Istikharah For Marriage 

Auntie Semite it came in my dreams as well when I was confused this morning it came again this morning at 5 12 am my answer another man showed up and I listened to Rukiya for 7 days before bed.

Believe in your dreams! Thats the place you gone find al your answers. People how dont deserve your person in them life, god gone show you to stay away from them.

Auntie: its not true what you are telling here. Dreams are Gold in this life. God send angels to show you in your dreams what is going on what is on way and wich people dont derve your attention etc etc etc.

live love and laugh laugh actually Auntie semite is right. With regards to Salatul Isthikhara dream is not necessary. It’s the signs and the directions that Allah leads you towards. You’ll see your paths clearing or getting blocked. According to those signs you make a decision bi iznillah. You should not wait for a dream. It is very rare to see a dream during Istikharah. In my case Alhamdulillah I saw a dream. Subhan Allah!! But of course Almighty Allah knows best. May Allah forgive me for any mistakes I may have made Ameen.

Im sorry i have good experience daily with my dreams. I can tell you a whole book with my dreams and what i daily saw and the experience. Every personen has here own experience.

How it was positive .. did you have a,dream ?

@@w_girl hw was that? I also saw thavakaltu alallah in qura'an

@@w_girl After you pray Istikhara you will (most of the time, depends on if you did it good) recieve signs from Allah.

@@maryambegum8331 aamiin yra alhamdulillah.. Are u getting mary? May allah gv u happiness wit ur husband to love u and instead.. 😊

@@maryambegum8331 im not marry im just doing istikaroh and tahajud for him and me marry.. And i love him so much day by days.. He is frm egypt.. 💕💘 im wait him 🌹🌺

@@maryambegum8331 where u from

@@sintaibramokha5797 please can delet the comments thanks.

i am also praying thahajud and ishthihaara to get marry with my loved one. Please make dua for me also In shaa Allah

Ok no khoda nakhona

I love to you

Which sureh?

@@shahanapatel6621 it is not a surah, it is a dua

What's the meaning

As salaam brother please can u help me how to perform ISTIKHARA prayer

@@aadilahaaidahaadabplatonic4637 brother do you still need help

​@@jaidmohammad1258 i do need help

@@user-oo9uf1dm4e how can I help you dear

@@jaidmohammad1258 can u tell me how to perform it please? Thank you

Soooo true. If we cannot control our nafs, our emotions on our own we can ask Allah subhanahu wataala to make it easy for us to control our emotions and not fantasize wildly about a person or thing. And then we can make Istikhara.

how is it now?

update bro

my sister plz contact peer abbas shah + 923414850022 PERFECT person in alls spiritual helinng powers and sultions.

Insha Allahu you get your right pertener soon

inshallah you are married

@@yemen2971 still working really hard on it.... are you married? 😊😊😊

@@muhammadmasterminders no im 13 but best of luck youll find the someone beneficial for your dean and for you insha Allah

@@yemen2971 I'll make sure I let you know when I tie the knot. In Shaa Allah.

@@muhammadmasterminders insha Allah

I'm using it like that. Mine isn't a love "problem", i like her so i want to marry her. I haven't even said her about anything but if this is good for me then Allah SWT will make things better and do as i have prayed.

Saudiyya - Durkastanian InshaAllah

How to do this prayer can u explain me

@@Zyanu6669 pray 2 rakats of nafeel prayer with Surah kafirun in the 1st rakat n Surah ikhlaas in the 2 rakat... N recite the dua for istikharah asking allah for guidance But bro make sure u understand the meaning of the dua before

It's not just for love and marriage , it can be anything like if you are unsure bout taking a new job or moving to another city.

I pray Allah grants you someone who is the coolness of your eyes in this life and the next. Ameen.

It would also be appreciated if you could also make dua for me InshaAllah

Mufti menk

Omar Hisham Al-Arabi

Mufti menk

Omar Hishami Al Arabi

A lot of People of Pakistan India and Bangladesh and Some parts of Africa and Even Saudi Arabia promote fake molanas that go against the Quran and Hadith

May Allah ease you to make your decision. I have just started my istikhara. A few weeks back I had a problem with someone I liked for 9 years. My parents are having a negative feeling towards him but my heart aches for letting him go. We are both trying to fix things and if things go well we'll get engaged this december. That is why I try my best to push through and pray things go well. If it is good for me either way I will accept In Shaa Allah. But the sad thing is my heart is still inclined to stay and marry him and it hurts so much to hear my parents complain about him. Pray for me brother.

@@Nonaskitchen2023 so did you get engaged sister?

