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I keep coming back to this song. It feels like catharsis, melancholy, and loss in a single package. It's like thinking about any conversation about losing faith and every person that you are afraid to disappoint with that truth. It's just...everything.
What's the old saying? "Country Music is just three chords and the truth"? When you make music that's right for you, it's going to be right for other people.
I initially thought this song was about gaslighting his wife for infidelity, but now that i know it’s about breaking from religion it’s very relatable as someone raised mormon
"You say my heart was never true. That may say more about you." That's it right there. That line gets me because it's so honest. Way to go Rhett. Can't wait to hear more songs from your album.
Dude, Rhett, singing country music, is not something I ever expected but the world needs it!! Thank you so much for sharing your soul through this music!
@@Jessica-yv9gn Fair point. To be honest, I haven't really followed their music over the years so I'm not super familiar with their likes and dislikes. This, for me, was a new and welcome surprise!
I’ve been listening to this on repeat. As someone who has been shunned by family for religious differences, it speaks to me. Thank you for sharing your truth, Rhett!
I'm so pleased to see rhett expressing himself artistically at this level, singing from the heart about something that really matters to him. He sounds fantastic.
Saw the thumbnail and was like, "That looks a lot like Rhett," watched the lil preview and was like, "Wait, that IS Rhett. What is happening here?!" Thought it was another silly music thing or tie in to something. Couldn't have been more surprised. Really great stuff.
I believe that this demographic of ex-religious people is really a forgotten group of people, people don’t realize just how painful it can be, this album is going to do a lot of good in this world, and it might even save a few people along the way, and I think it might shock the world to see just how many people out there identify with the message of this album.
Couldn't agree more. This group of people are actually way more common than we may think but are afraid to come out. If this type of music starts to spread it will help loads of people.
It's really not forgotten. There are tons of resources out there for people in this group. The recovering from religion foundation is a great place to start with tons of things to help people who are dealing with religion caused trauma
100%. Rhett is saying exactly what us ex-Christians want to. Our heart was true, but the more we dug and the more honest we were, it just didn't ring true anymore. Thanks Rhett and Jessie too 😘 know it was hard. Hubby and me have been there too. xxx
I'm in my 30s grew up loving country music, but left religion when I was around 18. I really miss the social aspect of everything. It's lonely out here for the non religious. I wish we could have the same sort of things available to us like youth group every week and camps without all the dogma and ideologies.
Love seeing Rhett so serious, now that I know he's such a deep thinker/deep feeler, it feels so genuine to see him exploring deeper topics. 😊 great song.
You looked so passionate, especially through the chorus... This is going to be such a beautiful glimpse into your heart and soul, and as a long time supporter I couldn't be more proud and excited. Besides what the lyrics and message will all entail, your voice is as wonderful as always ❤️
I don't want to swipe the notification away 🥺 I'm really glad you saw both this comment and my tweet earlier about this. Seems silly I'm sure, but it just hits my soul a little different knowing my words reached you and hopefully made you smile.
The line "you say my heart was never true, that might say more about you" hits so hard because I am still a christian but I don't go to church because of many reasons, but because of that, my family always torments me and says I'm not a "true" christian, or I'm falling out of faith because I don't go to church. And every time, I just wonder, like as a christian, how can they say who and who isn't?
Amen. I feel you. I'm also a Christian but struggle so hard with people who care more about determining if "your heart was true" or not, rather than just what it means to love each other like Christ. Periodt. The other stuff isn't our business anyway.
We're told in scripture that we will know if someone is a true believer by what they show us in their work and decision making/lifestyle and in Galatians We're told to judge righteously (not self-righteously and hateful as some would)
Some people might understandably not be big country fans but Rhett is harkening back to country’s blues era; it’s a genre used to tell personal stories in a relatable manner. Specifically, his religious deconstruction and how it’s affected him personally and socially. It’s folksy, because we’re the folks who get it.
i’m not a big fan of country music, but this song has stolen my heart. Rhett is such a talented guy, his singing is great and the lyrics really resonate with me. i’m definitely going to be listening to this on repeat haha
I also think the usual association with country=religious is at play here as well, using a genre associated with christianity to portray a story and experience of leaving the church feels particularly powerful.
