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Is the Narcissist really happy with the new supply or new Partner? | The Narcissists' Code Ep 529 

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@bigdeneen
@bigdeneen Год назад
The narcissist is Happy with the new supply as long as the old supply is suffering! Once the old supply pick themselves up and move along with their life. The new Supply has failed. That’s the cycle ! Then the new supply ! Becomes the old supply! Next !
@lala4461
@lala4461 Год назад
💯
@Yokaisenn
@Yokaisenn Год назад
So true wow
@karenmarie3932
@karenmarie3932 Год назад
So, basically it’s a game!!! Ego-maniac.
@RS-ww8jo
@RS-ww8jo Год назад
When the don’t get any supply from you then they begin to take it out on the NS too.
@DeboraSampy-eb4nx
@DeboraSampy-eb4nx Год назад
Yup you got that right 👏🏾👏🏾💯
@thealkalinegodmother
@thealkalinegodmother Год назад
I honestly don’t care how my ex is. I walked away and left the madness behind. You win when you heal and start living your life. Let go.
@ReRe_642
@ReRe_642 Год назад
Yes yes
@FlatEarthLuvr
@FlatEarthLuvr Год назад
What if u have a kid with him
@elizabeth6918
@elizabeth6918 Год назад
Well said!! 😊
@thealkalinegodmother
@thealkalinegodmother Год назад
@@FlatEarthLuvr I don’t have a child with him. So your question doesn’t apply to me. If you have something to say or get off your chest, please feel free to leave your own comment. You don’t know everyone’s situation and I only speak for myself. I say what I mean and I mean what I say. Now Please be respectful of others.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness Год назад
💯💯
@ReRe_642
@ReRe_642 Год назад
How to know you are over a person is when you don’t even care. Move on these people are just a big waste of time.
@Camillyahreal
@Camillyahreal Год назад
The narrative needs to change .. instead getting over shit .. get through it, so you want have to go over or get over anything .. do you get it!
@ReRe_642
@ReRe_642 Год назад
@@Camillyahreal 💯
@addireign7997
@addireign7997 Год назад
yeah fr they don't deserve to even think about them
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness Год назад
💯
@simjam1980
@simjam1980 Год назад
I think the thing that keeps people stuck is all the betrayal and injustice. We just want to see them fail in the next relationship to validate ourselves.
@lindasimyu6414
@lindasimyu6414 Год назад
All I know is that a narcissist is never happy and they always treat the next person worse. It's all pretense even if they seem happy. It's always pretense with the narcissist. I have better things to do than check the fake new marriage with the new supply. She will find out either way. The ex narc was never happy when he was with me, He was not happy with his job, his life. Just messed up person who wants to mess others up.
@NN-re7cy
@NN-re7cy Год назад
This. 🎯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@myrddinemrys5599
@myrddinemrys5599 Год назад
Yep! I played along to his ego, helped him maintain the image for the rest of the world and all it got me was making me look like the crazy one when I couldn't take it anymore. The pictures he painted (and I helped maintain) were so firmly in place that no one believes the reality
@lozannevanniekerk5489
@lozannevanniekerk5489 Год назад
No one can ever devalue you unless you allow them not a narcissist or any person can ever devalue you. You know your own value.
@fortdaisy7215
@fortdaisy7215 Год назад
“Buckle up”, is the best quote. It is a wild ride watching your X in a new relationship. I’m not sure people are exactly narcissists, maybe it’s selfishness. I wasn’t the nicest person either. At 58, I’ve finally looked in the mirror and saw my contribution to a 16 year toxic relationship. It has been 7 months of me suffering & growing. So in the end, the self awareness is the silver lining. Also I’ve learned to take the good with the bad. We had some great times, though the bad times were WILD. Thank you for your words of wisdom.
@palapalak.8907
@palapalak.8907 Год назад
U are 100% correct!!
@chloelageaux769
@chloelageaux769 Год назад
The bottom line is focus on YOURSELF! Ultimately, it doesn't matter if they are "happy" or not because they intentionally made you miserable! You can only control yourself so that's ALL you need to be concerned about!
@Not-the-usual-BS
@Not-the-usual-BS Год назад
😢😢absolutely true!
@commonsensewisdom5561
@commonsensewisdom5561 Год назад
I’m a Christian so what happened was is that it drew me closer to God closer to reading the Bible and every time I focus on him I have to redirect my mind to the things of God and what God says about me
@shalontehernandez6752
@shalontehernandez6752 Год назад
Thank you for this! Thank you for mentioning God!! I needed to see this
@trini_a_Lana
@trini_a_Lana Год назад
Same here best relationship in the world unlimited talk time and immaculate listening skills ❤
@Well_Woman_WORD_Woman
@Well_Woman_WORD_Woman Год назад
❤❤❤🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽✝️
@Kim-xc4hl
@Kim-xc4hl Год назад
Amen❤
@marciaingrid4564
@marciaingrid4564 Год назад
Same right here. Praise the Lord for his grace. HE is the REDEEMER 🙏🏾
@jenniferj4675
@jenniferj4675 Год назад
They are happy until the “new” supply starts catching on. They will suffer MORE than the one before them.
