Japanese React to Suspected Suicide of Top Actor Haruma Miura | STREET INTERVIEW 

Suicide rates In Japan just keep increasing each day.

Similar thing happened in India, a famous actor in Bollywood killed himself, google sushant Singh rajput. The whole nation was shocked.

A very famous actor in India also committed suicide on 15 june due to mental health issues...his name was Sushant Singh Rajput....if you can make video on that

@@JD-kp6pt The absence of value and purpose does not imply suicide as a consequent response. Understand some To make the bandwagon fallacy generalizing the experience of the poor is condescending and works against your posit on nihilism, because if all experience is senseless then even suffering shouldn't make a difference, no? The illogical leap to assisted suicide is an ode to uncritical thought. I support the right of anyone to end their life but this is not the intellectual argument for it.

Sometime the famous one are more stress then the normal people. Just let it go and don't think so much and you think also won't change anything might as well don't think right.

I would've of told him that we we're in this SHIII hole together... until we die old and not soon but it's to late fo me to save soul like someone saved mine😔

Totally agree hes was so nice

Let's remembering his beautiful smile forever

Mr. Spy I think that wouldn’t have helped...he wanted a regular life that wasn’t under a microscope..he wanted to be a farmer from what I heard..

Yes. I will always remember his beautiful smile.

It's stupid actually, what makes them any less human? Just because people have never met them and know their names and nothing else? I think people should stop being referred to as idols or celebrities, they are simply people known by many for their line of work, it's just that, nothing more, they are as much strangers as anyone else we walk past on the street.

yep and part of it is because the celebs are always "on" when they are knowingly in public. Always looking good, talking good, etc. They spend so much time brightening up other folks day yet who is brightening theirs?

Few months ago, Kimura Hana who starred in Terrace House(famous Japanese Netflix reality show) also committed suicide because of hate comments and threats on her social media.

Soooo true, the STRESS OF MEETING EVERYONE'S EXPECTATION AND THEN TO BE ATTACKED BY THE VERY PEOPLE WHO ARE SUPPOSE TO BE FANS...CELEBRITIES ARE BULLIED CONSTANTLY AND ITS NOT FAIR...😭 ACTING, SINGING, MODELING ETC., IS THEIR JOB, NOT THEIR LIFE! THEY HAVE LIVES OUTSIDE IF THEIR JOB AND LIKE US THEY ARE NOT PERFECT...THEY'RE HUMAN LIKE US

@UCEP-ZPtov2_kE1VwOqa_XzQ not just japan and Korea, twitter especially is toxic everywhere for any kind of celebrity or famous person, this is why some celebrities from around the world refuse to use it or deleted it their accounts after getting unwarranted hate, it sucks really

What does his beauty have to do with anything? If he were ugly would his suicide be less sad? 🙄🙄

the wasp woman what the hell is wrong with you? Just because he was beautiful doesn’t make his death more upsetting. People loved him for his talent! People loved him for being the kind-hearted man he was. Of course, he had a handsome face, but his looks were nothing compared to him himself. I’m honestly upset that you had to even ask that.

@@pagethreemodel the term beautiful here doesn't necessarily mean his look. I think the writer want to say that Haruma as a person is beautiful, as in inner beauty.

You took those words out of my mouth. I’m still so upset 😢😢😢 poor Haruma

she was about to cry after she spoke in that fragment...

such a stereotype

If you’re not Japanese you cannot say this

@@hsun7997 What they said is very true. You don't have to be Japanese to observe a very obvious trend. If you do even a little bit of research into Japanese culture, you'll see that they often go overboard when trying not to inconvenience or say no to others. Overtime is an actual cause of death for office workers for this very reason. Japan, as a country, uses less paid vacation than most other countries in the world, again, for the same reason. It's definitely a problem.

dude, if ur not japanese or lived in japan how tf u know dumbas. In the video clearly said he was getting hate comments so not to "to not cause trouble to others'"

@@seraph4463, you may be right

Yeah I did see that as well...really sad...😞😞😞😭😭😭

Similar happens in my country Sushant Singh is great actor as Haruma Muira Some say it was sucide but there is no sucide letter to prove that. Some speculated that it is murder by someone from Bollywood industry Where there is only one problem? It is Nepotism and it means those who parents have been great or famous actors they will get respect in film industry while others who are newcomer to films industry and have no experience with film industry they will have the same respect as them get But Sushant Singh was talented and great actor some are envy of him from actor and actress of the same industry. Rest in peace Sushant Singh and you will get justice.

