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Japan: The most unhappy country? 

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@PepGuard-tp4ny
@PepGuard-tp4ny Месяц назад
The thing about competition is that there is always someone better than you and that can destroy you.
@justapickedminfan
@justapickedminfan Месяц назад
Something I noticed is that despite working longer hours, time use is not nearly efficient as in the US. Like, there is a lot of down time where you must pretend you're doing something worthwhile. It's like they value the idea of "looking productive" more than actually spending time productively.
@unrested
@unrested Месяц назад
You are completely right. In fact in some countries like Sweden and Norway who have implemented 4 day work weeks have shown large increases in efficiency as workers come in refreshed and ready to go full speed for 4 days
@Thing-vc2qm
@Thing-vc2qm Месяц назад
It's just amazing to see your life change over the years and hearing your thoughts once in a while. Whishing you and your family the best!
@nikkimontgomery6889
@nikkimontgomery6889 Месяц назад
Firstly, sincere congrats to your genius son, successfully battling in the arena of Japanese education! And, to his amazing Mom and Dad! I have lived in both Japan and Korea back in the 70s and 80s. Speak both languages at intermediate level, and did my Masters thesis field study at Seoul National University. But, sadly decided not to become an expat there….. I found the culture wonderful in so many ways, but inextricably bizarre in others. So I understand your analysis. The multi dimensional intensity of these societies conflicted with my American value system at an almost elemental level. It’s one of my greatest life regrets. Now that I’m retired, I may visit, but probably not. However, best wishes to you and your family. I’ve been following your channel for years - you are a forthright and talented young man!
@unrested
@unrested Месяц назад
Thanks a bunch for sticking with me for so long. I’ve heard Korea is even harder than Japan when it comes to testing and entrance exams. On top of it you still have a draft too right? I’ve even heard working as an English teacher in Korea is harder due to how strict the testing is for students
@AutomHatter
@AutomHatter Месяц назад
What a fascinating topic Scott. Love your videos!
@kikusama
@kikusama Месяц назад
This is why Prime Minister Shinzo Abe (RIP) passed the over hours law back when I was living in Japan. A lot of my Japanese friends were happy about it because they could go home. but I also know people were not happy it too. It was a way to cut back on the insane overtime people were doing.
@unrested
@unrested Месяц назад
He passed that but the percentage of business that actually followed through with restricted hours was comically low. Now everyone is back to the same 60 hour work weeks as well usually working on Saturdays too
@kikusama
@kikusama Месяц назад
@@unrested so sad 😞
@DylanJo123
@DylanJo123 Месяц назад
I wonder what those people who were not happy are thinking. Probably out of touch CEO or bigwigs that dont care about people's happiness, just profit
@kikusama
@kikusama Месяц назад
@@DylanJo123 surprisingly they were employees who felt the company would expect them to do the same work in less hours. . . causing more stress. I heard from a friend that when they got to the max number of hrs, they would clock out and still work the rest of the hours not clocked in. They didn't want the company to get in trouble. The mind set in Japan for some people is just hard to change.
@DylanJo123
@DylanJo123 Месяц назад
@@kikusama Now that is some cultural differences if i ever heard it. I cant imagine anyone in the US thinking like that lol
@aiden9586
@aiden9586 Месяц назад
Thanks for the video Scott. Best of luck to your kids in all of their studies, they sound like super high achievers. The education system in Japan sounds really difficult.
@thrax1831
@thrax1831 Месяц назад
"We need a cute girl for a desk job to wlcome people into the company" Whats wrong with that? For jobs like that physical appearance directly translates to how well you can do your job. Just like cheerleaders, they cant be middle aged fat and ugly. Its not discrimination, its a job requirement because its something you need to do the job. What would have been weird is if its a job for a secretary and it said i want i cute girl as my secretary to have something cute to look at while working or something along those lines.
@Lunaeincola
@Lunaeincola Месяц назад
Yeah japan sounds like a great country as long as you are tourist or work for international company tbh ,,,great video Scott as always, really enjoy the filmed walking in japan while sharing stories ! Also your wife and you are real power couple ! Love hearing about your dynamics work ,you seem to have a healthy relationship! We need more of that !
@harukaru84
@harukaru84 Месяц назад
thank you for this analysis, it's very to the point. also you got all the bragging rights for your genius wife and son :D
@JasonOwensYT
@JasonOwensYT Месяц назад
Was Ryan boundless some kind of prophet after all? LOL
@sleepyhunter
@sleepyhunter Месяц назад
I think this unhappiness has been bubbling under the surface for a while. I honestly like your approach to parenting bu involving your child in deciding their future. Your eldest choosing to go the traditional Japanese way and your youngest choosing to goes his own way. I know I'm biased but life is too short to be overly stressed about tests and work. It should be enjoyed with friends, family and lovers.