@carlosdossantossouza6141
@carlosdossantossouza6141 Год назад
I never understood that... I got worst than the supply before me... so it's not always the case
@daniellemorse6929
@daniellemorse6929 Год назад
I couldn't care less who my exnarc has for supply. I was extremely good to him, forgiving, did so much for him, listened to him, etc. He was miserable so much of the time. It doesn't matter who it is because the narc is who they are and no one person can satisfy them.
@deehyatt5173
@deehyatt5173 Год назад
So very true .. mine had two women at the same time he cheated on me with. Then he finally got a job, so could only do one at a time 😅 They are just evil 😢
@lucindaharris4201
@lucindaharris4201 Год назад
I can't believe all this is just so real like. I didn't been through all of this and I'm just blessed that when you know the Lord he will get you out of this situation and just don't. Never look back I know it's hard. It has been hard for me but I have not been with this man in over a year. I gave in just this year and I feel like a fool but. You know what though do not think they can? Outsmart you because it will not happen. They are narcissist ex narcissist this is what they do. When you can't give them what they want and if you don't have a bank account. Big enough for them trust me yes they do move on. I feel like I should be the one that should be talking about on nurses trust me. I hadn't vent through so much it even has something to do with a pregnancies and all twins in all this man tried to leave me for dead no matter what I just got away from him when I got away from me. It took me 6 months to come back to my other Hometown. But you know what though we have a gid and don't you never forget that? The only thing that I asked gotta do and that was take them blinders off my eyes when you ask God to take them blinders off your eyes trust. Me he will and you will be sleeping peaceful at night. You won't have no stress your hair won't be falling out. You won't be losing weight When God tells you to close that door let him go let him go let him go let him go and go let him have him let her think that she. Went in honey trust me in the long run. She will apologize to you. That's if she has a heart and that's the heart that God gives you because he gives you your own conscience stay blessed if you need somebody to talk. To I am here. I love helping people get through this trust me. You will get through it never look back. I may never look back all they ever try to do is hurt you and hurt you over and over again. Tonight be the one that stays do not be the 1 that listens to the lies to seek. They are evil people if you start seeing a faces change their eyes turn black. That is nobody telling you to let go but god it's still hard for me but no matter what I love me enough to love myself to leave
@lucindaharris4201
@lucindaharris4201 Год назад
Danielle Morse I'm so over him.. I feel like you I can care less who. Who they? Wanna be with? Who they want to marry who they want in a life who they don't care about as long as it aint me stay out my lane I. Can't stand this man this man just don't know. I had to pray to god so I would not heard him and now my life is so so much peaceful ❤🎉
@isobelle.London
@isobelle.London Год назад
This is so true everyone saw us like a golden couple but behind closed doors there was pain. The new supply is his affair partner
@shonitacolbert8519
@shonitacolbert8519 Год назад
Unfortunately, I can relate. Soo glad that chapter is closed.done.OVER. I have NO clue what’s happening in his life nor do I care; he’s blocked for a reason and my life has been AMAZING ever since I hit that block button. #ILOVEMEANDITSHOWS!
@brandiseafler
@brandiseafler Год назад
That's what just happened to me. My ex-husband cheated and lied to me and cheated on me, and then he left me for her. She was so happy to "take" him from me. Give it a few months, and he'll be abusing and cheating on her, too.
@isobelle.London
@isobelle.London Год назад
@@brandiseafler be happy that was 8 months ago I wrote that I’m in a different place mentally and emotionally and been working on myself guess who I saw the day before my birthday and when I saw him i don’t know what I saw in the freak . Work on yourself and trust me soon enough you’ll see thru his toxicity he never loved you and you’re going on to much better things he will be back to hoover I hope you’re strong enough to resist ❤️
@Kim-xc4hl
@Kim-xc4hl Год назад
Are these people using the same playbook?? This just happened to me as, I kid you not!❤😂
@Beauty_bydeborah
@Beauty_bydeborah Год назад
Stop watching the Narc TV!!! I can confirm that this is the worst thing you can do moving on, watching them moving on makes you so miserable because eventually you can delude yourself into thinking they changed. And they'll always put on a show for the next person. They'll go above and beyond and do ALL the thing you wanted them to do but they didnt with you. From personal experience: it's a show. I've seen the cycle too many times. Sometimes the narc will put on a show for longer, depending of how much they want to secure the next supply. It might take time for them to drop the mask, meanwhile you're wasting your time watching them put on a PR campaign on their social media, don't do that. The mask always drops, even when it looks so real and that they actually changed. Most people I know who have dealt with narcs or abusive relationships had the most perfect instagram. Beautiful photos, traveling together, writing long captions to each other, up until the very end. It wasnt until later that I got to hear what happened behind the scenes and it was always shocking. So keep that in mind. Also, narc or non-narc: nobody is going to post about their relationships arguments, struggles and ugliness on social media.
