*My REACTION to the reunion is now live! 👇* ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-M93tdrZeq9k.html *Give me your predictions! What do YOU think happens at the altar?!*
Oooh, it's very hard to know what Kwame will say, I think no. No fom Bliss after a yes from puppy dog Zack, yes for Paul and Micah, yes for Brett and Tiffany, though I'm interested to know what secret comes out between these two, as shown in the preview.
I'm just hoping Marshall finally man's up and not how Jackie was meaning it but standing up for himself by taking his God damn ring back. That shit just rubs me the wrong way. Like rejecting him cool but you don't keep the ring and you don't meet another man before you let the man know its over!!!
Yeah, Marshal didn't deserve that. But it's good that he got out this soon. And keeping the ring is a BIG no no, especially when you've already kissed another dude, but still keep acting as if you don't know if you'll be with him.
Will anyone call on the hypocrisy of Jackie calling Irina a "peasant" and disgusting when she's no better, maybe worst? Marshall isn't perfect, but he didn't deserve how this whole situation was handled by Jackie
They’re both bad but I can see Jacky being super toxic and unhinged. I think Irina’s immature and seemed to take this whole love is blind thing as a contest to join or something. She also judged Zack’s professional capability 😒
That Jackie and Josh scene was something out of an alternative reality. I couldn’t believe what I was actually seeing. Then the break up scene with Marshall, I just kept asking myself, is Jackie a real person
Such a toxic person. I knew she was drama and was only with Marshall because she wanted some one to save her. Girl should be in therapy. Marshall deserves better.
I saw right through Jackie the moment she talked to Micah about how Chelsea felt about her inappropriate conversation with Kwame. She is all about drama and toxicity!
Kwame is a WHOLE JOKE. this season is for people in Seattle and he applies…..and is crying over being expected to being in Seattle. Why not wait for a Portland season….or get over yourself. Because this is something you KNEW would be a sacrifice.
I peeped Jackie was trash when she kept talking behind each of the women’s back in the first few episodes and then acting like the persons friend in their face. She’s a fraud
It seems that’s the case, Louise! And I feel bad for Marshall. The way she went up and told Josh she’d “give him a chance” while still engaged?! Just awful! What are your predictions for the rest of our engaged couples? 😂
I commend Bliss for how she stood up to her Dad. He was kind of bulldozing what she was saying and didn't even really listen to her. Jackie why couldn't you breakup with your fiance before going on a date and kissing another man. That possibly makes her worse than Irina. Why would she even want the ring? She doesn't even like Marshall. Is she gonna wear an engagement ring on her dates with Josh.
Jackie did two biggest dirties.. kissing Josh when she is already engaged to Marshall and not giving Marshall the ring back. Thats like crossing the line and becoming the worst human being. Also Kudos to Marshall for not losing his cool when he had that break-up conversation with Jackie. That speaks volume to his character. Any other guy would have lost his cool.
It was really disrespectful, even knowing theres cameras, he really kept solid. I don’t think I could have done that. It was super insensitive, I mean he would have gotten hurt regardless. But wow..
Precisely. She finds comfort in the familiar, no matter how toxic it is. She did say how awful her family is and she cried like it was the end of the world whilst they were Mexico because she was thinking of going back to her awful family.
Man the villains of this season are the villains of the series cause damn Jackie out doing Irina!!! And poor Bliss out here making it clear to the world why her mother divorced her father, that man is a whole tool 😂
Chelsea confuses me. She is so oblivious to everything and just seems like she doesn't even realise how unsure Kwame is. Is she in denial or is she trying to find a silver lining? I do not trust Kwame and never have.
I think ultimately they see passion differently. Jackie sees it as fire and Marshall sees it as warmth or comfort. It’s a security blanket while Jackie wants that fight but only on her terms. The straw that broke the camel’s back for when watching them break up was when she blamed him instigating a fight because she can instigate fights over petty shit but he instigated a fight over something real. If she found a good common ground with josh, good for those two they probably deserve each other because Marshall deserved better than to be stuck being her savior
It was a very…awkward moment, that’s for sure. I guess we’ll find out if she kept the ring during the live reunion! 😆 What are your predictions for the engaged couples during next week’s weddings?
@@ReelJamestiffany would say no,brett would say yes. Kwame would say no and we already know chelsea's answer. Zach would say yes and bliss would say no. Paul would say yes and micah would say no.