@unrested
@unrested Месяц назад
I completely agree.
@elenakursteiner4729
@elenakursteiner4729 Месяц назад
So cool and kind that you talk about your Family and Wife. Japanese people are super lonely,it's what I saw just now.But they are strong and resistable also.I hope the Country finds the way out of that problem, somehow .Thank you for the Reportage ❤️.
@unrested
@unrested Месяц назад
Yeah I hope the best for Japan
@theshadowman1398
@theshadowman1398 Месяц назад
This is severy F up specially knowing that most end up with a regular office job which I can get where I live just based on work experience and not on to which university I went to. Also any company that has more than two job interviews I turn it down myself. And they are actually shocked by that. I simply tell them that I am applying for a regular job not the bloody CEO so there should not be a whole stage proces.
@TheCajunGaijin
@TheCajunGaijin Месяц назад
In theory they could go to an English juku though. I did teach at one. 😅 I feel extra bad for the ones that were going to a different juku before or after coming to English Juku though. But this is such a fascinating video though. Because ideally I'd like my son to go to middle school or high school in Japan just so he can have a firm command of the language. He'll be in kinder there starting in September. But I wonder how beneficial it will be when there is so much stress involved with the pay in Japan being so low comparatively to the US. Of course job depending. Regardless just trying to setup my son for the best possible future.
@unrested
@unrested Месяц назад
It depends. Is he going to compete with Japan schools or American schools. He’ll return to American years ahead in math and science but be behind in English. Or if he decides to compete for good schools in Japan IT WILL BE STRESSFUL there is no question. Which is worth it? I’m not sure I have an answer
@maxxrenn
@maxxrenn Месяц назад
“Sorry Afghanistan, that sucks” 😂😂😂
@chasemathis2016
@chasemathis2016 Месяц назад
Since Japanese stubbornness was mentioned shortly after WW2... I think this is why the Pacific theater was so brutal. You had two sides who would rather die than lose, and they were at war with each other. "Give me liberty or give me death" and all that... Both sides refused to acknowledge the bell like that one episode of South Park. The US and Japan are 2 of the most stubborn nations in history. Edit: I was also a horrible student. English was my best subject in school. It's also the only one I had to retake because I couldn't be bothered to read A Tale of Two Cities. It sucks. The book sucks.
@unrested
@unrested Месяц назад
I agree completely. I see huge faults in our American system run by greed and stubbornness
@lelouchemperor8424
@lelouchemperor8424 Месяц назад
Does anyone remember Eishine? He did alot of videos with Sharla and Rachel and other vloggers. What happened with that guy? I would be super interested to know.
@chiptoothtech4937
@chiptoothtech4937 Месяц назад
WELL SAID SCOTT! BEEN HERE FOR ALL OVER 9 YEARS AND NO IMPROVEMENTS BAR NONE IN TERMS OF ECONOMY GOVERNANCE AND EDUCATION HERE IN JAPAN THIS WILL BE MY LAST YEAR IN JAPAN AFTER ALMOST A DECADE TIME TO SAY SAYONARA!!!
@Aozoraa33
@Aozoraa33 Месяц назад
Spoiler alert, I left Japan a few years ago, now I'm thinking of going back. The grass isn't greener on the other side, depending on where you're going there might not even be any grass left anymore...
@chiptoothtech4937
@chiptoothtech4937 Месяц назад
TO EACH HIS OR HER OWN. I HAD IT. BAD ECONOMY ETC. TENSIONS WITH OTHER ASIAN COUNTRIES AND THE LIST GOES ON.... THANKS FOR YOUR INPUT BUT GOOD LUCK TO YOU
@unrested
@unrested Месяц назад
Hey thanks for watching. Yeah it’s rough to leave this wonderful country. There are so many things I love about Japan. Life is simple, trains run great, food is cheap, customer service is great, combinis everywhere, but economically it’s a sink hole for gaijin who want to have a family.
@thrax1831
@thrax1831 Месяц назад
The whole problem with the happiness index stuf. Is that its so subjective. People who live in way worse countries are ranked above japan in that report. Those people would probably think japan is a paradise compared to their countries. I would know cus Im living in one of them, and almost every single aspect of Japan i hear americans talkng about being a bad thing is either the same or better in Japan than how it is in my country. The only thing I can think of that is worse in japan than here would be the cram schools etc for kids. Anything else Japan is just a straight upgrade. Im actually planning to move to japan by the end of this year so I'll get a more personal view of the situation, and a fairer comparison. But thats honestly how i see it.
