2nd Story: I think the OP clearly has some deep wounds inside that haven't healed and should seek therapy. While they don't owe their dad or stepbrother a shred of decency or consideration, it seemed like they were way too invested in knocking down a couple of family members whose lives were already a sad mess without their assistance. Hopefully the OP heals one day to the point where they're just indifferent to the people that wronged them.
For the 1st story, I'm surprised that she didn't just burst out laughing when the Karen said " Why didn't you tell me there was glass?!? " Because that's what I would have done. I swear these Karen's just turn everything around when something actually happens. "You don't work here", "There is no glass" to "I'll have you fired!!!","Why didn't you tell me there was glass?!?"
It’s basically Karen Blameshift 101, you see they don’t like being told what to do by a stranger and they can probably see somebody as a stranger that doesn’t have the uniform, however if you warn them enough times and say yeah I do work here but I’m off that little nugget remains with them so when they take a fall like this dummy did, she instantly wants punishment for her actions. If it was me I would’ve said to her “if I don’t work here why do you want me fired?”
I must say that 2nd story is one of the best revenge in my opinion because a childhood without parents is one of the most hurtful things to remember as it can affect the child for a long time. But in the end,what comes around comes back around as the table of the event has turned to the OP's father.
And he didn't say sorry to his son that he ABANDONED FOR 31 YRS and is asking for favors while his other son that he choose is a jerk and stealing from him he deserved it
The Karen in the 1st story was looking for an excuse to sue the store. She was probably the one who broke the glass to begin with, then walked away just in case an employee came over. She then returned only to see what she thought was just another customer and intentionally walked and slipped on the glass.
@@rockandtoon2112 Had similar happen to me with return fraud. She was a regular and kept trying to commit return fraud for years on us on the same item. One day she went walking by nothing new walking by again and noticed supervisor out at lunch so she then got her friend to try to commit return fraud same item and same reason and stood right behind her came tried return fraud on me. Sadly they got a supervisor from another department that didn't care and that supervisor over rode me but we spent 2 hours with the store manager and got that supervisor's department to eat the return fraud.
@@efohpioggsdfg508Yeah sure being abandoned then doing anything the said prick would be happy about sure until you were abandoned please don’t act like there is any chance of redemption
The First Story reminds me of something that happened during the Summer at Work. So it was a fairly busy day. A old man was getting salsa. He placed the jar in the area of the cart you would put a kid at. (That is without lifting the plastic thing.) So it rolled out and shattered everywhere on the floor. I was busy cleaning it up. So then this Young Lady came by while I was cleaning it up. I loudly and firmly told her there is broken glass here. (Not in a aggressive tone as far as I know.) She completely ignored me and got glass in her foam flip flops no doubt. Along with possiblly salsa. Oh and my Manager ended up cleaning up the rest. I had to get back to the Cash Register. (I do a little bit of pretty much everything.)
I understand the OP of the second stories feelings, the need for revenge. My father was even worse, but he went to far. Shorty may have been a crap head, but neither he nor his children are guilty of his mother's or step-father's actions. I would love to bring my father down, but I would never hurt his new family.
So he isn't guilty for leaving the house to rot and for stealing the 130k worth of money from his stepfather? Being negligent like that makes them pretty guilty in my eyes, it doesn't on yours?
OP in second story didn't owe his biological father - by the same token there was no reason to be as spiteful towards his father as he was. His actions all round were not motivated from seeking justice for his father against shorty but instead were a way of getting back at his fathers new son... just seems like a sad man.
2nd story: I don't understand how people who leave a house in that state every socialize. How do they convince someone to date/live with them and procreate when they are obviously a slob without any redeeming qualities.
For me the worst part of that story was hearing about the dead dog that was locked in that house, rotting away in pain. Dogs are such gentle souls that deserve so much more than this.
@@jaedaryn while I agree that your pet dog probably treats you well, saying all dogs are gentle just because they are dogs is like saying all humans act humanely
Not the jerk, my aunt had her ex-husband steal her social Security money each month while they were married and continue after they were no longer married and was telling my aunt she was not getting anything until my other Aunt took her into Social Security and found out that he was getting Social Security right away after finding out the 1st my aunts was getting social security my other aunt took her to her bank and set up new account in just 1st aunt's name
First story observation: At first, tons of Karens say: “Oh, YoU dEfInEtElY wOrK hErE!” But then this one says the opposite then switches her tone to the same as tons of others of her kind.
I think the revenge was justified. I despise people who make kids and then abandon them to live a new life with a new family. Or who just abandon them at all, but the new family somehow makes it even worse of a betrayal. Aside from OP and their sibling, the only one I feel sorry for is the dog.
