Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck ‘Living Separate Lives' But 'Not Officially Separated' (Source) 

As difficult as marriages might seem, mine have taught me a lot... I've discovered that there's always a solution to every problem. Five years ago, my wife and I were facing divorce because of issues in our marriage, but we managed to resolve them. It was challenging, but we made it through.

They are done!! It’s just matter of time when they will announce officially

In a house that big you could live separately anyway - no need to move out.

Just keep hanging on, me and my husband lived separate for 2 years and we've been back together for almost 2 years, and we're still married, and it helped. You have to do what is best for y'all. I wish you the best!

Why did she marry after the last time it failed? It was never going to work. Be alone, with yourself.

She needs to call it quits and focus on her kids and herself for once. Leave men alone. 😢

She jump from man to man be with yourself, your kids! She needs to find herself 🙏🏾

Media reporting the same thing over and over…even with old pics. We’re bored and it doesn’t help the couple! Must we know every move they make!

I'm not a fan of either one, but I think Lopez wants it to work, and Ben looks like he's ready to move on.

Living separate lives, in separate locations without one another, but not separated. Got it. Shes followed her heart for better or worse, but not her marriages.

Why do these celebs get married after an hour of seeing eachother it makes no sense they all do it 😂😂 they were together years ago and got engaged immediately then ended it seems like celebs have a competition who can get married/engaged the most before they die 😂

I was hoping it would work this time but people don’t usually change unless there is accountability

Jennifer Lopez gets bored of men easily! She can't stay out of a relationship but gets rid of men fast! She doesn't want to be a wife, she just doesn't want to be lonely. Only be in a relationship unless you are sincerely dedicated to be in one! 💔

Who thought that this marriage was going to last? They need to stop getting into pointless relationships.

All she had to do was lay low and focus on her family and husband , she was lucky enough to have her moment in the sun , even though she can't sing and everybody knew it , she had the sex appeal and the fashion sense and became an icon for it , and she was in some decent and enjoyable movies cause she is a good actress, why try to prove herself an artist when she is not??? She's not an artist with depth but that is ok , not everyone has to be one , she was a part of pop culture and a lot of the songs she got were really enjoyable, doing all this movie silliness and using her relationship to have a come back was vane and so stupid, now people are laughing at her when in reality she did some amazing things and has been a savy business woman. Same with Madonna trying to shock people with sex when that moment has already passed in culture, if anything society is fed up with the sexual obsession, ...... anyways I don't like the way people are enjoying JLo s failure as if she never did anything good, most people just wanna be savage cause it makes them feel like they are in charge of this chaotic life. She'll recover, she's got money and family , she'll be fine

I will admit JLo is stunning but her need to constantly be in the press and social media - is exhausting . Tours, movies, skincare, perfumes, half time shows, talk show appearances, etc etc etc. Omg - you have enough money - stay home and parent your kids. You only get one shot and 18 years to do that wholeheartedly. Be there for them and shelve all the other stuff in your life that means nothing at the end of the day.

Poor kids their mom is not stable

It didn't work before when they were Engaged the First time!!! Ten years ago & That to me would have Been a sign that It's Not meant to Be Peroid

Can this woman live with a man for 5yrs straight???

Seperate lives seperate houses = separated .

Calling her a singer is generous

I'm bored 😴

This was never going to work. Opposites attract, but they're too different, and nothing has changed after 20 years. Jennifer never learned how to be single, and consequently, every relationship she has is doomed to fail until she learns to be ok with just herself for a while. She's not setting a good example for her kids.

Who cares? Diva cannot hold on to a man to save her life. She is the common denominator

Ben wants nothing to do with Jlulu

So pathetic and fake these Hollywood relationships

She's not throwing in the towel yet. He's just using her for segs. As long as she can be happy just being friends with benefits, which is what he clearly wants.

J-Lo looking at divorce #4...😮😮

She's a workaholic, it's hard to always play second fiddle to your partner's career.

He’s had some fine things laid upon his table with Garner and Lopez, but it never seems to be enough.

Nobody has the bawls to say it yet. That it was a ''re-bound'' marriage because Alex Rodriguez cheated on JLO. Poor Ben was completely 'blind-sided' when she went running back to him to get back together again, not knowing it was a re-bound to get revenge on Alex. He must have downed a full bottle of Jacks to agree to this madness. He was having so much fun, working, falling in love with his leading women, having relationships, and JLO pulls the rug and takes it all away from him. No. This guy needs to be free. Not caged. Trapped. Settled. JUST F R E E . . .

She’s JLO on steroids compared to the way she was 20 yrs ago. She needs fame and attention like a drug.

For a sec I thought I’m watching Darcey & Stacey show lmao 😂😂

Did this reporter raid Granpapi's closet? Why is that blazer 8 sizes too big?!?!