@@niya9121 Getting engaged in 2 weeks In Shaa Allah. Pray for us 🤲

@@Nonaskitchen2023 ma sha Allah, may Allah bless you with a successful marriage ameen! Also im curious, why dont ur parents like him? If u dont mind sharing. Im having issues in whether i should accept a proposal i got or not. I have to tell my decision in 2 days. So is your fiancée religious or maybe not very much? Pls lmk jazak Allah khair. It would help me if you feel comfortable telling

So do you have feelings for her and are scared to propose?

Thanks sister 😘

What did they said sister?

@@hafssabelghoul1025 they are racist to me, but I left him. I dont want to run after someone that diesnt do it bsck. I met a turkish guy instead, we'rr getting married in 2 years.

@@jnny511 ooh mashallah ❤️happy for you sister

Omar Hisham Al-Arabi

They can trough.. friends, to a brother he knows verry well, this brother can communicate with his wife, mother or sister..with the woman he would like to marry. . This is a option. Or talking to the father or brother of the woman he likes. Also can the sister of the brother talk with the woman he would like to marry.

istighara is saying “astahfirulla”

I believe its Omar Hisham al Arabi

Sheikh Omar Hisham Al arabia

What dua or verses is he reciting? X 😍

Ok

I have to be

Yes .. till you get the clear response from ALLAH SWT

u just didnt understand

Mo T you have to make choice why? Coz you are confused....

Asa. My understanding it is asking for Allah’s guidance in any matter to give us what is good for us. (Allah yaalam)

Zobidh Zozo before marriage...Haram. It starts with these things and can escalate in a negative direction if done before marriage. If u feel in ur heart something seems off...trust it. That is Allah guiding u.

my sister plz contact bawa abbas shah + 923414850022 inshallah solve urs problem inshallah

saharab mandal its duaye Istikhara,not from Quran

Allah ameen

Walaikum salam warahmatullahi wabarakatuh. I believe hidden marriage is not something good. Try to wake up for tahajud and make dua istighara. May Allah make it easy for you and answer your duas.

Why isnt his family ok with it? If ur ok with sharing

Wa alaikum asalam warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu

Then you just make the istakhara dua (without performing the salah). Hope that answers :)

Rsstp C thank you that makes sense I wasn’t sure

After that

You cant wait a few days? Istikarah is with 2 rakaat voluntary prayer so you need to perform the Salah.

you can pray the dua instead of the short dua and see what’s in your heart

Viviane Brown download muslim pro app. Under duas, they have the dua "for seeking Allah's guidance in making a decision"

Recite surath Fathiha. Please reread the meaning of those seven verses.

Laviza Lavii k you can Google search it will show

i think you pray normal salah and then just do the dua

You allowed your subconscious to decide. If the guy is not written in your qadr, you're not getting him sis.

Alan Wilson Omar Hisham Al Arabi :)

Allahumma inni astakhiruka bi ilmika, wa astaqdiruka biqudratika, wa as'aluka min fadhtikal-'adheemi, fainnaka taqdiru wa la aqdiru, wa ta'lamu, wa la a'lamu, wa anta allamul-ghuyubi, Allahumma in kunta ta'lamu Anna hadhal amra (then mention the thing to be decided) khairun Li fee deeni wa ma'ashi wa aqibati'amri faqdurhu Li wa yassirhu Li thumma barik Li feehi, wa in kunta ta'lamu 'anna hadhal amra sharrun Li fee deeni wa ma'ashi wa aqibati amri fasrifhu 'anni wasrifni 'anhu waqdur liyal khaira haithu kana thumma ardini bihi. O Allah, I seek the counsel of your knowledge, and I seek the help of your omnipotence, and I beseech you for your magnificent grace. Surely, you are capable and I am not. You know and I know not, and you are the knower of the unseen. O Allah if you know that this matter (then mention the thing to be decided) is good for me in my religion and in my life and for my welfare in the life to come then ordain it for me and make it easy for me, then bless me in it. And if you know that this matter is bad for me in my religion and in my life and for my welfare in the life to come then distance it from me, and distance me from it, and ordain for me what is good wherever it may be, and help me to be content with it.

Inshallah this helps you.

@@ayesha_noureen jazakallh..Allah bless u dear ... :)

@@ayesha_noureen 66

Before sleep.

