And also calls awareness to sexual harassment without being didactic about it. Today they would have extra zoom-ins and interviews with Pam, for instance, about how she felt being called cute by her boss, instead of letting it be a funny moment where the audience can decide for themselves that Michael is a pig.
True. Especially Michael in the first season. They were trying to make him as creepy and unlikable as Ricky Gervais’s character on the British office. But it didn’t work for American audiences so they eventually made him more lovable.
Jae Jinn Newsflash dude, women don’t actually want “equality.” They got that shit a long time ago and then said, “hey, I wonder what else we can get from men before they call us on our bullshit?”
Note to self: earn masters degree in psychology and become a behavioral expert for the FBI before asking Whitney Cummings if she would like to grab a cup of coffee
In January 2018, a woman using the pseudonym "Grace" accused Ansari of sexual misconduct in an article on Babe.net by Katie Way. The article was met with a polarized response among commentators and the public, with disagreement as to whether the incident described in the Babe article constituted sexual misconduct.
@@heathermillsphantomlimb9314 I'm pretty sure he has. I know he's gone off about how stupid Whitney is on O&A a few times. I think I remember hearing him arguing with her directly once, too.
Rape in marriages are actually not that uncommon. Lots of people gave the attitude that you “can’t” rape your spouse, and some countries have had or still have have laws to reflect it.
@@TheBorwig So if your wife stuck something up your ass without your consent would that be o.k? When you married her did you give her complete, total dominion over your body - or does that only go one way?
@@stevebailey5591 I'd say most people are, I don't know, more consistent with their sexuality? No one denied that it was possible to get raped by the person you are married to. I think I would trust my fiancée enough to not sodomize me randomly after I am married.
@@myrlewulf6256 I think it was implicit in Ben O's response to Freddy_H that the idea you could be raped by your spouse is somehow ridiculous - which, of course, it isn't.
Yet women can't read men's non verbal cues when women start telling a shitty story. I have a very pronounced annoyance on my face when I know a woman is about to waste the next 10 minutes of my life with some prolonged shit no one cares about, except her. Yet that doesn't deter her from finishing the story, expecting me to be interested, and continue telling me stories later on.
i think we can all agree that Chappelle other than being a legendary comic is also a very wise open minded person, just look at the way he took care of the backlash from the jokes he made on trangender people.Everything he says is very well spoken and deep really makes you think about shit
@@authurgunn3880 he did something pretty much .0000000000000001 percent of people would do. Which is walk away from that massive amount of money. He's pretty open minded.
I love that men are expected to evolve to be able to decipher when yes means yes and when yes means no but women aren't expected to be able to just say what they mean. You don't want to have sex, say no. If he still does it then that's rape and that's a crime.
True. Also massive generalisations on how women express emotions. If I have a problem with someone I just fucking say it with words like a normal person.
I’m a Gen X-er, so I came of age during a time when women apparently didn’t have much agency. I never once had a problem telling a guy “No”, and I never ONCE had a guy force me into some thing that I didn’t want to happen. Now I’ve had guys get upset, and maybe call me a few names out of frustration, but I never felt pressured into having “sex that I didn’t want to have”. I suppose nowadays though, men are expected to be clairvoyant, because women apparently aren’t able to effectively communicate? Like WTF?!?!?
Youre basing your whole argument basing off just your experience Ms genz. World doesnt work like that. You dont have to suck up to men like this to seem cool.
We genuinely love you for this comment. It's important! I'm from a very different sexual era, mid 80's & 90's, and I simply don't recognize the absolute INSANITY that today's world is offering as normality. WTF is, "Consent Training"?! Girl, I could make your head implode if I told you a couple story's of my encounters with females. I'll put it like this.., both of us in my car, in a car-park after meeting for the first time. I must have said NO at least 40-50 times. Minimum!!! I thought no meant NO!
She was talking facial recognition technique. Insane, especially with makeup and Botox in some women's face. She also left out how trashed many young women get, on their own, and then how that factors in regretting the actions of the night before. Or it gets blamed on the guy, because he kept buying drinks she had to finish. This every man is a predator, on some type of spectrum, is fucking insanity.