@user-kl5zd2oe3e
@user-kl5zd2oe3e 25 дней назад
Its unhappy because all affection disappears after kids. The poor kids grow up thinking resentful couples are normal and seek it out. They won't allow themselves to be happy when they see a different life. They are so stubborn, they cannot comprehend a different path. And they will gaslight you until the end.
@serendipitous6
@serendipitous6 Месяц назад
I would also posit that Japanese folks can be the most brutally honest about themselves in many respects....
@unrested
@unrested Месяц назад
Yeah they can be harsh when judging themselves
@dongdongvu1
@dongdongvu1 Месяц назад
if the population keeps declining, all this competitiveness will fade too, when the best schools have few applicants admission standards will loosen up
@unrested
@unrested Месяц назад
Yeah that is true but at what cost? Far less workers means the retired have reduced ss and pensions which are already insanely low. Some people are trying to survive on less than 600 dollars a month
@dongdongvu1
@dongdongvu1 Месяц назад
@@unrested absolutely. they need some pop. growth. high population in Canada is causing problems. heavy competition for jobs and housing/healthcare i'd say elderly who rent are better off in japan than canada where rent is $2000 a month for a basement
@Naturenerd1000
@Naturenerd1000 Месяц назад
In the US half the people are happy and half are miserable.
@unrested
@unrested Месяц назад
Still better than nearly 80 percent here. In a seperate study on age only 20 percent of Japanese said they would look forward to the future of aging past retirement here
@WANDERER0070
@WANDERER0070 Месяц назад
UNhappy ? Depends who you ask I supose. People who work for themselves are happy just like you 😂 see Paolo from Tokyo
@WANDERER0070
@WANDERER0070 Месяц назад
Jpan Gov should pass a Law making sure Overtime work gets paid ! Preferably at double time 😊 youd see hapiness increase quickly and bosses being less anoying
@Mefistosteles484
@Mefistosteles484 Месяц назад
Are you deleting my comment or it's just my RU-vid account?
@Mefistosteles484
@Mefistosteles484 Месяц назад
Yeah, something wrong happens.
@SIG442
@SIG442 Месяц назад
It's a really sad affair indeed, Japan is such a lovely country only to get destroyed by greedy companies and a government that refuses to act accordingly. I wouldn't be against a massive uprising of the people against this bs. It's really sad to see the Japanese being treated like modern day slaves. Yes technically they do get payed, but what is money if you can't really use it? What is money if you don't have the time to spend it? For that matter, being payed too little as your company refuses to pay you a decent wage? It's really disgusting and I am 100% standing behind the Japanese people if they decide to rise up against this nonsense. It makes absolutely no sense to just be used and abused your whole life only to serve some false god (CEO of your company) that ruins your entire life.
@DioJeanBaptiste
@DioJeanBaptiste Месяц назад
ah what goes up must come down
@unrested
@unrested Месяц назад
So true. Alas I would love to see this great country rise again
@sebastianrubio928
@sebastianrubio928 22 дня назад
Japan needs a shift in culture yes, in big part the 2 subjects you adressed school & work, but also overall socializing. I would say, the school & work are related, in a way work is an extension of school. You know what's the worst part about this? I've seen some of Japanese salaries and I was not impressed, you would think, for such a competitive schooling system & university culture, people would get better paid. Humans are social animals, they need this human contact with others, making friends is way too hard in Japan, dating is hard enough to make it even harder, make school & work less stressful and give people more free time. Either Japan changes their ways or they will face both a population collapse & an economic collapse , sadly it does seem like it's already too late for both. There's another cause of all this trouble that's not often adressed, you really don't hear about it much, but it's so painfully obvious: bad leadership, aka, politicians on the top not doing a great job. Japan is heading towards a really dark place, but not much is being done, some of the solutions proposed are absolutely ridiculous. Do you remember, at some point they told young people to drink more to boost the economy? Recently they started working on a dating app to boost marriages & birth rates? These are only 2 examples. I don't think they got bad intentions, but it's so clear that politicians are out of touch with their reality, it's also the case in the West, just with different things. A third example of bad decisions: how Japan handled Covid, they made everything worse, I don't think any governements handled this one well, but I would go as far as to say Japan did and even worse job at handling this than others, they stayed locked up way too long. Overall Japan needs a big shift in it's culture. Preserve the good parts, get rid of some of the bad parts. This probably close to impossible, but the economic & population collapse will leave some major scars on Japan.