What cult? Can you elaborate please?

@@caughtcrjfever2107 Japan has many religious groups that are cult. They lure people to join them so they can take advantage of you like money for example. So be aware of strangers approaching you on the street in Japan cause they might be part of a cult. They even come to your house and want to have a chit chat with you at your home.

This is so sad omg😭

that sounds mess up but I know its not....."about her friend died is so cool"

@@thetallcroaky Yes, sorry my english is not the best. I wanted people to know who I was referring to and that was the only way I found, my bad.

could hear the pain in her voice, I don’t even speak Japanese

L Y N X she’s crying too

It’s great to hear her story. She reminds us that people do care, even if many others do not know how to show it. Suicide is never the answer. I hope she’s doing well and is happy.

lol

@@mefirst7285 ?

@@mefirst7285 what's so funny?

@@mefirst7285 Um excuse me, but do you know what lol means? Cause it means laughing out loud.. And this isn't something to laugh about y'know.

She made me burst into tears...

@@ThefattestCatOnMars He was. He had so many project lined up. A new tv show, a movie, a new song AND a musical.

@@ThefattestCatOnMars his latest song is an absolute banger.

he was already famous wayy too famous

He was at the peak of his LIFE. Screw his career, it probably threw him over the edge

thats not why its sad

I thought the same, she’s great at wording her opinion with an open mind and wide view of things. I liked her 👍🏻

I felt the same.

It's really attractive when a woman is open-minded and articulate

there are at least 3 women in the video dressed in all black

@@turbo6266 confused too ahaha

She knew she was blessed with a good friend but I also think she knew she could no longer suppress her stress and was at her limit. She came to see her good friend for the last time.

@LosN Found That's probably true. I had similar experience. My classmate committed suicide. He's not close friend with me but he reached out to me and I felt I hadn't been patient and nice enough for him, and felt slightly guilty of his death.

@@mangos1346 ❤❤❤🙏

My friend committed suicide two years ago. I tried to be there for her. She always had my support. She used to be the one who always brightened my mood. She had so many wise things to say. I carry them with me. ❤️ I tried to be the same for her. I told her how special she was. It broke my heart when she decided to leave this world and her two young daughters. She was the same age as Haruma Miura. 😢

@@Legendgirl76 omg!! 😞😞😭😭😭🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤

It's even worst in Korea were image is everything.

@@harryroger1739 i don;t think its a competition I think it is equally horrible: both unnecessary: image fades, opinions are intangible.

That guy was worried that he couldn't help because he is not a therapist. I think that he helped more than he believed, simply by being willing to listen to them. Sometimes the hardest thing is simply telling someone how you feel, and once you've managed to open up to one person it then becomes easier to change how you're viewing your problems, and it becomes easier to open up to someone else.

@@katiegittins2566 That's why it's soo unhealthy to have a culture where you don't talk about your problems, as you said, when you do talk to someone, you can almost hear your problems a little differently when you say them out loud to someone than when they're just rolling around in your head, so it often doesn't even matter if you get good advice or not.

This is so true. I worked at an English Cafe few years back in South Korea. Some of them came there to indeed practice their English, brought their homework with them and so on. However, I found a lot of 'students' mostly the older ones are there to talk about their family, their work, and just a day to day life in general. One of them who really left impression on me is a lady in her 50s, she has two daughter and both of them currently in the US to study. Her husband is a CEO of a big company in Korea and although she seems very sweet, it is clear that she is lonely and needed someone to talk to.

Did he really write this? Or was it a dialogue from one of his films? 😞

@@cherrybanilla he really wrote it when he was 20, he took his life at 30

@@HIMHIM_0 damn... T.T

@@cherrybanilla "Dear everyone 10 years in the future, How are you all doing? Are you still friends ten years from now? Do you still laugh together? Do you have fun everyday? What am I doing at the moment, 10 years from now? Am I still playing soccer? Am I married to Naho? Am I truly living every single day?" This is from an anime, Orange, in 2016. It's about a boy about to commit suicide. That just reminded me of an anime

@@cherrybanilla Haruma Miura's parentds were divorced just like the main character of this anime, Orange. They look similar too but this is years before his death

Yeah Japanese people need balance in their life. Working really hard for what? If there is no enjoyment in life, why work so hard? Right? There should be a balance not too lazy like poor countries but not to ahead of your well-being

@@rodrozil6544 In India, one of the most beloved young actor also committed suicide. I don't know why young, talented actors are committing suicide in Asia only.