@IndorilTheGreat
@IndorilTheGreat Год назад
I'm at the point now where I don't care what my ex is doing. Still bothered by the fact that she cheated on me with the new supply and I ignored the (in hindsight) *blatantly* obvious signs. So, a bit of anger at myself, at her, and the guy that "I shouldn't worry about." Frankly, he deserves the shitstorm that's coming his way. He was predatory and manipulative with her while we were together, so he's not innocent here either. Let them make each other miserable. They're not in my life anymore. The only person I gotta worry about now is *me.* 💪🏻
@lucindaharris4201
@lucindaharris4201 Год назад
Mee to I'm so over that uhhhh
@KingTheJim
@KingTheJim Год назад
Stay strong bro 🦾🦾
@firsttbone
@firsttbone Год назад
I'm sure she's having a great time with her new supply, after all we had a great time in the beginning. Then life and reality kicked in and the stresses of a relationship entered the discussion and we fought and argued. In time she will with her new guy 🤣 I'll never know but i don't think he'll be as forgiving as I was 😊
@amyleitl8093
@amyleitl8093 Год назад
My ex narcissists new supply asked me….Why would you let such a great guy go….I tried to warn her but she just kept saying that was his past….But I know that she will find out eventually
@MissPrettyNPink
@MissPrettyNPink Год назад
I don’t think they are happy with the new supply if the old supply doesn’t care.. I was the new supply and his ex didn’t care so he started to treat me like crap.
@Yokaisenn
@Yokaisenn Год назад
‼️
@missantonia14goldsby
@missantonia14goldsby Год назад
Mines would leave me and go with other females that he cheated on me with he would tell them I’m crazy I cheated all type of stuff but I can 100 percent confirm I’ve been apologized to by 6 of them saying he’s a nut . And he’s abusive . “ he likes to put his hands on u
@marlenesteinke9075
@marlenesteinke9075 Год назад
“Is he happy with the new supply?” I think it’s about time I start focusing on my own happiness and for once stop making it all about him. I already know the stages before the Discard; I lived the movie. This is now the new supply’s turn to be Love Bombed. Same old movie. Same old script. Different actors. Is he happy? IDGAF. The question is: Am I?
@JeffKnows1
@JeffKnows1 Год назад
A kid is always happy when it gets a new toy. But it won’t be long before it needs newer toy. Never fulfilled.
@margaretpage314
@margaretpage314 Год назад
Trust me…they aren’t happy. How can they be happy when they are still begging to come back. It’s so crazy!
@shandagause1585
@shandagause1585 Год назад
Periodt
@yogib8
@yogib8 Год назад
I remember when I first asked him to leave and I knew he had someone else my heart was hurting and so broken… that was a year ago… BUT ! Oh my good Lord, I am so thankful God allowed me to GET OUT! Who cares if they are happy, & if they are great , if they are not happy great!!! Just ask long as I’m gone!!! Good bye and Good riddance to bad rubbish!!! 😊👋🏽
@shwonbrooks3802
@shwonbrooks3802 Год назад
Honestly, I stopped caring if he is happy with the next person. I won’t be able to live if I think about who is next and how he is treating her. Thank goodness we have no social media together, live 4 hours away from each other, and my favorite 😍 have no contact with each other. I’ve been living my best life which is all that matters 🥰🥰🥰🥰
@melbeldanielle6845
@melbeldanielle6845 Год назад
Lord I wish I had that lol. We share 4 kids :( he's always going to be the thorn inside my life no matter how much distance
@lelo46
@lelo46 Год назад
@@melbeldanielle6845 i completely understand you. Wish it was so easy to move on like the people who have no children. The children are a DAILY reminder, and having to still hear the narcs voice time and time again is just triggering in itself.
@cpet5048
@cpet5048 Год назад
Yes they're happy, just like when you fall in love and then eventually like all relationships goes stale. Don't focus on other people concentrate on yourself and heal. X
@michelleeaves7611
@michelleeaves7611 Год назад
My ex narc started to get mad because I studied him and his moves…how much lied to me and the other women…how he manipulated everyone to get what he wanted…but mostly he was upset because I brought everything to his attention and he hated that I had figured him out completely and he couldn’t get over on me anymore…so he started to pull away and talk to other women all while trying to reverse hoover me at the same time 😂 needless to say good luck to anyone who’s dealing with him now cause he hasn’t changed anything about himself
@ws4182
@ws4182 Год назад
Sounds like me! I insulted his new supply choice; "I said you just f&*@ anything don't you?!" He thought he was doing it behind my back. Not only did I call him out; I insulted his choice which was my supposed "friend".
@funnygirlever
@funnygirlever Год назад
I careless if he's happy. I know he will never be happy. He won't change. All I care is to heal, stay away, and be free. I'm watching Narcissistic video because sadly I just dated and got out of another Narcissistic relationship. I can't believe I got love bomb again and feel for it. Smh, enough is enough. I believe action over words.
@lysabelle3990
@lysabelle3990 Год назад
Somedays I care and somedays I feel sorry for them. I clearly am early in my healing journey. It is mostly frustrating that they get any happiness when you feel horrible and broken. Meanwhile someone is playing victim and moving on.
@stardustsparkles22
@stardustsparkles22 Год назад
I'm so sorry for everything you're going through. Same here. I hope everything goes your way from now on.
@Iamflamingosrule
@Iamflamingosrule Год назад
I feel what you're going through, seems like I've had one bad thing after another happen to me since I left 5 months ago ... i would call them roadblocks, but it feels more like cinder blocks being chucked at my head most days ... I was also completely unprepared for the amount of grieving I'm going through, what the heck is up with that ...
@lucindaharris4201
@lucindaharris4201 Год назад
If you listen to everything that I just wrote. Trust me God got you and he will heal you if he could help me he could help anybody and if it could He old man that's talking to us mister lee didn't trust me you can hear it too
@teamufinance
@teamufinance Год назад
Narcissistic people are childish. I dated one that tried to rub his new supply in my face. He wanted to hurt me on purpose. It's surprising how they act after being with you. This is the weirdest guy I've ever seen.