I’m not much of a country music person but I truly love this song! The message is great as well. Very relatable. Please please please tell me you’re releasing this on vinyl! This would be a great addition to my record collection.
@@ambers. Bluegrass is typically faster, doesn't usually have drums, and has a lot of close harmony and instruments taking turns taking solos. I'd say this is track is in the country genre, sounds a bit 70's, akin to something Merle Haggard might have done if you updated that sound for the 2020's.
Damn! I was expecting this to be something comedic, but instead I got slapped in the face by an absolute masterpiece. The music, the vocals, the lyrics, all incredible. I can't wait for the rest of the album. Amazing job, Rhett!
My sister shared the song with me and I saw Rhett and got my funny bone lubed up. Somewhere further than I should have I figured it out and was backtracking to see if I missed something.
"when I say I didn't leave cause I was hurt" Exactly. I'm not "church hurt." I just don't believe it's true anymore. A world of difference in one simple lyric. This album is healing so much for me.
It's clever, I'll give them that. If you paint people who realize you teach BS as simply blinded by emotions or butthurt, you can dismiss them calling you out
one keyword from his deconstruction for me was: ecumenical… When I first became a believer, i remember that spark of feeling that universal, unconditional love for someone, for the world, for all of reality… it was almost childlike, and so special. The word ecumenical reminded me of the hefty layers of “veil” (reminded me of old testament separation of man with God, at least how i was taught) that seem to separate us from something larger than any system (or body of churches…) mankind can create… time for a replay
I feel like my faith was tied to trauma. Because my family didn't believe in God then easter my aunt invites us to go to church and 4 days later we get in a car crash we shouldn't have survived; so we believed it was God that saved us. Now many years later I'm the only one who has left the church, but I left because I got hurt and looked into religion and realized it was a bunch of bs
Omg the “you say my heart was never true, but that may say more about you” really makes me think of when you talked about in your podcast how people will say that people who left Christianity must have never been true Christian’s at all. THIS SONG IS SOOOOO GOOD!!!!!
As someone who grew up super religious and realized in their teens they were trans AND gay. This feels like everything I’ve ever tried to say but was silenced from saying. I don’t really count myself religious anymore but I can honestly say that I don’t know what’s out there. I only know my life and me. The line “I know it shouldn’t matter if you take my word” that part his me like a tank everytime because my religious family have always said the world hurt me and made me feel this way but it’s not that way. I love myself and I wish they could see that love themselves. Thank you James/Rhett. As a mythical beast for the last 10 years this feels like coming home. GMM has always been my home. You guys have basically raised me since Highschool and now I’m getting married and this song is welcomed into my life as well. I cry everytime I hear it. It gives me healing tears.
Thank you for sharing that💚 you should be proud of yourself. Lots of love and light to you my friend. Congrats on the wedding, and congrats on the adventures you have taken! And too many more✨
As a mythical beast for over 9 years, I am SO PROUD OF YOU and cannot express how much I respect you for sticking to your truth and chasing something you're passionate about on your own... KUDOS.
So proud, is that normal? I just see this as such a step forward for Rhetts career, his journey in life and music. What a privilege it is to witness. What a mythical journey
@@BOOGiNS what is this even supposed to mean? Rhett is talented, and in a position where he is able to follow his passion for music. Whats so wrong about keeping your ego well fed? Text isnt a very good conduit for emotions, so I don't want to blindly assume your intentions behind this statement. Are you bitter about something?
Okay, many people here saying "I'm not really into country, but...". Rhett, I am into country, and this is great. I'm not saying this as a fan who will support anything you do just because I like what you do with Link. I was skeptical when I clicked on this video this morning, but this song has been in the back of my mind all day.