@@litzadey1482 it's been happening long ago in west then east began to catch up. Linkin park member Chester sucide was shock for fans

@@rodrozil6544 But he was struggling with mental health for long. People knew about it. In the east, these young actors die suddenly. They look happy and pristine with no record of any drug, alcohol abuse or detachment from any family members or friends. Also, I was 17 when Chester died. I was traumatized for a whole month. I cried a lot. He meant a lot to me growing up.

Stop involving in others cultures westerners

Same. These two were the only time I cried for a celebrity's death as an adult. Especially knowing how bad their pain must had been to commit suicide.

@Munia Sulli too, she was killed by Korean netizens. People need to put themselves in other people's shoes.

As a fan from Canada, I first saw Haruma-san in Gokusen 3. I instantly became a fan. My favorite was Bloody Monday, but there was a few of my favorite actors in that show. I am very saddened by his passing. My only hope is that this may open the door further to address mental health in Japan. ❤

@@ouroboros1895 omg bloody monday. He looks so young and innocent there.

I think he was just too pure and fragile to survive in that industry. I really wish he is in a better place now....

That's empathy my dear. Use that skill set wisely.

Or tried..

Please, I know it's hard, but there are people out there who will listen and help you. If you feel that way, reach out and talk to someone. You are perfect, unique, and special, there is only one of you in the whole of the universe and you're precious. Treat yourself as though you are an irreplaceable treasure. Be kind to yourself and get help when you need it.

Your wrong some people don’t care and end up making the situation worse. That is what has happened to me,

Don't give up hope I know you will find something soon enough!!

I'm Brazilian, sadly depression is a stigma anywhere, along with other mental conditions and even disabilities. I have suffered from mental health issues since childhood due to bullying and a less than ideal home life and I am disabled to boot. It's astonishing that people don't know that you can develop suicidal ideation even as a kid or teenager, and people don't take things seriously, they think it's either a cry for attention or even emotional manipulation when you tell them that you want to die.

Suicide is a huge issue that needs to be addressed within asain communities. Lots of celebrities and normal people are bullied daily. And no one speaks up, The stigma of everyone needing to look like a pop idol"if they don't measure up they are thrown to the wolves. STOP BULLYING

@@lalavio7031 I'm an Asian living in England, I went through a phase where I suffered from stress and depression, I had constant thought of killing myself. You know what the response was by the Asian community? 'It's all in your head' In the end I ignored their comments and went to see counselling, it helped me so much as I could finally tell someone how I was feeling.

@@larahennacroft I live in Ireland and thankfully we have mental health support that is being pushed heavily by our government even in schools we have classes that help us with mental health and other programs in school , I'm wondering if it's the same in England since we are not to far from there , and I hope that you you feel better now

@@mustang3429 Thank you :) honestly felt so much better because I bottled everything up, the fact I could tell a random person how I was feeling felt like a huge burden was off! Sometimes talking to someone helps more than taking medication. We do have mental health help but it's just not enough, everyone goes silent for a while till someone kills themselves cause they couldn't find help. More money needs to be pumped into mental health than anything else especially in schools. There needs to be more information out there for everyone no matter what your age or background is :( This year sucks for many people, mental health should be top priority! I'm a millennial but this is a message to the youngsters, do not give up, there is always hope, even if you flop an exam there are opportunities out there, don't hold anything inside. Live your life cause as you become older, you'll realise that all the things you worried about when you were a teenager was for no reason. I've been through it. I have hope for the next generation, we have some fantastic and brilliant kids. You guys are the future :)

I never thought about lending a book could make it even worst. But after i read this i realized that someone that has depression really could think differently.

As someone who has depression, I can tell you that the way we think is different. I am haunted by the thoughts that when I die, the burden on my family will be lessen, or that no one cares whether I live or die. I just feel like except my parents, no one cares about me. I don't have friend and I can't share my thought with anyone since my parents don't believe in mental illness.