@RAVENMoonTarot
@RAVENMoonTarot 11 месяцев назад
An x of his tried to warn me, while I was in the love bomb stage. I didn't want to hear it. We're friends now 😂
@leonorsilva134
@leonorsilva134 Год назад
It’s true. I took a beautiful picture with my ex narcissist and literally 5 minutes before he had cursed me out for no reason. Facts!
@Anonymous-nw9lb
@Anonymous-nw9lb Год назад
No hes not happy because hes not a happy person
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness Год назад
🫣😵‍💫
@franciekirchoff546
@franciekirchoff546 Год назад
Went from me to his new supply who is a nurse who was presvoisly married for 35 yrs in an abusive relationship. She is on for round 2
@donnahale1011
@donnahale1011 Год назад
I don't care what the ex narc is doing or who he is with...I WALKED AWAY FROM HEARTACHE NEVER 2 RETURN AGAIN!!!!!
@marmeg1118
@marmeg1118 Год назад
Honestly the new supply is no different than us. It’s a repeat and that’s all it is. Do I wish that my ex Narc some day gets into therapy, heal and find themselves someone who they can authentically love and be happy. Yes. It is what it is. The best lesson I got out of this was for me. I learned so much about myself with that relationship that I love myself first and left, blocked him and moved on. It’s a win for us. I refused to be treated inappropriately. That is a win folks. Vengeance is their thing and you shouldn’t become them. They’d be jealous and envious so you don’t need to become the same person you left. Taking and being on the high road is our win.
@lucindaharris4201
@lucindaharris4201 Год назад
Oh my God you so nailed it when they tell you not to go back. Do not go back excuse me when God tell you to leave pharaoh. Please leave him trust me they will leave you dry. They will try to wipe everything from you to your bank account trust me. I've been with. This Man over 5 years it is not worth it. You're freedom you're respect the morals you have for yourself. They are so jealous of you you just don't know
@babaraemmell828
@babaraemmell828 8 месяцев назад
If the narcissist is happy with the new person, God bless him. My wish him all the luck in the world
@flaco0526
@flaco0526 Год назад
My narc admitted to stalking my Facebook. Kinda scary but I find it hilarious because I'm happy and she is miserable... Misery loves company, so stay away.
@melissasalas7387
@melissasalas7387 11 месяцев назад
Watching the narc TV is like waiting for them to hit u up... get away from them
@karencassata2520
@karencassata2520 Год назад
I don’t really watch the new supply because pretty much at one time I was the new supplies so I know basically the new supply is getting the same treatment and getting used the same way that I did
@shandagause1585
@shandagause1585 Год назад
Facts
@nicolelouiselucas3996
@nicolelouiselucas3996 Год назад
Even when they are doings these things for the new supply that was meant really for us, they secretly wished that new supply was you he doing it with. The mother-effer... Thank you for your videos and honesty your helping me so much ❤
@NARCASSASSAIN
@NARCASSASSAIN Год назад
Uh just be glad the narcs gone get your strength up for when and if they decide to come back around. Educate yourself on this disorder please! Stay safe out here🙏🏿 keep it hot lee hammock 🔥💯
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness Год назад
🙏🏽🙌🏾💯
@10ille99
@10ille99 Год назад
I'm aware that I can't speak for anyone else.... with that being said...👀 I find it almost impossible to fathom how anyone who has been with a true narcissist could ever...EVERRRR remotely care to any degree what's going on in their ex narc's life 🤔. To be set free from the sunken place to me would seem to be reward enough.. 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️. Maybe it's some sort of unhealed trauma-bond... for which I have grace for! I just really pray that all those who are no longer entangled with a narcissist realizes the blessing that has been given them... and not continue to self-inflict by concerning themselves in the least the goings and comings of that demonic spirit. 😓 as long as it ain't coming yo way no mo!!!!!!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@yokebreaker7675
@yokebreaker7675 Год назад
Amen and Amen again!! Lord I thank you for delivering me!!🙏🏾❤️💪🏾🙌🏾
@lelo46
@lelo46 Год назад
Well if you understand what a trauma bond is, you wouldn’t have any of these questions. The results from experience of that other people have in their own lives, goes far beyond the things only YOU can fathom. The reason you can’t fathom, is because it wasn’t YOUR experiece. But there are TONS of other experiences out here, and the way people experience their narc CAN leave them in a state of confusion, even after the abuse cycle physically ends. Do a little research this is actually, NOT uncommon.
@10ille99
@10ille99 Год назад
@@lelo46 happy Sunday! I'll start with this: I didn't intend for my sentiments to trigger anyone. I actually do understand what a trauma-bond is...I think the people who don't understand itwould likely not even know it as a term to use. Let me reiterate that I have GRACE for those who are still at the point in their healing/ self love to where they are using fruitless energy to keep an eye on their ex narc's affairs with his/her new supply. My prayer is that God will expedite their healing and give them the awareness and wisdom to utilize that same amount of energy into pouring into their own healing. Yes, I am aware of the state of paralyzed mental confusion a narc can leave you in...as I know myself first hand, believe it or not. We all have choices after that. My prayer is that people will realize that after they have been set free, God has given them a second chance to CHOOSE. .... but understand... you STILL have a choice! We can choose to use our energy WISELY. Or (God forbid) remain in the sunken place, stay unhealed, and have a high probability of repeating the SAME choice in attracting the same narc with a different face. Is it easy? No. Is it worth it? Absolutely.
