@@legoindianajones9854 be patient. It was tough for me too at first but once you start focusing on yourself and improving yourself, it gets better. You’ll never go wrong by improving yourself. God bless!
To whoever wants their ex back, and needs encouragement. My girlfriend broke up with me 6 months ago, and it was a horrible break up. And I do mean horrible. It felt hopeless, and I honestly thought I'd never hear from, or see her again. It took 6 months for her to reach out.... We've since been on two dates together and are slowing getting reconnected. It is possible to get your ex back. Even if it ended badly. Just be sure to improve your life. Focus on you. I know, I hated hearing that, but it's likely the only way you will get your ex back. I wish you all the best.
Thomas Ulibarri Yes his voice and demeanor are very convincing. I listen to him frequently to help get me through missing my girlfriend. I love her more than anyone, but I will respect her decision
@Thomas Ulibarri I've been investigating making your ex want you back and discovered a fantastic resource at Partner Reboot Recipe (check it out on google)
Take his advice peeps. A true relationship isn't brittle. If your ex wants you back...the clocking is ticking for them not you. No contact is powerful. It will be a win win either way. Work on yourself, learn new things, pursue old projects you forgot about, explore the world, understand who you truly are. If you're ex doesn't come back. You can be far greater than the person you once were and who knows.....You might just find someone better. I know you're hurting right now.......and you're at your lowest. Take it from someone who was at his lowest ebb. There is no mountain to tall to overcome, you WILL rise again. Stronger in many ways you never thought possible.
Well we did get back together and even stronger than before. Coach Lee is so right about human psychology. Love has to be there . Willing to comprise need to be there. Being mature about reality of relationship is important. Self evaluation and self control is all important. Coach Lee explains all the importance in relationships in all of his videos. I listen to his videos all the time, even now that I am back with my Love. I still want to be on top of my relationship with looking at it objectively.I still need to correct many things from my end. Coach Lee is a great asset in personal relationships, mentoring and development. Thank you again. Best🌺🍀🐳
@@dwightschrute8141 she can’t back and it didn’t work cause I was trying not to be toxic anymore , girls love toxicity 🤷🏽♂️ currently now we literally just sleep w. Eachother
Is there hope? of course. Should you focus on it? NO. Focus on making yourself better, to be someone YOU would want to date. Yes NC hurts like a root canal for 45 days, but this pain will make you stronger and amazingly better.
For all the pain, heartache, emotional trauma this breakup has caused me, all the weight and sleep I lost and getting sick on top of that, and he hasn’t contacted me or even gave a shit. I don’t think I want him back... how could I ever forgive him?
Lorraine Rizzo that’s the thing we will remember they didn’t care... they would have to work hard to prove they are actually sorry... but work on yourself he/she will come back you will look so good and feel better you probably won’t even want your ex🤷🏽♀️
Lorraine Rizzo he wanted to get back to me few days ago after 4 mos. Yet instead of me being happy and joyful i felt like how can i ever forget that this person left me during the lowest time of my life. After all that i endure for the relationship. Ended it with me when we were in a tough road. So i politely declined. And said i am loving myself more now. I felt sad and a little bit afraid that this might be the final end for us. But i am proud. I was anxious and needy and now i did it! I
Ann ocampo Great job! I only wish I can be that strong when the time comes. I haven’t talked to him since our breakup almost a month ago. He just started “playing games” with me on social media last week so I know he’s following me. This has been the worst feeling in the world, but I hope to be as strong as you and tell him where to go when he comes back. Best wishes.
Lorraine Rizzo thanks lorraine but the truth is i almost gave in and wouldve have given it a chance. But i cant even sleep thinking about how can i not remember the pain emotional trauma and focus on the fact that he came back. But i have this gut feeling he was unsure. Confused. Yet cant let go of me. So before even the worst happens i just did what my mind is telling me. He is not 100%. For sure during the no contact period if you are doing it right you will gain a lot of insight and will definitely respect yourself more. You wont settle for bs anymore. And it will get better hun. Pls be strong!
