everything ❤

Am a guy who rarely pays attention to ladies talk shows but this episode was great. thank you madam Manuela Mulondo for always acknowledging GOD in every statement that comes from your mouth.

"Submission comes naturally to a woman who is loved." I felt that. And not necessarily loving you in the ways you want, but sometimes men imagine submission is a transaction and entitlement and that's why I agree with those who say it's earned in a way.

I like how Rachel has expounded her submission 😊

Just like respect, submission is earned and not called for. Unfortunately, in the world we are living today, there's a thin line between submission and control. That's why most women have a negative connotation to submission.

Please bump love never put down the videos you make for us coz for me am going to use them for my girls when they grow up,for me you’ve really helped me with my entire life(family,relationship,spiritual life,and everything).Thank you ladies

Pumla is an intellectual and I’m here for it❤

It is liberating to see educated, successful, accomplished women speak about submission and actually advocate for it. This is one thing i can say I have always feared about getting married, now my mindset is shifted, thanks to you ladies! I think I might be ready for partnership/marriage now 😅😅

I like how Manuela always has a reference from the bible,,, thus makes me relate and even read again.

When you start submitting,your eyes are opened to see the goodness in your partner❤️

Sometimes I finish watching the show when I don't want it to end. Thank you so much ladies

Submission was created for me to enjoy my marriage. Submission is for my good. Very profound

Pumla, I’d sit down to listen to a sermon by you. You speak with conviction jeezzz. Love love❤

Ladies, your intellect is at another level! I wish you could educate other ladies to understand the marriage covenant. Marriage is for the mature. Some analysts interpret it from their world view and in the end mislead other women. Keep doing the good job my fellow intellectuals.

Rosette Gal just love your energy now days Ateh the way your glowing ❤❤and the outfit is giving 🎉🎉

Rachel you're blessed with wisdom ❤

Pumla speaks and i am in awe. Girl i love your wisdom.

Pumla is at 96% a D1 for her to perfect marriage. Good job girls

My dad told me something about submission in line with what Rachel said about doing your part. He said I dont guarantee you reciprocity as the Bible states but it is imperative in you that you do your part. Recently RukhShana (who I wish you would host her fyi- her marriage is interesting and inspiring) said something in their (with her husband) series Which brought this home she said “perhaps it would be easier if every husband was deserving of it. But submission like honor is not about the one to whom it’s accorded but about who accords it” I calmed down about this topic.

Ladies, thank you for being selfless and allowing God to use you over and over again. In this season of my life, this is exactly what I need to listen to.

On this very same topic, we need the men’s view on it please) 🙏 Thanks ladies

Bambi, can we one day have an episode on hair so that Racheal can take us through her hair journey.🥰

Yes Pumla. I love how she explains a point in its entirety, without overriding other's points. Manuela and Rachel, we can always count on you to remind us of God's Truth in everything. Rosette and Angie are the realist. I guess they think of things the way the rest of us here would . We're learning a lot from you guys. 👏👏🙌 Bottom line is, submission comes easy where love is present.

To the ladies at BumpLove and everyone that makes this show possible, A MAJOR THANK YOU!!!! The impact you are making on our lives as your viewers, wow! wow! Wow! May God's glory shine on you for allowing your lives and experiences to nurture us. I'm such a HUGE lover of Bumplove for years but had never been one to leave comments(on any show generally). I always feel like.. what do I say? what do I leave? Ehhhh! Idk why I'm particularly commenting on this episode.. is this me submitting to you?🤣🤣 This show has made me understand myself so much better and various relationships around me.. I resonate most with Pumla and Manuela; I see a lot of myself in them; we come in BIG BOLD packages that just add life and color to everything! Angie too.. because I can be very stubborn but yet very reflective and sentimental. Bump Love has helped me navigate some really tough seasons but also reflection on things I've experienced.. where I realize, there's someone else just like me; there's LOADS to learn from you all! Whatever the persona, it is reflected through the diverse cocktail at BumpLove. I feel like you're my community. As a young lady, there's so much wisdom and guidance from you all. I see A LOT of Manuela and Angie in me.. Maybe someday I could have the priviledge to meet you all and watch as you as you shoot, to just have an in-person experience. The way you have touched my life, I can't fully describe. Thank you for helping us as women understand our partners and other relations better... you've restored peace and sanity more than you know! Bump Love has even led me to other shows like #RideWIthTheMulondos, Reality Check(this is actively restoring my rship rn), Life.Work.Balance... Wabula mwebale! Thank you for making us feel that we are not alone in our experiences. You allow yourselves to be vulnerable enough to share yourselves with us in such an authentic way! I love that somehow, there's always a reference to God! SOMEHOW! You have a special place in the gratitude chamber in my heart! MWEBARE! 🤍

This was really needed. Thank you bump love.

Am not yet married but you don't know what you mean to me you ladies coz I ve raised myself I ve no close people but many times you act like my Aunties .. thank you all love you nyoooo😊❤ This topic was so meaningful and worthy watching. God bless you

First thing I always check is length…1hr 44mins. I am so excited, the episodes keep getting longer, deeper and hence more fun! Love it!

Submission comes naturally when your leader is leading well❤❤ you can't submit to a bad leader💜 lots of love bump love❤

So much wisdom here,thank u ladies

Wabula Mr gundi thank you for loving our Pumla right 👏👏👏 I love how her relationship talks are evolving lately, Congrats P. Back to submission i can testify that it truthfully comes with maturity and time. And submission is so fullfilling banange and the peace it comes with, i can only ask my fellow women to submit asking for help from the Holy Spirit because its also very tiresome doing it on your own. Thank you ladies for this episode its so deep, we are learning.

Thank you ladies for this powerful episode.