Yes whoever calls off engagement has to give ring back maybe depending by state. Where we live my sister left her man for abusing her & he had her arrested. In court judge told her to give back ring or she would stay in jail. So yeah I would get my ring back! She is trifling!
Jackie is the epitome of saying you don't have a type and you're willing to trust the process and then completely backflipping. She kept saying she needs a good man, she gets one who appears to be and RUNS to Josh. She doesn't want a good man. She wants toxic
Fam... She was saying I want you to be more aggressive... What do you mean??! Like at this point I don't think she is looking for fun aggressive play, but abuse. She honestly made me tired!
I'm not even through the episode yet. I needed to find a place to vent. Jackie is horrible. HORRIBLE. OMG did she really meet another guy while she was supposed to be picking out her wedding dress? Poor Marshall, right in the middle of bragging on her, he gets the news that she didn't show. He was LITERALLY IN THE MIDDLE of saying how fkn wonderful she was. Oh I just hate her for him. Ok, I'm gonna finish the episode now. Thanks for listening yall.❤
I think that Marshall was seeing things through rose tinted glasses because he was very attracted to Jackie. She didn’t get the passion she wanted from him because since he is “sensitive” he prolly sensed her hesitation towards him thus he wasn’t putting the pressure down sexually. I bet if he just smashed and then pulled away from her emotionally she’d have been chasing him. But because she knew she had him wrapped around her finger, she manipulated the situation to keep the attention (bc girls like her can’t go long without attention) from Marshall just long enough to discard him and get with Josh. Josh also got the privilege of seeing her, and her him which honestly goes against the whole theory of the experiment lol
I knew Jackie was off. She's low-key been a mean girl and I didn't like how she joined in on piling on Zach, he's never done anything to her. Toss in her inability regulate her emotions in a healthy way and pick at a man who has been bending over backwards to accommodate her, I'm not surprised she moved how she did. Smh just grimy. She did Marshall a favor and I hope he works through his shit, he keeps picking women like this and he deserves better.
@@WilliamsPinch also, basically Micah and Kwame, confirmed that they would always be there for each other. If they actually get married how did their spouse feel seeing this. 🤨 Not cool.
Jackie should have tried out for too hot to handle. physical attraction only last so long. She talks about respect, but she should have talked to Marshall first being straight up about her feelings, end it, then move forward with Josh. She's a no no. That shows her real personality just that alone.
Same, not a fan of micah, but i really liked her dress; but that's probably because i'm not a fan of dramatic wedding dresses, i think the simple ones are way more elegant.
Knew from the start, just from the bits they did show about her, she's FOR THE STREETS. The people recruiting for the show NEED to do better or be replaced, she clearly wasted everyone's time on the show, NEVER had any intention of marriage & was just looking for fame, like I said, FOR THE STREETS. Marshall, while I'm sure hurting now, will be grateful for this in the long run, saved himself a ton of drama, heartache & pain that would've come. Crazy that she is trying to keep the ring, her true character has shown over and over since they've left the pods, TRASH. Glad Marshall got the 304 out of his life, so nasty that she doesn't return the ring because she wants to pawn it. If Josh was really a man, a good man, he'd step in there. DO BETTER at recruiting, she was a walking red flag, and those poor decisions end up screwing over people like Marshall.
You had a very calm reaction to this weeks scenes with Jackie. I was cursing my TV out 🤬🤬🤬haha but it does make me upset how horrible people are acting this season. Brett and tiffany (maybe zack and bliss) are the only ones that I genuinely feel are taking this process seriously
@@brandybaker3280I see that too. He is struggling to keep cool and keep up the pretend. I guess he likes her but not to the degree he should be before the altar. And he has already told a lot indirectly if you look between the lines. It’s a shame the contestants don’t get to see it as clearly before they watch the episodes back later (if they do).
Jackie is trash period. I felt so hurt inside for Marshal, she treated him like trash and a joke. He actually dodged a bullet, cause she would have made him so miserable. He will find himself a gem, and I know that for sure. I feel like she felt like this was too good for her, and her being used to being undervalued by men, she couldn’t accept the fact that a good man did value her.