Vactum came home now with fighting

Soo screaming

It's ok I'm ok allahmdullah

Because I'm happy for you I'm give up 4 years Bashir crazy

I'm happy for you allahmdullah

All mufti keep explaining what does it do no one saying how to do prayer we know what istikhara means

How to perform Salat-l-Istikhara Salat-l-Istikhara Anytime a Muslim is making a decision, he or she should seek Allah’s guidance and wisdom. Allah alone knows what is best for us, and there may be good in what we perceive as bad, and bad in what we perceive as good. If you are ambivalent or unsure about a decision you have to make, there is a specific prayer for guidance (Salat-l-Istikhara) that you can do to ask for Allah’s help in making your decision. Should you marry this certain person? Should you attend this graduate school? Should you take this job offer or that one? Allah knows what is best for you, and if you are not sure about a choice that you have, seek His guidance. Salat al-Istikhara is a powerful tool that Allah has given us to ask His guidance in all matters. We should not hesitate to pray Istikhara before making any choice in our lives, big or small. It’s important to do this prayer with sincerity, knowing in our hearts that only Allah can give us the guidance we seek, and resolved to follow the guidance He gives us, even if it clashes with our own desires. We should also say the dua with firm conviction, not begging or pleading, but asking Allah clearly for guidance. And we should not be impatient after our dua. We do not put Allah on a timetable. And we should not expect some sort of miracle, or a dream full of signs and symbols. These things are not necessary. We simply say our prayers and trust that Allah has heard us and will answer us in the way that is best. Salat-l-Istikhara is described in the Hadith narration below. Narrated Jabir bin ‘Abdullah: The Prophet salallahu alaihi wasallam used to teach us the way of doing istikhara (istikhara means to ask Allah to guide one to the right sort of action concerning any job or a deed), in all matters as he taught us the Surats of the Quran. He said, “If anyone of you thinks of doing any job he should offer a two Rakat prayer other than the compulsory ones and say (after the prayer): اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْتَخِيرُكَ بِعِلْمِكَ وَأَسْتَقْدِرُكَ بِقُدْرَتِكَ وَأَسْأَلُكَ مِنْ فَضْلِكَ الْعَظِيمِ فَإِنَّكَ تَقْدِرُ وَلَا أَقْدِرُ وَتَعْلَمُ وَلَا أَعْلَمُ وَأَنْتَ عَلَّامُ الْغُيُوبِ اللَّهُمَّ إِنْ كُنْتَ تَعْلَمُ أَنَّ هَذَا الْأَمْرَ خَيْرٌ لِي فِي دِينِي وَمَعَاشِي وَعَاقِبَةِ أَمْرِي فَاقْدُرْهُ لِي وَيَسِّرْهُ لِي ثُمَّ بَارِكْ لِي فِيهِ وَإِنْ كُنْتَ تَعْلَمُ أَنَّ هَذَا الْأَمْرَ شَرٌّ فِي دِينِي وَمَعَاشِي وَعَاقِبَةِ أَمْرِي فَاصْرِفْهُ عَنِّي وَاصْرِفْنِي عَنْهُ وَاقْدُرْ لِيَ الْخَيْرَ حَيْثُ كَانَ ثُمَّ ارْضِنِي بِهِ ‘Allahumma inni astakhiruka bi’ilmika, Wa astaqdiruka bi-qudratika, Wa as’alaka min fadlika al-‘azlm Fa-innaka taqdiru Wala aqdiru, Wa ta’lamu Wala a’lamu, Wa anta ‘allamu l-ghuyub. Allahumma, in kunta ta’lam anna hadha-l-amra Khairun li fi dini wa ma’ashi wa’aqibati amri (or ‘ajili amri wa’ajilihi) Faqdirhu wa yas-sirhu li thumma barik li Fihi, Wa in kunta ta’lamu anna hadha-lamra shar-run li fi dini wa ma’ashi wa’aqibati amri (or fi’ajili amri wa ajilihi) Fasrifhu anni was-rifni anhu. Waqdir li al-khaira haithu kana Thumma ardini bihi.’ (O Allah! I ask guidance from Your knowledge, And Power from Your Might and I ask for Your great blessings. You are capable and I am not. You know and I do not and You know the unseen. O Allah! If You know that this job is good for my religion and my subsistence and in my Hereafter-(or said: If it is better for my present and later needs)-Then You ordain it for me and make it easy for me to get, And then bless me in it, and if You know that this job is harmful to me In my religion and subsistence and in the Hereafter-(or said: If it is worse for my present and later needs)-Then keep it away from me and let me be away from it. And ordain for me whatever is good for me, And make me satisfied with it). The Prophet added that then the person should name (mention) his need. Sahih Al-Bukhari - Book 21 Hadith 263 * When making the dua, the actual matter or decision should be mentioned instead of the words “hathal-amra” (“this matter”). What needs to be noted is that the answer to one’s istikhara prayer does not come simply in the form of dreams and feelings but in how Allah facilitates and unfolds events for an individual after he or she genuinely strives to do what is best. Take the most effective means, which includes consulting those whose knowledge and wisdom one has confidence in, and place your trust in Allah. Lastly, one needs to be patient in terms of receiving the answer to their prayers. Remember the words of our Prophet salallahu alaihi wasallam, “The supplication of everyone is granted as long as he does not show haste and does not say that he made a supplication but it was not accepted.” [Abu Dawud, Tirmidhi, Ibn Majah] And Allah knows best, He is the All-Seeing, All-Hearing, the best Planner. May He guide us and ease all our difficulties. Ameen.

mubarak ali Thanks but why do people never directly answer the question asked and always instead send a whole paragraph STILL without an answer to the question😭

The dua is in English as well as Arabic. Dua can be done in any language.

