I just stumbled onto your channel from my recommended and haven't watched many videos, but this is really cool man. these are all such important things that i struggled with growing up and im very glad youre putting these out here for some people to watch. very useful stuff. victimizing your self and your problems gets you no where except wallowing in self pity. its okay to have issues and to talk about them and be aware of them, but excusing your actions that have been brought by the issues gets you no where. cool stuff man
Taking criticism is something I struggled with a lot. I love learning and researching new things. This meant that I was often times the most knowledgeable person in a conversation. which led to me becoming very prideful and not able to admit when I was wrong. My pride was one of my greatest flaws and would lead to me lying about things if I didn't know them and would do whatever it took to prove that I was in the right. Including gaslighting and verbally attacking people. I am better with it now. But it has been such a part of me for so long that I still struggle with it sometimes.
it's easy to disregard some situations as something outside of our control, and while this can be true, sometimes it's healthy to take a step back and consider our doings (or lack of) and learn from the experience, and grow as a person. You started appearing in my feed lately and I really enjoy this vids, keep it up!
