Jake Luhrs and Therapist React to Snuff (Live) Corey Taylor 

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This video is from six years ago(2017). The link below is the one y’all are talking about. The link below is from 12 years ago. Shortly after Paul Gray died. m.ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-r6VftcpePOg.html&pp=ygUKU251ZmYgbGl2ZQ%3D%3D

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I saw Corey do an acoustic evening at Wasted Space at the Vegas Hard Rock in summer 2010, almost immediately after Paul died, it wasn't recorded but it should've been. Corey got thru the song but had to compose himself for several moments afterwards.

“My love was punished long ago, it took the death of hope to let you go”. You cannot get better than that

I take that line as a mental vaccine. A reminder of what happened to me before, so I don't make that mistake ever again. Because I know I'm stupid enough to do it again if I don't have that reminder.

When my marriage was ending and I listened to this song I heard that line and it hit hard. That's the position I was in. All the fights we had worked through and all the pain I had rationalized as worth pushing through. Until then. I was done because I knew there was no hope of this being a good and healthy relationship. That's when I knew it was time to end it.

Friend ship is more important then money memories is all we got to take in the grave 🪱🐺🦇🕸️🕷️

Was so hauntingly beautiful hearing everyone singing it ... kinda sad too that we all felt it on some level.

My line is I only wish you weren't my friend then I could hurt you in the end. God I still love him even tho I hate him and I can't hurt him or be horrible because of that. (15 year relationship)

I would also recommend reacting to the original "Bother" video, by Corey's other band, Stone Sour.

Dude don't be ashamed because you cried I'm a thrash metal genera metal head and this song cut into me like no other ever and for someone who hadn't cried maybe a handful of times in a ten year period was brought to tears alone In my bedroom by myself and I try and think about myself as being harder than $5 worth of jawbreaker but this song had that effect on me like none before or after it's like a knife twisting while inside of you while cutting deep into your core!

@@user-od6bc1ym4xNo worries, I never said I was ashamed to cry.

Crying is good. Never be ashamed of that. And also you are not alone 🫂

Yeah, I was really excited when Taylor was going to do with Jake. Its an important song in the Slipknot community and I want us to respect that. Always here for the care of others. -The Video Editor

​@@HeartSupport You all on the team are so amazing. Getting Jake in on this is incredible as well. Would love to see you guys reach out to Corey himself as he released a video a week or so ago admitting he is struggling with his mental health. Slipknot and Stone Sour have been with me through the hardest points in my life. Thank you for everything you are doing.

@@HeartSupport keep up with the fantastic work that you're doing. Its very much appreciated folks .Cheers 👏

@@eyespyyourspy1328You are 100% spot on with this. It would be amazing to see him involved in a video.

This song is slowly being inked into my skin in different lines and accompanying pictures. For me, it's a story of friends buried, love lost, a relationship I never had with a father that was there but never present. Snuff is by far maybe not my all time favorite song, but the most significant song I've ever related to my life. Every time I hear it, I can close my eyes and take a trip through everything I've ever been through

I feel you brother! Being it divorce of my Parents as a child, bad breakups or a breakup I couldnt get over when I was a young adult Corey and Slipknot was always the thing that kept my mind from breaking. Coreys ability to feel and express pain, anger hope etc in his vocals and music is such a powerful ability but also Deamon he battles for himself. I hope he feels how much this is meaning for so many people he helped to put in words in sounds what we feel but mostly us men cannot or dont feel are allowed to express.

Yes! My son learned to play my fave Slipknot songs to cheer me up. 🤘

For me its "It took the death of hope to let you go."

It does hit hard

Never give up! We all deserve to be happy!

@@paulthirdeye2329 You can be alone AND happy..... just sain' why anyone should get hurt over and over again voluntarily....

Heartsupport is a nonprofit founded by Jake ;)

From ThriceTheThird: @jeremylong7533 Thank you for sharing with us what you are going through. I'm sorry that your relationship seems to be under a lot of stress right now. If you ever want to share more with us. Feel free to let it out. <3

I survived leaving a 25 year relationship best thing I did was walk away. I'm so much happier in my life without that relationship but I definitely get the wanting to stay it's just not worth it in the long term