Ann ocampo Thank you so much for the encouragement! It’s been so so hard for the last 3 weeks. I have kept no contact 100%. I’m starting to feel like I don’t want him back. I’m seeing things more clearly. I’m going to keep going until I feel nothing for him. He’s not suffering at all. 4.5 years of my life wasted. I’m disgusted with myself really for falling for such a fool. Ugh.. never again!
Your insight is excellent. Coach Lee, you are a genius at dissecting the root of a breakup by giving very relatable examples. It’s no wonder I take your advice over my family and friends. Thanks for all you do
mehnlo that is so true mehnlo. Family + most friends are almost guaranteed to give you bad advice or worse - advice that is not honest or not thought through.
I love everything about your channel . Every time I’m feeling like giving up , I always say in my head “ coach lee said no contact works best “ I’m literally always thinking about your videos and I’m just so freakin happy I found your channel . You always leave me stronger each time I watch your videos !!!
Losing hope help in moving on but it depends on the reason for break up. Because my ex cheated on me and i was the one who broke up. So my situation is different and it is better for me to lose hope on getting a cheating ex back. I know it is painful.
@@paramkashyap8612 Thankfully there was no cheating involved in my situation. Perhaps that's why it's easier for me to have hope. Then again, I was in a relationship (before this current one) where cheating happened and we were able to get back together after a year and a half of nearly full NC. Life takes a lot of turns.
I did the 30 days of no contact and she then later blocked me on Facebook and a few weeks ago unfriended me on snapchat but still following on Instagram. We are on four months of no contact. The relationship was going so well honestly. She told me I was the best guy she ever dated, liked that I was athletic and attractive, all of the friends I met liked me and told her to not loss me and she said her dad could tell that I made her happy, but said that I was on chapter 8 while she was on chapter 4. But when we first started dating, she wanted something to last a long time and later on move in together. She does live about an hour away from me though. She told that the attraction for me was lost and felt like she was hanging with a friend. She did meet most all my family very soon. She met all my cousins and parents in the second week but told her that we didn't have to go to my brothers band gig and they were going but said it would be fun. But later, my dad had a gig and didn't know that some extended family was going and met them as well.
Thank you for making this videos. They’re like a playlist of songs on repeat. Thank you for constant reminder to stay away. No matter how hard and painful it is. Slowly I’m regaining back my confidence and self worth. It was a bad breakup because he did it through email. He didn’t even give a chance to work things out. Relationship wasnt long too. Just 6 months. But it was the happiest months of my life. We never had any fights or problems. Even pettiest fight. We are so compatible for each other. That’s why it doesn’t make sense why he wanted to break up. He said he wasnt ready. Of course that’s BS excuse. 6 months together and you still haven’t figured out if you want a relationship? Anyway.. i let him go. I didn’t argue. I just gave him “space”. This video is exactly what i need at the moment ;(
Jemilyne Claire Hi Claire,same thing goes to my ex gf,we had been living together for 18 months and all of a sudden, she’s not ready for a committed relationship and fall out of love,it was a bad breakup because of emotional outburst from my part, still i apologized to her and give her space. If you want to share some ideas,reach me at my fb, munriel ong perhaps we can her some insights to both of our ex partners.
I did the 30 days of no contact and she then later blocked me on Facebook and a few weeks ago unfriended me on snapchat but still following on Instagram. We are on four months of no contact. The relationship was going so well honestly. She told me I was the best guy she ever dated, liked that I was athletic and attractive, all of the friends I met liked me and told her to not loss me and she said her dad could tell that I made her happy, but said that I was on chapter 8 while she was on chapter 4. But when we first started dating, she wanted something to last a long time and later on move in together. She does live about an hour away from me though. She told that the attraction for me was lost and felt like she was hanging with a friend. She did meet most all my family very soon. She met all my cousins and parents in the second week but told her that we didn't have to go to my brothers band gig and they were going but said it would be fun. But later, my dad had a gig and didn't know that some extended family was going and met them as well.
Susana I'm hoping to but call on the Lord for this he helped me so much. I've lost weight, sleep, u name it I have done it. Father God is our best friend, give your hurt to him and he will mend it.and if u need someone to talk to I'm here god bless.
