Judge Lynn Toler's Secrets to Long-Lasting Marriage With Husband  

I’m loving the way these men gave her the floor and the utmost respect..salute to everyone!!!

She has so much grace and wisdom. She needs a podcast I only want to hear her speak

Bless this woman. She just explained being a wife and being a woman to a man in under 2 hours. She understands INTIMATELY what she's doing. RIP to her late husband.

Judge Lynn Toler is the epitome of what a woman should be ❤ such poise and wisdom. I love her moral compass.

This was awesome. Judge Lynn's husband Big E passed away a few months back. I'm so glad that she enjoyed such a fulfilling life with him and has these gems to share.

My husband said same to me “I’m not looking to get married again so are you sure you want me?” We’re still together and he’s the one who usually remembers our wedding anniversary. We’re very happy together.

I could sit and watch paint dry for hours listening to judge Toler speak. She’s full of wisdom and compassion that you rarely see anymore.

As a man who has been married for 6 years. I will continue to listen to this and i will apply this to my wife. Judge Lynn is a gem and has helped me to become a better husband and joyfully put my wife first.

I would love to sit at @judgelynn feet and learn from her. She's an incredibly strong woman full of value and so much wisdom. In all my knowing and in all my learning I can learn more.

I'm currently going through a rough patch in my almost 18 years of marriage and I'm going to listen to this podcast OVER & OVER AGAIN! I can't thank you Judge Toler enough for this wisdom and understanding. My thoughts and prayers are with you in the lost of such a GREAT MAN..PEACE AND BLESSINGS 🤗😘

Judge Lynn Please do a podcast. PLEASE 🙏🏾 I WILL LISTEN EVERYDAY FAITHFULLY. You are the mother I needed. I learn so much from you as a wife

The fact that she got to speak honor her husband in this interview AND bless the world with this wisdom on how to persevere even when it got hard. I’m in awe

This is how to interview a person of substance and wisdom! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Give them room to speak and download that wisdom. Just simple respect! Thank you, guys, and thank you, Judge Lynn! You are full of wisdom. 💐👏🏽.

“That’s the nigga I married!” BOOM! Love her!

I don't expect my marriage to go well. I work at it everyday. It's the most important Job I got. Wow that was phenomenal ❤

She reminds me of my mother sooo much. My mom passed away with in my first 5 months of my marriage. I appreciate this podcast very much. May God continue to cover and comfort her.

Judge Lynn said it…her son’s learned how to be MEN (treat your wife and children) by watching their father….enough said. No cheating, etc.

I LOVE how REAL Judge Lynn Toler is with telling us about her marriage. I am about to get married and we plan to do pre-marital counseling before we get married and we have agreed to put God first. 🥰🙏🏾❤️ I NEED this ADVICE too. Thank you!!❤️❤️❤️ We must look to our Elders for sage (wisdom) advice.😌🙏🏾❤️🥰🥰

I could listen to this woman talk all day…such wisdom, transparency, and grace.

I love listening to Judge Toler speak so eloquently in defense of men and woman, right and wrong. She’s empathetic, compassionate, brave, the sharpest tack in the warehouse, spiritual, good hearted, fearless LADY. She’s the master class, teaching major class💯

Treat the marriage like a job. You get out of it what you put into it. So many 💎 💎 gems. Judge Toler is full of so much valuable wisdom. This is so full of real life situations and solutions. Thank you Judge Toler for sharing all this needed wisdom. Thank you Kings for using your platform to build the black family ❤❤❤. Respect✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿

The way she’s describing her husband is how I feel about mine. He gives me the strength and confidence to do what I do.

I didn't realize how much I needed to hear this as I enter my 6th year of marriage. I absolutely love Judge Lynn and have been fan since the 90's. I will have this on repeat

Divorce Court, She ruled in my Favor! "She said, Get this man out of my court room!" 2009 with Juanita Bynum! When I left LA, I had a total perspective on Life.

She definitely honored her husband.

Judge Lynn just helped me more than she knows. I wish I had a mentor like her in my life. I would LOVE to have a conversation with her

Awe man this is raw!!!❤❤❤❤❤ I needed to hear all these lessons. She was fortunate to get that wisdom from her mom.