Jackie Pinkett-Smith did our boy Fresh Prince of Marshall dirty. I guess she at least ended it before doing a complete Red Table but keeping the ring is for the Streets... What is wrong with these 304s.
jackie is so clearly a victim of her childhood and the toxic stereotypes of gender roles. she is constantly falling ill to her family relationship, letting her schemas affect her relationship and growth with marshal. but she prefers that toxicity, that standard of masculinity that is harmful and was harmful to her in obvious ways. she wants what's familiar to her. i find it incredibly disheartening considering she has very little self awareness, to the point of being arrogant and happy with it. she deserves her bed, but i hope she grows sooner rather than later, because if she doesn't, she'll repeat the behavior and family trauma to her own marriage and children.
The one thing that isn't going to happen at the reunion is that the host will not ask the burning questions. Thank God it's a live reunion this year, so we, the viewers, get to ask these queations
I really enjoy the way you do a full review of these episodes. You didn't miss anything. Thanks for your hard work breaking this down. Totally agree with you.
Thank you so much, Fable! I appreciate your kind words and for tuning in this week. 🙏 What are your predictions for our engaged couples next week during weddings?
🙏 Thank you so much for the kind words and support, S W! I really appreciate that. I guess I should break out a cardigan here on the channel, huh? 😂 What did you think of this week's episodes?
In my experience, ppl with abusive fathers tend to use that as a reference of how not to behave or how not to raise their kids. Jackie can stand to be a bit more sensitive to how Marshall handles certain situations. He isn’t going to give her toxic masculinity. And to be fair, she fled into the arms of someone else before tackling the situation head-on. She is hypocritical, and her behavior wasn’t much better than those she insulted throughout the season. Zack most definitely didn’t deserve her insults - he did nothing to her, and is going to watch this in the end.
Did you see Micah's face in the bridal shop when Chelsea was modeling her dress and talking about how she couldn't wait to marry Kwame? I think she's jealous and still wants him.
Totally agree you..remember how she got to be with Pau. Her interest was with Kwame first but when she heard Paul was interested in another girl she quickly switched sides.. she's a toxic jealous person
Jackie is a bipolar mess, omg. Ups and downs with that girl. Marshall avoided a disaster. Why couldn't she just admit she was not attracted to him. "I'm emotionally drained" while she kisses another man.
I used to be with those toxic guys until a great friend gave me some advice. He said "when you walk into a room when you find yourself drawn to a toxic guy you typically go for turn around and walk towards the guy you wouldn't typically go for." Best advice ever. Healthy relationship and five years going strong.
I'm so happy for your, Kris! That's great to hear, and I'm praying your relationship remains healthy and happy. 🙏 It's really tough to watch what happened between Jackie and Marshall because I really felt bad for Marshall in this instance. Just a bad situation all the way around.
Brett and Tiffany are the only couple I’m confident will make it for this season. The live show is going to be wild. Jackie and Irina fighting for greatest villain this season.
Jackie doesn’t realize it but I felt like she needed someone who is sensitive (in a way that they are empathic to issues) and who can bring vulnerability out of her. To me, she’s attracted to toxic masculinity and even inhibits some of it herself to the point where she started projecting on Marshall. I can relate to Jackie because I did grow up in a toxic environment where sometimes I create problems in my relationship just because I was so use to toxicity being a norm in my life. However, my partner I’ve been with for two years was able to show me how to grow out of that toxicity and properly communicate my thoughts without shutting down or loosing my cool. He is more sensitive than me but his sensitivity allowed me to be more vulnerable, open and gave me a safe space to communicate and talk which is something nobody has created for me before. Jackie is way to stuck in her ways, she knew she needed more compassion and vulnerability in her life which is what she could get out of Marshall but she chose to run to Josh. I don’t even know why she’s on the show with her family issues neither.
🙏 Thank you so much for the kind words and for tuning in, Charle! I appreciate that! This week really made me shocked, upset, disappointed and happy all in one set of episodes. So much drama and we haven't even hit the finale, yet! What are your predictions for next week's weddings?
@@ReelJames Just stating the truth, I love your comments and appreciate your show very much. As for the weddings, I honestly don't have a clue. But I have a feeling that Kwame might say no. I think that Bliss and Zack will get married, Micah and her fella too but unsure about Tiffany and her fella. We will see, I can't wait for next week AND most of all I hope that Jacky gives back the ring. She doesn't deserve anything except payback from Karma. Marshall should thank his guardian angels for getting rid of her.