@lelo46
@lelo46 Год назад
@@10ille99 love your explanation, Thank you for expounding. I absolutely agree.
@10ille99
@10ille99 Год назад
@@lelo46 my pleasure! I pray for God's healing to continue on for both of us! 🙏🏽❤️
@GIGI06408
@GIGI06408 Год назад
Unfortunately when i was in the relationship i had no idea my ex was a narcissist. I can across articles and realised when we had split up after 10 years And trying to co parent our child who was 8 at the time. It was a nightmare. My daughter is 20 now I will have no dealings with him and never will again.
@peacefulself7848
@peacefulself7848 Год назад
Sooooooooo true Lee! Facade is reality for the narc.
@popmonika
@popmonika Год назад
I think it depends on what happened with the old supply. If the narcissist left the old supply then probably. But if the old supply left then probably not.
@ninath13
@ninath13 Год назад
Went to back burner narc supply after I left and cheating with her the entire time trash 🗑️
@marmeg1118
@marmeg1118 Год назад
Idk if they have one or not. Probably so but I realize that woman is who I was. Of course their happy. We were happy in the beginning too. The mask is up again but as with me it started to come off within 2.5 -3 months. Hopefully he is better to them and learned something but if not then the new woman will start to see the same and get out as I did by month 5. Hopefully it will be quicker for the new woman. That’s reality. Until the person doesn’t get into serious therapy they will never be ok. The biggest thing for us is to look forward and be realistic. Stay on reality even if sometimes you wished it would of worked out and wished they weren’t the way they are. Refocus and remember this is about your health. When I have been tempted to get info or pass by his place, lol I catch myself and quickly tell myself that it not worth it because it wasn’t real. He’s not real.
@GenerallySmiling
@GenerallySmiling Год назад
Ok. more to say.... I watch your videos because they are 100% relatable. Not only do you understand what I might be going through, but you demonstrate to the letter everything about what I experienced in HIM. The exact behavior. And, being so massively insightful to a fault almost into people, I was on to almost all of this anyway. Every video is a complete and total validation for what I was already sensing about him. But even so....my trauma bonding was in full swing to the 100th degree. Ironically, he is studying to be a minister, and he leads conscious communication meet up groups. He is a MASTER as disguise. And what is so sad about this, is that on par with typical narcissists, they are massively unaligned from what they SAY and what they demonstrate and they are 100% completely lacking in self awareness around this. At least he was. It makes me sick because he used NVC as way to "never be wrong", to never ever take accountability for his actions because, he would say, "YOU have to take responsibility for your experience!!! I am not responsible for your experience!!!". This was a massive gaslight!!
@spacegirl226
@spacegirl226 Год назад
I remember telling my ex husband that he let me down. He immediately spun it around on me and said that I was the one who let myself down. No accountability. No remorse. No self awareness. Always your fault. Massive gaslight indeed!
@blessedfavored3834
@blessedfavored3834 Год назад
The love bombing is true and sometimes the person that was in it tried to teach out to you. It happened to me and i didn't listen to that person, instead he told don't let anyone get between us
@celianallen6104
@celianallen6104 Год назад
Absolutely did not think about how happy he is with her. I think about how horrible he was with me. I had him and he caused so much distressed, he is her problem now. Absolutely they look happy she don't know what she is getting and he hit the jackpot yes he is happy, she clueless. When the honeymoon is over and/or he get bored the real him will come out & he will be planning with the next one. She has no clue he is using her to help him with finances. He called me and told me he needs help financiall because he is behind on his rent. I didn't offer an assistance because he will never squeezing a penny out of me. I blocked him 100% and I have a child with him. He calls his son directly. I do not want to hear any words out of his mouth because when it is moving, he is lying.
@heidicropper9888
@heidicropper9888 Год назад
Hi honey thinking of you I hope you're living your best life and I thank you so much for helping so many people because you speak the truth no chaser and I can't thank you enough for that be true to you
@phoolangosein3637
@phoolangosein3637 Год назад
Thanks lee I really appreciate how you come out to help us understand about the narcissist I am 1 that keep going back because I love him an he help me financially cause I don't have a job I deal with anxiety and ibs it is hard but I know he don't love me I pray that I overcome him an move on with God grace an mercy
@lucindaharris4201
@lucindaharris4201 Год назад
Trust me you will Stop giving them your energy stop giving them your energy and stop giving them your power life jus stopit They will suck all your energy out of you and they will suck nothing. But energy straight energy do not give them none of it anymore
@theanswersisinsideu
@theanswersisinsideu Год назад
They are happy with a new victim because they are excited for new benefits 😂
@lucindaharris4201
@lucindaharris4201 Год назад
Yesss honey
@palapalak.8907
@palapalak.8907 Год назад
Sick
@SDC8686
@SDC8686 Год назад
I don't get how people torture themselves by watching an ex move forward.... hard can't.