One thing I do have an issue with is when she said, if my husband had cheated, I wouldn't have left. There's a double standard. Whenever my husband and I watch movies with infidelity (thanks Tyler Perry), I ask him what he would do if he were in the same situation of the woman cheating. He always says he would leave. Men leave cheating wives, while wives are supposed to be loyal to cheating husbands.

Yooo the bars of knowledge from the judge is HEAVY!! I appreciate this interview so much, mainly as a guy who never grew up seeing or knowing what a healthy marriage looks like. I’m saving this and definitely rewatching this many times again and taking notes

Judge Lynne Toler is a lady we all need on TV during these tiring times in society ❤

I started watching Jude Lynn Toler since 2008. I can honestly say she helped me out of a extremely toxic relationship and change my mind frame from one of a disassemble environment. The main part that stuck out in her first story was the fact it took 18 months for her and Mumpford to settle there marital problems. Nowadays 18 months people rather chose a whole different person because it seems easier with them like she said, its a click of a button to get your emotions needs meet rather then working on what you already built. A side baby can be made in 18 months. Then your relationship is over or will have a constant hurt attached it.

I just love the judge ❤ … Her aura, her grace, her brilliant mind, her amazing sense of humour, her ability to just break things down and make them make sense. I’m so so glad I came across her. Feeling truly blessed 😇… May she heal from the loss of her husband 🌹❤️‍🩹

I’m waiting too! I love her wisdom and hate she lost her husband!

Thank you so much for this interview with Judge Lynn. My husband and I are 37 and just celebrated 14 years of marriage. So much of what she stated I resonated with. I mean she just kept dropping gem after gem. These are the types of conversations I wish we were having more of. Salute to you brothers for an amazing show.

Judge Lynn Toler is a gem. I just lost my husband two weeks ago, and I've watched her deal with her loss of "Big E" With class and grace. I wasn't with my man as long as she was with here, but the pain of grief and loss of a husband is REAL. Thank you for "Keeping it 💯, and God Bless You.❤️

Judge Lynn, please do more of these so that more of our women understand what it takes to sustain a marriage through good and not so good times.

This woman is so incredible if only she knew that she helped raised me. With all the advice she has given me over the years communication,listening, and patience can do miracles.

Amen! “Your success is his success”

She’s is the pinnacle of womanhood as a black woman for me. I appreciate her candor and strength of character. I wish more of us as women wanted to be like her.

This is what you call a strong women that knows balance. Salute to judge Toler A strong man is emotional mature Dropping gold nuggets

Judge Lynn reminds me of my grandma I love her so much. Sweet but tough, gorgeous and real. People from that generation can say so much in the simplest ways. Great episode guys.

This woman is changing my life, my view on myself and the relationships I have in my life. I pray God blesses me with a woman to guide me that has the knowledge, experience, and grace she has. More women could definitely benefit from have a Lynn Toler in their life. Especially us with repressed mommy issues.

Even the best relationships are ruined by social media. Just one risky text message, one suggestive conversation is enough to destroy trust built over a decade. This is a fact.

She is a true blessing. I have a great deal of respect for her.

I've lived all the judges from Divorce Court, but Judge Toler is my favorite. The wisdom she has is profound! My prayer and condolences in the passing of her husband to her and the family.🥰

Ok so I'm listening to this. I've sworn off marriage for years now and honestly listening to this woman I don't know if I want to marry her or her late husband. Judge Lynn is next level. What an amazing woman. Pure class all around. I'm inspired ❤

One of the best voices out there. Sensible, wise, strong, and uplifting. They are right she needs her own show. She is special.

This is the most valuable content I have ever heard and Listened to my entire Life. Thank You Gentlemen for having this conversation with this Beautiful Wise Elegant Woman.. Thank you .

So happy & proud she’s healing, back, & out there! Always love how open & honest she is ❤️🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾❤️

This is what a virtuous woman looks like. She never comes off as this perfect soul, but she does have a heart for celebrating her union. She inspires an honesty in relationship that is rare. Thanks for the content.🙏🏿

