Judge Lynn Toler speaks to man about his terrible verbal abuse on his wife. #shortsfeed #shortsvideo #shortvideo #shorts #short #like #life #lifestyle #love #trend #trending #trendingshorts #trendingvideo #trendingvideo #share
He is so ugly , he is afraid he can't hold her. He makes her feel like nobody Else want her. He is everything the Judge say he is. He is a narcissist, Ignorant, think he is right. Dont like Himself , he has no selfesteam, being Violent makes him feel like he is in Control. She is still young. Run sister!!! He wont change my dear. 😔😔😔he a
@@taneyat6_33 indeed they are two beautiful women. Black has nothing to do with it. I mean, it kind of does, but this isn't a situation where that needs to be pointed out. Implies others aren't beautiful and that's just wrong.
@@BetterMe981 You're entitled to your opinion as I am mine. I never said anything about anyone else's race or implied any other race was not beautiful. Why do folks get so mad when the black culture supports each other?? Also if you aren't black I defer back to my first point. Dang, you act like I said something bad. Finally black has everything to do with it. Go troll other comments & get a life.
What can a man do then? We can’t hit u what else is there explain please..it seems we can’t lash out physically or verbally so what else is there..wait we’re supposed to just sit there and look stupid and get hurt and not respond just taking stabs to the heart and can give no hurt back it’s absolutely heart breaking being a man
What an awful man. My ex used to berate me. I got rid of him, even though I was scared to be a single parent, I did it and we actually flourished without his stupid ass.
Thank God for you being a single mom! Because had you not been a mother, you probably would have stayed with that jackass! Being a mom is where you found your strength to get away from him. I'm very happy and very proud of you
No different, than the seemingly manageable toxicity levels, that draw the attraction of modern day women,to certain Alpha type men. The association seems plausible, until it doesn't..And oftentimes, it is either his choice, of disassociation, or hers. Because, with her leaving, she has grown tired of the rotation,that she willingly, decided on becoming a cast member or she sees that her previously tested and found to be effective, stratagems of conquest, have proven ineffective and the absence for benefit,has all but disappeared.
glad bro isnt about his race or my ex hb would never have thrown his new bride to the floor or stomped her head, race got zero to do w it.. The Judge is right. And this young lady needs to love herself enough to leave anyone who would abuse or misuse. God is love +
@@lewisyaxley Crazy pieces of shyte (domestic violence abusers) always blame their victims. Regardless of gender. Victim blaming is one of their traits. Fix yourself. Seek a well qualified therapist. Your lack of self control… may end you in prison for unaliving the woman you love or your own kids. Happens every day in this world. Some nut job has offed his/her family in anger. Can’t control your anger? You’re the problem. YOU.
@@angelasmith7369no, it does not go away. Physical effects the mental. I been there and done that, and it nearly crushed me. Physical is just as bad. It's ADDED mental stress.
So I feel that the opposite way so I feel extremely down etc I have a adult son thats extremely sensitive, about anything he told well he's 22yrs and Mmmmmm he's been taking the trash and helping with laundry since he was about 5yrs old and I till have to not only say take the trash but Mmmm that means not just the trash in the kitchen and when washing always gets the kitchen towels as well those are that how many years do I need to say this and yes he nee ds to go so badly I told him he needs to find a wife.
It is not violence; it is verbal and mental abuse. Violence is the use of physical force to cause harm to people, animals, or property, such as pain, injury, death, damage, or destruction. By Judge Toler's definition of violence, she just committed violence against the man in this video. Understand this is the first time I have ever disagreed with this Judge.
@@usunited5756I wonder 🤔 why,, bcz she defended the truth. Oh well it takes someone who's Intellectually strong to to stand up to a Narcissist like him.. I said wht I said I leave in peace Shalom.
@@user-tn2rz7co1j I disagree. Violence is physical, period. Verbal and mental abuse is not violence, it is simply abuse. Neither are good, let me be clear on that. Understand I do not promote Violence unless in the form of self-defense nor do I support Verbal or mental abuse. LAW the unlawful exercise of physical force or intimidation by the exhibition of such force.
Some of my in-laws used to berate me anyway, anytime anywhere even in church....with the excuse that I deserved it. I even left the church mostly because if them. But what hurts most is the fact that the people that should speak kept mute cos my hubby is a Mama's boy. VERBAL, PSYCHOLOGICAL AND EMOTIONAL ABUSE...😢 VERY DAMAGING. ONLY GOD can heal the havoc done by some narcissists.... God bless you "TEACHER" judge❤❤
Better still leave her alone, and go back to his own. Our black women are damaged enough considering the history these gentile have with our women and believe me they were atrocious to our women ... sisters, please stop this nonesense.
That happened thousands of years ago,and the black women are still putting up with the same thing in this 20first century.The judge did him in.That is total humiliation,love the Judge.
Hey Just make SURE U ARE NOT LIKE THIS LADY N MANY OTHERS SO YOU !!! Teach Alll THE BROKEN WOMEN AROUND U 😢N BE THAT TEACHER 😮 BEING U SUGGEST YOU CAN DO IT??? In YOUR NEIGHBORHOOD CHURCH MAKE A DIFFERENCE N CHANGE STARTS W US SHE SPEAKING $$ ALL KIND OF PLACES ❤️🙏🏾DO U👍🏽
She’s too good for him and he knows it. He has to tear her down so she doesn’t figure out he’s not good enough for her. CHOOSE YOURSELF, CHOOSE PEACE! Leave him and don’t look back.