@@Allagi22 don't cry man- i find her obnoxious and overbearing but hey- that's just my opinion... I'm not running a campaign here ace.... Good for you standing up for her reputation in the comment thread- it's brave work your doing ✋😬😂😂😂😂😁😘
Wow. Imagine how many women had suicidal thoughts just by skimming over this. More than one. I hope your sister, mother, or any female person close to you never has to go through something that soul stripping. If they do, I hope your stance stands. You sound like you'd be a hoot at a funeral.
@@sl.3548 i dont even know what is specific about what the dude said and i dont even know what is specific about what you said .. i feel like it would be beneficial for your point for you if i said everyone and anyone i know under 30 cant articulate they dont want to have sx. that just sounds.... odd, it comes off so distinct just hearing that snippet. it doesnt have to be common it sounds horrible but it sounds so weird.
Aka.. The (SICKENING) Brand NEW TIGHT stretched face of Kristen Wiig, she could barely relay any sort of emotion a week or so back on SNL. What is considered beautiful & yes the social pressures from all the phony “PLZ LOOK AT ME’’ social media’s is grossly spine chilling!
It's funny, because she talks about "being worn down" by advances. When I was a teenager, girls would tell me I gave up too easily. They'd say things like "I only said no, so you'd try harder". Dude, you still said no. So I stopped trying in that particular moment. And this was from multiple women. Even up into my 30s and 40s, women would tell me this.
Then call the police. Don’t stick around and let him sleep with you and then cry about it. You’re hanging out with some weird fucking guys if that’s a problem.
Double Tap Azh of corse some men are crazy. But he isn't one of them. He called her an Uber so why putting him on the same level as rapists as sexual perverts ? That doesn't help us women
@@doubletapazh9081 Yeah-- but she wasn't talking about situations with crazy guys. She was talking about scenarios in which she just didn't want to disappoint. If a guy is trying to keep you from leaving either physically or with threats...then we've moved on to whole different territory. However, if it's just that the guy is a bit insistent as long as he doesn't stop you when you try to leave...you don't have a problem.
It reminds me of that scene in Groundhog Day when Bill Murray kept seeing that annoying guy Ned Ryerson and to get rid of him he finally went up to him and gave him a passionate hug and said "I've missed you so much. I don't know where you're headed. But, can you call in sick?"
Michael Scott is quite possible my favorite character from any series ever. Movies and shows combined. It’s hard to explain but the man is just.. he’s just perfect.
@@interestingcommentbut....7378 Proving that she's batshit insane or that women who think like this should be avoided? What in her personality do you find redeemable my guy?
she says that she was coerced into sex, yet she put herself in the situation’s with men, and said yes. This is entirely her fault, and she needs to not expect men to read her mind. if someone says, yes, they consented.
I've been both ugly and attractive. I grew out of my ugly and I can say life as an attractive person is top-shelf s***. Doors magically open People automatically trust you add on being male and white and you have hit a f****** Lottery.
She clearly has unresolved trauma surrounding boundary issues. I don't think she is aware that this is the reason for her not feeling like she could have a voice in relationships and speak her needs. If she realized she has issues with her boundaries being violated earlier in life, then she could address that, heal old wounds, And create her own boundaries and take total responsibility for her own actions and choices moving forward. There's nothing wrong with this woman. She just lacks self awareness at this moment in her life.
What about when because you're afraid of being creeped out so often you're perpetually feel creeped out and project those feeling onto interactions that wouldnt otherwise be creepy?
She reacted petty and vindictive, after seeing him receive an award on TV, months after their encounter. Instead of going to the Police, or resolving this privately with him, she willingly went to the press, to smear him publicly. This was a deliberate character assassination, over a bad date!
I keep hearing it as a bad date, I'm not sure if it really was, or whose fault it was. To me it sounds like Aziz was trying to rectify the problems with the date as it went along, that's pretty aware and caring, so whose fault is it really that it went bad.
@L Aziz's only "deed" was that he wasn't a mind-reader. This wasn't sexual assault! This was buyer's remorse on her part. Comparing this to Bill Cosby is such poor taste
Good GOD, Whitney turns every convo into a THERAPY SESSION--FOR HER!!! Like frigg, i thought you were a comic, do you ever talk about anything other than your issues ? Even on her podcast, she monopolizes the convo and makes it about her while her guest sits there like "Ummm, when's it my turn to talk ??"