Divorce is coming

He is done

J Lo probably could’ve held onto her man if she wasn’t so worried about that one time when she was running up and down the block in the Bronx looking all crazy

She has had many " transitional" periods lol...jlo loves herself way above anyone else( including her children)....sad that she is more in need of a man and not really known as a devoted mom...i know people will come for me but it is true. He should have never left jennifer Gardner, she is a devoted mom and helped him when he was at his worst. She deserves better anyways.

What the hell is this? I mean what happened to being in love and stuff like that, I think they were trying to make up for lost time. What a waste of time this was man.

Bless Her Heart! 🙄

Some men can't be domesticated let him go

I pray and hope Bennifer 2.0 work there marriage out and fix things between them.

How do you rekindle your love, date each other again, move back in with one another, get engaged AGAIN, live single live but yet “ not officially separated” in such a few months… 😅

Ben and Jlo should have a therapist. Their marriage is a high profile affair. A therapist is vital in every marriage, not that you are fighting but just talk and receive constant advice. Family and friends are a no no. Some will take sides and complicate matters. ❤❤❤ We pray for you. Just because you listen to bad voices doesn't mean you must follow them❤

She keeps saying she had to walk away! BULL..Affleck left her for Garner..Marc left her for another..A Rod cheated always...Affleck pursued her when Garner talked marriage with Miller! DENIAL. SHE IS NOT AS GREAT AS SHE THINKS!

Be happier without Jen!!!

There are plenty of husbands and wives that live apart, because they want each other but just cant occupie the same space for too long, so when they see each other a few days a week its healthy for them. Sorry, but they both need it to work, as they have children invested in this marriage now aswell. I wish them both the very best, and im rooting for them.

This was a no brainer from the start, Jennifer goes thru men so quickly and is constantly chasing her youth she has no time in her life for anyone but herself

Frankly, this isn't surprising. Ben and Jennifer have very different personalities. Ben values his privacy while Jennifer enjoys being in the public eye, which isn't necessarily a bad thing. I wouldn't be shocked if they ended up getting a divorce.

Oh, surprise surprise, I called it when it first came out, ohhh we are soooo in love.... Ben cheats on his current wives, Jennifer gets bored, and I saw over and over Ben's face pissed off all the time. Jennifer Garner is sooooo blessed to have gotten away from the piece of s--t!

Frankly these two drama queens I could care less about. I wish them the best, but they have allowed Hollyweird mess up their lives!

She talks too much about their lives. Big mistake. I like Ben,he's talented. She's not. Big mistake on his part. She will continue to marry....

He probably can't afford her lifestyle. $60 mil for a home is huge!

8,9,10 hours a day working,dancing? So when does she have time for her precious children in all these years? Just curious

Jennifer please move on it's over

A TON OF MONEY CANT MAKE ANYONE HAPPY. THEY NEED TO SPLIT AND STOP THE DRAMA !!!

Too much works, Jen. Marriage needs to be nurtured

I pray that they will stay together

It was never meant to be. Years ago they didn't even get to marry. They should have realized it was a sign it wasn't going to work out Some things are not meant to be in life, this is one of them.

Jlo love herself publicity attention money and Drama. She can't sing and sell the tickets

I’m really not surprised…

Look at the beginning of this video when Ben and Jen are standing together - she has a demure look while he's got a bored look - like she told him to not smile until she gives him a cue. LOL

I really hope they can make it work. Nobody wants to see another breakup. Too many of those already, plus the kids.

So live separately but be married lmao what rubbish thats no marriage

Rich and famous dont have the luxury of trying to make it work and last and getting thru the hardships bc their money says "you can support yourself so if youre not 'happy' move on dont worry with changing and/or working thru lifes storms"

Who knew this would happen? She gets married just for something to do.

She Does Better On Her Own. Good Luck to Both if True.♥️🩶

If it didnt work the first time, it wint work out again. I didn't believe that they dint want to divorce.

Is she unhappy because she’s in a 46,000 square-foot house and she can’t find her husband in it? ( disconnected much) Maybe she should get a quaint house get closer to her husband and further away from the paparazzi and all of Hollywood drama I mean didn’t you learn the first time he’s not one for all of the cameras and lights and events, if he’s the love of your life, Jennifer, you’ll do anything who cares if you’re relevant as a celebrity be relevant in your marriage just saying!!!!

What’s the point of getting married if you’re just going to divorce over the simplest thing???

When Jennifer Lopez publicly showcased her marriage and love story with Ben Affleck through her self-financed movie and documentary, it captured the public's attention and scrutiny. Many have been fixated on the potential for their inevitable divorce, eager to tell J.Lo, "In your face, narcissist and self-absorbed non-singer!"

Stay single already. You can’t stay with one Man. Face it already.

Jen you deserve so much better !