@@miyako1909 I'm so sorry you have to go through this. This sounds so hard to do, especially alone. I hope you'll please remember that whatever you're feeling is valid and that you are not a burden. Sometimes we can argue w/ ourselves and convince ourselves of things that are barely even real. Don't give in please ❤️

@@miyako1909 Hi Miyako. No, you never be a burden to parent or anyone else. I used to have that kind of thought. It s a struggle to change this kind of mindset. Really. But I want to live a good live, I have to do something. What I did? Among other things : 1. Reduce my time on social media. 2. Whenever on social media, I avoid from reading negative news such divorce, break up, etc 3. I try to get close to God. I am a Muslim. So I tried to read more of the Quran and perform the solah (the 5 times obligatory prayers). I think this is the main thing that help keep me calm and control my temper. May Allah bless you, Miyako.

@@miyako1909 I can completely understand. I am on the same boat. I'm a caretaker for my disabled father and I do the same thing over and over again year after years with barely anyone to help. It's not an ideal situation to make friends or to have a job or to even have a partner but I keep on because I know that my father needs my help and I care deeply for ppl in general. Obviously, at times I can feel sad and depressed when I'm dealing with verbal punches from critical ppl on top of the daily care I provide.. but I always think, if I'm planning to die I mine as well use my energy to try to do something to improve myself even when I feel so stuck in life. At least if I can work on improving myself, eventually, I can position myself somehow in the future to help others when I become stronger in whatever way I think I can be. These are very lonely times for many ppl so my positive plans keep me going. Ppl set up negative plans for themselves because they feel so trapped. Write. Journal. Blog. Clear the mind and keep learning.

This case is similar to the passing away of Indian actor Sushant Singh Rajput. RIP 🙏 ऊँ शांति

@@Tanya-ob5tb Yes, I know about Susant Singh. I have watched his movies. It was very sad that we lost two great actors at such a young age to suicide.

ॐ शान्तिः🙏

@@Tanya-ob5tb Omg.. I didn't know. Why are we losing so much people this year..... SOCIETY needs to change... This is awful😶😑😐

@@user-os7be5zn7i sushant was murdered. Not officially declared but the evidence say so.

😢

Yeahh.. It still hurts badly

@Khushi I am relieved someone thinks the same way I do.. Even though it is going to one year after he has gone, I am still unable to understand the fact that he is not with us!!

@@poonampawar9475 the fact that he did a movie to say that no one should commit suicide and do the same thing in a few months is something weird too,

@@shreyassinha1207 yes. First 6 months after his death I refused to believed that he did suicide. Even now I still think he can't do that. However I just wish his soul my rest in peace ☮

It was said that it's not actually suicide, is that true?

Es segar well apparently he hung himself :(

Mohammad Muslim Bin Al-Fajar ok lol

Agreed, she really knew what she was talking about

3 girls wearing black clothing in this video which one are u Talking about ???

@@vitadude5004 I believe that they meant the ones who were being interviewed together

@@vitadude5004 lol, was going to comment that

And some Japanese believe he and Takeuchi were murdered due to the politicians?

@@cherrybanilla Just a gossip..

Agreed! There is this Japanese name "Mimi Desu" person commented as if she already knew everything and accusing his agency while even no one yet could figure it out. She is a Korean girl who is trying to become idol singing in Japanese. Did she failed their audition or what???

The only japaneese actor i know

He really is. I’m really sad to hear of his passing.

@@foreverwithme6230 I really want to watch his movies. Can anyone recommend some?

@@foreverwithme6230 is it available on Netflix? Or do you know any platform where I can watch ?

@@rujutatamhankar928 watch his drama the hours of my life. It's really beautiful

Koizora was truly beautiful. It made me cry so bad.

I hope Japan and other Countries who suffer from high suicide rates and depression will take this issue more seriously. It's saddening to see such young people result to taking their lives when they didn't even get to live fully. It's been a recurring issue for way too long now..

Dizzy 396 I sadly don’t think his death will be very impactful at spreading awareness on mental health. It’s something that has been happening for too long which is why it seems people deem it as normal when it isn’t. I can see the situation getting better in 10+ years but not now.

Its sad to know that he didn't enjoy acting at all, wanted to quit acting at 20

@@kavi1501 most actors and idols get scouted .. they go into it for the money and opportunity .. many are burden by it if they became famous and can't quit

@@sakurakou2009 Agree...hope the talent agencies will be humane and considerate...but I know they won't be...

@@kavi1501 I don't support them financially at all .. if I ever want to support idol I do it in non financial way like vote for them on awards and send them positive comments on their social media etc but I never spend any money on idols I know all money will go to their company not the artist .

@@sakurakou2009 That's a good way to support..Indeed these artists are paid less for their hardwork

True. People think if you're different, you're just not the same level as them and isolate you.

