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Last story - my sister smokes but i don't, in all the years i have lived in my home my sister has always gone outside to have her cigarette, no matter what the weather. This was her choice not mine, she would always say i shouldn't have to be bothered by the smell to accommodate her, it's her habit not mine. That is what OPs sibling should be saying, not dictating that OP should let them vape. 🧐
I vape, my mom smokes, neither of us will do either inside my sisters houses. It's common courtesy and respect. You don't go into a non smoking home and light up, stinking up EVERYTHING and yellowing the walls and curtains. My mom doesn't even smoke inside her own home. She even hates the smell of cigarettes and cigarette smoke sticking to her and her clothes. And I'm trying to quit vaping. I'm tired of it. No one's allowed to smoke inside at any of mine or my family members houses.
On the story about the Hotel and the weird old man,NO op you are NOT the jerk. That sounds really weird for the old man to know your first name.i would call their corporate office and complain.
My former neighbor was named Wanda and she was way worse than ANY Karen I ever met. Truly obnoxious and thought she ruled the neighborhood. 2nd story - If it were me, I would end things. You and your son deserve better. Last story - I am a non-smoker and do not allow smoking, or vaping, in my home as I have asthma. My home...my rules. I have a nice covered deck, just off the den, where guests are welcome to smoke. If they choose not to visit my home because they can't smoke inside, so be it. Doesn't bother me in the slightest. My SIL refuses to come to my home because I refuse to let her guilt me into changing the rule for her. Oh, well. My grandmother had a saying. Dont like it? Then it takes less of it to do you.
@@JustinAdamson270 Yes, Yes it can? Do you even know what asthma is? Its trouble breathing, Guess what! Smoking does stuff to your lungs! WOW! And you use your lungs to breath! Crazy right?
Why would you end your relationship, just because of an ADHD diagnosed son who gets overstimulated and they have to leave? It's not the guy's rules, it's his family's rules. The girl who wrote the story knows this. It shouldn't be a deal breaker. Besides, there are plenty of events that kids are uninvited from, nor should they if it's not something that's suitable to them.
Talking about the kid with adhd story, the parents should try exercising the kid with running and jogging as it helps with adhd. They should also try fidget toys that are quiet and not distracting for social events and school. Noise cancelling headphones with calming music can help as well to calm and de stimulate the kid during events.
Adhd story: the guy honestly is doing the right thing. I will say the pattern of him inviting her to then disinvite her sucks but honestly there is a high possibility he says yes based on the info at the moment and then says no once new information occurs. To be honest this just sounds like a normal hurdle that OP will have to handle. Having a child like hers is going to cause relationship hurdles regardless. She either works with this guy or handles her son first and *then* when his ADHD situation is “solved” then she can start dating
Story #1: Why would you wanna pimp out your child and make them famous? So many child stars have been royally fucked up as a result of that. Especially the ones who were on Disney Channel and Nickelodeon.
Story 2: I have autism so I can kinda understand what the son is going through. And the boyfriend is absolutely right, the son shouldn't go to those events. Trust me, the kid would be better off at home with a babysitter than at an unfamilar place with lots of unfamilar people. That experience would not be fun for him, trust me
About the last story... I was a smoker for 35 years, starting in my early 40s. I always thought quitting would be incredibly difficult. In my 20s, I tried quitting for a day or so, and once managed a whole week, but that was it. Two months ago, I decided to go cold turkey. I did have nicotine spray and patches, but I only used the patches for a day and the spray for two weeks. Even with the cravings, I kept reminding myself that it's better for me to be smoke-free. Since quitting, I've definitely noticed an improvement in my sense of smell. Other benefits might be there too, but I'm not sure yet. Smoking... well, for a while I guess it was enjoyable, just part of the routine. But in my second week of not smoking, I had one puff and it hit me really strangely - a single puff of tobacco gave me a surreal high. Anyway, good on the original poster for standing their ground - it's their house, their rules!
Hotel Story: that guy was being a complete predator, op should have reported the guy and contacted the police. Last Story: op, your house your rules. if your sister can’t handle then tough bickies.
I smoke a little bit.. 2 packs a week and they are not even full packs of 20. But I never smoke in front of my mother. I visited her for a full week, at her house and slept there, after her husband died and I just didn't smoke the entire week
Last story: I am a vaper, and honestly it’s save me from smoking 30 a day and helped get off tobacco, I even managed a vape shop here in the uk. Is vaping good for you? Meh probably not, because it’s not something your body needs to function, (for the record I no longer use nicotine) I vape in my house, but it’s MY HOUSE my rules. All op is doing is saying MY HOUSE, MY RULES. It’s a simple as that op doesn’t want people to vape in her house then NO VAPING (or smoking obviously) I do not see any issue with that. OP’s sister needs a dose of reality to ditch the entitlement.
