John Gray - Beyond Mars and Venus - How to get more from Relationships 

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a man should last at least 30 min with a hard erection, give her several orgasms before he climaxes. For that he must stop watching p0rn and drop all other addictions (to videogames, weed, drugs, gambling, etc). Men today can do neither of the above

gross she must need your USA passport and financial security she'll have to become your nurse soon, you old fart it says a lot about you that you married a woman 30 years younger, and desperate for your passport and money so a normal woman not needing your passport wouldn't marry you because you have nothing to offer. You didn't even wotk to earn you nationality, it was given to you by chance...what a loser you are you are absolutely disgusting hopefully you have decent hygiene and you shower off the repugnant old man scent ...yikes!

As a single woman I really enjoy his work. I learn so much about myself and how to understand how to live in a healthy relationship. Although at 42 I am losing hope 😂

how dating and marriage have been going?

Gina Carroll this is confusing me as well. When my s.o. retreats to his man cave I feel unwanted. Consequently I’ve been solo camping frequently to get away from feeling unloved. As a result, his retreating doesn’t hurt my feelings anymore I’ve just lost interest in him altogether.

Meanwhile our oestrogen elevates, his testosterone decreases. Causes disconnections.

It's interesting how almost all of the comments to this video are from women. That should tell you something right there. From a male perspective, John is correct that after orgasm a man loses SEXUAL interest in the woman due to testosterone going down. However, it doesn't mean he has to run away (or roll over and fall asleep) immediately. If he cares at all about the woman, he will gladly embrace her, hold her and let her fall asleep on his chest surrounded by his strong arms. He can rebuild his testosterones in the morning by chopping some wood. The challenge for women is finding a man that understands this and lives it. A man that would actually watch this video.

Sex is enjoyable for both , you’re not giving him anything that he’s not giving you . You shouldn’t have sex just to please a man

a man should last at least 30 min with a hard erection, give her several orgasms before he climaxes. it's not 1 climax for him and we remain unsatisfied For that he must stop watching p0rn and drop all other addictions (to videogames, weed, drugs, gambling, etc). And we must speak up, we give after we are given, not before, especially in sex. This is why it's paramount to not chase the guy during the dating stage and not do all the work and not having sex with him until after marriage, so he earns it and he's eager to please. Otherwise they get lazy quickly and we feel we have given so much and not received in return.

Wisdom has greater perspective and is more to be shown through the right brain hemisphere, rather than the left brain hemisphere.

John teaches when you're frustrated, and feeling resentment. You have to go do what makes you happy. Remember the 90/10 he's not responsible for your happiness Preferably before you get to that point of frustration and resentment.. don't complain about him TO him.. find a girlfriend so you can raise your oxytocin. . If it helps any I feel you

*Could a part time job help you? *training him to clean after you cook *cook ahead once and /or partially for the working days but still leave things undone and possibly hug him and tell him you also need some me time or the honey to do list. *go to your own cave too if necessary. If he asks, what's for dinner? Oh let's go I'll prepare x and you y. Wish you success

Lynette Williams ow yes I get this. ‘Do what makes you happy’ If I did, well there wouldn’t be dinner on the table at night and the house would be a mess! I mean, I do have a stressful fulltime job, like he does! Yet when I come home, I have my second job waiting for me... mom/wife/cleaninglady... I would like to just sit in the couch and read a book or call a friend or go to the gym.... go into my ‘woman cave’ I think though there is some man (my man) that wouldn’t be happy to come home in a messy house and no food on the table. I could give it a shot, I can assure you he would be pissed! Yes emancipation is a big issue nowadays, our natural needs are hardly met.

Teresita Ramirez I do have a fulltime job and luckally do sports once a week. To manage to have free time for my hobby, I do more on the other week days. I would like to be able to go in my ‘cave aswel’ sometimes to just read a book or call a friend to rebuild my hormonal levels, though do you think he’ll be happy to get back in a messy home, Novgorod on the table and crying kids? Nope. My big frustration is that men go to work, have stress and need their ME-time. Still want a tidy home, dinner and a smiling wife. Women go to work, have stress aswel, take care of the home the dinner the kids and are supposed to be happy and smiling. What about our ME-time? When are we supposed to get that? In the middle of the night after our lovely husband expected us to make love with passion, while we were left with our testosteron built up in our body? And yeah I wasn’t that passionate while having sex, I was exhausted and felt alone when he was in his cave rebuilding his testosteron. And so it became the clash of testosteron and we separated 😣

I see where you are coming from and it's quite understandable. I find that giving him space and respecting that time will allow him more energy for you. I find that talking it out without expectation and omitting certain words like should (they hear their mother 😊) and asking first if he would be open to talking about it or when would he have time is a huge respect factor. Once he receives that, he may be more open to talking. Talking right after work isn't beneficial. I find also that talking while doing other things is a more relaxed atmosphere.

I agree. It's disrespectful. Jesus spoke about adultery: Thou shalt not commit adultery: But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.

You are speaking for all women in that comment: "But it does hurt a womans feelings..." but it's really your feelings and only your feelings that you can speak to...

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@@SergioNikitaLialin It can be a red flag. If you ignore it and then find out it’s something more :/

Have you studied anything on polarity and how to bring out your feminine side? That could help

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