People only reveal their true face on internet cause they know they don't have to deal with consequences of the effect of bullying they cause to others . In Real Life, if we bully other people, people would point their finger at the bully, you have to apologize, and even after that, the victim and the people you know, may change their view of you. That's why we learn etiquette, not saying brutally honest about our opinion in real life because it will damage the relationship, but it does not change the fact we individually have our own opinion that we keep to ourselves.

@@Elwen-xs7gr there is a difference between bullying and stating your opinion. You can state your opinion in a respectful way. Bullying is another matter. It is just being mean and disrespectful to another person. Actually this shows who you are as a person. A good person never bullies.

@@xhdhhdhdhd7136 nah, who cares about anyone life in internet, same as I don't do anything to your life and you don't know anything about me. most people is behaving like that on internet, just pay attention, from time to time observation, on différent social media, so before you point your fingers at me, remember there are possibly among 8 billions human out there who do the same. Go ahead think whatever you want, anything that makes you happy. It is none of my concern.

Underrated comment

You know, there is a Japanese drama about this subject exactly called "3-nen A-gumi: ima kara mina San was hitojichi desu"

I wasn't over Sushant's death and now this..

@@therealvampirella02 right!

The unfortunate part is just because someone, anyone is successful doesn’t mean they’re happy. Insecurities exist in all of us, and talented people have It the hardest because they are their own critics compounded by their peers and society. People hurt people and that’s the unfortunate part of humanity.

We didn't know what kind of personal problem he had. Another comment mentions it.

SSR didn't commit suicide he was murdered

It depends on the criticism. If it's the constructive kind, one which asks you to reflect on your actions or words, then you will have to take responsibility to be better. But if it's the hateful kind of criticism--an insulting one, especially--then that's the only type that you must ignore.

@@amapiria true. problem is though, sometimes it's hard to tell if it's constructive or judgemental. everyone had a different perspective. that's why the most important step we must take FIRSTLY, is to KNOW ourselves and be HONEST with ourslves. the truth is what liberates us and brings inner peace and the right kind of confidence. beliefs are what take us to the path of conflict.

@@iolohammer how much time is needed to know ourselves? Especially if you suffer dépression From overthinking of your peer's opinion of you? Or you feel pressures because you don't even have the same path of life with your peer group?

@@Elwen-xs7gr knowing yourself really is like looking in the mirror, it's that easy to do. but if you're not used to it, or if you're afraid of what you may find, it may feel impossible. all I can say is that what you will find is beautiful in it's own way, doesn't matter how strange it seems at first, important thing is that when you are THAT, you finally feel like you're back in your own skin, and it's the most wonderful, fulfilling, inner-peace bringing feeling. (you probably felt like that sometimes in your life, you might've just not identified that with being you) when you are/stay in that spot, there will be a solution and a way for every problem. when you operate at your real level, life becomes... feasible, doable, nothing that seems too hard to do, because your motivation is ultimate. (it's usually outside opinions that dissuade us from being us, that's why it's important to be honest with oneself, that way, your confidence in yourself won't be shaken by anyone.) just remember that only you can understand you, because only you had the exact life path of you, so you are/have literally the solution to all your problems. That's why I say, outside opinion is only relevant to an extent (many times not at all) to you. It's important because then you have something to relate to, so you don't feel alone, floating in space, but you will do that for some time, until you find people that vibe with you 😊 make no mistake, the people in your life NOW, vibe with how you are NOW. when you become yourself, there's always gonna be loss. it is what it is. we have to learn to walk our path. it's ours to walk, and where we may go, some will not follow. so expect to lose friends maybe even family members. but you have to make a choice: you have this life, don't worry whether there's another before, another after.. you are here now. this is your life. do you live it for yourself or for others? 😊 answers will come when you expect them least, don't worry if you don't understand something right away. and remember, for every space in your life that becomes vacant, life finds a way to fill it again😉

Well, I would argue that this is rather circumstantial. If my best friend critized me for certain things I might have said or done wrong, I would of course listen and try to take 'respsonsibility' and think twice about doing the same thing in the future, for instance. If it's a stranger on the internet, it's an entirely different situation -- but again, that also depends on the context and on the behaviour of each party.

Me too. Probably, because of I watch most of his drama and movie. I also think he was always breathtakingly handsome.

