Great insights. I agree with all the points you spoke of. From a female perspective, I have found men that are quite a bit older than me as well as those my age are looking for someone early 30’s or younger. Okay great, I bless them on their quest. I wouldn’t go back and be in my early 30’s for anything. I like who I am, better today, I’m stronger, wiser and more fun. I meet people organically, not online. My ex-husband went down that path and ended up with being scammed several times and losing hundreds of thousands of dollars because of scammers. But then again, he was older attempting to online date women that were 20. None of us are perfect, and if we want to be accepted for who we really are, we need to be accepting that others are not perfect either. Personally, I think online dating is the perfect set-up for bait and switch. I just go about living my best life and meet interesting people along the way.