From Micro: @jeremylong7533 It's impressive how songs can resonate with our heart differently depending on what we are going through, or what our life looks like at a given time. With what you describe regarding your relationship with your girlfriend, I imagine this music in particular must echo deeply some of the ways you've been feeling. The sensation of distance being created, the grief that piles up, the raw honesty filled up with both sadness and anger at the same time. It's a brutal, honest message about one's heart, and even though there is something of a relief to have those emotions put into music, it releases a lot of the pain too at the same time. I'm sorry you've been feeling similar things, friend, and that your relationship with your girlfriend has been difficult lately. It is so hard when the connection you have with very person you love seems to be impacted by pain and frustration. It's like something that is supposed to elevate you and make you feel safe becomes a place of hurt and burdens to carry with you. Five years of life spent together is a very significant amount of time, and I would imagine that the perspective of seeing what you've built together breaking down must be awfully painful. It's the kind of situation that can easily bring its share of helplessness to your heart, and it's certainly difficult to not surrender to it. I am personally in a relationship of 13 years now with my partner, and over the years there's surely been a couple of times when we've felt enstranged from each other, and like we would be touching some issues that felt unsolvable at the time. The stress and heartache it created in me wasan awfulexperience. I had this voice in the back of my mind that would keep making me thinkthat the worst could happen - a separation -, which I would have definitely not been prepared for. My heart goes out to you as you navigate this rollercoaster of emotions somehow. I don't know your context of course, but the weight of this situation is felt through your words here. Of course challenges and more tumultuous times are part of any relationship, but it hits differently when it's about *your* relationship directly. I don't know the specifics of what you are going through, but I do hope that you'll have both the possibility to discuss openly and respectfully, in a way that will allow you to heal and progress together. Sometimes, romantic relationships get stronger by walking through the fire together. In any case, you absolutely deserve some relief, some positive change, some healing, and not to feel like being stuck in some kind of rut. I wish you all the best moving forward and hope for you to find peace and healing from this. You matter, friend.

I would have recommended scars or bother by stone sour

@holycegaming4367 I try to sway away from the songs that are most commonly played on the radio. Can't get a pure reaction from music that is popular and played on every Rock station in America. I know most people don't listen to the radio which I find sad. I wanted to be a radio DJ, but as I came to the age where that was a feasible career it became a career on the verge of being extinct due to digital music downloads and streaming music services like Spotify.

From tromboness: @lisawilladsen8702 Thank you for sharing! It sounds like experiences from your past have made it difficult for you to believe that you deserve beneficial and healthy relationships. Settling for less than ideal seems okay, but you do recognize things could be better. I get the sense that you are feeling consigned to this, either dealing with the loneliness or take whatever you're given. Even if people have ran away in your past, you deserve to have people in your life that will be there for you thick and thin. There will be people that can provide the relationships you need and can help you thrive. It might time some time and effort, but I hope you'll be able to find those people. If you are struggling to find those people IRL, you can also find friendships here with HeartSupport's community. We will be here when you need us. If you ever would like to share more of your experience and/or struggles, please come to our anonymous forum: forum.heartsupport.com/ There are always people here to hear you and support you. Hold Fast.

From Malig3: @lisawilladsen8702 Hey there, Thank you for sharing with us and being vulnerable. You matter, and you deserve to live a happy and fulfilling life. Experiencing people neglecting you at a young age is so difficult and a feeling I can really relate to. Everything you said really resonates with me, so I want you to know you are not alone. The fact that you notice you tend to settle for just "ok" tells me that you know, deep down, that you deserve way more. I know it can be difficult to feel like you deserve more for yourself when, in the past, people have not shown you exceptional care. Something that always helps me is to remember who I am as a person and what I bring to the table. I want to encourage you to try journaling or practicing gratitude by writing every morning. This has really helped me get to know myself and see that I deserve better for myself. I want you to know that your past does not define you and that you should always expect "exceptional," because that is what you deserve. If there is anything else you want to share or discuss, please reply in this thread. We are here to support you in any way we can <3

From Micro: @lisawilladsen8702 Yes, you hit the nail on the head by describing how this vicious cycle works. You were hurt and felt betrayed by people you looked up to, as they didn't reflect to you all the love, care and presence you deserved to see in your life. Experiencing this type of hurt is so brutal, and it makes completely sense that, to this day, you'd prefer to lower your expectations of others rather than being disappointed and hurt all over again. It feels like you can't ask for more or you would lose it anyway, so you accept what you have, even if it is not as loving, caring and nurturing as you deserve and need. This is a very strong way to protect yourself, and it's understandable to settle for what is okay rather than running after what would feel exceptional. When it comes to relationships, it feels sometimes like the risk is not worth taking anymore, for the pain you've been through was too deep already. You absolutely deserve *great* rather just *good*, friend. You deserve to develop and embrace nurturing and supportive relationships, while also healing and finding closure from the wounds that you've been carrying for so long. It was not fair to be abandoned, it was not your fault, and it was not the reflection of how worthy and how beautiful you are. You are a unique treasure in this world that people allowed to know should honor and respect - always. Sending hugs and peace your way. :heart:

Such a powerful line.

From djstarion: @ferjam7489 Age IMO is just a number. I'm going on 43 years old, and I feel like I've only truly lived the last 10 years. The first 33 were kind of a wash. When it comes to purpose in life, sometimes you don't go out and find it, it finds you. I would try and focus right now on a couple things: What makes you feel happy? What makes you feel whole? That can give you kind of your starting point. Think of life as opening up the maps on your phone. You put in your starting point, which in this case could be happiness, wholeness, or whatever you choose. And the destination is purpose. You'll see you get many routes, to the same destination. Along your journey there will be roadblocks, detours, slowdowns, but ultimately you'll make it where you need to be. Just remember, it's not about the destination, it's about the journey to that destination.