She has an extremely high level of entitlement... expecting everyone to read their minds whilst they say something totally different. Here's a radical idea, how about being honest about how you feel rather than BS people?
RU-vid Dedenne ya but what one person may find creepy another person may not. I say hi to strangers most the time to be nice. Most find it nice and welcoming. But someone can find it weird and creepy. It's not my fault they are uptight assholes and read into shit. Kinda the same
@@miraclesage8622 Yes but a guy who's socially clueless with women is just guilty of being a dweeb, he isn't guilty of rape just because he had sex with a woman who wasn't very into it but still went along with it and never told him she didn't want to do it.
So it's Aziz's fault for begging. He wasn't saying I'm famous. I have this Netflix show. The girl was so upset after that she took a shower in his hotel/apartment.
My ex was constantly annoyed I was unable to read her “little queues”. It got to the point where i never believed what she said because at first I would listen to what she literally said and then a week later she’s like “well of course I said that but I wasn’t actually fine.” It was always my responsibility to know when she was lying. It was never her responsibility to tell the truth.
Wow dude, that sucks, if I say something I try my best to stick to it. We are just humans and no one can read my mind just like I can't read anybody else's. It's kinda sad to me to see a lot stories about having this kind of interactions with females. Expressing what you want and/or need is not necessarily the easiest thing but that's the only way you can be understood. Also, sticking to what you say, if I say I'm sad, I AM sad, even if I don't feel sad a week from that moment, doesn't change what happened in the past 🤷🏻♀️ Not sure that I'm explaining myself, I hope I did. -- just as a side note: I actually have had a bit of difficulty when trying to decipher what my previous partners want/need, thankfully that is not an issue with my current partner but I feel like it is also difficult for guys to open up a bit, so having an open and sincere conversation can be tricky to navigate.
@@Alitasplace took me a long time to realize communication is the key. my last partner and I sat down and talked for hours and hours before anything intimate but I've had the same issues with other women that the guys have mentioned here ✌️
It's the responsibility of the person expressing the thoughts, feelings, or information to do so easily or effectively, to avoid misunderstandings, frustration, and conflicts. If you are emotionally overwhelmed, angry, or stressed you’re more likely to be misread by other people, and send confusing or off-putting nonverbal signals. Nonverbal communication should reinforce what is being said, not contradict it. If your response is too long or you waffle about a number of points, you risk losing the listener’s interest. Even for a cipher to be useful, several things must be known at both the sending and receiving ends. I believe the issues you speak of may be more of a chemical imbalance on the female side of things. You will probably find, that not just the males, but females also have no idea what you are on about.
As a paranoid schizophrenic, this just made me freak out about every woman I’ve ever been with. I’m so happy I’m married now and only have to freak out a little bit every time I ask. Truly thank you for putting all of this doubt and paranoia in my head. I didn’t already have enough 😊😘
Yeah. Why is that so outlandish. Before Corona I was only comfortable hugging certain people. And within my own list there are people that happen to be gay that I feel comfortable hugging and those that I do not. So I am missing the point or controversy. Also, I think Whitney has some good material but she has been way too quick to call out, condemn and band wagon in this instance and most recently with Chris D'Elia. It's going to be a while before I can see or listen to her in the same way. She and Chris himself done fucked up - what Chris did is meh but his fame and success is not in proportion to the quality of his stand up. If I see other comics more and less of them both the world would be funnier so this is all good in the end i guess. But its ugly and i dont like it.
@@jonasvankarte583 Lol. Certain gay dudes gettin a little to extra extra with them hugs. Shit ain't as cool or cute as they think. If you're gonna try, better be slick as fuck or funny otherwise Ill take strictly oil and vinegar, I don't use that Neverland Ranch.
My 12th grade English teacher let us watch season 1 in 2005 before we graduated she had them on disc burnt b4 the show was out the entire classroom was in tears everyday. I miss ms molina the nicest person I've ever met in school wow such great memories
You nailed it female comedians are very well known for being extremely promiscuous and having severe mental issues that hang them up on sex they tend to do things like let Louie CK masturbate on them as Whitney here did listening to a female comedian talk about men is like listening to a dog explain astrophysics
That Aziz situation really bugged me... I don't see where the guy did anything wrong. I've been on some bad dates, but I can honestly say every time I had sex, it was because I wanted to. Yeah, the guy pressures you, but if you're not attracted, then you back off as say, eh... I want to go home.
