I’ve stepped in to help a woman getting beat on three different occasions and on all three they went back to the guy that abused them. That’s a whole other conversation. Praying for Cassie and all women going through BS like this.
To be honest it just seems like she is making excuses for women…don’t get me wrong shouldn’t no man be beating on no woman but the “excuses” to stay are crazy
The women in my life know…don’t call me unless you want the BS handled. I’m not coming to talk or play therapist/counselor. I’m getting him out the way period!
That's how it was done back in the day, the men stood up for the women in their lives, I clearly remember my aunt's boyfriend put hands on her, He disappeared, when I saw him years later... he ddnt even look our way💯💯💯
I don't agree with beating on women period. Let's get that clear. But I wish a man would try me about anything I got going on with a woman. If she said I hit her she a lie and you dead as hell
Jody definitely not lying. My ex wife called the police on me b/c she was mad that we were getting divorced. Said I beat her up. She was in Jacksonville & I was in Miami at the time of the call. How Sway!? 🤔😂 The military & JVille police dept got me a restraining order to protect me after finding out that she was coocoo for Cocoa Puffs & just making up lies trying to ruin my career b/c I didn’t want her nomo. It’s a evil world we living in 😂😂😂
In the black community there has been talk about Diddy and R. Kelly for years. But we ignored it because of the money and music. The record companies knew and didn't care. Because all people were thinking about was the money.
Sounds like victim blaming to me.. How can you watch a video of a 95 pound woman getting stomped by her demon possessed boyfriend in a hotel and blame the woman? Lol you can’t make this up
Being abused by a man with as much power as Puff wouldn’t have the same effect as being abused by an average man. Just because of who Puff was made it hard for her to find people willing to interfere.
Sis speaking facts. Once a person realizes if you stay or go you might die you just go and take your chances. And hope he moves on so you can live. Peace Everyone 🙏🏽
Speaking from experience, Restraining orders don't help, police don't either, the system is jacked up. I had a cousin do everything possible and still met her demise.
There's been situations where I seen men jump to the rescue of the woman and the woman turn around and start fighting the guys trying to help her....shit tucked up on both sides .....but honestly it boils down to people mental and alot of people heads aren't screwd on too tight now and days as well as we living in this soft ass time where people so scared and won't help one another
@taharqa332 there definitely would be alot of police at these events as well too. if I'm a victim being abused I would be screaming for my life as soon as I see police.
Erin is right....what she said towards the end is on point....brotha is not informed with reality.....there are too many women who did the right thing over and over and over, and still got killed at the end of the day......she's right....gotta give her props
Don't let these women sign you up for a fight you had nothing to do with. She'll do some fawk shit to a man and when he deals with her; first thing she wants to do is call her "BROTHER, COUSINS, UNCLES, BABY-DADDY" - I knew a dude who had a situation where his old lady called her brothers to fight him because he slapped her around. He had money in the house and him and her were the only two who knew where the money was - two stacks come up missing and she saying she don't know what happened. She calls her brothers to get with him; she told them he hit her but didn't tell them WHY!!! So when the brothers showed up - they talked to dude; he told them - yeah I slapped her; she took two racks - only me and her know where the money is stashed. Lucky the brothers are real ones - they both was like "Ok then; she got what she deserved brother in law; we gonna stay out ya business" What if the brothers was just wreckless and didn't listen? Women start a lot of drama.
@@TRILLTALKTV idk Jenny from the block plus she was too high profile and had her own security far as caresha she ratchet and will be done cut puff in his sleep and Miami goons got her back puff ain't tryna catch dat heat he lives in miami
I don't know, bro. Something isn't adding up. I think this was a chess move by Cassie. She may have been involved as well. She could have been trafficking others with him nobody is talking about the alleged sex workers Daphne and yung Mia (could be others), and the leak clears her from involvement by saying she was a victim too. The amount of time she was with him, if you read the case files, you will have a better understanding especially the birthday situation.
You may have a point. But also, she could've been forced to help him recruit. Just look at how a lot of girls who have been forced into sex trafficking by a dangerous pimp and then they start helping him recruit other girls. A lot of times, they get abused if they don't go along with it. Not every woman is strong enough to just run away and leave. Most people think it's just that easy, but it's not😢. Either way this is just a thought, don't really know what they had going on..
@@latroyaltaylor8985 this is true I know a lot of times men use the women to lure other women on to what they got going on. They feel like women let they guard down with other women. Most times when women are being sex trafficked its usually a women being the decoy.
@@latroyaltaylor8985 I agree I know a lot of times guys use women to lure other women on to what they got going on. Most times when women are being trafficked it’s usually a woman being used as a decoy. They understand that most women let their guard down in the presence of another woman.