I'd love country if not for all of the racism lurking in the back of my mind 😭 like I just wanna enjoy a love song without thinking about the deep south and the confederacy
@@lacie562 then do exactly that? There's racist in all genres of music pointing at country like it's exclusively southern and is just for confederates or something is kind of ignorant? Misguided maybe hate to be harsh granted sure alot of confederates/southerns listen to country but it's not exclusivity
@@alexenochss umm I didn't say that did I? Just that it reminded me of it ... because of the actually racist background. Like I'm not just making this up??
@@lacie562 country doesnt have the racist background you think it does, it was created by and for working class folk and has much of its roots in BIPOC music and culture, i suggest having a look into it :)
@@lacie562 As the comment above stated^ and another addition to add on was it was largely supported by African Americans as it was directly influenced by the blues (: but yes the music was made for the hard working lower and middle class to get them by a days work and to sing about it to pass the time and have something to relate too. Those that spun racist ideas into it only used its popular platform and disgraced country music! It also started in the 20th century
As someone whos deconstructed and left religion, music that represents deconstruction is almost non existent. It's nice to find someone who can put those emotions into music. It's relatable and I appreciate it.
I’m interested in hearing the rest of the album and hearing Rhett’s journey in stepping away from Christianity. While I’m still a Christian myself, it’s not my place to criticize someone because of their experiences. All I will do is learn about Rhett’s experiences and be open to different ways of thinking.
If you haven't already listened, Rhett and Link both spoke about their spiritual deconstructions on their podcast, Ear Biscuits. Episodes 225, 226, 227, 229, 230, 232, 275 & 276. 226 & 227 are the main ones, but the others deal with it too.
Very true, I mean even the Bible says alot of organized religion will have many people in it that aren’t true to God and actually stray away from the true word.
When he said “I don’t think it’s true” my jaw actually dropped. I’ve been really struggling with my faith for the past few years and hearing his experiences has really helped, but this song encapsulates the feelings of not believing in a religion that was once your whole life.
same. i was raised in a very similar church setting as him and link, and i had begun to struggle a few years back, but always found a way to justify and sef identify my self as "christian" because thats who i "was". as in that was my whole identity, but when i started to question the religion, my entire foundation came under fire, who was i if not a christian, and i think thats kind of the point of it, it has to shape itself early as your whole world or else you might realize that its stolen your independence. but thats the appeal of religion, it gives you an out when that nagging existential dread tries to settle in, a clean blanket answer to all of life's mystery's. it took the deconstruction of faith videos to finally put into words what i was feeling, that i was finally ok having questions that couldn't be answered in my life; in fact it even preferable than having an answer that couldn't be questioned. i wish i just knew how empty i was going to feel when it first happened.
Religion is a simple answer to a complex, complicated question. Unfortunately most are happy with any answer that makes em feel warm and special inside.
@@evilmonkey2184 people who say "God made me who I am" I understand why they feel that and hell to an extent they have a point. But that doesn't mean it's real, it just means they lived with a set of rules and they followed them and that's why they are the way they are. No different than why people in the US find it okay to have multiple children while in other countries one is the max. You are who you are by the rules that are set upon you
There's no reason or evidence to believe other than growing up with it or wanting to "belong" to a certain "community" right? I think by this point in history, most people who believe in a higher power or powers are some kind of agnostic.
The church has hurt so many millions of people. I wish there were artists like you that have the courage to make songs about their trauma and hurt. It really heals the rest of us. Thank you for being so brave.
The more I listen to this song the more I think this is Rhett writing partially from the perspective of his friend Ben that passed away when they were younger. Ben was no longer religious and Rhett and link both talked about how they were in denial about it and kept wanting to pray for him and he continually insisted he didn't believe.