Same here. Haruma has always been one of my favorite actors. After I found out the news, I feel like a little piece of me broke inside. I think about him everyday ever since his passing. :(

I am a fan and it´s sad that he passed away by this form, I hope we can understand it. Rest in Peace lovely Haruma....

I couldn’t cry when I saw the news. I think I’m still in denial.

i'm glad you're in a better place. i hope things are looking up for you now.

Yea. My friend always tells me that the desire to suicide is not because you actually want to die, you just want the pain and suffering to stop.

That sounds more like attention attemp, rather than suicide.

@@patrik3482 why do you have to be like this?

I'm relieved to know that you're still here. Hang on there dude. You got this.

Same here😔

So true ! ✨

色々のとこに気を遣いすぎると、意見も中々出せなくなるから、もっと心を開いて、違う人の意見を聞きましょうー

多分外国人のオーデｨエンストに教えたかったら、英語使ったほうが良いと思います。大体のAsia Bossのオーデイエンストは日本語が分からないかもしれないです！ 翻訳: (translation of the above comment) Please do not assume that the cause of suicide was online bullying, since there is no source that reports that information. There’s a lot of times where you can’t trust this channel because of incidents like this video.

Whatever happens, it's important to remember that our lives matter. I think the film 'It's A Wonderful Life' taught me this lesson better than anything else. We may think ourselves to be worthless and insignificant, however we don't really know what impact our lives have on others and what it would be like if we weren't here. It is excruciatingly painful to hear of these lethal decisions people make. We should all look carefully around us to see the beauty of this world and this life and take pleasure in small joys such as a walk with a friend, a day out in the nature... We should appreciate small pleasures and our lives in general. Let us all take care of ourselves, people close to us and those who we encounter.

Please stay strong. Don't wish for yourself to be gone but think that if you really had then what impact it would have on everything and everyone around you. Because you may know this or not *but you are loved and you matter* Stay strong, friend 💪

I study science, if you search depression brain, you will see that depression is a chemical unbalance in the brain. It is not your fault. It's like a sickness that needs to be treated by verbal therapy with a psychologist or medical treatment with a psychiatrist to restore the chemical balance in the brain. Please get the help that you need, you are amazing and needed.

Please stay strong and reach some help if you need it. You're worth the life, you'll be better. It's always heart breaking to hear someone took his/her life, even when I don't know them. Please remember you're loved, we love you

@Vivian Foster sounds like Josh Groban - You Are Loved. A truly masterpiece, by the way. It always helps to raise my spirits.

@Brenda s agree lol

Japanese society? Just wondering on context of "our."

It seems to me that in parts of Asia like South Korea and Japan, young and big name celebrity actors and singers seem to commit suicide, while in the U.S. it seems more like those who commit suicide are social media 'celebrities (RU-vid, Instagram, etc.).

Brenda s a agree with you. Sometimes people being ignorant. Like everyone is different they are them not you. Sadly i still hear this comment to . Sadly....

Sarah Harris no humanity as a whole

And they didn't care about his tiredness, really cruel world of entertainment

Your brother's telling you that, probably because he wants you to feel grateful. Be cautious, when you're sad. Your mind becomes really pessimistic it kills every happiness you could ever grasped.

I can feel you... i used to share my problems with my family but 99% of their answers don't help comforting me and make me more depressed until i closed my heart completely from my family and my friends because no one understand my feelings... i'm struggling in this war alone and i hope i can be strong until the end.

What your brother said is honest and true. It's exactly why we always suggest people to talk to others when they're depressed. It opens your mind and widen your eyes. You may not like what you hear but that's what you need to learn, ie. that's a lotta version of the world, only you can decide which one you live in. He was just reminding you to focus on what you have already and not what you want to have. People can say tons of things to comfort you, but that's for the ears only, it means nothing. You feel good in this moment, nice, but what about tomorrow? next week? next month? Comforting doesn't help you get out of depression. Honest opinion does. I don't know what's the issue that's troubling you. NO ONE can help you but yourself. Get up, pin point the issue, get a solution. Every problem has a solution. Solution means nothing if you don't act. I spent 20+ years change my life. I failed, fell back in the hole, many times, got back up, then tried again. It still suck in a way, but I'm in a much better place than before, and I'm proud of myself coz I did this all by myself. Like in the video, 10 people has 10 different life. Don't expect others to understand you, no matter how good they're as a listener, how compassionate they are, they can empathize, but they don't feel or understand your struggles. And most of all, it has nothing to do with your family is Asian or not. They don't say something you like to hear, so they're evil? Your brother's opinion is truly gold. You owe him a thank you actually.

