I think Jody makes a good point. There is too much emphasis put on the value of a Mothers love, and not enough credit given to the structure, discipline, and guidance that a child receives from a father. And they wonder why these kids are out here acting out and swinging on teachers…
That's because most of society is brain washed men for the past decades were taught to overly worship wemen and put them above they self and above men in general when it's really the other way around no disrespect but wicked sounded like fool but most men feel like that because subconsciously that shit been push for so long
No such thing as a bad mother? The lady who birthed me abandoned me to be with my dad’s best friend back when I was 15(32 now) and haven’t looked back nor have any remorse in her decision. Funny because my dad is black, but he stayed despite the fact he definently wasn’t the best while the lady I’m suppose to call “mom” has no place in my eyes besides hell.
Something I learned throughout my 40+ years “some people were meant to just help bring you into this world rather than be in your life.” I really hope you find peace with that situation and forgiveness for her. I had a situation similar to that with my father. I didn’t realize everything I felt towards him until I was standing over him in his casket giving part of his eulogy.
Jody speaking facts. I am married, and we have 4 daughters, and my wife tells me all the time, they talk to you more than they do me about things. Most girls are attached to their dads, and boys are attached to the mother.
JODY IS 1000% correct. They love their dads NO MATTER WHAT! Even if the dad is not there, that’s one reason why mothers and daughter clash as they get older.
Yes ...there are bad mothers smh .... Just like their are bad fathers smh. .. . Accountability is crazy smh ..... We gotta circle the wagon on our community and who bring it down internally ......
There's an actually study on that as well. The chances of a child being successful being raised by single dad is close to the same percentage as a 2 parent home. While the chances of a child especially a boy is drastically low when it's a single mother.
@S4C AKA Gospel Gorillaz I am blessed to be raised by two parents in the same household. I can say that I learned how to dream from my mother, but I learned how to face reality from my dad. From the age of 5-11: I was closer to my mother than my father, but from 12- now I more drawn to my father than my mom because my dad is more open-minded than my mother. I have love for both. Something my dad told me, he said that it's not that women are smarter than men.. It's just women talking the loudest, and they speak more than men - a man takes a longer time to come up with an answer than a woman because a man wants to be certain that it works because he does want to come back to it
@@stevejulmiste7525 I was blessed as well to be raised in 2 parent home and I can attest to a similar experience. All children deserve and need that balance.
I agree with Jody. Mama is the boy's favorite. Daddy is the girl's favorite. Nobody "loves" either parent more. It's just who the child relies on more for comfort. Subconsciously, as a child matures, a mother becomes less protective of the daughter than the son, and same for a parent. It's like saying SUBCONSCIOUSLY, ima give the same sex child the leeway i would've wanted, and I'm going to protect my precious opposite sex baby
Based on this conversation you can clearly tell which of these gentlemen has the most objective experience. Jody Breeze body language alone comes off as more grounded / less emotional.
We gotta realize, and I’m a father who’s got a terrible baby mama that our children need a FULL HOUSE! We need to provide our children with a mother and a father!!! But when that just can’t happen, a father shouldn’t be given any less credit than a mother. I’m riding with Jody!
That mother can't do no wrong mess is a problem in our community. The problem with the black community is that there's alot of not s#i mother's out here.
You Are Correct In Your Assessment Brother 👌🏿. It Is At The Epicenter Of Our Problems. The Narrative Is Why Women Nowadays Believe They Are Beyond Reproach. Everyone Doesn't Need A Microphone, Nor A Platform To Speak Upon Everything 🤦🏿♂️. He's Proven That Smh 😂. In Closing The "Everyone Is Entitled To Their Own Opinion" Is 1,000% False. You're Entitled To An "INFORMED" Opinion 👌🏿. Shit Like This Is More Detrimental Than Good 👊🏿.
FACTZ!!!! I say that all the time...ACCOUNTABILITY!!! Mfs like to pick & choose when they hold people accountable...There is nothing nobody can tell me about myself that I haven't already recognized & has started working on. I'm more critical of myself more than anybody. When it's always somebody else fault, u never grow. Woken get their kids taken all the time, so they do know there's bad mothers
Its not a community issue though, its a world issue. But to be honest when the choice is available, alot of men have been the ones to drop their parental responsibilities so can't be too mad when women get the credit.
@Kay Dee That is a BOLD FACE LIE.i did a report on this subject a few years ago. And what I found was not only sad but disheartening. First of all this is mostly a western civilization issue. Countries outside of European colonized countries don't have these issues.
I'm more emotionally attached to my father than my mother. I was raised by my father through my teenage years and both together when I was a child. When my parents pass away I'll be more hurt when my father passes than my mother. I love them both though.
My tootie pie riding wit dad ✋✋ hands down.. If there's no such thing as a bad mom, then all fathers are great.. there's been women on trial fuh killing their children.. but they're not bad parents huh... It's deadbeat moms and dads.. the court system is beyond F'd up when it comes 2 dealing wit parenting without knowing facts..
Daughters definitely gonna rock with their fathers more, especially if he’s a good father. I’m a father of three girls and we have a bond that a mother just doesn’t.
The system would rather give the child to the mother because the state gets money from every child that's on child support. Most men won't put their baby moms on child support so it doesn't benefit the system to grant the father custody. Unless the father can prove the mother to be unfit. Plus whoever said the momma is always right. Is crazy when I just seen a mother put her 2 boys in the oven and cooked them to death.