As someone who is currently stuck in the Mormon church, I appreciate this song so much. I can’t wait until the day I can leave and voice these exact feelings to my parents but for now I have this album that heals my heart a little more each time I listen to it. And for that I truly an grateful thank you so much Rhett❤
You may have heard of it but Tyler glens midnight is a really good mormon specific faith crisis song and trash. I can’t imagine what that’s like i left when I was 19 and it was hard I’m routing for you
I’m coming to this song after leaving Mormonism. This song is amazing. I’m getting ready to have an open conversation with my parents about it, and this song is speaking my actual thoughts. Love it
This is beautiful, Rhett. As someone who has struggled-and in some ways is still struggling-with their faith, I can understand how confusing it all is. You managed to capture this heady experience through your music, and put into words something I’ve had such a hard time expressing. The wonderful melody hooked me in, but the message is making me stay. Really stoked for your upcoming releases and excited for where this music journey takes you! ❤
Despite not being into country as a genre, I've had this song on repeat all morning. Between the lyrics, the actual vibes, and being able to relate to the words? It's wonderful and I can't wait to hear the rest of the album.
If you are into more of this kind of music you should check out Just Let Go by Sturgill Simpson…. and Feathered Indians by Tyler Childers. Two wonderful artist who Rhett acknowledges as influences in his Spotify bio
well thats what real country music is. country music is poetry set to melody the same way hip hop is poetry set to rhythm. if the words have meaning the song will be good always.
Reminds me of The Mavericks...I don't like too many country artists, but this sounds good. Not mass-produced, copy-paste "pop" country that floods radio nowadays...I know I'm late, but glad I got to hear this.
I’m in love with this song, and I can find myself relating to it too, having grown up in a Christian family and just not having the same feelings as they do. Rhett, you have such a beautiful voice and creativity. I thank you so much for sharing your intimate story with us. I’m looking forward to the future album from James and the Shame. 💞
How are we not talking about that visual transition between the first chorus and second verse?!? 🥺😍😍 This should be labeled as an official music video and not just a lyric video. It's literal perfection.
Not gonna lie this took me 2 listens a whole day apart to really take it in. And at first I wasn't a fan but the second time I listened there was a storm outside and my headphones were in. And this song took me somewhere very emotional, I was worried the production would be overdone. And as many apprehensions I brought and expectations and hopes countering them. This is FIRE. I really feel the emotion and love that as a single from the album it gives you a large range of vocals. Falsetto and those country staple low growls. But at the end of the day you're not asking me to agree, you just need me to belive, and I'm whole heartily awaiting the full album.
I don't usually make comments on videos, but damn it if this work of art doesn't deserve some appreciation then nothing does. Rhett, I know that you will likely never see this, but you, your amazing team and your hilarious partner have been creating an incredibly meaningful and important part of my life for years now, and now that you're branching out of your Mythical Tree to explore a different side of your creativity, I wish you nothing but the best. In all future endeavours, I'm sure that you will succeed, flourish, and thrive and that the history that you craft for yourself and your family will be a truly renowned affair. In all honesty, thank you. And Good Luck.
Wow. Long time fan of the duo. Long time fan of the man. Wasn't expecting to come hear and find a tear. Love it. The presentation. The suit. The name. The music. All of it. 10/10 across the board.
I'm not a religious woman, I never have been, so I could never imagine the feeling that comes with losing your faith. The beauty I find with this song though is that lyrically, I can find it relatable when compared to my own life experience. Whilst the meaning may be different for me than it is to others there's still a meaning to be found. Music truly is the language of the soul.
I can just say as a fellow Southern man raised in the Church (multiple generations of preachers and pastors in my family) who later became an atheist, can I just say how much of a damn HERO Rett McLaughlin is for anyone like me. On Ear Biscuits and in this album, he spoke to me and my heart in a way no one else ever, ever has. Thank you man. Seriously.
Thank you for doing this. Country isn't typically my favorite type of music, but you really hit the nail on the head with this topic. I left a hyper fundamentalist Pentecostal church after 30 years inside, and that transition was rough, but it was the best decision I ever made.
Rhett, There is not many songs in this world that I can say touched my heart. This freaking punched my heart man. I just heard this song yesterday for the first time, I’m already singing every lyric to the top of my lungs. Every time I listen to it, I can feel myself beginning to tear up. Thank you for making this piece of art!