This whole episode was so informative ❤. Thank you ladies for making this happen. Submission is the key to a successful marriage/ relationship❤

Thank you ladies.....Ephesians ......Husbands also ....let them play their role to earn the submission.

Thank you so much ladies ❤❤ lots and lots of love

This was beautiful.... Thank you ladies...

I believe women have so much energy and can do anything. We have a lot of power and sometimes it needs to controlled because we can do anything and everything. So I really believe Submission is power under control.

I have enjoyed this episode ❤️ OMG it came in at the right time 🤝 thank you so much ladies ❤️

This has been a beautiful session ladies...thanks ❤

Bump love, ur such a blessing❤❤❤

It’s giving when all the ladies are there❤️. #bumplove forever

Thank u ladies for this profound episode, l learn something new from y’all each time

This has been one of the those powerful conversations very informative and educative. Well done ladies. We see you and appreciate you everyday 👏👏👏👏👏👏

OMG! OMG! OMG! Every word said is insightful. Keep it up, ladies. Part 2 please😌❤

This was so phenomenal, thanks ladies❤❤

This episode was filled with knowledge, wisdom and insightful experience. You ladies a changing the world, one woman at a time. God richly bless you. ❤

Successful educated beautiful women teaching us about submission is all we need to hear in the generation ❤.I love what Rachel said do your part and the rest shall flow

I came across this channel through the RU-vid algorithm. I like the title and it is interesting to hear ladies' opinions about submission in marriage. In my opinion, women's submission in marriage is related to how their husbands love their wives and treat them with respect. Without True love, submission to women will mean slave work.

So informative, thank you soooooo much ladies

Thank you all. Praying for pumla's salvation. You will be such power house preacher gal

Pumla is so realistic and wise. To be honest I have never liked the word submission because of how 'men' and 'clergy' have used it in the past on women. There are some people who use it to undermine women and to show power. Personally I prefer the words love and respect.

Ladies today's conversation has blessed me. It was timely. You do not know what you have done for my Spirit. This has been my favourite conversation so far. Love you ladies.

I have honestly enjoyed this episode. It is informative and evokes self reflection love. It has a lot to take away and of course the entertaining. Thank you ladies.

I've waited for an episode to drop since morning 😅 let me dive right in

Amazing conversation, thanks ladies! I love love Bump love ❤

This conversation is for the books! Such depth and rawness on a very sensitive subject. Thank you ladies!

This is a life changing episode for me😢😢thank you bump love

Thanks bumplove. I believe this episode on submission is a good take home. The journey of submission does really start with intention and allowing time to move. Happy to be here

I wish this exact episode had a continuation, I love topics about submission. Thank you ladies for the great words. 😍😍😍. We appreciate

Such a beautiful, profound and deeeeeeeeep conversation ❤ Thank you for your generosity :)

Thank you so much ladies for this ministry. You literally don't know what your doing for us. GOD BLESS YOU ❤

Great discussion, ladies. You girls are going places!

I swear to God,bumplove,may God bless you all the ladies,the crew, Mr.Mulondo everyone behind this your doing an amazing job

Thank you ladies for this topic, 🎉🎉

Thanks, Ladies, I really needed this, was struggling this break fast thing

Thank you ladies for the guidance

This is the most nourishing conversation I've heard. My take home. You do your part as the wife ❤❤. I love you ladies. Thanks for this.

I have listened for 2 hours and there is a lot to learn.Thank you for sharing your experiences ladies.❤

Overflow of wisdom.....thankyou ladies❤

Thanks ladies this was so powerful

Hey!! Girls I just love the way you are explaining this submission subject biblically. I used to ignore your shows but I have loved this one.

This is one of the episodes you don't watch once. Incredible ladies 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

Woow this is powerful, love you ladies of wisdom

Ladies thank you for everyfrideay's episodes that refreshes us ❤u donno how wat you shares changes us for better...may God continue to give you discernment ❤Rach uo englishing is like heavenly sent..aww

thanks for the episode, worth watching.

Woow thanks sooo much ladies and submission comes with a peace of mind

What a wholesome conversation this has been! I love the different faces to submission you ladies have presented. And I love how Rachel concludes by saying that submission is for our own good. Thank you, ladies.

Always looking forward to a new episode. You are all unique, and its the blend of your experiences and ideas that make the show tick. You are right and our differences is what makes the society interesting. Thats why we are friends, if we were all the same life would be boring. Love you ladies.

Thank you so much ladies,its veen a very big lesson to my relationship 👏

Wow such wonderful ladies thanks for the episode

Oh wow! One of my best episodes!!! Ladies, you ooze wisdom ❤ We miss guys on the show😂😂😂 Please let men take over again one of these days. I wish they do on this very topic and blend in their love role.... I'd really love to listen to their thoughts 🙏🙏🙏

Thank you ladies for sharing

This is an awesome informative talk, you would not love it to end.❤

I feel like liking this program a 5hiusand times this is very eye-opening ❤️

All i can say is that am taking down notes and be assured that you ladies have made me to be a better wife and mother when that time comes. Oooh! as always your fashion sense is on fire,🔥🔥🔥🔥

Can we take a moment and appreciate these ladies and the whole production team. Imagine producing an episode like this good, you can’t afford to produce less than this for the next episode 🙆🏻‍♀️ I started following bumplove from 2020 and every episode is 10* better than the previous one. I am thankful to God for the wisdom that is shared in these episodes. Thanks team bumplove🙌🏼

Totally agree with Rach, each one has to focus on playing their role. I'm impressed ladies by this discussion. Brilliant

The vulnerability and wisdom in this episode❤.Love you ladies

Banange... This year the episodes are movie duration. I love it, slow watch it on Saturday after meditation it slaaaaaps🙌 Thank you ladies 😊

Good morning Bump Love, "the going back to the village" explains it all