@chappiescollectables
@chappiescollectables Месяц назад
Well he is an ackerman afterall
@unrested
@unrested Месяц назад
Kenny Ackerman in fact. Which I named him before the manga but crazy right? Sometimes people think my family use Ackerman as a nickname and that we are otaku for the titan series
@chappiescollectables
@chappiescollectables Месяц назад
@@unrested hahaha no way. That's bad ass. Wouldve been hilarious if you named your other son Levi and if you had a daughter, Mikasa 😂 Also Kenny in AOT is extremely competitive so that's another coincidence.
@VOIDTheft1
@VOIDTheft1 Месяц назад
Thank you for this unpropagandistic video. I knew it already, but it's always good that somebody dares to bring it in the open.
@Beerpongmaster14
@Beerpongmaster14 Месяц назад
with one single move youre gonna tank your channel, i kept you around outta love but yyou want me to pay monthly to watch content? you had a good run man, but everything ends
@zimzam9166
@zimzam9166 Месяц назад
Another weeb who got butt-hurt about Japan because working at an eikaiwa isn't exactly the same as anime. Clearly needs to watch Boundless's dream crusher vids
@unrested
@unrested Месяц назад
lol you mean Ryan boundless the person I talked about 2 videos ago? Been living here 15 years and have had multiple conversations with Ryan. Awesome dude. Welcome to the Channel btw my fellow weeb
@zimzam9166
@zimzam9166 Месяц назад
@@unrested the very one. By the way, will you do a video on Hiding In My Room? That guy is my favourite, except for you, of course ❤️
@unrested
@unrested Месяц назад
@@zimzam9166 yeah I actually really want to do one on him but I need to find a decent history of his insane back and forth with his many exs and ex wife. I actually really liked his stuff back in the day and cheered him on at the beginning of his life here in Japan but as I saw him unravel and his complete lack of empathy and very low levels of humanity it got harder and harder to watch and support him
@diabolusabsconditus
@diabolusabsconditus Месяц назад
one big reason could be the massive influx of western propaganda in the political sphere of japan. leading to 'leftist' policies on education and immigration and religion. all of these things have also led to massive unhappiness in all western countries that are currently afflicted by it. japan is in the early stages... good luck to japan.
@unrested
@unrested Месяц назад
Really? Can you give a few examples? Manga, games, anime, movies and education/ work culture seem pretty cut off from leftist propaganda. Like I said Japan does not change easily.
@Rbear-SF
@Rbear-SF Месяц назад
Japan is an amazing country! Education in America is not great. China and Japan have tough but excellent schooling systems. I wish I had a better education. In America, they encourage unhealthy habits. They want you to be overweight and sick. America is not a good country, so I plan on moving to Japan in a couple of years. I tend to switch jobs frequently because I get bored easily and won't tolerate mistreatment from management. I'm starting my own online skincare business because I dislike working for others, especially with the rise of online job opportunities due to the pandemic. It's unfortunate how people in Japan tend to overwork. Life is too short. It's good to have discussions about this topic. I used to watch Kanadajin3 videos about Japan, where she only focused on the positive aspects and praised the country. It made me hesitant to explore the darker side of Japan and do my own research. However, I still have a love for Japan and now I feel it's important to educate myself about the reality of the country. #japan
@unrested
@unrested Месяц назад
Yeah americas eating habits are still incredibly bad. Schools definitely got the food right here in Japan
@Rbear-SF
@Rbear-SF Месяц назад
At 20:02 there is a swastika on that person's mailbox or mini shrine??? What does that symbol mean in Japan?
@unrested
@unrested Месяц назад
The swastika is diagonal and reversed what you are seeing is the symbol for a shrine. Yes nazis did take this symbol and repurpose it for themselves
@ManiacalForeigner
@ManiacalForeigner Месяц назад
It's called a "manji" in Japan, and it's a common Buddhist symbol there. The swastika has been used by many different cultures all across the world with different meanings, usually relating to the sun, and commonly seen as auspicious, bringing prosperity. It is a shame how nowadays it's exclusively associated with the Nazi "Hakenkreuz". Nobody deserves to have a monopoly on such an ancient and meaningful sign.
@Rbear-SF
@Rbear-SF Месяц назад
@@ManiacalForeigner Thank you so much! I've never tried to educate myself on the symbol outside of what Germany used it for!
@Rbear-SF
@Rbear-SF Месяц назад
@@unrested I really need to educate myself better! Thank you! This is really interesting! Thank you!
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