This song is so beautiful, it brings up so many feelings about when I left the Catholic church. I didn't think I had many feelings about it honestly but hearing this song really explained something I never could. "I just found some things I could not brush aside" hits hard each time. Well done Rhett, I'm excited to hear more!
@@C4rea yeah it's saying how he left and his family didn't believe him and rejected his choice. (His family actually didn't they apparently were supportive).
At first I thought the idea of Rhett doing a country album sounded kitschy but Rhett is really capturing what makes great country music or just great songwriting in general. He's being introspective and vulnerable and true to himself and it's most definitely not kitsch. Some people try to write songs that everyone can relate to and they make them generic and then no one really connects with it. Rhett is showing us here that to really connect with someone you have to write *from the bone" as a creative writing teacher I once had told me. The more personal you are when you're writing the deeper you're able to connect with the audience. Wonderful song and lyrics. Also the melody and guitar in the verses reminds me of a song from my teenage years that I loved by some temple pilots called "and so I know"
Thank you for giving people who have experienced religious trauma, especially in Christianity, a way to harness and understand our emotions more surrounding it. This song is beautiful and exactly what I needed 💕 thank you.
"But there goes my pride... with it's *_refrain_* that i be seen as justified" Took me a second to realize that there was a second use for the word *_refrain_* and I love the way Rhett incorporated that.
It's a hard morning for me to start anything, and this song is the first thing that helped me feel something. I cried buckets. I left my religion because of abuse and I've always felt like I'm a bad person. This song soothes. Thank you, Rhett. It's beautiful, and profound, and it feels it so genuine it resonates. I'm so glad this song is out here for everyone to hear.
I grew up watching some religious DVDs with Rhett and link, and when later in life I was struggling with my faith they released their deconstruction videos and it gave me such peace of mind. This song is so relatable and really helps people going through their deconstruction process. I will always be thankful for that podcast video
Tears stream down my face every time I listen to this song. Rhett and I are so much alike when it comes to leaving the Christian religion. I’m so proud of him for making his dream come true and I will always support him. Much love man
Even if you have no negative experience from religion, everyone can find something this song applies to. Beautiful job to the whole band, I can't wait to see what more yall put out 💕
Still an active and devout Christian here and I can definitely say that verse is taken out of context and misconstrued in a harmful way much too often. People get emotional when someone they care about, or especially those they truly hate, separate from God so they take verses like that and use them as a weapon against them. I hope you find truth within your time of reflection my friend, same with Rhett, love from a Christian man to you both and may God bless you, whether we agree or disagree!
Rhett, As someone who has lost faith and returned to it, I just wanted to say that your music truly speaks to me, just as it does to thousands of other people. It took me years of being on my own to come to terms with what I thought was right for me, and that is to just wish happiness to all those regardless of their gender, sexuality, race, or religion. Thank you for this song, and sharing all your experiences with us, the fans. You are truly amazing! We can't wait for the rest of the album! Positive vibes to you always, my friend!
I honestly thought he’d have a voice for Country. And to play it in a way reminiscent of 60’s and 70’s Country is the icing on the cake! Way to go Rhett! Keeping the old stuff alive 1 new song at a time!
This song hits something different…it reverberates through my soul, I appreciate what is being produced. I know it’s about a certain topic, but I can’t help but allow it to be about something more personal to me and I think that’s what is so genuine about it. I can’t wait to hear this album. If it is even a fraction of this song, it’s easily going to be my album of 2022. I’m proud of Rhett for bringing this into fruition.
So so so proud and excited about your Journey of spiritual deconstruction ❤️ I’m so ready for your full album and the rest of your songs. Your lyrics already hold a special place in my heart. As someone who also had a spiritual journey and questioned my faith and has come out the other end, and knows others with similar stories, this album is going to be so therapeutic. I can feel it ❤️ Lots of Love !
The more I listen to this, the more I love it. As a devote Christian, the “that might say more about you” line really connects me. I would never belittle someone else’s path, but so many “christians” are jumping at the bit to judge people choices. Looking forward to the rest of what you have to share ❤️
@@moonshot9510 because this belief is dangerous. It harmed me and leads to others harming other people. I try to stop people from hurting or being hurt.