I'm on day 25 NC. He said he still wanted to be friends and still deeply cares. I just have to wait and see what NC will do. I will not settle for a friendship.
@低级黑 小明 I told mine I wasn't interested in a friendship and that I wanted him as my boyfriend. Took him a full month until he reached out and said he missed me. We have been back together for over a month now (as a couple!)
I allowed myself to be friend-zoned for about 3 months. I thought this was all I could get, to keep my best friend in my life. And then he started seeing someone else. My heart broke all over again after months of mixed signals from him. He finally told me he only saw me as a friend now, but wouldn't let me go. Just kept reaching out to me. I had to block him. It's been 26 days. I've been working on myself, have seen a therapist. Some days are better than others. But man, this stuff takes a long time. Today was a rough day as I saw him drive through town as I was dining out with my daughter 😭
One thing that gives me hope is knowing that she could spend the rest of her life looking for someone who clicked the way we did. I just feel like we were meant for each other. Sounds stange, but we were like... the same person, if that makes any sense. We were together for eight years.
7+ months of NC and she's a dismissive avoidant. Hope is all but lost on my end. Facebook had to remind me that today was when we became official too. She probably saw it as well, and it had no effect on her. Did a helluva lot of personal growth this year, and have been dating new women since May though.
Coach Lee is full of wisdom and I appreciate him helping me through the hardest time of my life. In fact I will be talking to him next week because I need direction
When my ex broke up with me 3 months ago he said he couldn't love me and I wasn't his everything. He said we won't be getting back together and to not try and date him again. We did no contact and he's not said anything like this since. The meet ups are great. Texting is hot and cold. But I'm scared and feel awful that he meant what he said and doesn't want me to date him again and that he only sees me as a friend. Please help me. Xx
Coach lee, My ex finally emailed and expressed his love and missing me. I emailed back and told him I miss him also. And asked if he wanted to meet up for tea. But now its back to silence. So am going back to no contact. And will leave it at that. Its going to be a long haul. 😔 As it seems i have been wrestling with this with my Ex for sometime and have found out that truly he has not chosen me but has chosen the other woman. Love has no room to grow in a relationship when its divided between 2 people. There is no rhythm or rhyme that can be made to define that. So am setting my Ex on his way. God has prepared a better man for me and he will choose well too. Thank you Coach lee for your insightsvand help you are truly my hero. God bless you.
I have watched all your videos for several weeks now. Your methods and you are so empowering and they have helped to empower me enormously. I bumped into these videos by accident. You make all the other relationship coaches look very mediocre. Keep making more of these videos Lee. Thank you.
Coach Lee ,you don't know how empowering your content is,it keeps me going.The harsh truths together with the positive that you incorporate helps a person find themselves much better after a breakup.I believe that you are God sent.I can't thank you much more
I must say, I’m going through divorce and everyone I’ve asked or seeked advice for provide no hope and say “just move on”. Pretty crappy of them to really make you feel hopeless when you hear success stories all the time. I really needed this video. Wife of 7+ years has divorced me and right now we’re going through the process and I saw today she was on Tinder. Pretty sad but I can’t do anything about it but better myself and have hope.
@jo joanisse No, she moved on with someone else. I moved forward in life and haven’t spoken to her in years. Now I just forget that part of my life ever happened. Seems to do the trick. Best of luck with your situation.
Of course he doesn't feel the break-up or the loss, because he's had a hidden parallel life for at least a year (and now I'm finding out) while he lead me on and told me he loved me and we'd be together FOREVER, so he has somebody else for quite some time. Easy for him to gone on like I never existed. Heartbreaking. And sometimes rebounds turn naturally into real relationships.