Find the happiness you deserve ; push forward for healthier you leaving stress behind you’ll find peace for the better love ❤❤❤

imagine being with somone that immidiately makes is public to every one, on social media, on the news, to all their friends that he or she is together with you, and you yourself arent there emotionally just yet.... very uncomfertable. Jennifer has always groomed her men to get the most out of her carrer.

I was hoping it would. I like those two together. 😞

46,000 sq.ft. estate just because she's a princess and deserves everything knowing she can't tolerate living with a normal human!

SEPARATED to sever his image from her image. She’s out of touch; cruel to her staff n others; extravagant with money to show the public she succeeded; and BLABS to the public in a movie their relationship to profit from disrespectful of his love for privacy

If it didn't work out before most likely won't now ...there is a reason someone is an ex.

"its the feeling we are chasing not the person"

So it's going to be a Will and Jada thing. With being separated, but still married.😑

Jennifer you’re gorgeous

It is about time this lady J Lo put out to pasture..

It sounds like work is the priority and relationships are second….unless both agree to that, it’s a recipe for disaster. Ms. Jen, you can’t have it all. Decide where and with who you want to be with when you are old. No one is going to care about your fame when you are sick and dying, except your family. Think about it

Setting a great example for your kids to follow or even think of marriage. Ughhh

Does anyone else think their marriage was just a publicity stunt gone wrong? I mean perhaps she hoped their union would garner ticket sales and sell her music; and he just went along with it to help a friend…..Just a thought.

There going be promoting two movies together unstoppable and Kiss a Spider so I think this will help them get there marriage back on track.

Please do away with these anchors with the bratty tone, vocal fry, & awful pronunciation. “Being a great dod?” It’s dad. “Lost month?” It’s last month. “Unhoppy?” It’s unhappy. Please do better. 🙏🏽

Hahahahahaha again.

So sad when your 5th marriage ends in divorce again...Maybe marriage isn't your thing Jen!

I do hope they work it out. JLo really needs to figure out how to be ok with being alone though. She never has been. The second one relationship ends, she's in a new one immediately. Something in her seems to feel like she needs a man and then she hangs on for dear life far too long. She needs to look at that. It's GOOD to be on your own, esp when you're rich and don't NEED a man! She and Taylor man, both need to realize for them, a man is more trouble than they are worth. Spend a few years at least just focusing on other things that give you joy and you'll find you just don't have the time for that nonsense. A rich, successful woman with lots of friends and family is MUCH better off without a man, frankly. Their egos are just too fragile to be with a woman like that so WAIT as long as it takes to find the actual RIGHT one who can handle it rather than jumping neck deep one after the other. They just set themselves up for one heartbreak after another. She pretty much called Ben the day she split from ARod. He's an alcoholic with a gambling addiction who smokes...none of which JLo would ever do as she's a healthnut. C'mon...she knew that the first time she dumped him. Before that Marc? She knew he was an abuser and knew PDiddy was as well. And Taylor, social butterfly that she is, wasting 6 years with someone who never wanted her to leave the house? Didn't want to have to be in public with her? From him to Healy? On drugs and the antithesis of all she believes in? To Kelce, superjock milking his new limelight for all its worth? C'mon...I LOVE both of these women and respect them so much for all they have achieved, but this one thing, man, they NEED to take a look at it and say to themselves, as Taylor wrote, "It's me, I'm the problem, it's me". Learn to be OK without a man for a while...it'll do you good!!! They are badass women...seriously...the fairy tale doesn't have to be riding off into the sunset with the prince who will stifle you, you OWN THE FREAKING CASTLE! Be the Queen. Like Taylor's Bejeweled video, she said No to the prince, but kept the castle...do that. Sometimes a HAPPY ending is actually you being on your own living your BEST life with no one to use you, stifle you, or try to make you less.

Well, we can guess that money isn’t the issue.

Ben looks like he might be drinking again. I hope I’m wrong.

Who’s not shocked? Me

No one in Hollywood have a happy marriage

Jlo what is all this about are you staying with ben

Its a long fall from the high horse, tuck n roll 🤣

I love her and them together, but they broke up last time because if all the press, YET she hasn't shut up about their reconciliation since it happened. I am definitely starting to think she is the problem with how and why all of her relationships end. Moreover, while I would love to meet her, I am also glad I haven't because I've been told over and over again how very unpleasant of a person she is, which is sad because without the public, you wouldn't be J-LO.

I seen lot of comments about her all over the internet saying the same thing about her nearly everyone feeling sorry for her. Why? Pray for Jennifer Lopez I feel sorry for her I feel bad for her No sweet talks about Ben 🤷 Where's Ben Affleck fans? Did they died or something? Not sweet words about him. I don't stand people. What does people sees in her? There's lot of pictures of Ben lately looking not healthy he's losing weight hes in a lot of stress and anxiety hes leaning on Matt Damon for support. Why people feeling sorry for her? She looks okay to me 🙄 hey Jlovers your idol is healthy as a horse 😂.

Good luck! He has all the chance to sleep around 😂