I’m sorry I just can’t side with the OP in the dad story. It sounds like the dad wasn’t doing good either and I understand OP hated him. But making him buried away from his wife and put in a purple urn just sounds like it was evil. I can even side with the life insurance or taking the money since I guess op could feel kinda owed for not having a dad growing up. But that last part makes it seem like he was definently the jerk by the end of it.
Honestly, yeah, but i can kind of see why the op did that, when he encountered his father thrown out and he didn't even asked about op even tho it has been decades without seeing each other... it probably made them lose all the respect the op had towards their father It doesn't mean that what he did was right, it wasn't, but i can see why he did that
And I call possible BS. The local courthouse would not likely have the DD214. It's a federal document. Last time I needed mine, I have to go all the way to St. Louis. There is a document storage facility there that keep these types of documents.
No you're not the jerk you told her not once not twice but three times that there was glass there and she pretended to act ignorant I knew she she probably caused that mess to begin with well I wasn't there so I can't say for sure but I'm almost positive that she was the one that caused the breakage in the first place and hope to get a lawsuit
Story 2: I think op went a little far. He made his dads last days alive he’ll and ruiithe rest of his sons life. He also was happy someone died form cancer. So like 50/50 you and your dad and shorty are all kind of jerks.
He didn't ruin Shorty's life. Shorty is a criminal, he abused his father and killed the dog (probably by neglect). He will go out of prison some day, and he'll be able to turn his life around.
I mostly agree, but what reassured me a little is that it doesn't sound like he mistreated his dad while he was alive. That, while he was in the nursing home, he had been cared for, probably much better than he was w his step son
I'm gon be honest, I didn't care AT ALL about the people in the 2ND story after I heard about a dead dog. Imagine the horrible things that dog went through in that terrible house, the helplessness of that poor soul. What kind of monster locks a dog inside a house with cockroaches and rats. If you don't want the dog give them to someone else not fucking torture them. God this kind of shit makes my blood BOIL.
1srt story, op was asking is she the jerk, when obviously it wasnt, and yet, she asks if she was the jerk? i think she just wanted attention in the internet community, in that case, she is a jerk for having an attention crisis
For the last story, I feel like most if not all of what happened would have still happened similarly even if the dad was on good relationship terms. The only part that was out of line was having him buried in some public cemetery with his least favorite color rather than what he actually wanted. Yes, I think you're the jerk for disrespecting a veteran's death wishes. Outside of that though, everything else that was done felt fairly normal and required? That Shorty guy was definitely abusing his father and taking way too much advantage of him.
I don't think we have a say in the end. Yes, he may be a veteran, but this is years of bad blood catching up and nothing is more personal than your family abandoning you. He was hungry for blood and had a list he wanted to cross out. when you see these type of people you don't get in their way unless you want to be on that list as well
( story 2) Frick being a contractor OP should be a lawyer my god and the best part is that he did all this with Google imagine what would happen if he got an actual education in law I would not want to cross him
First story:that was a good story you are not a jerk Second story:that was … a clever plan to say the least (I would not have the metaphorical balls to do that) I am sick so I was probably zoning out and didn’t realize it and I miss a huge chunk of the story that was mostly likely important so in conclusion I have no idea Edit: dang why did the old man hate purple you know what when I die I want to be cremated and put into a purple urn
1st story, it's entirely possible based on the description of the entitled customer that she deliberately walking in the glass because she saw an opportunity to sue somebody and OP foiled her plan.
I believe the person in the second story was a jerk. Now hear me out. Pretty much the part about shorty that's aight but the revenge with the father was just straight up being a jerk to a dead guy. Like dude let the man die where he wants and don't stupidly change h from being buried to stay in my goofy ah pot forever.
Yeah I can agree. The part where Op switched to being the jerk for me was when he switched his revenge onto the dad with moving his burial plot away from his wife and putting him in a purple urn. I also think he was going too far when he was happy that the wife died of lung cancer.
You both don’t understand how much it hurts when that shit happens you guys will never understand unless you were abandoned and then literally used by the said person to take care of the house it was all justified and the plot and urn was perfect the wife was obviously a cow for ruining a family and the dad was a bastard for going along with it and leaving his current son behind to be treated worse than before
Like i dont do stuff on purpose i have my own mind. So if you tell me not to step on glass why the fuck should i step on it any way? Either way i rather collect glass shards. Never know when it can come in handy. Plus i collect bottles. Whats the worst that can happen? I can just melt it and make glasses and other stuff from them. Like a knife. Or a bullet. Actauly i did once make a bullet and tried to fire it, it didnt go well. It rather blew up the whole gun but i know what gun it needs aaand i dont have the stuff needed to make it :D Well! I can stick to knifes and bows. Thats more helpful since its silent. But glass arrows... Ahh wait i know where those went! "turns to a wall" Yeahhh.... That guy aint well. And why do i see through walls?