@@SensitiveShellCollector so he's a dietitian now? I can eat right on my own, too. Don't need a made up god or the fear of hell to make me a good person.
I’ve listened to this song several times now. It speaks to me on a very deep level. Separating yourself from what you’ve learned and always believed to be true and coming to terms with the fact that you no longer believe them and see things differently is not easy and can be a long process especially when those around who do still believe can’t or won’t accept your evolving beliefs and feel you are betraying them. When in fact you really feel like you’ve been betraying yourself by not opening your mind sooner, because of confusion or even fear. Anyway can’t wait to hear the rest of the songs! Amazing work Rhett!
As someone who was formerly a part of the Christian cult, I’ve had trouble explaining what it feels like to leave, and this song absolutely broke me down. It made my conflicting feelings feel validated and understood. I will cherish this song for as long as I live
@@ExtremeWeatherGroup it's really, really not. Learn what the definitions of words are. You do offend literally billions of people by calling their way of life a cult because you disagree with it. The underlying foundation of the entire Christian belief is that it's a choice you're making. A cult doesn't allow choice or freedom. Certain sects and certain groups of people can be considered cults, but those are the outliers. And the majority of the time, they're not even Christians. They call themselves such, but then have a "prophet" or figurehead that goes against Christianity for their own gain. Normal, everyday Christians aren't in a cult. They aren't forced to stay anywhere, aren't forced to believe or do anything. It's a way of life that is your choice, and that choice is the underlying foundation of the belief. You take that away to become a cult, you can't call yourself Christianity.
@@yeahok5956 I'd like you to point out in my reply, anywhere, where I wasn't being calm. I'm not being combative. But "cult" is not a nice thing to label any group of people just because you disagree with their views. R&L haven't called anyone still a Christian, a cult member.
@@higglybiggly1174 it primarily looks like a cult because for vast majority of Christians and catholics there is somewhat forced beliefs. If you are gay and a Christian in most churches (because that's directly what it says in the bible) you have committed sin. Thus you are no longer welcomed to go to heaven (which ultimately is the main goal for Christians). Not to mention all the pick and choose in different Christianity "groups". Some of them follow the bible exactly who usually end up racist, homophobic, or limited to how they live their life. Next you have the people who decide they don't want to be homophobic, great! Now they aren't aligning to the bible. Lastly the people who are using Christianity as a stereotypical cult tool. Like when a leader convinced 900 people to commit suicide to go to heaven. You probably like to believe they did go to heaven because it sounds nicer. But according to the bible suicide is a sin so what is it?
Better late than never. I know Rhett can sing but i didn't know he made some video and singing in it. Just him. Went hwre after watching Ear Biscuit - Link's Embarrassing Moment at His Son College.
this song is great, visually, vocally and musically. i’m very proud and happy of rhett and i’m incredibly excited to see more from his solo music. beautifully written. to be able to know how you took your past, struggles and philosophy, and put them into music is so amazing. much love
His first country single (first single released period) and he’s already displayed better traditional country songwriting than 98% of country radio. Bravo Rhett 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Some might say he'll lose those Christian family values. Others might say he's simply refusing the command to "hate" his sons in comparison to God. Or I know, the Bible also says to love them. Maybe it just means love God more, cause "The Lord is a jealous one." Never trust a man who's jealous of a father's love for their children.
As someone who has deconstructed and really dug deep into my reasoning over the pandemic, this song and your story made me a little less alone in my decision. Living in a conservative part of Texas makes it extremely difficult to live my truth. Thank you.
As someone who left the LDS faith because of issues I couldn’t just ignore: thank you Rhett. Honestly. This song put it into words I couldn’t find. Thank you
I have very much enjoy learning more about Rhett. I have learned so much via Ear Biscuits and now your new song! This song will go with me on the road! It’s perfect for a drive. Love the lyrics! Keep creating Rhett! You are appreciated and respected. 😊
The lyrics really hit me hard. Put into the words that are always so hard to express and can take years to even find. I cried listening and getting to understand the whole background/meaning of the song. I wish I had this years before. When I struggled between holding onto and letting go of my beliefs.