This spoke volume! ✊🏻👍🏻 It's either "you should be thankful for having a roof on your head and 3 meals to eat" or " it's just a phase, you'll get over it" or " What didn't we give you for you to feel like this?" I don't understand how others could belittle others' emotions so simply. ☹️ I wish people would understand that it's not that we're not grateful or we're greedy or we're going thru a phase. I hope they'd understand that we're not always in control of what we feel. And it's almost inevitable to stop whatever it is you're feeling once it hits you. Praying that God keep us all safe, from this virus, and from our own bad thoughts.

What they don't realize by saying "you should be grateful" is that we really truly are grateful even to the point of thinking ourselves to be undeserving of everything. We feel like we are even wasting the little air we are breathing. Depression makes us feel like trash on the surface of the earth. A failure, burdening even God with our very meaningless existence. Thats how dark it is but the horrible part is that no one understands.

こんなに再生数いくと思ってなかったんじゃないかなぁ

@@larcenciel777 だとしても人1人が亡くなっているのに配慮とか無いんだ、、ちゃんと考えて発言したら良いのに、、と思ってしまいました

それ言い始めたらなにも言えなくなると思う

@@adjm642 そういうことですよ

I think you are missing the point of the video

You cant really do anything with other people's mental problems.

it sad how we takes seriously any problem in our body organs, except the one who mostly controls it all, our brain. Brain scan is important

It's the way you speak about it that shows how far Japan has to go. If you can't feel empathy and think "I feel terrible when someone does that to me, so I will not do that to anyone else" you will never ever sort this Your comment shows what a stretch it is for Japanese people to put them selves in others shoes. You talk about it like the rest of the world talks about COVID 19, as if it were "other" rather than something that is inherent in your society.

Sometimes when we offer help people just push us away, lol how can i take this seriously, i do my best to listen and just listen i don't even give a shot to advise them afraid that it'd make it worse. But when I offer my ear, they just pushed me away like that, i've given up on helping🤷

i completely agree with what you said about fan culture in the asian entertainment industry and how it inevitably forces idols to fit into a labelled category to act a certain way in favour of the fans and public impression. i personally believe more than half, if not more, idols/celebs in the industry are the totally different from what they are portraying on media and what the fans are swooning over, but that is what makes them human and indifferent to the rest of us and totally deserving of a place in this world.

♥️😢

I understand that feeling. I almost lost my friend to suicide too, I wish I was able to do more..

Anggi Oktaviani yes he was the sky of love , 😭

It is okay to be sad, but life just go on. I am sure Haruma would be sad in heaven if he knows his fans still mourn over him.

@@Elwen-xs7gr sad but true

I actually only liked two Japanese actors so much, him and Takuya Kimura. I am so heartbroken over this news. Hope he rests now peacefully. T_T

@@Elwen-xs7gr I know life must go on but for some of his fans is really hard to overcome his death, I still cry and I can't stop no matter how hard I try.

the resilt of most of us killing ourself each time i feel like it's because people refuses to tie our hands together, it's far beyond repair tbh. we see humanity crumble each day, it's about time tbh. even in trying times, most of us only think about ourself, and i'm also guilty for it too. BUT we can do something about it, but only by our own self for our own self, is to : take care of ourself, love ourself more, and find friends we can relate with till we die, it's about quality NOT quantity

@@tobubiify I approve. Its all about quality!

@@tobubiify absolutely true. thx for the genuine comments bro

なんか変ですよね 全ては春馬くんに原因があったみたいな話になってて 嫌です。 しかも簡単に世界に発信されてしまうんですね。 もっと色々な話が出てるのに

私、原因、絶対母親だと思うわ

某不倫騒動に関するツイートへの酷い誹謗中傷も確かにありましたが、彼が育ってきたバックグラウンドや、真面目で完璧主義的な気質、他にも本人にしか分からない何かが様々に重なってしまった結果なのではないかなと思いました。これだけ高みを目指して努力してきた彼が、ちょっとネットで叩かれたからという理由だけで芸能生活を終わらせる訳がありませんよね。

色々な原因が重なっていたんだと私も思えてなりません。 お母さんのこともあったでしょう ただ 誹謗中傷と同じく お母さんのことだけが今さら原因だったとも思えないんです。 色々重なっていたところに 最後止めをさす 一気に気力を奪う何かがあった それはもしかしたら 誰かの心ない言葉だったかもしれないし 今となっては 春馬くんしか分からないことで だももしかしたら 心当たりのある人間もいるかもしれませんよね。 いじめ、パワハラは やってる本人は自覚のないことなんでしょう だから悔しいです

agreed

Did Haruma ever defended Higashide???