Judge Toler is all that! You’ve got to bring her back one day.. intelligent, professional, and a lady who knows what it is to sacrifice, forgive, check, and support…. Man.. all the things a great woman is … so sorry that her husband passed he sound like a real stand up guy.. the fact that this woman has been through so much and still she kept her self together to battle through mean so much. I pray that women listened to her wisdom and take note of her dignity. Another “best guest interview ever” she was real and really real with life. I love it when she challenges folks to “suck it up” sometimes and get out yo feelings and get to work on your marriage or relationship. She is the bomb! Marriage is up and down and she articulates so well on what “you” got to do within “yourself” Mama said “ you can’t stay mad and stay married” … whoa .. this is how a real grown woman operates… love this interview through and through ❤ She ain’t trying to coddle nobody.. look at yo self first! And get yo stuff together… then work on what you got to work on .. pay attention to your man … learn his interest… the same with the guys .. learn your woman and be that for her.. when we both loving , u can’t fail… go head Judge… U my Anutie now too 🥰

I’ve always loved Judge Lynn Toler but this interview makes me love her even more! I have the highest amount of respect and adoration for her sage advice and sensible commentary. She’s a treasure!

I’m nearing 30 years in my relationship and boy oh boy this game right here is priceless and worthy to incorporate. Bottom line this is one of the best interviews about relationships that I have seen and heard in my 50 plus years on planet earth.

The wisdom and grace she carries 🔥 watching from Kenya 🇰🇪

Best relationship advice ever. Judge Toler always keeps it real!

I dream we could just sit and listen to old folks wisdom under a big old tree. This looks like vacations to me. 😂. I enjoyed listen to her

I promise you I LOVE this woman!!! Judge Lynn Toler is absolutely AMAZING!! Great Interview! Rest Well Big E! ❤️🙏🏾❤️🕊️❤

There is no one like judge Lynn Toler NOW OR EVER.

Absolutely love you guys and this is the type of platform and conversations that we as black men and women need to have. I love that y'all have created a village that serves the people! God has a higher purpose for this platform!❤ Thank you guys! The kingdom of God supports you as well as the black community!❤💯💯💯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤

“If anyone can offend you, anyone can own you”. Bars 👸🏽

I love this interview!! But my heart aches for her now because her husband has gotten his angel wings...😇 OMG, I couldn't imagine! Sending sincere prayers and condolences to her and her family. 😪😪💔💔🙏🏾🙏🏾 RIH Mr. Eric Mumford...

RIP "BIG E"..... Salute 🫡 to Judge Lynn & the Podcast Crew👑🙏🏾

Love this interview I use to watch her as the judge. Sorry her husband passed. She’s a blessing to the world.❤

This was amazing. I never comment on RU-vid videos, but I loved this!! I love how Judge Lynn has grown with the generations and how she’s able to spread wisdom.

Such a beautiful and insightful conversation! This was great! Seeking out counsel from the elders is something that should be more common for sure! 👌🏾

I can't get enough of this iconic lady ..she louds marriage to seems an easy journey if you just put in effort, commitment and honesty in it while working on it ... that's dope... giving me the zeal to enter into to it both legs in

This is exactly what I needed to hear. Love is about being selfless and those who can master that succeed!

I really appreciate Judge Lynn! I love her advice and how honest she is.

This lady knows what respect is. Action always tells you what a person is and how they feel. You guys did a intelligent thing by inviting this feisty woman on your channel. Keep it rolling. Like her I had a good one too. Fifteen days short of our 50 th anniversary. 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

This show covers so much its differcult to comment. That's a fantastic thing. The wisdom and asking the right question limits comments. I love it. I've been married 43yrs it was at times the hardest thing I did most times joy. My mother continued to teach me until she passed.

This is the realist conversation I've ever heard. To hear clearly how to love your husband is I believe life changing for me. Im married for 23 years and there is more work to be done. Thank you for going there. Im sharing this with my married girlfriends. My goodness thank you! judge. ❤❤❤

Love this! I think it’s important to note that relationships require compromise in both ends. I understand catering to your man, doing things you may not necessarily enjoy, BUT there should be some of that same energy toward the women on the men’s part.

My mom was the same way. She spoke, taught, and was there for me for whatever. I am from Cleveland, ohio, as well. I am from the bricks we had to be strong!! Hold your head up and keep it moving!!!

Judge Toler's inquiry was everything around the body count when asked of the gentleman. Interestingly enough, the energy shifted, their countenance and immediacy changed. I so appreciated the balance of this conversation and the reality is this, honor is at the root, starting with self. There's something about acknowledging the authenticity of self which becomes the basis of all else. Be kind to your self and please take the sage wisdom sis offered while hearing my brothers. Jewels were presented, increase mindful awareness. It is a game changer❤

the significance of a man in the home, showing direction, leadership and the children learning but which is missing in today world.

