What a lovely story! Keep fighting for your health, sister. I'm so glad you found love the 2nd time around. You are blessed. You are not cursed. It was never your fault the 1st time. You were bridenap. Your illness is just part of aging and getting sick. You have a wonderful husband. Wishing you both continue love and blessings.
Lovely story. Let's get this out of the way: NO STEALING OR BUYING WIVES!!!. Back in the 70s, in Laos, it was a hard, a very trying time. Power and control was ever present and abused. And, it bled to all parts of the culture. It's better now, here in the US. Love is a choice. And, when you see it, it makes sense, and all come to light. Time, tragedy, sickness doesn't matter, it'll put them in their places. It will churn the essence good in the darkest places. It is the one that life yearns for.
I don't know about it being better here in the United States. Seems to me these folks are still living the old ways and haven't changed their views much. The difference is that the younger generations are no longer stupid or dumb and diffinately not ignorant anymore and they're more Americanized to put up with the bullshits. Hmong women are slowly and gradually coming around to see their worth and values and not much caring for the old ways of how the Hmong men and their parents and elders treat their wive's. We are the new improved 21st century Hmong women. We can stand on our own two feet, we can achieve merits and goals, we hold high political positions, we're gold medalist, we're doctors, lawyers, business owners, teachers, above all we're survivors and we're only just starting. We're achieving greatness everyday. We live in the number one country, the great country that give us all equal rights and voices. WE CAN LIVE AND SURVIVE WITHOUT A MAN.
@@myprecious6751 That's exactly what I was thinking. Still, a little better is still better, and I think the word "better" is better....lol...wow how many can you fit in one sentence....lol
Eb.....ib sim neej ntshaw ib tug txiv hlub....yus li ko yeeb mas ntshe xav nplhis xwb tsis xav tuag li o kuv lub neej niam hluas nkauj txiv hluas nraug los twb tsis sib hlub li ko li os fab lwm tiam mam li tuag nco ntsoov mus thov yawm saub muab ib tug txij nkawm siab zoo22 li ko os cv phooj ywg aw...,
Tus me Lucky Niam tsev aw, nrog koj zoo siab os mog. Cas Vajtswv ho tsis tsim ntau Tus txiv li koj tus rau peb cov poj Niam Hmoob os. Los Yog koj yeej zoo Nkauj txaus2 es nws thiaj hlub koj tag2. Thov kom koj tau txais kev noj qab zoo es enjoy koj txoj kev hlub ua peb Coob tus poj Niam ntshaw nawb. Happy Valentines rau neb ob Niam txiv os
Kuv niam mob tau 4 xyoos no kuv txiv tu li tus menyuam ab lawm xwb. Tu2 ib zaug no zoo li kuv txiv twb yuav ua kuv niam ntej. Peb ua txij nkawm nyob, tseev peb tus txij nkawm hais tias nws hlub peb, qhov peb yuav paub yog lub sijhawm peb muaj mob seb nws puas tseem hlub yus. Los nws yuav nrhiav tus tshiab.
Ntshaw lub neej ntu laus muaj tus nyob ntawm yus ib sab cev tes pab li tus niam tsev no zaj neej neeg. Zoo siab rau koj lub neej yav ntu laus os uas you are blessing with a good life.
Aub cav kuv noog zaj. Neej neeg no. Ma nws. Tau tus Txiv. Hlub nws heev li nrog nws zoo siab kawg tab sis peb cov. Tau Txiv tsi hlub. Ma. Tu siab. Heev li nawb.
Hmoob txhob cai zij pojniam - txiv neej lim hiam phem li no thiab li tsis pub zij lawm- yog leej twg tsheem zij pojniam ces txhob tu siab raug kaw nkuaj!
Zoo siab koj tau tus txiv hlub2 koj os. Kuv tus txiv hais tias nws hlub2 kuv no thiab los thaum kuv mob tuaj nws twb tsis kam ua mov kua dis rau kuv noj li os es tu2 siab kawg.
Tej zaum koj ua nqaij dawb xeeb ka rau koj tus qub txiv es ntshe koj tus txiv foom phem rau koj es koj thiaj npam me ntsis lawm xwb vim koj siab phem ntxeev siab rau koj tus qub txiv es kav tsij mus ntseeg vajtswv thiaj li pab tau koj os mog
Kuv tsis to taub tias cas cov poj niam uas tus txiv liam yuav niam yau los txog cas nws tsis ntau nws niag txiv dev es pheej yuav ntaus lwm tus los pauj nws txoj kev chim.. yog kuv mas ntaus txiv dev xwb. Peb hmong mas yeej ruam tsab ntse ib txwm..
Kj yog ib tug txiv neej siab phem thiaj xav li ko ntshe kj tu poj niam yuav laj ua neej nrog kj txog hnub tuag os nrog kj tu poj niam tu siab kawg ua tau ib tug txiv siab phem li koj.kj twb yog hmoob vaj li kv ca kj siab phem ua luaj😞
@@Pajhnubhlis ; koj tsis tas yuav nrog nws tu siab hlo li, nws muaj kev txaus siab puv npo rau tiam no tias puas tseem rov muaj dua lwm tiam ces nco qab ntsoov yuav rov sib nrhiav kom tau kuv, vim cov txiv neej coj li kuv hauv lub ntiajteb no muaj tsawg heev, koj cia li tu siab rau koj tus kheej tias xyaum tiag seb koj puas ua tau ib leej niam leej txiv zoo rau koj tsev neeg xwb niag neeg ruam.