@@kayann3 apparently a group of people misunderstood and took one of his tweets back then in January 2020 as defending Higashide. He was attacked mostly now due to his appearance as main in NHK Taiyouko and his eagerness to promote Japan per its prefecture through his Made In Japan book. People accuse him being neo-left wing nationalist and that also hurts him.

@@cassiopeiajakarta Thanks for responding. I tried googling about him allegedly defending Higashide last week but I couldn't find any related article. So it was just speculation? What's Taiyouko? I was aware of that book because I follow him on IG. I honestly thought good about it cos he was promoting Japan??? Can you expound on it further please? Thank you

I was wondering about this!

*was*

Fruity Juditty the thing is..he didn’t want to...his trap was that image of success and being handsome..- a person you wouldn’t expect to be so trapped..it’s really sad.

same, he’s really passionated about acting, he even played a female role in a musical. I’m not a huge fan, but from years of following him on ins, I feel he’s always try to improve himself even after all the awards he got. He also posted food pics and other pics about his daily life, seems like a warm person. So I couldn’t believe he chose to end his own life...I knew him when I was a sophomore in high school from the drama bloody Monday. It’s been 10 years...Please Rest In Peace Haruma kun

Him and Takeru Satoh were pretty much the darlings of Amuse (their talent agency). I used to watch the annual Super Handsome Live events with both of them. Haruma just seemed like a happy person. But his death goes to show that people with depression can put on a happy facade.

There must be a lot of pain behind that perspective on life. I hope they're okay.

😱

use they instead of s/he

A lot of times, the warning signs of poor mental health can be invisible or hidden. It's important for us to take steps to destigmatize mental illness so people can get the help they need, because it is real, it is present, and it needs to be addressed and treated accordingly. Though I don't know much about him, Miura must have been a great man. I hope he rests in peace.

Agree with you

Same here! Heartbroken still....😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Same...

For me it was him and Takeru Satoh.

Dallas Texas here...Even tho I'm 62 years old I watch asian dramas 24/7...Jdramas Kdramas..Taiwanese dramas and mainland Chinese dramas. I've watched so many of his dramas that I feel like I've watched him grow up on screen. When it popped up as breaking news on you-tube...My heart sank. I follow him on Instagram as my favorite Jdrama actor and noticed lately he looked a little tired looking in the eyes. I was waiting to hear news of him marrying some day...but I never expected to hear something like this. He was really just a baby to me. Younger than both my girls. Looking over his shows and movie list..I don't see a break..since he was a kid. Could he have been over worked?

@@pamelabustos8693 We'll probably never know. He was in the first J-drama I ever watched, and his performance as an actor made me cry.

@@pamelabustos8693 Everybody noticed that he has been tired.. the actors are always over worked..he also had an album release in July and he had to promote it...I am reading comments that he wanted to quit acting at 20 but his mother wanted him to continue acting ..He wanted to live in a village and do farming

@@kavi1501 wow really? I imagine Haruma living simply in a village, farming and genuinely happy. Then that made me like him even more because he was a simple person.

@@rusukebordones Haruma would have been a handsome,smiling , kind farmer isn't it? Yes,he mentioned about farming and didn't like media attention..In 2017 he went to study English at London , but his agency called him back saying it was a waste of time and his roommate saw him crying..He studied only for 3 months and talked about a lot with his Chinese roommate......He wanted a simple life which he couldn't have..

Is this very common in Korea?

yeah, im also korean and tbh, it really isnt that much of a surprise nowadays.... which isnt a good thing

@@bascal133 last year, in october, november, and december, 3 singers died in those 3 months. there was also one in 2017, also a singer

@@melonchaa07 Seol li, Jong hyun, Guhara, who else

@@confusedcaveman5678 Goo Hara's case is just so sad. Too cute.

Hana Kimura is her name.

@@aznmochibunny yes mistake as i was looking at this vid at the same time.

Both suicide is totally a different case tho

@@hshahahah2819 Even if the suicide methods were different, suicide is still suicide and mental health issue is still mental health issue and that was the point.

hshahahah it’s a totally different case caused by the same thing. Online hate comments. People never learn