@@TeW33zyit's not about being easy but as a human being you know what you like so if she prefers you she's to connect the dot with you if it's the other guys she shouldn't. Period
In today's date, men have no time to wait it out. Testing to see if she's gonna come back in, the truth is many of these women are sleeping with more than one man at the same time, whenever she's not available. And if she's unavailable too often, I definitely do not waste my time. I don't necessarily ghost her, but I stop texting her. I don't block her either, but I just won't respond too often, I won't prioritize reading her message, And when she decides to come around, I won't prioritize my time to focus on her. I'm not playing hard, but I just don't waste time with these modern women. When we date a woman, we spend money on her. I'm not gonna run her down so I can give her my cash. She better run me down and that's what's going on now, ha ha, ha. I'm not cocky. I'm just confident and smart. Reciprocation is what I responto very well
Romantic relationships require maturity and being intentional. Under 25s usually don’t understand the concept of love and relationships. Even data shows that couples married under 25 have the highest divorce rates. Mature up, get your life in order and look for compatibility.
This is good. Always look for reciprocal effort. Remember, your not the only one she's testing. She will have multiple suitors and she's trying to find the best and with the most resources. HYPERGAMY is real. Never be afraid to walk away.
@YalaMan01 Be very careful with some of these simp advisers. As a man, you also have the liberty to have multiple women as suitors. Then, choose the best for yourself!! Don't put yourself in an unnecessary competition with men you do not know. If the lady isn't ready to deal with you, walk away from her and move on to the next. Women make it easy for the men they like. Concentrate on your health, finances and peace of mind. If she isn't adding up to any of these 3, my guy, run. The dumpest thing a man will do is to tolerate a woman who plays mind games and seeks a man to prove himself to her.
@@YalaMan01 bro, as a man, you already have problems to figure out. So, why do you go for a woman whose intentions about you is also another problem for you to figure out? It doesn't make sense one bit! Deal with women who are ready to deal with you.
@@Requordman simp advisers indeed The part She will have multiple suitors and she's trying to find the best and with the most resources It means she is gold digger
They won't 'test' the HR executive or play hard-to-get when they are looking for a job but something tells them they need to 'test' a man? Can you see why many of them cannot have a good relationship? Do you think that a high-quality man has much time for tests by one who should be an assistant to him?
@@br_josh who should be an assistant to him??? A person's wife is their assistant?? If many guys feel this way, then no reason why the rate of divorce is so high. Wow.
I met this girl that leave in my appartment on a cool evening we chatted, I collected her number then about 2 days ago I sent her message introducing myself, she didn’t reply until 3 days ago.. she was like hey mentioned my name and said morning… I asked her how was her night? It took 30min for her to reply it was good and she didn’t ask how was mine, already knew it was a red flag.. I asked her if she is working today? Haven’t gotten a reply. Am about to delete her number right away I don’t play games.
Nah, if she can't show her worth to me immediately, she's gone. I don't play games, and if she wants to, she can play them with someone else. I don't have time for games and tests.
Definitely take it personally, we not kids/teenagers.. I have no time for "test" and games , chicks who's mutually interested in you will not play games
Hi pipo Smith here from Zambia n I just want to say I thank God for this ledy I mean Jessica like she has really really helpt me like that's me been honest on a normal day like this one this Jessica thin is something El's I thought I have lost everything I worked like I thought have lost the love of my life not until I started following this beautiful n intelligent Jessica n may God how can someone be this complete like Jessica you are one in a million otherwise much love from Zambia n God all might helpt you reach every were ur eye's are able to see
this video contradicts a video where you state shes stringing you along. One minute you say dont tolerate hot and cold the next you say hot and cold could mean shes fighting her feelings. If shes fighting her feelings it means you are an option and she doesnt see you as the main one so essentially you are a backup.
There’s a girl I like, and I believe she feels the same way, but I’m not ready for a relationship right now. I had to block her on all platforms, which really hurts. I still have feelings for her, and I hope our paths cross again soon.
@@CodeWithClinton don't block her.. let her always see you so you'd ring in her head.. be of impact to her make sure you keep her busy with things that can develop her for you. Give her books to read, advise her to learn a skill.. be busy and keep her busy.. she'd love you more.. make sure you're not distracted too
Keep trying to win her?😂😂. That funny! The only thing men are winning here is our life goals and dreams. Nothing less!! Relationships should be mutual. If a man approaches a woman and she's interested, she should be direct with it. We already have problems to figure out. It is very silly to go for a woman whose intention about you is also another problem for you to figure out!
This is gold, just see your best friend, how difficult was to talk to him/her in the beginning? Exactly, it was mutual and easy, because you were BOTH interested in things to work
Hey Jess, It's been a good miniute since taking in one one of your good videos. Lol ... Fellas, don't chase, just replace. Express interest but if she doesn't reciprocate keep it movin. No time for stupid games. Facts
Jessica, I usually like your content but trying to give justifications for womens’ games is ludicrous. If a woman is truly interested, she won’t play games. If she is playing games or “testing” it means her interest is low; she’s not that into you. Period. Guys listen, walk away immediately when the games begin! Don’t waste your time trying to raise her interest. Just walk. The next woman might value you more.