@Amazingme17
@Amazingme17 Год назад
I wouldn't take him back if he was the last richest person on earth. Good luck to the next supply and or victim. Hopefully they'll learn quicker than me 🤣🤣 My kids and I are the happiest we've ever been. It's so lovely to be able to be yourself in your own home!!! Winning 🤎🙌🏾💪🏾
@cherieshepherd3491
@cherieshepherd3491 Год назад
Exactly. Don’t waste your time. Women don’t listen until they get hurt too. “They’re just jealous” is what they say
@anndra1160
@anndra1160 Год назад
I don't even watch television, so why would I want to watch that sh*t show?!!! 🤣🤣🤣
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness Год назад
😵‍💫😵‍💫
@micaelamariahxo
@micaelamariahxo Год назад
I still care. I just realized there's no point in sharing that with them. I still have weak moments when I text but I have him and new supply blocked so they would have to call me for it to show up auto-blocked.
@piscesmoon0909
@piscesmoon0909 Год назад
If there's someone who can inspire and support my ex narc to change, I'd definitely would be happy. Deep inside me still hurt, knowing how messy himself inside. How weak and vulnerable even to maintain his anger he's no capability at all.
@KarenMarie1111
@KarenMarie1111 16 часов назад
It’s difficult to heal… when the NARC lives 2 houses away with the new supply he dumped me for. She is a huge Momma June. I’m working on “looking the other way” and NEVER break contact with the POS. He let her move in immediately 🤬 I’m better off .. dodged a bullet! ✌🏼
@UnusualEvents565
@UnusualEvents565 Месяц назад
Found out about the new supply he got with one month after I ended things with him from a police report… and then saw all the “happy” pics and posts on the new supply’s social media. They can fool everyone else, but not me.
@lorettarobinson7643
@lorettarobinson7643 Год назад
If you are a survivor you should not be entertaining a relationship at all. Why take all that baggage into a new relationship? Heal and allow that person to get the evolved you, rather than start another vicious cycle of a toxic situationship. When you are powerful alone, imagine what type of power you will be bringing to your new journey. Love you God first and love yourself as well.
@Zinza-k9s
@Zinza-k9s 2 дня назад
It’s not hard to meet a new supply if you have absolutely no standards. The only criteria is existing/being there and letting them into your life because they can’t be alone. It’s not a reflection on us of who they picked or if they seem happier, it’s all a facade anyways and not a reflection on the survivor. Anything they have is superficial and empty, they can’t even properly define their own emotions. Love is just a word to them, they don’t know what it actually feels like or what it takes and they can mistaken the superficial “rush of a new body” as love. Anyone with two brain cells knows that’s not love. They have the emotional maturity of a 6 year old. Treat them accordingly.
@palapalak.8907
@palapalak.8907 Год назад
Thank u doing what u do. So true. Focus on u. I love me. I go to a total different gym.I feel FREE. It feels very good.
@vannisworld
@vannisworld Год назад
I cared for awhile, because they kept shoving it in my face how happy they are. Now, I truely don't care what happens to them in any kind of way. So if they are happy, ok. If not, ok. Im just glad I'm not caught in that craziness anymore.
@annmariewalker5113
@annmariewalker5113 Год назад
nah I want my exs happy I forgive let go I want them to heal and become better in all ways in their lives but I will never go back I moved away so I can move forward without knowing fresh start
@NeverForgetHope
@NeverForgetHope Год назад
I hope so. As long as she forgets about me. I feel bad for him though. She will always be a liar, a cheater and in general a terrible person.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness Год назад
😵
@OneFaithFilledLady
@OneFaithFilledLady Год назад
Exactly. We was chilling with my momma, talking and laughing with her as soon as we left he was mad bc we were running a little late and completely changed in the car and smacked the sh*t out of me. Smh
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness Год назад
🫠🫠
@sunshinerays2747
@sunshinerays2747 Год назад
If a someone lays hands on me I'm a knock them back. I never hit my attacker until I just snapped! bad boy got it. And, I said "What have I become?" I hated myself. I knew then I've got to go. This is an emergency to get out of this horrible situation.
@GenerallySmiling
@GenerallySmiling Год назад
Just so you know, those stickers I bought....I LOVE them!!!! One is on my water bottle so I see it all day every day, and the other is on my computer. There it is...all the time I LOVE ME!!! YES!! I LOVE ME!! They won't let me forget that! And my tank is on the way. That one says I'm FREE! I can't wait to wear it and have people ask me about it.
@sarahlysobey2917
@sarahlysobey2917 Год назад
Lee is so funny. He said I can record all my videos now while waiting on the late client.
@lucykate8862
@lucykate8862 Год назад
They are never happy. They will always be miserable. No one or anything will make them happy. With time you won’t care but at the start it’s very hard.