From madsssk: @ferjam7489 What you are feeling is completely valid, and you are not alone! We as individuals find ourselves seeking more out of life than what seems to be "normal," feeling lost in the rocky process along the way at times. With these feelings, I would tell you to focus on these three things: Reflect on your passions, explore new activities, and set small goals for yourself. In considering the activities/subjects that interest you, or even trying something that can open up unexpected doors, breaking down larger aspirations can help you create a sense of accomplishment to build momentum toward something larger - a more defined, lively, purpose. Life is full of endless opportunities, so to you, I say, take as many as possible! Even if the journey is not ideal, remember that the destination will be amazing. Good luck!

From sbrent: @ferjam7489 Age can be a tricky thing especially with all the pressure that society places on a person to reach a certain milestone at a given age, the great thing is that as long as you are living you can always discover your purpose, just look deep within yourself in find that thing that wakes you up in the morning, that thing you cannot stop talking about. Good luck with finding purpose because you have so much left to give!

From Malig3: @ferjam7489 There is often so much pressure to have everything figured out and to be noticed by others in order to feel meaningful and valued. Especially when it comes to age, we can feel rushed. I would encourage you to go out and try new things that excite you. You are never too old to go on new adventures, try new hobbies, make new friends, and more. I would urge you to say "yes" to any and all opportunities that come your way! Finding a purpose in life looks different to everyone; don't be discouraged by others' journeys. Instead, use it as inspiration to find and fall in love with your own. Good luck! <3

From Micro: @ferjam7489 Yea, it's hard to feel like somehow too much time has passed and it would be too late to try differently or even explore new paths in your life. It's like you would have had chances before but are now pushed to your limits and wonders if it's even worth it to try. To be fair, finding our purpose in life is a huge question and quest, certainly at any age too. Sometimes our journey doesn't look like what we wanted it to be, and it feels like it's tool ate to do something about it. If anything, and maybe as a starting point, I would certainly try to challenge this thought that you'd be too old to figure this out or to feel more whole in your life. Just because this thought could potentially push you to sabotage yourself, or miss opportunities you would have seized otherwise. I think, no matter how old you are, finding our purpose is something deeply attached to the mindset we try to develop - and preserve. Personally I don't know if I have any purpose and I have yet to figure it out if that's the case. But I like to try to embrace life as it comes when the big questions feel too overwhelming. To remain curious and open to new experiences too, while acknowledging the wounds I carry. There are times when I would feel a sense of purpose when I work at a job I like and seems to make a difference in some people's lives. Then at other times, my sense of purpose will be contained in one moment, or one vision - like seeing the smile of the person I love the most. It's something that makes me feel like life is suspended, and I don't need anything more than seeing this joy in them. It probably sounds a bit cheesy... but all of this to say, that sometimes it can also be a matter of perspective. Eternity, meaning, completude and wholeness can be found in simple things, as much as greater objectives. It can be flexible, like an ever-changing experience, depending on where you look at, and what you choose to value. All in all, it's never too late to be on a road towards more self-discovery. It's never too late to start, never too late to continue either. :heart:

This is hard, a loved the one that chose the same path.😢 it not an easy thing. When it's ripped away...bestfriend...or family...

From DyllonKG: @Hunter17171000 Hey friend. Thank's so much for venting about this - for reaching out. Grieving someone who's still alive must be a heavy burden to bare - www.loom.com/share/10746eb8b1514902944322d2f0381ec3?sid=31c3e977-eda8-4351-b240-511ca163aa11

From jobr: @dwayneb5118 Infidelity is such a tough thing and can leave you with understandably difficult emotions. Letting yourself feel those feelings and just sob when you need is probably so cathartic in the healing process. I am so sorry that you were betrayed like that and had to go through that.

From bmao: @dwayneb5118 Hey, thank you for reaching out. I can't express how sorry I am for your situation. I can't imagine the pain that you must feel going though not only the infidelity, but the betrayal as well. While it may not seem like it, there are people in the world that love you, and all of us in HeartSupport really do love you and appreciate you for sharing your heart. If you'd ever like to discuss your emotions more, or just have a listening ear, we are here for you and we truly care about you.

From runner12: @dwayneb5118 I’m so sorry that happened to you. I can totally understand why this song would make you cry. If you ever need a place to unload remember we are here for you!

From sangasugarbog: @dwayneb5118 I'm so happy that you're beginning to recover from this. I hear you and I feel your pain. We are here for you and we all love you.

From lu2910: @dwayneb5118 I'm so so sorry you had to go through that, it breaks my heart to hear how much you're hurting from this. Please know that you are not alone and I see how brokenhearted you feel. You deserve so much better than such betrayal. If you ever need to talk, you are surrounded by so much love