Joe only doesn't speak when he feels something interesting is being said. whether he agrees with it fully or not, he lets people speak. He stops people when they're saying crap though, look at the crowder episode or the woman who denied climate change.
The more I talk about it the crazier I sound. Yep Oof by the end of this I just feel bad for her. She's clearly been reeeaaaally fucked up by whatever she's been through
Why is it so hard for a men to take a minute to have a conversation to make sure she's OK before pushing her into sex? Alot of men have this ultimate goal, and ignore cues and signs because they just want to get laid. It's an excuse to behave like a pig. Because I've known a lot of really good men who say they know when she's just really not into it and it feels shitty having sex with a girl whose not into it.
@@MissKK660 If you don't want to have sex, then just say no. Stop expecting other people to read your mind. Nobody gives a fuck about "cues" and "signs," just communicate like a goddamn adult
@@MissKK660 I don’t know. It’s weird. Obviously this isn’t all men, but it’s surprisingly to me how many are able to engage in this very narcissistic disregard of others for self gain.
@@roarblast7332 sorry, i'm a woman, and I also cannot stand when people expect others to understand their cues and signals. If everyone just learned to speak their minds and articulate their feelings well, like a normal adult, everyone's lives will be much easier. If I don't say what I mean, I don't expect other people to have an obligation to figure out what I really mean. If the man is still not getting it after I have been very clear and upfront, THEN I could say that they have a problem in their sensitivity and perceptiveness. A man can cajole or be as persistent as he wants, if I don't want it, I make sure to say it, repeat it, be firm about it. If I find it to be too much, I won't associate with the person anymore. If they can't understand what I mean after I have been very clear, I don't have to talk to them if I don't want to. But how many times did we cajole, negotiate or pressure our parents for things when we were young? How many times in life do we negotiate or try to convince others of something? A lot. We do it to other people too, in many areas, without even realizing it sometimes. It's human nature to negotiate for something that you really want, it's not a crime. Men and women both do it. It becomes a crime when you force someone against their will. Just learn to not cave under pressure, it's something we should have learned as children, to not give in to peer pressure. Learn to speak your mind and articulate well. Don't create unnecessary ambiguity and suffering. If you don't like someone who is persistent and cajoling, don't associate with them then.
Could not agree more> I am no Brad Pitt, I know this.... But damn those cougars get very handsy and flirty even in front of my girl. It all comes full circle folks!!!!!!
A Joseph Legitimately freaked me out a few times. I understand how difficult it must be for women. At least being a man, I'm strong enough to push the lady off me.
So let's teach women in their 20's to say no at any time. I've been saying that for years. We can't expect men to read our minds. And I totally agree with the expectations and trauma fear response, so let's focus on preaching empowerment to these women.
In my opinion, she realized what kind of a person she really was in her 20s, and instead of trying to learn from it she plays the victim and finds someone to blame. People need to learn accountability. Society isn’t helping but with all things in life it’s always about choices we choose to make that ultimately create the present.
100%. As a guy that slept with 30+ women in his 20s, I feel like this goes both ways. It's not that men are missing the cues, it's that women are not communicating well enough. We get the cues, we're not ignoring them, but we're being somewhat persistent and taking control because.. dun dun dun.- Literally every women I've been with wants that. I've been in situations where the cues are there. I listen to my gut and I don't pursue it. I'm told later that I didn't "try". So how about using the word NO. If you feel you can't say no, then that's on you. If you're scared to say no, then why are you there with that person. If you're so good at reading these cues, why did you put yourself in the situation. Your cues should be able to tell you if this guy is creepy or not. Say NO once and ANY normal guy should back off. If not, then 100% rape. The word no is powerful. Don't be a sour puss because you semi wanted it and it turned out to be not what you wanted.
Your spot on! Alot of woman do this. They a huge ho and rather than admit it. You just blame guys and make them sound like assholes who "forced them into sex"
deadass like why the fuck would you say "im fine" when youre not and expect someone to have to do some mystical face reading type of shit to figure it out?! just fuckin say youre not fine smfh