*Story 1:* It's insane that some people refuse to take orders from people, even if it's for safety reasons, preferring to learn from experience. Most people see a sign saying *"Warning: broken glass",* or even a verbal warning, they go around, avoiding tracking broken glass around the store. I don't get why this *"karen"* chose to ignore these warnings and go ahead and walk on the broken glass.
story 1 if that karen ignored me when i said there is glass and say "you don't boss me around plus there isn't glass" i would have pushed her on the glass and say "BET YOU SEE THE DAMN GLASS NOW" i would get so fired but so satisfied because i am actually a little bit of an asshole
First storey, reference: I had this kid that climbed the shelves that i just stocked while the mother was not doing anything. I told the kid to get down. The mother told me to mind my own business. I was in uniform, told her it's for her child's safety. They refused to listen. I went to check-out to get my girlfriend to convince them. It didn't work. So, we called our shift manager. He did nothing but told us "see what happens". True enough, the shelf gave way. The kid was hurt by the falling cans. We were laughing so hard. The lady had to compensate us for the broken shelf and all the damaged goods.
I don't know if I understood everything correctly, after all, English is not my native language, but the second story ... I don't quite understand what exactly the OP is taking revenge on and why such cruelty. His father became a stranger, he was pathetic, as the OP described his life. Isn't it so wretched to make this stranger's life even more insignificant, even after death? And the main thing is to spend so much effort, time and money on it? Isn't it too much effort and work for someone who should be no longer worthy of attention and memory? I think the OP tried to heal his wounds and scars with a splash of aggression on him, which should actually be treated with a psychotherapist or psychologist.
2nd story: I am kind of really stuck between. I know their dad was a really big a-hole. But i don't think it's too necseary to go that far, i mean the dad is dead, you can leave it now. But OP took it too far on my opinion. I am still now sure what to call them, jerk or not. But i am on the more side of a not jerk. But like 51%.
I hope the second guy has moved on. Dad and his family were terrible people. And the revenge was cathartic to hear about. But he basically stooped to their level and even a bit beyond to dispense that revenge. It’s just an unhealthy response that hopefully has been worked through now and they can move on with their life.
revenge justified. the detail about the urn color is petty but, I would do it too so I'm fine with it. personally I would had tried to do as much revenge as possible.
The irony of the second story is that his revenge kind of amounted to taking better care of his Dad in his last days than the step brother ever would have, and had he done nothing both would have suffered from it anyways, because the Dad's death would have still eventually deprived the step-brother of his ill-gotten income.
5:26 I would just say. “Lady I am 23 so I am not what you are accusing m of as a person as hi is reckless and stupid that has children so young like when still in mid college or school so you can be quiet about that accusation and also a glass pot fell on the floor and shattered and now you tell me that you don’t see any glass on the floor, but continue looking on the shelves and not even the floor, and there were obviously be shifting from your feet as the glass crunched loudly on your feet and slid around so when you fall and in yourself, don’t get mad at me I just on break because I have my child with me so don’t just immediately assume that I am trying to just boss people around because I am genuinely trying to help in case someone gets hurt and which I’m trying to prevent don’t be mean to people who try to be nice. You have an attitude show towards the people who show attitude towards you and not towards the people trying to help you.”
For the 1st story: Bro litterly warned her about getting glass and she walks on it how stupid can you get? And for the 2nd story: the original poster went to far with showing him pics of his dead dog and burrying him far away from the love of his life that is to low.
The first story 20 bucks is not enough she was working on maternity leave and trying to help people u should at least get 50bucks and get ur groceries for free 7:33 7:33
Question number one is how was this? Not gone into extreme ways people got revenge question number two is how is this not in extreme ways people got revenge and finally question number three how has this? Not gone into extreme. Waze people got revenge. 5:28
I gotta find the subreddit for this. I have a vague memory of one but at my old job place when I was mentally exhausted an a few small things from things I had to do
Oh yeah all size who always the manager or something sounds like a freaking think they like I am sorry but I must tell you my people you have turned to the dark side aaaaaaaaaaa NOOOOOOOO
I am going to say the guy is an asshole for not burying his father and the plot where he wanted to be buried that he had already paid for. Other than that I really don't blame him for much of anything else