Allaah knows the intention of the supplicant and what he wants, no matter what language he speaks, because He hears all the voices in all different languages, asking for all kinds of needs.

@@na6389 Sorry, I was in a bit hurry so did not read your question properly.

If you are not Muslim then how can you ask Allah for guidance, who you dont believe in , because you're not muslim? In addition the start of the video says you can't do it for other people.

Dear beautiful sister, please convert? If you love him that much, then for his sake, convert. And then I am sure Allah Almighty will guide you to light and the right path. Shirk (making or believing any God except Allah the only) is highly despised and forbidden by Allah and Islam.

Yes you can do. Allah will guide you. and inshallah you will accept Islam as well

Allahumma inni astakhiruka bi ilmika, wa astaqdiruka biqudratika, wa as'aluka min fadhtikal-'adheemi, fainnaka taqdiru wa la aqdiru, wa ta'lamu, wa la a'lamu, wa anta allamul-ghuyubi, Allahumma in kunta ta'lamu Anna hadhal amra (then mention the thing to be decided) khairun Li fee deeni wa ma'ashi wa aqibati'amri faqdurhu Li wa yassirhu Li thumma barik Li feehi, wa in kunta ta'lamu 'anna hadhal amra sharrun Li fee deeni wa ma'ashi wa aqibati amri fasrifhu 'anni wasrifni 'anhu waqdur liyal khaira haithu kana thumma ardini bihi. O Allah, I seek the counsel of your knowledge, and I seek the help of your omnipotence, and I beseech you for your magnificent grace. Surely, you are capable and I am not. You know and I know not, and you are the knower of the unseen. O Allah if you know that this matter (then mention the thing to be decided) is good for me in my religion and in my life and for my welfare in the life to come then ordain it for me and make it easy for me, then bless me in it. And if you know that this matter is bad for me in my religion and in my life and for my welfare in the life to come then distance it from me, and distance me from it, and ordain for me what is good wherever it may be, and help me to be content with it.

Before sleep.

i hav heard that you can pray this salah anytime except fajar and asar and make dua MAY ALLAH GUIDE US IN BETTER WAY POSSIBLE AMEEN

Allahumma inni astakhiruka bi ilmika, wa astaqdiruka biqudratika, wa as'aluka min fadhtikal-'adheemi, fainnaka taqdiru wa la aqdiru, wa ta'lamu, wa la a'lamu, wa anta allamul-ghuyubi, Allahumma in kunta ta'lamu Anna hadhal amra (then mention the thing to be decided) khairun Li fee deeni wa ma'ashi wa aqibati'amri faqdurhu Li wa yassirhu Li thumma barik Li feehi, wa in kunta ta'lamu 'anna hadhal amra sharrun Li fee deeni wa ma'ashi wa aqibati amri fasrifhu 'anni wasrifni 'anhu waqdur liyal khaira haithu kana thumma ardini bihi. O Allah, I seek the counsel of your knowledge, and I seek the help of your omnipotence, and I beseech you for your magnificent grace. Surely, you are capable and I am not. You know and I know not, and you are the knower of the unseen. O Allah if you know that this matter (then mention the thing to be decided) is good for me in my religion and in my life and for my welfare in the life to come then ordain it for me and make it easy for me, then bless me in it. And if you know that this matter is bad for me in my religion and in my life and for my welfare in the life to come then distance it from me, and distance me from it, and ordain for me what is good wherever it may be, and help me to be content with it.

Pls send the Urdu or Aarabbi dua

Make tahajud, and ask allah to find you a way out

@@yusufbhamjee2694 thanks brother I do that all the time too

Yes

Nikhath Fathima you should get this interpreted by a Molsab or someone pious as this could mean something

Are u married

Badjie Lamin Istikhara is to ask for betterment, we seek Allah's advice on our issues and decisions

"Istikhara" means to seek goodness from Allah (Exalted is He), meaning when one intends to do an important task they do istikhara before the task like Marriage etc...

Feisal o thank u

Abdullah Shah thank u