I absolutely loved this episode so happy y’all started posting some of the interviews on YT! She made a great point about the podcast y’all ask questions and listen to people’s stories it’s not built on tearing people down but educating us. I know the podcast is for men but as a women I absolutely love it !

This gem right here. I celebrate you Judge Lynn Toler. I feel so honored to have been around while you are here in motion. God bless her. Thanks for the interview.

Judge Lynn is the realist!! Before my hubby and I got married he said to me he wasn’t looking to remarry again and we gone ride this marriage to the end! He also didn’t propose either. We knew what we wanted no BS. So much she stated resonated with me! Wish she had a podcast. Her wisdom is Golden!!!! Will definitely listen to this again ❤❤❤❤

Love, love love this. I've been married going on 28 years and she hit the nail on every situation I found within my marriage. I choked up when she said never hit a man where he's weak because he never forgets. I knew my husband's weak spot and would hit him there a lot. I'm learning to stop it. Big up to you Judge. God bless you and thanks guys for this great interview. ❤❤

One of the most inspiring women in the world judge Lynn I love this lady so much 🙌🏾🙏🏾❤️

I love her … so wise , so many lessons . I wish she was back on television ‼️

"You Change" is the foundation of a great marriage. Every time I get muddled with what my wife does or does not do, I get a check on my own issues.

This made me love her even more ! Such an inspiration and wise women. She said a curse word and it made me so happy lolol love her ❤

Preach Judge ‼️ A man's body count matters as well. If he is willing to give himself to just anybody, it is not attractive ‼️ I hear him explaining but there are circumstances where we all have to grow into our value and do better. That is what I got from his explanation as well.

The Judge is a REAL stand up woman who needs to go on a tour with real relationship advise for everyone ...All this new age toxic relationship rhetoric on social today is a cancer for all of us

At 222pm she said "what is there to fear from a strong woman who loves you? Nothing." ❤❤❤

I love her…the strength and resilience it take to take about your marriage after losing the love of your life

I love this Mann this is the most amazing dialogue. I appreciate the wisdom and the honesty. The fact that she didn’t hold back and taught history at the same time. How you guys asked questions I absolutely enjoyed this episode.❤❤❤

If you’re worried about a woman’s body count, be twice as worried about your own. Hold yourself to the same standards that you would hold the woman to.

This is my first time seeing this show. I haven’t finished the video yet, but I’m amazed by this woman’s wisdom on marriage and relationships.

Great listen... Refreshing to hear someone who was married for decades give great advice.. It's so hard to find videos like this

I just absolutely love her, she is absolutely just real, and just speaks the truth, I would love to sit by her feet and sip some of her wisdom and knowledge, she is a powerful mentor, so thankful we are blessed to have her. She is a powerhouse……

This is an example of how to have a tough conversation without desceding to insults, denigration and disrespect. Thank you guys

I am of the moon that you all were able to do this interview with her. I loved her show and the wisdom she gave. I missed her when she left but this interview is GOLD! This is something I will consistently replay to make sure I have a successful marriage.

This interview was so deep! I enjoyed every part of it. Sending love and healing Judge Toler’s way. Great job guys! Keep the videos coming.

Profound and powerful dialogue! Judge Lynn Toler was born ready with an old Soul. As she cmentioned multiple times how her Mother the best Mother on this earth; and her lovely husband Eric who non-reactive and cool as a cucumber. She brought copious amount of solid wisdom and advice to her courtroom, great listener and unapologetic about her rulings. First time watching this podcast, they two brothers connected and were awesome covering topics from A-Z. Love you Judge Lynn Toler for sharing life's greatest principles! ✨️ P.S: RELATIONSHIPS REQUIRE WORK. ✨️

I love her....she helps, not hurt. Always words of wisdom.

Definitely missing from this generation. Something I tell my kids all the time, because we as people love to point the finger. “For things to change YOU must first change” - T. Harv Eckerd

Bumped into this on my page and I am now a fan. This interview is needed in so many peoples lives. Thank you guys for welcoming her on your platform. She’s immaculate and speaks words of wisdom. Ladies please learn as much as you can.

I’m so happy to see Judge Toler out again. I have experienced death of a spouse after a long marriage and the grieving process is very difficult! I wish her much grace as she maneuvers through this difficult process that has to be traveled at this time.