"Playing hard to get" got some of us in a lot of trouble, Jessica. I'm sorry, but I have to caution men about this "playing hard to get" game. I almost self deleted because of this due to a false accusation. I love your content but for our generation, this might just be a dangerous game, especially if she attended/attends an ivy league university.
If a men is focusing on a better future for him and her, why the hell testing him so that you can distracting him so that you can have a better future; that makes sense. Why don't we as men start testing women with our friends to see how loyal women are.
I realized something today this woman I was talking to I thought she interested in me was actually playing me for a fool and I had enough of her stupid little games she plays so I decided to walk away and never speak to her again because they are other women out there who won’t play theses games with me and she was following other guys behind my back making up stories that she was married oh and other good story that she made up that she had a supposedly partner I’m just glad I walked away because that I’m not tolerant of that BS if she wants to play games do it on her on own time not wasting my time
You have given us very good and sometimes wise advices related to relationships over the years, but I would like to know if you have already gotten engaged, if yet married? Peace ✌ from Luanda-Angola
Well said but I really wish to know if all these appy to godly relationships as well because to me a lady who doesn't have the fear of God is a no go area
Jesse I am with someone. Where I keep we keep on chatting every blessed time even at work times, we each other respect. We do everything ,We cross the elements of friendship. We have good times together, but whenever I propose to her ,she keeps on pushing me away. She's not ready for a relationship, saying I should move on ,But she opens up to me ,tell me everything about her and her family, showing me family pictures. SO WITH THIS SHOULD I MOVE ON?
Please advice me on how to get a working class lady to say yes to you, there is this lady, she is very matured, also from Africa, she’s in her middle 30’s and vet matured, working class lady, we both are in the same office, I have approach her twice, she told me that, she’s not ready for relationship, even she will, that it will be some one from the sane country with her, that shares the the same culture and traditions, she gave me her number, I do text her, but she don’t give me much attention
@@darlingtonsilva2612 Leave brother, time is money... Surely she's seeing someone else or doesn't necessarily see you as the one... Run brother man, just run away mate
Thanks so much for this video but I will love to ask for more clarification. Based on the examples you gave for sing number 4, plz I will love to ask what then can I do and how can I go about it cous that what exactly am facing.
What if she has all this! But want give u a answer about getting back with you? But only tells u she loves u and doesn't want anyone else but u. But says she's letting Jesus let her know? 🤔
Don't go that far! At the very end, we're all humans. A RU-vid comments section is one of the wrong places to decide if two people who were previously in love should get back or not when you don't know the context of why a breakup happened in the first place; and for as fickle and irrational as humans can be. That's not how the human world works. Not ever, actually!
Your friend should move. Right now their ex is benefiting having your friend around without any of the responsibility that comes with being in a relationship with them. They might genuinely be unavailable or, more than likely, exploring their options and treating your friend as a safety net.
Why play? Playing hurts alot in the end making you dissapear... why that play, why people are not believing in true intentions ? Why pure is considered strange....
@@QuietStorrm860 it's not about easy or hard to get. It's more vibrational. It's about protecting my mental health. I used to believe that a woman must play hard to get when I was young. Ugandan women are approachable, they get married at a high rate. Kenya women are not very approachable and the rate of singleness isn't very amazing. Women in their late 20s and mid 30s still playing hard to get. Lol
what does it mean if she already said no to me about a month ago when I confessed my feelings and asked her out, but lately she is not distant anymore and she comes to see me with her friends and talk to me when i'm working (I work in a grocery snack bar) whenever she has time. She even dances when she hears songs that she likes to dance to in my shop, in front of me, even though she should know I fell in love for her through looking at her dancing in the past, I know she is a dancer, she loves dancing but ... What does it mean ? and why is she acting like that ? (me and her have been good friends for over a year)
Hey J, thanks so much. I’m Abraham l met a girl at my job site of recent and l tried to establish something with her (relationship) and she’s displaying some of these signs. But the frustrating part is she’s don’t reply to my messages until after 5 to 6 hours and we both work with the same company and same position but senior for me . What’s your advice? Please reply.
11:02 don’t get into a relationship with anyone who works at same company or establishment with you. It’s a red flag to any type of romance or relationship you wanna have. Be wishes.
Test my patience?😂 Go test Drake. Never ask her out more than once. Never qualify to her if you are truly that guy, it is always the other way around .. Women are never unsure, you are not just him my king. Don’t be a rebound, it ain’t worth the wait cos some other dude hitting that and you are just one of her gfs, an emotional tampon. Nothing should feel stressed. It is only worth your time if you detect a genuine burning desire from the jump PBP👍🏾
Move on. She's getting your time and attention without the responsibility of getting your time and attention. If she finds someone she wants to be in a relationship, there's nothing you can do to stop her.
She show 4 of these signs but is still in a relationship that she can't leave yet because she still loves her bf, but he treats her like shit. We got a lot of chemistry and hungout multiple times 1 on 1. We took some distant the first time we talked about how we feel but shortly after, she came back and we got closer then before and then it became cold again. Then we talked about it a second time and it stayed the same. I have developed feelings for her and I can't think straight, what do I do....?
I think she got angry messages from her female viewers/clients who asked her to spew out something to soften men's attitude with their bullshit. I ain't buying it. No time for stupid mind games.