Thanks coach Lee, your words of wisdom and advice always puts my chaotic mind at ease and helps me this straight. It makes total sense and allows me to proceed with logic and a level mind. Most people who go thru this often think with emotions and impulse mess and make bad decisions... Your words help if people take the time to listen and move forward armed with your advice. Your words of encouragement is gold!! Its really helped me navigate me thru this difficult time.....thanks coach and good luck to all going thru heartbreak and heart ach...I can relate brothers and sister...peace and love be with you all
for me at the moment there is no hope, my ex is with her parents, her brother, my sister-in-law and their baby, she has a lot of company, she will not think much about me or her former relationship, plus my sister-in-law does not she likes me too, so I think she'll tell her she did well and move on...😁😔😇
I've binge watched these videos going through a break up. It was a toxic relationship, and when I dream of her, it's a nightmare, but basically a rerun of real life. I've kind of come to accept the relationship will never come back, but I have learned a lot about my actions. I was immature, impulsive, angry and needy, if I had seen these before I would have had a better chance of helping us, her and me. We shall see. She weakens me, I just can't see it. Thank you for the videos, it's good knowledge for a book smart person with not much experience in relationships, to learn from their relationships, and be better in the next one.
After 28 days of no contact we have been talking the last 3 days non stop. I don't know if we will get back together but I'm just glad he's back in my life
I got dumped after all things i've done. I never lied to her, I did anything for the best of our relationship, i cared for her, I gave her my devotion, I already saving up for marriage. But she still dumped me. Maybe this is the over-investing aspect you talked in your other video. She felt that i invested more than her, and now she says she dont want to be in a relationship for a while. I still love her, and TBH i want her to be with her again. Any Suggestion and advice is really helpful for me, Thanks.
It's been 92 days since i last reached out. I stalk her yt and i know she is feeling lonely but she is too conditioned to not start the talk first. She is too stupid and stubborn to reach out and say "hi how are you" to releive the pain she feels. She still believes men should always do the first step. What a fucked up way to approach relationships.
Dear coach Lee, My ex has move on with someone new..I still do the NC but i just break it..i wish her 'goodnight'..She already said to me that she has move on and she ask me to move on too..Is that mean that i have to move on?Cuz she say she dont like me anymore. HELP!
Hey I just wanted u to know that I've been listening to all your tips and videos on how to get my girl back and applying the no contact with her works. She contacted me yesterday for the first time since the break up and it went well until I started to talk about our relationship. Please i would like to tell u more about it but not on here because is personal. I don't know or how to contact you on 1 on 1 please let me know how can I talk to u on private. Thanks.
I want to email you a success story. As soon as she returns, i'll ping you over an email. At the moment, your video's are helping me during this difficult time. I was with her for an amazing 2.5 years, never argued, just valued each other's company.
Coach Lee, I read your post “Can your ex break up with you but still be in love with you?” and here’s the thing: I had a 1 year 3 months relationship with this amazing guy, but due to some hard moments in our lifes, the last three months we started arguing a lot for the littlest things (nothing really serious, little 5 minute fights) but we didn’t solve does fights, we let them pass. When he broke up with me two weeks ago he told me that he didn’t want to fight for our relation because he was afraid that at first we were fine and then things began to turn into what they were at the end of our time together. I’m doing the no contact rule, we said we love each other a lot when we broke up, how amazing our relationship was before all the arguing and that maybe in the future we could get together again, but I really want him sooner in my life... That day he left my house crying. We messaged after that telling each other to have good luck, how hard this was being and how much we love each other. I messed up at the beggining before NC and send him a message telling him how i felt, he told me to not make things harder and that we should only talk if we saw each other face to face (but he sent me a message later asking for some data and seemed much more relax). He says this is for our own good and that time will decide... My birthday is on the first days of august and we said that we’ll see each other that day so that he can “congratulate me”. Do you think he’ll regret dumping me? Or that maybe he’ll reach out before my birthday? And also, what should I expect that day?
I want to fight for her, not over her. I have been in No contact/Strategic contact with her since Monday May 31st, 2021. She has spoken to me maybe 2-3 times in that time frames, sometimes hot usually cold. We work together and that makes things difficult, for sure. I have backed away and only communicate with her on items that are work related. I do not engage with her. Not being cruel or ignoring her, merely giving her what she asked for. Giving her the break up that she wanted. I am blocked on her social media, for the second time. It was 6 weeks before she added me back to her social media, then blocked me again. so there seems to be this strange pattern of this. I do not ask her family about her, or anyone connected to her about her. I sense she is having some kind of troubles/issues. I truly miss her. She is in the midst of a rebound I feel, to prove to herself that she is happy with this new person. She escalated quickly and moved this person in with her, as if it were her trying to get into the relationship we had with him in under half the time we spent together. I just don't know anymore. It has been three months, nearly four and I am dating someone new. Not sure.