It's Not even legal in the Sight of The Most High for her to be yoked with him! God by NO MEANS acknowledges that so-called union!!! BE WITH YOUR OWN KIND!!!! Them folk are a mutation and are Not Human!!!!
NO JUDGE LYNN IS THE BEST PERIODT.. JUDGE LYNN DOSE NOT PUT PEOPLE DOWN OR TALK DOWN TO THEM FOR RATINGS SHE SPEAKS AND TEACHES WHEN THEY MAY NOT EVER GET CORRECTION OTHERWISE
JUDY NEEDS TO RETIRE AND SIT DOWN PERIODT…!!!!!!!! SHE HAS MADE ENOUGH MONEY AT HER AGE IT IS EMBARRASSING TO SPEAK SO DISRESPECTFUL TO A GROWN PERSON FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND RATINGS SHE DOSE NOT HELP ITS ALL ABOUT HEARING HER OWN VOICE NOT LISTENING JUST INTERRUPTING AND ENTERTAINMENT NOT HELPING…!!!!! SHAME ON YOU THINKING OTHERWISE….!!!!!
I sense that Judge Lynn come from a place of caring . She tries to make the message clear to those who don’t see it , understand it, and even to those who is trying to hurt others and don’t want to see it or understand the pain inflicted by them.
Judge Judy?! Huh???! How she make it into the conversation? Granted I don't watch her much but the episodes I have seen she has never seemed to care about anybody she is never smile she doesn't even give particularly good advice in my opinion, she's not warm, she belittles people for no reason, she is NOTHING like Judge Lynn.
Yesss! He said he has to do it like that!! 😮My God! Thank Goodness she had this judge to articulate for her and see what is really happening and address it.
“But I have to do it like that” was his reply 😮that is sadistic emotional violence. Judge “T” called him out. So sad that anyone experiences this type of abuse😢
He's trying to talk over the Judge in her courtroom. Imagine what this lady goes through at home. Clearly, he has NO respect or appreciation for women. I hope this beautiful woman left him high and dry!!!
You know that she is not an equal at home. And like Louis Farrakhan said.. they didn't bring you here to be equal. So don't be surprised when they want to treat us as and unequal.
He puts her down to make himself feel good. He's the one that's All those things he says about her. He knows she can do better than his ass.,so he breaks her self esteem to make feel like she doesn't deserve better in order to keep her with his sorry ass. Ain't no way.
I wrnt through this with my "former" aunt. I disowned her since. Meaning, I blocked all 3 of her numbers (home, work, and cell). This type of toxicity almost made unalive myself on SEVERAL occasions.
The judge just read him. I think this was the best English lesson he has had in a long time. Correction for every man who treats his woman in that fashion.
They way she said those insults in that tone gave him all the reason he needed to know that words can be violent even when whispered. I love me some Judge Toler! She sees right through these people and let’s them have it.
I do adore & admire this beautiful woman! Everything about her radiates truth and sincere passion! Her integrity is evident in her educated words! Best attitude ever!
I am happy she called it out. Someone consistently insulting you, criticizing you, hiding your property/personal belongings is violence Period. I will NEVER go back or continue a relationship with someone who does this. People who support it are just as guilty.
It is so sad when a beautiful black woman has to settle for so little! Sister, you are wearing a strong hair style. Walk away from that weak oppressive man. You deserve better!
Truth. I grew up with a father that said vicious things. It was never what you DID was wrong, it’s YOU ARE wrong or bad. He always attacked your character and person.
and he sports a real smug self righteous visage. when the judge was saying that litany of insults i immediately thought she was berating him- and I concurred. i well know his vibes. a cruel narcissist lurking behind Heidi innocent braids! the judge was wanting to make him realize how hurtful he was; however, i sensed he felt proud of that. In the end all those adjectives fit him pretty well!
The sad thing is that we all can see his insecurity is what caused him to try and break this drop-dead gorgeous woman before she realized she should've never given him the time of day.
Some men actually use this as a tactic to stop somebody that they know is too good for them, from leaving them. Insecurity at its worst. And it looks like it’s worked so far 😮
Well said your honor! I've lived being treated this way my entire life. Narcissist can be cruel that way. I'm old enough now to understand I deserve much better. That's not normal or necessary and only I can change it by no longer tolerating ANYONE to speak that way to me. I deserve what I give others and that's love, respect and kindness. I pray your day's are getting a little bit earlier and know the nights may take forever, I'm so sorry for your sadness and loss. Do remember how blessed you were to have love like that beautiful soul. He's right there with you at night, your not even a little bit crazy when you think you feel him. You actually do and he's glad to know that. Much love and abundant blessings 💞🙏 💞
It's "verbal abuse". These men don't understand. I got the same from my Dad and my brother. I had to cut off my brother, he had bitten off the very hand that was feeding him. Blocked the fool
I'm so sorry Judge Lynn Toler is in a class all her own! Not taking anything from Judge Judy. But I appreciate Judge Toler standing toe to toe with this narcissistic male who told her he had to do it that way! I hope this young woman can see the light and get out of that oppressive relationship!! Right on Judge!!🙌🏽💖🙏🏽
I listen to her daily...in any device she's current or otherwise. She's phenomenal; and I send condolences for the loss of her husband whom she loved and respected immensely. Had to have been a damn great man.
Young ladies need to be taught, that this is a warning sign that you need to have him change or leave him for! This type of thing could make you act out in a way that could cause you legal ramifications,and alter your life.😢