Poor Marshall😢😢😢 But he deserve more than that kind of woman.I was actually saying she's crazy before she said it herself😅 Anyway,am here for Zach and Bliss❤
Willing to bet Jackie lied and Marshall wasn’t really gone for THREE days. But her saying she did not like him fleeing, while she too fled before confronting the problem. No text message, already moved on before officially telling him, made an excuse about being too tired (gave her the benefit of the doubt, but it now it does look like an excuse)
I think Jackie had bn talking to Josh off camera.The latest statement issued by Jackie stating she met up with Josh after she had broken up with Marshall is a lie. She mentioned to Marshall that she had spoken to Josh n might persue a relationship. Lies. Jackie the snake!
Are you sure the rings are provided by Netflix? I always thought that the contestants had to buy their own rings and wedding dresses. I was LIVID when Jackie refused to give back the ring. Her reasoning made no sense either. Also, I think Kwame asked his pod friend because he lives in Portland and has mentioned that he would have to make new friends in Seattle. Chances are he doesn’t have any friends there and probably ended up asking his friend from the pod because he didn’t have anyone else he could ask in the city.
Jackie makes me nauseous just thinking about her. I don’t like Bliss’s dad. Ugh. I predict the married couples will be Bret and Tiffany and Zack and Bliss. I don’t think Bliss is worried about Zack wanting to be with another woman at this point. Their conversation in the hot tub seemed to go around that word commitment and what that meant. Bliss didn’t want Zack to marry her just so he felt like he needed to just for the commitment or duty. I understood where both were coming from. Kwame and Chelsea - Kwame may say yes but if so they won’t last for very long. I love that this is in my home state and hearing all of the city names and shots of Seattle. I think that soccer field in episode 9 is Cal Anderson Park where I’ve played soccer? Can’t tell, I’ve never seen Cal Anderson from that angle. And Moses Lake where Zack was born - not far from my hometown. And the tri-cities where Bliss’s dad lives - used to go down there to play volleyball in high school. I guess I’m just so used to shows and movies being in California or New York or wherever so this is nice.
Hey, L.C.! Great to see ya in the comments! Bliss' dad was giving me bad vibes, tbh. He seemed *very* unsupportive, to the point where it was almost like he had a vendetta against his daughter and her decisions. Ohhh, that's an interesting note about Kwame and Chelsea. Now I can't wait to see what happens next week! That's so cool that they filmed in your home state and you recognized different locations! I always feel happy when my hometown is shown off in movies or shows, too. 😆
@@ReelJames lol the only movie I can think of where they filmed in my hometown (just a tiny tiny bit of the movie) was Die Hard. Never saw the movie. I guess I should. It’s a Christmas classic right?
If you remember she was acting weird on their holiday crying over family not exactly giving happy vibes and Marshall was so kind and understanding such a sweet man Marshall deserves better than that hey It appeared to me that Jackie not ready for marriage at all
My first red flag of Jackie was at the honeymoon when Chelsea was upset over Kwame’s demeanor over Micah in their conversation. Jackie said she would be upset if she was Chelsea. But then later that night told Micah, Chelsea was being ridiculous. 🤔🤔🤔 Jackie was playing both sides of those friendships.
I feel like she just used Marshal as her therapist, she doesn’t deserve him at all. He deserves so much better, I have a feeling Josh will play her. It’ll be *karma*
😅🙏 Thank you so much, Sabrina, for watching and enjoying my commentary! I love breaking down this show week-to-week, so I'm excited to cover the finale and live reunion this weekend, too. What are your predictions for weddings this week?!
I think Kwame just wants to be on tv and that’s why he’s not leaving Chealse. I saw that Kwame was also pn another dating show a couple years ago (married at first sight) so i do think he just wants to get famous through dating shows
I heard about him being on a previous dating show, too! We’ll definitely see what happens next week, though…what do you think his answer will be? I do or I don’t?
Brett and tiff say yes, Paul and Micah say yes, kwame says no and sadly Bliss will likely say no. I’m annoyed at the cliffhanger but I get it and can’t wait for next weeks finale and live reunion!