@sabrinapetersen5358
@sabrinapetersen5358 Год назад
These people are masters of acting like whatever they want to be around someone who has no idea or clue what is in store for them in the future! How sad for the new person who believes everything that these awful disfunctional dishonest people are saying about you who used to know these disfunctional people they are probably blaming you for what they did to you! As for you are happy not having these disfunctional people in your life anymore because of what they did to you! If they were using you for your money from the start and after you had left them changed your bank account and also your storage unit that they used to use for taking your clothes that you had out and your other stuff that you had inside the storage unit just be happy that this opened up your eyes to To reveal the fake person who took things outfor their own selfish needs! This person was a false friend who was Snoozing you behind your back! Beware of false friends behind the scenes that are taking advantage of you and then Discard you when you find out that this person is Pretending to a gentleman but isn't not! If you have any concerns about this problem to you go to a therapist and talk about your problems with this difficult person who is involved in your life! There are red flags to look for: the changes in their behavior is the thing to always look for and how these disfunctional people choose to act because if someone is a narcissist but does not act like that in the beginning of your relationship with them it is just a act to make you believe that they are good people they will fool you into thinking they are something else when they are not! These awful dishonest people will always be dishonest people! You will find out this truth the hard way! People who have disabilities are the most valuable of people and that any dishonest person can see that even if the person has a disability or not there are people who have disabilities who are narcissists too! So don't think that you are the only one going through this disfunctional relationship with someone who is like this watch out for his family as well as his best friend who knows the family he if he is very Deceiving and very selfish will make you believe that he is a nice person he is not Worth your time regardless if he is a catholic which fools you into thinking he is safe he is not! Because he is not a honest person who will Pretend to be a religious person. These are the most dangerous people. They will fool you into thinking that they are good Christians but are not! They have no conscience or their actions and behavior!once you have found out that this person is Pretending to be someone they are not your next choice is to change your life because if someone wants something they will do anything to get it! No contact is the best answer to a narcissist or narcissists who betrayed you again and again! As for your disfunctional friend and his narcissistic family they will move on to someone else who has no clue or idea what is waiting for them in the future! Give your problems with your abusive soon to be former friend who wasn't a good friend in the first place! You will will need a lot of healing and prayers for you to get over this awful disfunctional relationship with these false people!
@giselaerasmus5
@giselaerasmus5 Год назад
Im very happy that Im free! I know he s coming for me...but no matter what he does or says..IM DONE! Thanks so much for ur help..U saved me!!!❤❤
@ms.j.7095
@ms.j.7095 Год назад
Oh and they will say to you “why can’t you be happy???” So narcissistic! They’re treating you terribly and expect you to be happy. LOL so weird.
@laurenb359
@laurenb359 Год назад
So true
@mywateverlife5094
@mywateverlife5094 Год назад
I was really happy for like a 1 1/2....really, really happy. I kept on asking where is the person I had met, I want dat person bk.
@Jeanninecomeau
@Jeanninecomeau 5 месяцев назад
Everything I'm hearing says block them. Because simply ignoring, well, they don't know that. You are keeping the clown show going by not blocking. They're loving it.
@chosenforjustice8701
@chosenforjustice8701 Год назад
Sometimes they meet they match tho what about that make a video on that Lee mamick
@cherieshepherd3491
@cherieshepherd3491 Год назад
He has to be happy with himself first!!
@piscesgoddess4314
@piscesgoddess4314 Год назад
I could careless… glad it’s not me…
@Rollergirl1980
@Rollergirl1980 Год назад
I want to focus on me but he won’t let the divorce finalize. Praying for that day. He supports his new supply financially 100% while fighting me about supporting our kids. That’s what gets me mad. I wish I could avoid seeing and hearing this but have to look at it to prepare for my divorce hearings.
@GOYB76
@GOYB76 Год назад
Mines is doing what he did when he meet me so I know what is going on!!!! Poor baby
@cassmartinez-lo5it
@cassmartinez-lo5it 5 месяцев назад
They are not happy. I don't do social media. I don't check his stuff, but the lovely girl I met 6 yrs ago is now about 300 lbs. I kid not. She doesn't look at me or acknowledge I am there to pick up my kids we were married for 6 years. But my kids complain about his anger issues, it's a lot for my kids to go through, my focus is helping them deal with their dad and giving them the safe emotional support that they need .
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 5 месяцев назад
🤨😫😫
@ericamedina4486
@ericamedina4486 Год назад
WOW MY SON'S FIRST BIRTHDAY PARTY. PICTURES WAS BEAUTIFUL. ME STANDING UP FOR MYSELF WAS A PSYCHOTIC CHAOS.
@nilaja-itsmylife
@nilaja-itsmylife Год назад
It’s no need to tell them anything. They’ll find out. And that’s going to be the most convincing evidence… Their own. 💯
@ms.eagelesslyblessed4342
@ms.eagelesslyblessed4342 Год назад
Hi #Lee, I actually haven't seen them in person, on social media, facetime, or across the street. I have #NOT seen my ex since July 16, 2021. And i #NEVER plan to. So I don't know #WHO they're doing it with , #WHAT they're doing OR #HOW they're doing. I would believe by now she's a MESS mentally and emotionally.
@FarmGirlChronicles
@FarmGirlChronicles Год назад
I love your content. I can learn easily with your teaching style and REAL LIFE examples. Please keep it coming 😊 Thank you so very much for giving us the information to make the best decisions.
@ladiebugs
@ladiebugs Год назад
Thank you! I truly enjoy watching you. Good information.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness Год назад
you’re welcome
@LM-lv6fv
@LM-lv6fv Год назад
Ty Lee🙏🏼🌹 every word you speak confirms for me why I fell for it allllll.😔 I forgive myself, I see how effective their strategy really is. I was truly defenses down in the beginning. Now we are both Free to Be✨🌹💖 your Honesty is Beautiful
@yazmynalexia
@yazmynalexia Год назад
Wish I would’ve seen this around this time last year !! 🥴 but better late than neverrr .