Coach Lee can you make a video if no contact has an impact on your ex partner when you already done it before? Can no contact work for second or third time on the same person?
I love your insights. They are always so detailed about the nuances of the psychology behind all this stuff. Thank you, really...another great video! ❤
Thank you, Coach Lee. Love your videos and I want to thank you for keeping my hope alive. I've been partially blocked on Facebook and we had a short relationship, yet super intense, so I still believe it's possible to get her back
Coach lee it’s been 4months already since she broke up with me the first 2months i was the one who always trying to reach out and until i found you on youtube and follow or your advices specifically the NC rule…it works…now she is the one who always reching me out…we always talking now but she still telling that she doesn’t want me anymore or she still love me but she doesn’t wanna fix it anymore…my question coach lee…if she calling she wants me to stay on the line specially at night while we’re sleeping because we’re ldr…she’s from colorado and im from california…do i have to stay on the line?.
Hey Coach Lee, my ex broke up a week ago because he said we’re incompatible and not feeling it. We were only dating for 2 months. Is there a chance to get him back? Thank you
I will never be able to thank you adequately coach. Thank you for filling my mind with hope. You are the light in the dark. The water in the drought. The well in the driest landscape. THANK YOU coach Lee. A big admirer of your work. And your biggest fan.
My ex told me it was the distance. I knew it was an excuse. Yes, LDR is tough, but we were working well together for a year. And actually, I was going to move in with her next month. But I think the commitment scared her. We were progressing into something serious, and for her this was frightening. The move was too much. I'm on 21 days of NC. Haven't dated anyone else yet, and I don't think she has either. We were a good couple, and I hope that the attachment is strong enough to make her want me back. As for now, I'm going to go on a vacation, learn a new language, and gain some new dance moves.
@@ich2490 I moved on. It's not bad though. Right now I'm with my new gf, a beautiful Eastern European girl with a gorgeous body, a sharp mind and funny personality. No idea what happened to the ex. To be frank, I don't really care. So much better now
@@nikhilgarg1326 Nah, I moved on. After a while I just got tired of waiting. So I went on dates and travelled the world. Met a lot of beautiful women. Now I'm engaged to a gorgeous Eastern European girl. She's in the financial world but also looks to start her modelling career. We have a lot of fun together, full of love and laughter. Don't know what happened to my ex. Never spoke with her again. And to be honest, I don't really care. So much better now. And so much easier.
Same here. 7 years. We both 56. She already bought house with first boyfriend fakebook from high school. We had to sell our townhome and I now live in apartment. Now she texting and calling me. I do no contact. They supposed to get married December. She already regretting! Now that I'm live alone, 100% no contact. Her mother told me she's not happy over there. New guy turns out to not be better than me! Now she's trapped in house payments both names on home title etc. What a mess! She treated me awful ssid bad things and was mean. Now texts calls messages that I was a great person that loved her and our dog. New guy doesn't treat dog and is not affectionate like I am. He snores and she doesn't fart around him like we used to. And laugh. I can tell you much more the things she revealed but I will say everything they say about rebound relations seems to be true as far as failing and missing your ex.
I blew it. This guy will never come back. He reached out twice, I texted too, pushed the conversation and he got tired and ghosted me. I'm sure he has a girlfriend now, even though he said it wasn't about a girl...
My boyfriend broke up with me for the second time over the same reason.. he has no hope that i will change with my insecurities and jealousy and anger ,Is there any chance for us?
I'm the exact same. Second breakup for the same reasons and doesnt believe I'll change with insecurities and being upset.. I've done lots of reflecting and know how to handle myself now but I think it's over this time. How did it go for you?