Jackie isn’t terrible. At least she’s honest. Marshall refuses to read the cues staring him in the face. Remember when she first saw Brett and blurted out, “Damn! He’s FINE!” right in front of him? Like Marshall said, she never told him she loved him OR wanted him. “You’re what I need.”, she said. At least she’s up front. How can you be mad at that? I believe she really did try to make it work. But when she realized Marshall wasn’t what she wanted she told him to his face and dipped. ✌🏾 Jackie is classless, but so is Josh. Let’s be real, they’re FAR better suited as a couple. I hope it works out. ❤
I will admit that I respect jackie for being self aware and saying she needs help, while also admitting that she may be crazy. At this point I can't even blame her for her actions. I don't think she knows what she wants. It a sad story all around. I just feel sorry for marshal. He reminds me a lot of myself in many ways. I could see myself making the same mistake. I just hope he learns from this and move on. I really would like to see Netflix give him another shot on love is blind or another dating show. I want to see more of marshal.
This is a mature response! Appreciate you tuning in this morning, too. 🙌 I do agree that Jackie saying she needs help was a cry for some sort of guidance. I really hope they introduce a therapy element in future seasons of this show.
I completely disagree. Jackie being self-aware only after she's fucked up to the degree she has (and believe me, Marshal Is in no way as innocent as people believe him to be whatsoever) is nothing to respect imo. If she was really self aware, she'd have left Marshal AGES ago. She let that man suffer (which tbh I believe he brought on himself because of his saviour complex) And then she had the audacity to tell Marshal she was keeping the ring because "everything I felt for you in the pods was real". I've seen a lot of stupid reasonings for behaviour but this takes the cake... Marshal in that moment was a doormat. What man worth his salt would let someone like Jackie keep that ring talking about "when you look at that ring be reminded you passed up something great" She literally doesn't even care bro...😂
@@emanx222 I don't think jackie is a good person. She defiantly fucked up big by not leaving marshal sooner. I think she knew that marshal was not the right fit for her but she kept going because of the reason she stated. She really wanted it to work. She was gaslighting herself into thinking she wanted a health relationship. When a women is that broken and can't see past their own faults they question themselves but have no way of really fixing themselves because they never had to be put in that position. Also like what's marshal going to do? Do you really think he can just take the ring back? If Jackie wants to keep the ring there is not much he can do other than what he did. He can't force her to give it back to him, unless he wants to go to jail for assault. He's not a doormat he just did the most grown up thing you can do. Don't argue, let it go and move on with your life, find the next girl that will appreciate your love. I will always respect Marshal because when he opened his eyes and saw the truth he didn't grovel or go to her level and degrade her for not choosing him. He took it on the chin and left.
Also I dunno why Kwame is using his mum not understanding the process as an excuse when he was already on married at first sight in 2019 just wasn’t picked so he’s had multiple years to explain to her that marrying a white stranger is something he is determined to make happen 😂😂
Bliss’s dad is Persian and they don’t play about their kids. My husband is Persian and my in-laws have the same energy as daddy Shah. But also dude is saying people don’t take marriage seriously while sitting next to his 2nd wife, pipe down on the judgment dude 😅
I think Zack meant he hasn't said I love you before the show, not before Bliss, which is why he followed explaining that coming into the show he knew he'd have to change and open up which is why he made a connection with multiple people (meaning Irina and Bliss)
As a therapist watching this, I agree it's a slippery slope. If two couples return to a different connection in the pods after seeing them, what's the point? To call Jackie insecure is not totally accurate. It looks like she has some family trauma. No excusing Jackie's actions and the texting between her and her friends. Marshall deserves better, but I'm always protective of someone who needs therapy but instead goes on a reality dating show. She's with Josh because there is no pressure to get married; that's what she said she wants.
@@timwhatley7522 sure the show wanted to pay for my services and to provide a list of therapists. But it's unethical to solicit potential clients; that's not our role
Bliss should have never said yes. I’m over her and this second choice thing. Like you said yes. You’re going to hold on to that forever? Why say yes to just keep bringing it up and wanting to give him a hard time? Should have just said no and opted to continue dating until you no longer felt insecure about how you two came to be.
The disrespect when she said she'll keep the ring! I'm glad Marshall said, "You know what, fine" and didn't dwell on it, though. He just wanted to get out of that situation as fast as possible. What a mess!