As someone who is an active christian. I definitely see issues with the church, but not enough to leave. It's still a guiding light in my life and helps me to become a better person, but this is literally had been tears because I admire How brave you are to put yourself out there and tell the world how you really feel and then make such beautiful music. I'm not a country music fan really, but I'm genuinely excited to listen to the rest of the album!
Jesus himself was mad at the church, religion can be bad, it's true, but also religion is a very important part of people's lives. Don't feel bad, you can see the flaws and that's one step closer to fixing them than ignoring it.
sounds to me that you're a better person without that antiquated, hurtful dogma in your life. imagine what kind of person you could be cutting off that weighted tether completely.
@@r0ckbass true Christianity is about love entirely. That’s the root of it. Unfortunately people have distorted it and created church culture to spread their own horrific agendas. If this person is happy having belief in something bigger than themselves while acknowledging the faults of others and themselves, why discourage that? Believe it or not, some people enjoy having some direction in life and religion is that for many.
@@malanaisl It's really not. You should read the Bible. I have, cover to cover. Twice. Your interpretation tells me that you a much more compassionate and kind person than the religion and god that you've been taught to believe. But don't take my word for it. Go read it.
@@r0ckbass have read it and if you take every word literally that's the problem. Eve didn't actually eat a forbidden fruit she had sex. What I'm trying to say is you have to have a spiritual connection to whatever you believe in order to really understand it
The "When I say I didn't leave 'cause I was hurt, but there goes my pride, with this refrain that I be seen as justified" really spoke to me personally. A lot of times, when I tell people I used to be Christian but not anymore they expect me to have some story about how the church hurt me, or that a priest did something to me. For me, nothing bad happened, no one hurt me, I just slowly lost faith with time and after a lot of research into the religion, I no longer believe. For whatever reason people seem to have a hard time believing that I just lost faith, they want there to be some traumatic reason for me leaving, and because there is not one they then believe they have a duty to try and bring me back to the church.
At first I wasn’t sure if I could separate Rhett singing GMM songs from this, but by the end I felt like this took on its own feeling and domain- I really enjoyed it and look forward to more music from you Rhett!
What I love about this and what I love about both Rhett and Link's experience is that it describes the reality of so many people who leave the church and their faith slowly and quietly, as it stops making sense to them. While at the same time still being extremely painful both in reconciling that in your own heart and then living authentically around the people in your life who still believe and knew you before. This song, even in the calm cadence of it, is not angry or spiteful, it's gentle and it's loving. And I feel really at home in it.
it's so awesome to be a along for The view, learning through other's is beyond useful and these two are both very eye opening on so many life based thoughts
Man this song is beautiful and you can really feel the emotion in the music video. The line that gets me is “when i say i didn’t leave cause i was hurt”. So many people would ask me why i left the church and who hurt me. Leaving didn’t mean someone hurt me. Can’t wait for the album!
I loved this when it came out, but I think I shoved it in a pile aside and forgot, heard at the coffee shop last week and been stuck in my head since and this am I finally remembered what it was! banger.
I'm sorry for what you went through. Being a person, which I believe you are, who has always been genuine and true to themselves, even after going in a new direction, or possibly because of it, it must really really suck to be told "yeah you were just pretending all along". Screw that, that's horse scat. Love your commitment to inject positivity into this world however you can, blessings to you and yours.
The pain is palpable. Very emotional. Hits hard. This song is almost hypnotic for me. So much rings tue in this song that I can relate to my own experience in life.
I think this is why I listen to it as much as I do. Everytime I hear it, it reminds me of my own experiences, and it hurts in such a good way. This song is a masterpiece, and I wish it was more popular. I feel like so many people can relate.
The "you can pray, but i dont think its true line." Kills me... the switch from 'lets pray for them' to 'ill pray for you' is a pain that this song descibes so well. There is something about the pleading in this song that i keep coming back to. Rhett has always been so talented