She ran away from ryan leslie to diddy to further her career. She laughed when he made kim eat her(cassie) tampon. So she can miss me.@@latroyaltaylor8985
Jodi fear is real! A lot of these women are to afraid because of all the threats they have been made not only against the woman, but her children etc… I had a girlfriend that was killed after five years of marriage once she left he found her at a girlfriend house & killed her & shot her Mother, but she survived then killed hisself in front of their 3 & 5 year old daughter’s That was twenty-nine years ago brother & it’s been a never ending cycle. You hear of these same story about violence against women everyday. I thank God I’ve never experienced violence in a relationship. They say love is blind, but damn! Had another girlfriend & her husband blew her people house 🏠 up when he couldn’t find her. Cassie was dealing with more than we will ever know.
Has anyone ever asked the question on how did Cassie leave. There's no documented police reports or allegations of any domestic abuse or anything... if he wasn't allowing it how did she leave and move on and get married with no issues in making that happen... I'm confused on that🤔
False sense of confidence, lack of communication, & historical facts/fiction or images of family members negativity. Are there for an affected target to respond in the worse ways. It's been a tactical/intentionally placed obstacle. Put in place, for time off from Life Skills of improvement. Derailed chance to even up the head start of those in charge.
To her point of domestic assault getting less time than other crimes, maybe thats the case to a first time offender. A 2-3x time convicted offender most likely get time
Stepping in and helping women that are being abused is tricky too, you all know someone who has been killed for not minding their own business. I choose to mind my own business if and when I see that. Y'all women love to much toxic stuff
No1 speaks for the BATTERED MEN, Publicly Men DNT speak on it & women DSNT LIKE taking accountability, especially when 80% of women from Non-suburban Areas... HIT ME, BEAT MEN, STAB MEN, LITERALLY... DOMESTICALLY ABUSE MEN, yeah she took one for the team, but Cassie is noooo "victim" here. Kim Porter YES, Cassie mayyybe
In so many stories you can go watch black girl lost. And that's happening right now real time babies who were born in the 90s early 2000s they're dead at the hands of a man. The most recent case that I just watched is a young lady who kept going to the police and she had three kids about her ex-boyfriend or the baby father one of the two. This man was so crazy and so determined on what he wanted to do he followed her to the police station he held the door for the police and let the police in. The young lady was standing right there she started to tell the police this is my ex-boyfriend he's crazy he's trying to kill me he's threatening me and the police talk to him. If they let him walk out and I promise you less than 24 hours later he killed that girl. Now they got the police under investigation cuz they want to know why didn't you do more
My cousin went to fend for his sister gettin beat up by her bf… my cousin got to the house upped the strap on side and his sister jumped in front of dude and said kill me 😂😂😂😂I knew then I will never involve myself in nobody domestic issues cuz people b crazy about eachother…. Diddy definitely a foul niccu tho
Jody had me going for a min but you know he gotta play devil's advocate. Lmfao. Like come on bro these woman most times see no way out. Telling a mf to just leave or call the cops wont work when dealing with a crazy mf.
Well they need to stop crying about DV if they ain’t gonna do what’s necessary at all. You just keep there getting your ass beat? I’m not buying that shit at all.
The woman was literally trying to leave this nigga and he came out with only a towel and still beat the shit out of her. Bribed the hotel and all. Like for a woman that gives her no hope seeing the amount of reign a rich and powerful man has and the length he will go thru to hide his bs.
How about everyone mind they own business, stop stressing the world with billionaires problems, I don't give a fuck to hear what my neighbor got going on, mind ya own business
Yall talking about man i know 5 difference girls that ant going talk to you if you not beaten on them especially if you got money you can beat them all day
I have a different opinion on this but I believe Cassie got everything she deserved. She sold her soul to the devil and expected him to play nice. I think diddy and if I was his advisor I would have advised him to pay her NOTHING, NOT ONE DAMN DIME!!! It’s funny she couldn’t get away for 10 years but then all of a sudden she gets away and is married to someone else GTFOH she got exactly what she wanted!!!
The majority of relationships are two way dv situations, that’s why women stay in those situations majority of the time. And let’s not act like we don’t see the type of men most of these chicks are dating, I would even be friends with the dudes they date
Well, she didn't leave after eight years of the tape... are you serious talking about? He ran her down in the hallway this way out of context of what we are talking about.
The best apology is changed behavior🤐👂🎭🎭 and most of the time the police don’t do nothing that’s why most women don’t go to them and most time family members don’t do anything either if you don’t believe me, check out the movie, The burning bed and A Cry for help 😢‼️🤬
It's truly F'd up what Diddy did to her. However, let's no loose sight of the accountability by the woman. That way too often get's swept under the rug. She could have easily called the police. Instead she decided to take settlement money. Also, Jody brought up getting involved mentioned the possibility of him having to kill the man. He left out the other possibility.......... the ninja could kill you. You risking your life. Either way you get the short end of the stick. Like another brother said in the comments....I ain't doin' it. Especially if it ain't my mother, sister, daughter or wife. Sorry Not Sorry. I say let 911 & the sisterhood be their protectors. Many say they don't need a man & don't even respect men.... until they need help. Tell me I'm wrong!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