My ex(for 2 years) broke up with me one week ago. She`ve broken up with me 3 times before, but we got back together since i begged and pleaded. I didn`t do much work on myself and went back into the old patterns of critizicing her for every bad choices she made, got overcontrolling and protective against her to prevent all the cognitive dissonance. She has quit her job that stole almost all our time together, thrown out her brother(finally) who was living there with narcotic problems which I have warned her about for 2 years about having him living there, cause she has a daughter underage and so on because of the most likely coming consequences which she ignored. It finally happened that the childservices got to know this. I got so angry at her when she told me this(which I had predicted all the way) that I had to come support her for this that I had trying to avoid happen for so long, and I refused to show up because of those principles(I warned you, you didn`t listen). I`ve been waiting and looking forward for this for 2 years to happen, that her brother finally moved out so that I could move in and we could start our life together. But NOT the way it happened now. So I told her that I was NOT coming to support her that weekend cause I was so angry at her and this shitty situation that occured. She immediately got pissed and wished me a "Good weekend", where I answered that it most likely wouldn`t be a nice weekend. Hours later she sent me a message; "I don`t think you should terminate your tenancy where you live!" As I was still angry and upset I just agreed to it and went no contact for 4 days. I then reached out and tried once again to explain why I acted like I did and couldn`t come and support her, but she didn`t want to discuss it and only said I was justifying things and my own actions and said she didn`t like the person that she had become and thought it was for the best that we broke up, cause she meant we tore each other down and dissapointed each other all the way. I then "gave her" the breakup and told her that it was very sad and heavy to accept, but I accepted. Then she told me; "Not to make things worse, but I love you and hope you are doing fine
My ex broke up with me in February (though she claims January, not sure why) and I wrongly accepted friendship in the hopes of thinking it'll make her come back. Now there have been a couple of times since then where she's flirted and we even kissed and had fun on two nights, but in between those times it's all been just "I love you as a friend" etc. Friendzone basically. I knew I had to end the friendship sooner or later to have any shot at getting out and getting her back, but this is what happened: On a video chat, I was polite, but told her straight that I want a relationship, not a friendship. Told her she was a good person and a good friend, but if all she wants is us to be friends, then we should go our separate ways. She didn't take it too well and as a result, she considered it me rejecting her, hurting her, and started bringing up past mistakes I made in the relationship that I thought we had moved on from. It turned into a big fight, insults were said and she says she doesn't trust me anymore. She also said that when she said she loved me at the start of our relationship, she said it was more of a "steam cloud" effect. I think she was referring to limerence, which makes me feel like she never really did love me. In the end she doesn't think we're right for each other, that we're never getting back together, and that if there was the slightest thought of her wanting to, because I didn't want to be friends, that ruined it. don't understand, I feel like it's a lose-lose situation. I knew staying friends with her while she dates other guys would only solidify me in the friendzone, but ending the friendship causes her to think this ends all hope for good? What else was I supposed to do? How else could I have done it? And tbh, since she made it sound like she was only in limerence with me cause her feelings faded in January, I'm not sure if I would take her back (if she does come back by some miracle) because those feelings could just go away again
Your videos have helped me a lot! But I fear that I found you too late. I made all of the mistakes after I as dumped. I acted out, cried, begged, got angry, sent all sorts of hateful messages. And ive tried initiating no contact but the feeling of loss is too powerful for me to control. He said that we would've been back together if I hadnt acted that way. Not sure if that's true or not. But after almost four weeks I'm still crushed and now my ex is more distant than ever. He started sleeping around the same week he dumped me. We were together for six months. I've left him gifts on his doorstep. Ive been unemployed and we talked about that being an issue. I finally got a job and started working this week. But now he says he doesn't want it. I feel like I've lost him forever. Help!
3 weeks apart... it is my Birthday...not a sign from him. Coudn't he write me even 3 words on my f$^^g Birthday?? Don't have to get back together... nope, he didn't...he just didn't. Time to really move on
If he is to jump to someone else after almost years together & it's only reaching 2 weeks after he left, then he can go,because i am not a second option, i am the option or that's it.
