There's nothing wrong with friendzoning a nice guy of she didnt like him, the fact that Dhar is trying to tell woman they can't reject guys is so stupid
The blonde girl at the beginning is just delightful. Living her best life in all these terrible videos, stealing jackets, eating not-her-spaghet, looking like Miley Cyrus, being tall. I love her.
As an aroace I hate it whenever stuff implies that platonic relationships are less important than romantic ones. Friendship doesn’t have to lead into romance, it’s not a hierarchy, and I know a lot of people that would choose a close friend over their partner if push came to shove.
Yeah, I like my friends but I don’t feel any romantic or physical attraction to them. It’s not a hierarchy, it’s a different kind of relationship is a great way to describe it. Have a nice day!
i relate to this so much! sometimes i feel like there’s no one else like me, but then i remember that the internet is here and there’s entire communities full of only aroaces and that makes me so happy 💜
Let's just all take a moment to acknowledge that videos on this channel (Dhar Mann's) are about bullies, people who cheat on their spouses, racists, and people who try to commit actual crimes in some cases... and also, girls who don't return their guy friends' romantic feelings. ... One of these things is not like the others
What really bothers me about the "nice guy" one was the problem wasn't she wasn't dating him, the issue was she had low self-esteem and therefore was letting horrible guys in her life. People like the guy with "savior complexes" (aka had no faith in her own decisions) are always drawn to people like her, and seeing the skit suggest she should have been with him was just so gross.
I think it really came from that deluded nice guy perspective though, because it didn't actually show the guy being that bad, just the stereotype of a guy who gets a lot of dates that incels love to hate in their mind. She did conclude that these guys weren't nice but at that point she seemed like a freshly mind wiped robot saying exactly what a "nice guy" wants to hear.
She know he like her an she kept playing with him. As women we know other girls that knows there male friends like them an keep them around because they can get them to do stuff for them or use rebound after break up, or farts with them in, though they never plan on dating at that point both are shit
And the sad part is, if they hadn't made this about the best friend wanting to date her Dhar would've had a surprisingly good video. It could've been about being good to your friends & not taking friendship for granted or treating someone being there as a given. Instead he had to ruin it by making it about the guy being perfect for her & she should've just agreed to date a guy when she didn't want to.
Best friends aren't people who are only nice and pretend to be your friend in hopes of banging you eventually. If the girl thinks you're just friends and you guys go out to the bar together and she meets someone she wants to go home with, that's totally fine. You should make sure she's gonna be safe, but otherwise, what's the issue? Nice guys are such creeps.
16:25 why does the actor who always gets typecast as the “soft-spoken nice guy” look like he’s perpetually on the brink of a nervous breakdown in every video lol
The friend zone doesn’t exist cause that implies that being friends with a woman immediately entitles you to date/have sex with her. Also if a guy says to you he’s a nice guy he’s definitely a guy that thinks being nice to someone means he’s entitled to dating/sex with that person
i hate that nice guy one so much cuz like they never showed the guy needing her support cuz he was having a hard time and her not being there for him, his only problem for the whole story was that she wasnt fucking him. so the "moral" ends up being 'she was a bad friend and deserved to get rejected cuz she wasnt already fucking a guy she wasnt interested in romantically' which is so fucking gross 😬
Just a reminder to women, it's okay to not find someone attractive. There's nothing wrong with not wanting to date someone because you don't find them attractive. This 'friend zone' and 'nice guys never get anyone' thing is so annoying and not true. Guys that say that stuff are usually the ones that expect women to put out after they pay for dinner or buy them something. We shouldn't feel obligated to have sex with you if you pay and you shouldn't be obligated to pay just because you're a dude.
Sometimes they reject nice guys but I don’t think it’s because they’re “too nice”, but I do know someone personally who “dislikes” nice people because they have a lot of extreme trauma and believe that people to offer too much kindness are just going to gain her trust and pretty much crush her based on her experience.
I’ve heard the “you’re nice/kind/sweet but…” when some people let others down. I think they are just twisting that bc I’ve never heard someone say “you are too nice.” Ive also heard “they are too good for me” but that’s more of a trauma/having serious issues that you should probably get help for rather than what they are talking about
late lmaoooo but like i sort of have?? but it turns out it was because i don’t like men period so when they showed attraction to me i was uncomfortable and chalked it up to them being too nice as the reason why i suddenly wanted to get the hell away from them. and we all know the nice guy type is the type to tell lesbians he can turn them straight with 100% seriousness. and the trauma thing holds water too you should’ve seen my face when my therapist guided me towards making that connection during a session
Easily the weirdest part of the video is when the mom goes "New York? We've worked hard all these years and we've never even seen New York" as though that's their dream
The lesson should’ve actually been ‘Don’t go home with a complete stranger, after only knowing them for a few minutes.’ That’s far worse than putting your bff in the friend zone. If he was such a nice guy, he probably would have questioned the guys motives and openly worried about her safety. 🤔Whatever
The mom rolled her eyes when she said “I love you” to her daughter like it’s insane, and obviously- she should understand the value of money but it’s not her fault if you liTERALLY GAVE HER YOUR CREDIT CARD ALL THESE YEARS. I would too if I didn’t understand the value of money and hadn’t had a job before!!!