Story 2: Ask your son if he wants to go. If he doesn't want to go then keep him home. Ask your bf why he is telling you this. Is it because the party is not appropriate, is it because your son doesn't want to go, or is it because someone doesn't want kids there? Depending on the answer you can determine what you should do. Your bf is likely just trying to be respectful of your son, or of what the host of the party wants. Story 3: Just try to be polite when you ask questions. From what you described it seems like it sounded a little sarcastic when you responded the first time. Story 4: I don't think you're wrong at all. I would never want vapes/cigarettes in my home. Your sister is super addicted. She can go outside if she wants to smoke. Second hand smoking can cause addiction and lung cancer and I know how bad the smoke smells.
As a smoker, GO OUTSIDE its not hard. Yes it gets a bit cold in the winter, but that's when you either get a bigger better coat n some gloves, OR JUST STOP THE HABIT.
When my brother stopped smoking, he asked his wife if she was using new air freshener or something. She said no it’s same as usual just that you’ve stopped smoking and your sinuses were unclogging. Also he used to smoke in the house and he stopped when his oldest son was diagnosed asthmatic. My nephews flo chart improved drastically in a short while. It made my brother all the more determined to quit smoking and stay smoke free.
Last story. I vape every in my house. And my partner only smokes cigarettes in the kitchen. However any where we visit we always go out side. If it's allowed then we wait for the invite stay inside to do it. Even if they are happy for vape but not cigarettes inside. Then I will wait till we all go outside at the same time and smoke. It's just polite. Specially as most of our friends live in rented accommodation
There's plenty of people in upper management that work at hotels that learn peoples name for the sort run to be nice. especially in 4 and 5 star hotels. its creepy yes and it still creeps me out working at a hotel with people like that
Story 1: hope the OP doesn't have to deal with a 'Karen' ever again cause honestly and unfortunately there are a lot of them out there. Story 2: I think the boyfriend is just looking out for the OP and their son. Story 3: I have a family who has a long history of smoking, but thankfully my aunt and uncle are the every once in a while type, so I'm happy about that.
Last story: I am also concerned for the sister’s health but a work around could be one of the 24hr nicotine patches so that she doesn’t vape in the house but also doesn’t suffer too badly from withdrawals
On the story about vaping, op your NOT the jerk here, your House YOUR RULES. I have a RULE NO SMOKING IN MY HOUSE, PERIOD. If they don't like the rule then don't come to my Home.
My MIL is named Karen, and she’s the best MIL anyone could ever hope for. She ironically has a bleach cropped haircut (most of punk style, though), and is the calmest, sweetest, most open minded and compassionate person I know. For that reason the term “Karen” is something I’m reluctant to use because it feels disrespectful.
Last story: OP is not the jerk, I had friends who would vape or smoke stuff in the bathroom of their own home or go outside because they wanted to be respectful of their non-smoking guests. They didn't make a fuss and it wasn't forced on them either, they just thought it would be a kind thing to do and made the decision themselves. Also, while I'm not familiar at all with the short or long-term effects of smoking withdrawal, in my opinion once you start worrying about them is when you should know you have an addiction. Like if all you get is a little headache, you can shake that off no problem. But if you get a killer migraine and/or something else every time you don't use the vape, that's when you should know you got a problem.
@@JustinAdamson270 I never said a thing about not liking it. I simply pointed out my experience with people who were respectful with their habit. And pointed out if people become worried about experiencing withdrawal they should see a professional about it because they're likely addicted if not on the road to it.
@@Stealth_Saber you can't get addicted to anything addiction doesn't exist it's a mental issue and smoking cigarettes due to stress is no different than people drinking coffee to wake up lol
Last story op said they live on the 5th floor if it was me ill rather get those walks in cuz from yhe sounds of it op sister in the next couple yrs wont be able to
15:12 As a previous hotel employee I can tell you that reception are trained in a way where they need to know their guests by room number, name and face which are all easily accessible by the computers on station and by surveillance feeds which are available in the back offices of reception. It’s not strange, it’s how we make most guests feel welcomed.
my story my annoying gen z wont stop annoying:me so we hated each other so in grade two my classmate gab is a gen z kid who likes skibidi toilet and mewing and gyat whitch i cant handle i kept on telling him to stop and he wont we now used to be friends and now nemisis he even roasts me and makes me cry he says are you okay and after it wears off he becomes mean to me and becomes cringe again:moral of the story dont be friends with a gen z kid
