David Brooks is one of my favourite columnists from the NY Times. I read his columns each week and I watch him on the PBS TV Friday evening news show, also weekly. I'm glad that you like his book "How to know a person" too. Personally, I think I understand close friends and family more than his stated average of 35% because I am a good listener and pay attention to my friends and family.
I can see why he's your favourite columnist, he has such a captivating writing style that really draws readers in. I would agree that you are a great listener and definitely are above the 35% average!
Planning is good to do but real life often has a way of getting in the way and necessitating constant course corrections. Great video Jen and am looking forward to watching more of your videos. 🙂