Another super insightful and great video from you, James!!! Sooo much happening this season, esp. in the last episodes! Definitely rooting for Tiff and Brett, I think they have such a huge chance of making it...although the editing sows a tiny bit of doubt, for suspense i guess...Chelsea and Kwame, Oh my lord!!! That man is not into that woman at all...I personally like Chelsea, she seems genuine and kind to me, but why on Earth can't she see Kwame's huge hesitation?! Oh no! I guess it's her desire to believe in her own dream or fantasy... and also Kwame tries to disguise his strong doubts with smiling as much as he can. I guess it's his personality, but man, be more honest with this woman! be more direct for once in your life! Micah and Paul super boring...*yawn*... Jackie, oh God, so unable to accept a good man for her life - much therapy needed; Marshall dodged a bullet for sure! and finally, Bliss and Zack seem cute - so glad she stood up to her father's mega hyper pessimism and even antagonism...they could make it. So excited to see the final episodes and the reunion! And looking forward to your next video about that!!! Cheers!!! ^.^🙏
Did y'all see Jackie's friend has released the text messages between her and Josh? They were talking the whole show so she was never into Marshall and was cheating the whole time. 😢
@@wellingtonuzamere3511 I always thought the hate was not warranted for the other two. I really never thought something done on reality show should ruin a person’s life.
I understand why Marshall did not want to wait until the morning. She would have been gone before he even got up. So, he would have had to go the entire day, being unable to focus or think about anything except whether or not this woman wants to be with him. When she got home, after Marshall had made a wonderful dinner, she still would have avoided it...she's tired from work...tired of the conversation...he's giving her a headache...yada yada yada....she didn't want him after the party and she should have just said so and then went to bed...
My prediction is actually that kwame says yes at the alter but they break up by the reunion. Tiff and Brett say yes, Michael says yes Paul says no, bliss and Zach are a toss up. I think Zach will say yes and depending on her mood bliss may say yes or no
Jackie is horribly immature and definitely not ready for marriage. Marshall is young and truly awesome...he will be fine. Zack and Bliss..I think yes. Paul and Micah a definite no. Brett and Tiffany...oh I hope yes! Kwame and Chelsea...I think maybe yes...he had his family there!
Agreed. Except Kwame is not ready for marriage. Chelsea and him are not well suited for eachvother . Somebody wrote that Kwame was years ago on some other dating show. I think his using this show mostly for getting famous.
.. there are a few things you don't say out loud to your partner or one can choose different terms. But I would never recover, no matter how much I love the dude , from being called a "project". There's just something about that which makes you feel your partner is looking down on you and you ain't good enough. Yes we can say its 90% Jackie's inputs that doomed the relationship, but Marshall himself has mistepped. He created an illusion of who Jackie and the relationship was supposed to be - not fully in reality
He misspoke and apologised right after. This was also after his partner called his masculinity into question and was super aggressive towards him. I actually think he handled everything really well. Calm and collected. She is unhinged and very toxic. She is a mess! He dodged a bullet and will be just fine.
Sooo not shocked about Jackie. When I saw her in the pods talking I knew instantly that something was up. She instantly sounded like someone who talks a big talk but under it all is remarkably wounded. And instead of being humble and introspective, about her pain, she takes it out on others (especially men) under the guise of being a “strong woman”. And wants a man who treats her the same way. Super toxic. Not a fan.
She gives fatal attraction vibes 😅 today I realized that lady is completely delusional shes just staring in his eyes in awe of him, as he’s confronting her about her attitude 😂lol Cringiest thing I’ve ever seen.😖🤯
I just love how Chelsea loves Kwame. She so whole heartedly loves him. In relationships love is not always equal and sometimes one person love more. I think kwame's love is not as strong as Chelsea but i think it will blossom. I think they handle conflict the best. I think they actually have potentially the best relationship.
I liked Jackie during the pods time, but she showed her true colors afterwards. I mean, she was between these 2 guys in the pods (Netflix didn’t show a lot of this triangle as they did with Micah-Kwame-Paul); so I would understand if right after she met Marshall she was still not satisfied with her choice. I think after Mexico we started to see she was not 100% on board. But NEVER she mentioned the reason was Josh. Then, obnoxious Josh appeared in the scene and suddenly Jackie finds her reason. So now is because “she was always confused between Marshall and Josh”? That “she choose wrong “? For me this is BS, she is not used to have a stable relationship, she isn’t ready for commitment, she wasn’t sure about marriage from day one and she disguised that with the “feelings” for Josh. At one point she even said to Marshall that her limit was when he wanted to talk and she wanted to sleep the night of Chelsea’s party. BS! She was having issues long before that. I mean, it’s understandable that she’s not ready. What seems sneaky for me is the fact that she picked out reasons to justify that later, when it would be way better to say that since the beginning and avoid all this.