I ruined all my chances, went 3 dates even had sex after 2 month no contact but then i act too invested she got sick i begged went to her house she did not recive my i just cried like a true simp infront of her mother cause she wont see me, she moved on, not even courtesy of doing it in person,i feel guilt it wass all my fault too validate my humilliation cause of bad behavior, i suck i want to die
Do you advise me to write him a clean slate message after I've told him to stop texting me because he's making it harder for me and rejected his offer to meet up after he's permanently back in our city? Didn't beg or anything. Thank you for your videos, they keep me going
What if during the break up I told her that I will wait for her maybe we could be given another chance? She broke up with me because she doesn't love me like the way she did before not as a lover again. Is there still a chance that I can get her back?
Almost one month NC after begging and pleading. I don't think there is hope for me because he is already in a relationship and i don't think it is a rebound relationship. 💔
It’s been a week since the break up and it’s been very hard for me even her mom told me to just give her space and don’t text or call her.. during this week I haven’t done that, is it to late or should I start now ?!
What should I do it’s been 3 months since my ex broke up with me and I’ve been using nc for the same amount of time but I feel like this is going no where sometimes I feel rly good abt myself but I still get sad because I had an amazing relationship with this person and it still hurts to look back on it. Should I do nc still or should I just move on
On day 2 of no contact she texted me asking how I am doing and I responded appropriately as coach suggested. On the following days she posted sad stuff even posted the stuffed animal I gave her but I still stuck to the plan until she deactivated her social media. What should I do? I’m on day 8 now
He reached out on day 3 I responded and we had a really good conversation he was actually being a bit flirty I played it cool and ended it casually, I'm happy he reached out but I don't feel like 3 days is enough time for him to properly miss me. If he texts me and try's to keep having conversations should I keep replying or what I'm so confused 🤷🏻♀️
Coach Lee you are really helping me with this phase in my breakup, it's coming up on a month with no contact and this has been the most emotional pain I've ever felt in my life. Thank you for your message you are giving me hope. I do see my ex coming back to me.
It’s been 1 week i fucked up and she wanted to close the door but still be friends and keep each other on social media i see her posting way more i know i hurt her and broke her heart but it was a good breakup and she said she still has love for me she wished me the best and wanted to hear from me if succeed in my goals i wanna keep focusing on myself and detach but it’s tough it was perfect and now it’s gone i need to accept that
She is not grieving, she is in limerence with some dude she met 2 months ago, I am learning from all of this and emotionally I am surprised at how I am handling this, I am in no contact
Same case with me. Got more lies after getting back. Now no contact is no more difficult because now no contact is not for getting ex back but to move on and not letting them in your life ever again.
It worked!! My ex reached out after 15 days, we were in a longdistance relationship and broke up 2 months ago. We started to talk agaib like before, but he met a girl that lives near him and I think he already over me. What should I do? Do I still have any chance of getting him back? Thank you.
Coach Lee I haven't reached out to her at all but maybe a time or two over the last 4 months. She has reached out to me at least 10 times but each time she was just being mean. Lately shes been randomly watching my snapchat stories as its the only social media she didn't remove me from. What do I do to get her attention? I post good looking pictures that I know she will like and me doing fun things. I just cant be the one that tries to get her back she has to do it herself because I begged for a month and it will make me look desperate if I tell her I want her back myself I need her to do it and I dont know what to do at this point. shes back at school hours from her new guy. I'm not worried about him because I know they wont last they aren't the same so it will burn out on its own. I'm building myself and I'm in shape so I know shes jealous of how I look now. she watches all my stories of my fitness and gym stuff.
Coach Lee, what if i was the rebound, and now he broke up with me, we were together for 8 months, but 6 month was ldr because of lockdown, he was just broke up with his ex, 2 months after and then we date, and everything was fine until the lockdown now 6 month. My question am I the rebound? And what does no contact work on rebound relationship?
Coach Lee, I purchased your Emergency Breakup tool. For 6 years I consider our relationship as great. We broke up 5 years ago and since then, we hardly had a fight. Last April, we had a little fight and he broke up with me. He seemed to always use break ups to resolve problems which is one thing I disliked in him. Should I initiate contact with him?
I love Coach Lee!!!!!! You give me hope. Right now all seems lost for me. My ex and I have continued to see each other every week till we gave into each other. Sadly now he wants to be left alone. I didn't have the strength to stay away. Now I have no choice. Your videos are all I have to keep me going.
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