Thats cap!! The only reason mfs think that is b/c the majority of mfs only had their moms. They aint have no choice but to be krazy about their mom...I know alot of girls who have gotten into it with their mom, even sometimes physical altercations. If u had a single mother & ur mama was all u had, ofcourse ur gonna be krazy about ur mama, but Alot of people cant see the world outside of themselves. People gotta learn how to look at thing's objectively instead of what they've mostly witnessed
There's no bad mother lmao Let me ask my older brother who's mom abandoned him and just left him with our dad, if he thinks his mom was a good or bad mother. Jody is right, if BOTH parents are actually there for there kids and they have a good relationship with there kids then MOST not all but MOST of the time boys are mama's boys and girls are daddies girls. My mom is my number 1 but without a great dad like I have, I would of ran wild in the streets. I think people forget how important a good dad is because you clearly see how a lot of these kids end up, especially in the poorer areas with just being raised by a single mom.
this conversation is to broad to box this in. It all comes down to the relationship of the parent and child. Shit i know folks who dont even speak to there mom or dad. so this is really a dead end argument.
A mother's love???? Wicked what galaxy you from??? Courts don't give a dam about a mother's love😅😅.....child support is a 68 billion dollar a year BUSINESS! Mother's love😅😅😅😅 wicked stop it
Wick and b high are from the simp Era. The Era that picked strong bull headed women. Jody from a Era where he is more involved and will stand on what's right and wrong. Most girls babies today prefer the father over the mother because the men are more involved. Maybe for entertainers that's gone alot but regular folks. The daughters want to be with the father.
Put simply, its about who spits the best game. 4 kids, married 16+ years. Love is love, but they know who to go to lol. Pop got the game and keep it real
Nah I definitely understand what Jody sayin. My brother got a lil girl n he don't play da radio wit her but she fasho a daddy's girl. Momma can do no wrong but she joined at her pops hip n ain't gon play bout him. Granted lil bruh had to put the work in and fight some hellified battles for it to get like that but children are way more aware than we give em credit for
Jody for the win go anywhere online and you will see plenty of videos of mothers filming them and their husbands embracing and their daughter would push the mother away from the father and move in the mothers spot as if to say that’s my daddy not yours. That’s why the saying mommas boy and daddy’s little girl exist
From the womb my 3 boys favor me more. They dont ask for mama and they live with their mothers. They rather be with me and i strict as hell. Bond with your kids be open be available
Dam wicked u normally be on point think u off on this one man thinks that’s might just be your house hold Ty all need to do a vote on this one Jody be right
Bro Jody straight up right I've had custody of my son's since my youngest was 1 year old. You can't accept no for an answer.. I told my oldest son's mother I'll go broke paying lawyers before I give you a cent.
@@FLINTmitten810 it's messed up but real talk women is petty. They always talk bad about kids Dads even when they were the ones who was wrong. All the dudes I know who have they kids don't never bring up their relationship with their ex's hell most of us won't even bring new women around our kids until we know how long we gonna keep em around!
The guy in the Yellow t-shirt doesn’t understand that the connection from the womb is only from the mother. The child doesn’t build that same connection. Like Jody said, the love is shown once the child arrives. I grew up in a Household where my grandfather and grandmother had 7 kids, 6 girls and 1 boy. My Grandfather could do no wrong in their eyes. He died in 2000, 23 years ago. I’m 37 now and my aunts still can’t take watching old family reunion videos of him. But it hasn’t been that hard losing my grandmother/ their mother.
Great Convo!! I'm on Jody's side on this one.. I know WAY more father's that would rather have custody of their child. Some mother's be on that BS OR don't have the wisdom to grow a seed and certain father's see that and OH NO.. Not my child!! 💯
Lol this topic isn't debatable. Jody is making perfect sense. The other brothers seem to be indoctrinated on a western feminism mentality. The structure lends to the son and mother having a genuine connection that no other woman will give him. Same thing with the daughter and father. The world is created in balance and duality. This is what makes the complete family structure so important...
When he said the girls will try to play they daddy more because they mama know what they are dealing with at a certain age. But in my experience as a father with a girl that’s now 19 going on 20 she definitely gravitate towards me more and is closer to me.
Great convo both made good points but I agree more with JB.. I’m a father and my daughter is my true soldier no matter what.. girls tend to lean towards their father especially if he was in her life!!
I AGREE WITH JODY. THE SYSTEM IS FUCKED UP . ESPECIALLY WHEN IT COMES TO US . I RAISED MY DAUGHTER AND SHE IS SOPHMORE AT XAVIER BRO. IF THE MAMA IS FUCKED UP , GET YO KIDS
Jody speaking facts...a girl's 1st love is her father if he's there being a real father to her because she's going to base men in the future off of her father,and the father prepares her for things to come in the future. Same with boys too
Somebody tell be high and big galaxy Jody Breeze is right take a poll of a girl that got her daddy in her life versus a girl that got a mama in her life. The little girl loves her daddy more.
Naw shut didn't go right when precedent shit its a roll of the dice with court shit it come the child support and custody frfr bm abandoned my boys and she still won custody smh
No such thing as a bad mom ??? 😳 They on the news all the time like beating they kids to death abandoning they kids at home & the mom relocating to another state y they are still in a previous state or choosing a man over they own child it happens all the time its just not shown in the light more as a man both are capable of being bad parents though
Jody right about daughters and fathers. My mom told me she was jealous of our bond growing up. I was my dad's rode dog....momma came second unintentionally. I didn't have sex until I was 20. I didn't need a man....cause I had my father's love. But I realized dad was a f*** boy by 20...and I went to the hoodest n***** I could find. After I found out my dad wasn't s***, trust for men in general dissipated. At 38....I still don't think men could be faithful...and I don't hold them accountable. It wasn't that he cheated...it was how disrespectful he was with it. Good Fathers are everything to a daughter.