@sharibennett2071
@sharibennett2071 Год назад
Showtime with Narcissists at the Apollo...😂😂😂😂
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness Год назад
😂😅
@titanniki412
@titanniki412 Год назад
One good thing my Ex & I aren't connected on social media. Only think we have is email, text & phone calls. We don't even have the same friends Except for her family. But I'm not reaching out to them. Let them feel the Loss & pain if they are capable of that!! I treated her like a Queen. In a video she made and sent to me she said Mom Loves you & said You are a Keeper!! Her reply to Mom was Yes but I don't know how to Keep him. She was ALWAYS ALWAYS TRYING. TRYING TRYING! NEVER DOES/DID!!
@annn9917
@annn9917 Год назад
Theres no honor amoung theives. My ex had screwed over so many people I should have done a better back ground check. I dont want to know and I dont do social media but all I can say is I hope karma is real.
@jesuswilljudge7296
@jesuswilljudge7296 Год назад
They will get their karma
@maeharrison8208
@maeharrison8208 Год назад
karma is real!
@krislynmills3695
@krislynmills3695 Год назад
Most common thought of new supply. “But I’m different ie better.” Hello, that’s kinda narcissistic
@TheSpiritRoom23
@TheSpiritRoom23 Год назад
Not really narcissistic if they believe they’re better… the narcissist manipulates them into believing that. Mine tried doing that to me he kept telling me how much better I was than his ex but I didn’t feel comfortable. I kept telling him stop comparing me to his ex BUT someone with low self esteem may believe the narc BS that they’re better than the ex which helps them drop their guard with the narcissist.
@yalyssasg2035
@yalyssasg2035 Год назад
Mine has a ROSTER of women or "supply". Always has. He went out of his way to let me know he talks to lots of women and will continue to do so.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness Год назад
😮😖😖
@indiadelon8771
@indiadelon8771 Год назад
I'm glad I don't even care to know lol.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness Год назад
💪🏽
@3n1sunmoon62
@3n1sunmoon62 Год назад
No! At First! But It Will Never Last.
@buzzobandz4167
@buzzobandz4167 Год назад
They will come back i was hoovered literally for 6months i made the mistake of getting even picking up cussing her out playing block game they get so desperate for you at one point any interaction with you good or bad is enough for them to keep going u have to change your number and block because those you that wonder why i wont hoover trust me there is nothing cute about 25 missed calls and 8 texts in one hour the hoover is worse then the relationship trust me put your walls up now while u mad in no contact they will come back sometimes it takes months for the supply to get low but when it does your the target for the new main trust me
@dawnserrano737
@dawnserrano737 Год назад
STOP LOOKING..MOVE ON..THEY SHOWED YOU WHO THEY WERE...
@CourtenayAllisonFay
@CourtenayAllisonFay Год назад
My narcissist is marrying his ex wife even though we aren't divorced
@bigdeneen
@bigdeneen Год назад
Sounds like a narc !
@GUCC1197
@GUCC1197 Год назад
In the uk he could get up to seven years in prison
@CourtenayAllisonFay
@CourtenayAllisonFay Год назад
@@GUCC1197 can't actually marry her but he plans on it just as soon as we are divorced and we have been separated 10 months
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness Год назад
😵‍💫😵‍💫
@CourtenayAllisonFay
@CourtenayAllisonFay Год назад
He is the worst of the worst kind of narcissist there is
@dyoung2739
@dyoung2739 Год назад
I don’t care about him and the new supply. I just pray that she keeps him happy until this divorce is finalized. After that I really don’t care.✌🏾
@ms.j.7095
@ms.j.7095 Год назад
Self love is the best love. Yes!!
@stylist62
@stylist62 Год назад
Exactly right👍turn it off!! Want to heal, strong boundary’s, few words with them, I’m angry I put up with so much, gave so much, when you are in grief , a sick person suck the life out of you. People like that are pawns of Satan. Nothing good in them. I’ve let mine know It’s over no more bullying, to go find a crazy …itch like him
@WomanofGod-jc4cj
@WomanofGod-jc4cj Год назад
I DIDN'T CARE. BETTER HER OR WHOEVER THEE FLAVOR OF THE WEEK IS. THAN ME ANYTIME
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness Год назад
💯
@lesliecunnigham4178
@lesliecunnigham4178 10 месяцев назад
Exactly dont look at his social media, block it and out of site ...out of mind..❤
@DeboraSampy-eb4nx
@DeboraSampy-eb4nx Год назад
Thanks Lee I needed to here this it helps to hear encouragement like this to remind myself to not keep up with the narcissists lol 👏🏾💯
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness Год назад
💯💯
@danielac.6333
@danielac.6333 Год назад
Mine is completely different with her. He says he doesn’t disrespect her like he disrespected me. And we have a kid together.
@Swiss-s4b
@Swiss-s4b Год назад
& you believed him? Please don’t. He’s lying & using your pain as energy for his life. Don’t let him see your pain or happiness. That feeds/ energizes him. Watch his reaction when you don’t care anymore. He’ll shrivel Peace to you & your baby ♥️♥️
@anndra1160
@anndra1160 Год назад
A narc has absolutely no respect for anyone! Please don't by into that line of b.s.!!! Just raise your child in a happy, healthy environment. Focus on you, and your positive energy! ❤🙏🙂
@leslieisom1981
@leslieisom1981 Год назад
I walked out eleven months into the marriage..his new groomed gal showed up two weeks later for Thanksgiving with the family...in January she went back to the boyfriend..two in two months walking out😅
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