Exactly like I can understand her mom would be at a boiling point if the dad wasn’t supporting her but she was way too hostile to her daughter. Like set an example bish
Jarvis: "it's a good prop" Jarvis 2 seconds later: "mark bad prop everybody, bad prop" Jarvis again: "it's ok" Jarvis: "It's a good prop" Also Jarvis: "The best one that ever made"
I was friends with a “nice guy” like that and he stopped being my friend bc I shut him down after he flirted with me when I had a bf, now his current gf hates me for some reason
The fact that he managed to find somebody who likes him romantically should be considered (at this point in writing this comment I tried looking for a word that is equivalent to saying “evil miracle” but there isn’t one so I’ll coin it.) a malical
This whole cinematic universe gives off Moral Orel vibes in a way that I can't really articulate, it just feels like this small town filled with extremely adult situations that need to have some kind of moral development or spin when really there's something secretly nasty brewing under the surface
Jarvis you're the friggin best. I'll be real with you dude I'm having a rough go. Yesterday was my sister in laws funeral. A fight broke out. It was insane. I just woke up half way between drunk and hungover and my wife is still asleep so im all alone. this is so comforting. You have a very nice vibe. I love you buddy.
The “nice guy” video… okay so, a girl and a guy can’t be friends? They were friends and he’s expecting more even though they’re FRIENDS?? And the girl is so superficial so of course she’ll date people who are too…. One of the worst Dhar Mann videos lmao
The “friendzone” in all cases is literally just people not communicating or not setting up boundaries. This was mainly an example of the latter; she was a crap friend - not because she rejected him, but he even says she was never there for him - and in the end he’s still like “We’ll still be best friends!” That’s someone not setting boundaries and expectations. It’s absolutely bizarre and should not be how life works at all.
Yo, Jarvis, thanks for uploading these VODs. Ever since my iphone broke, I can't really watch streams on twitch (I'm homeless living in my car so I now have one of those $25 phones you buy at grocery stores/Walmart since I can't afford to properly replace my broken iphone 11 pro max, which was, like, my _one_ nice possession, and it doesn't have enough storage space for me to actually download twitch along with so many other apps I regularly used.), so I really appreciate you uploading them here so I can still watch and enjoy them. Man, I'd love to be able to actually _play_ bingo with y'all 'cause it looks like a *blast,* but at least I can settle for watching these super long and entertaining VODs. Keep doing you, Jarvis, and thanks for existing and distracting me from the struggle that is existing in my own head. 💙🖤💜
from my own experiences, the nice guy was the one who harassed, guilt tripped me, and was a jerk after all when i friendzoned him, thanks for helping me realize i was a lesbian mr nice guy that i used to be friends with
@confusedghost9320 I'm also gay and trans! I suppose he just creates a really cool accepting environment. literally one of the reasons I followed him was because he was using inclusive language in the first vid of his I watched and I was like "he'll yeah man!"
Girl got lucky too, $18/hour as a first time worker… I don’t even make that. $18/hour is a damn good wage. Shoulda made her earn $7.25/hour like most people in the US.
Especially for a restaurant, most restaurants pay tipped wages, which are a fraction of the minimum. The chef making that much is more believable, but a busser?
I was JUST typing a comment on the last video saying Jarvis should upload another one of these when I was like - wait, what if - and I checked and this was here I feel blessed thank you
Dude, it was literally yesterday when I was watching another one of your Dhar Mann videos and was like: "Damn I wish he would upload another Dhar Mann bingo video" and here we are. I hope this is gonna be a longer series on your channel cus I absolutely LOVE it
Also I find it funny in the credit card video when Joinen did Bingo he said the dad didn't count as unreasonably calm, but he did mark off credit card declined since she was denied the credit card
two independent restaurant owners being able to afford to pay their employees $20/hr and still have enough left over for extravagant purchases is so unrealistic lmao
Jarvis should do dangerous bingo: where if one bingo trope is hit a second time, people have to unmarked that spot and they can only remark it if happens a third time Edit: also I love how Jarvis says “mark your ‘you see’s like a parent telling their kid to eat their vegetables 22:49
"Gold Purse" is the funniest thing I've heard in the dharman universe. They only know the name brands for like, the first 10 things you hear in america, so they couldn't name an actual expensive purse brand. Chanel, Balenciaga, Gucci, Prada, at least pick something that defines why her "last gold purse" is actually a spoiled thing. That purse looks tacky af tbh.
my old roommate was like this. once i got a few bundt cakes from “nothing bundt cakes” for my bday & she asked if she could have one & i specifically said “you can have any of them except the lemon one & the red velvet one bc those are the ones my bf & i saved for them ck our bdays” (they’re a week apart) & she literally took a huge chunk out of the lemon one. & i also made some banana pudding & saved it for me & i found the empty bowl HIDDEN in her room along w powerades my bf bought for work. although she also stole my vibrator….& would tell me she would get jealous of my bf bc she “wanted me all to herself”
La Rose de Guadalupe needs a crossover episode with Dhar man episodes. I can only imagine the amount of time skips and somebody in the wrong has an attitude
23:06 no I get it, it's a thematic parallel. That was the shot where she friendzoned him, so this "switched sides" thing implies they have traded places, aka he's going to friendzone her.
Let me just say I am a nerd, and the ticket lists the Dhar Car as a '19 Cayenne. I'm probably wrong but I believe it's a Macan bc of the swept rear glass and almost "fastback" roofline. If you have a macan, take your own advice and be proud you have a fuc*ing macan dog lol
“Girl Friendzones Nice Guy, Lives to Regret Her Decision” implies that friendzoning the nice guy could be a deadly decision. Like, yeah, I hope friendzoning someone doesn’t cause her to drop dead and she will live. SMH this could be fixed by saying “she later regrets her decision” but I guess that’s not as dramatic.
Jarvis I love your videos so much... they been helping me through some tough times. Never stop!! (but minor feedback listening on headphones the eating sounds hurt my soul ;3; )
Can we talk about the math of her working/the paycheck? They said one month later, $897, $18 per hour. That means in a month she only worked about 50 hours. So about 12.5 hours a week. (Which, depending on the state is about all that’s legal if she’s under 16, but we know from her driving that she’s older). But 12.5 hours a week seems a little light, at least IMO
